Some Things of Note About Thad's If You Plan To Go
[QUOTE=Nannersd;6146988]I have been there many times. I guess the best description of how it works is described by one of my encounters.
It was a summer night and I was walking by the pool. I tend to walk around the whole property to get a sense of the atmosphere. It changes from night to night. While I am walking around I keep my head on a swivel, making polite eye contact and smiling. I caught the eye of a middle aged attractive woman and her (husband) sitting at a table by the wall, I smiled, she smiled, I said hi, she said hi back, so I stopped and we just made small talk. Basically talked about the weather, the planes flying overhead, how many times they have been there, etc.
It was pleasant conversation for a few minutes, then I apologized to her and said I had to stop because her nipple was hanging out of her neglige and it distracted me from where I was walking. She laughed and adjusted her top and said that had been happening all evening. I saw she was wearing a silver pendant that in cursive said something that I thought spelled "s l you t" and I asked her what does your pendant spell. She confirmed proudly that is spelled "S L YOU T (not sure if that word passes the filter LOL) I laughed and asked "Are you" to which she proudly replied, yes. I then said "Prove It".
She took my hand, we went upstairs to the far room that has the window that opens to the patio, and we proceeded to boink like buddies while her husband took in the corner and watched, handing out lube when needed.
So in other words, if you just walk in and wander around thinking you are entitled to some action at Thads it most likely isn't going to happen. You got to interact a bit so the ladies learn you are not an ogre.[/QUOTE]That is a great post by Nannersd of how to do it right and how it can go right at Thad's.
If you read my other posts on Thad's and still plan to go here are some things to consider.
This is a social club, so I'll warn you ahead of time. Some regulars know each other well and they can be quite cliquish and sometimes downright unfriendly. This is the way some people are, there is an "in" group and the "out" group. Identify them and give it a try but if they are not receptive, talk to the other friendlier people. But you may have to show you are friendly, first.
When people clearly don't want to talk and interact with you, don't worry about it, just move on to talk with someone else. If people get up and disengage from you, let them. They know what you're after. Everyone has their desires and their type in mind, if you fit, great, if not, don't worry about it. Don't take it personally. There are enough friendly people that you'll always have someone to talk to. There is always the "bartender. ".
It is a bring your own bottle (beverage) bar. Bring all you want, but you can't take anything back with you. I always bring enough to share. Don't get drunk, drunks never get invited to anything except to go sleep it off. Trying to take advantage of an obviously intoxicated female is generally frowned upon. Don't be a scumbag.
A lot of couples don't want to be hassled and harassed by single horny guys, so there is a couple's only area and single men are strictly "Not Allowed. " The only legit way in is if you're with a female as a couple. There is often a guard posted to keep the assholes out who won't respect this rule. If for whatever reason the guard is not there, don't be an asshole, respect the rule and stay out. It is clearly posted. I've seen guys ejected from the premises for this rule violation.
To enjoy the "couples" area, bring a female or find one there who wants to play or just give you a tour to show you around.
Don't be a creeper. Don't follow, known as tailgating, any woman around who you're suddenly in lust with. Never touch without permission. Grabbing, groping, or even touching a woman without said permission will get you ejected very quickly. Women are not there for you to do as you please. If a stunning beauty is there, try not to be creepy by staring at her and drooling. If you try to talk to her and she isn't friendly, time to leave her alone.
If you get to watch a "show" or some action, ask for permission to watch, then do so quietly (say nothing else). No cheering, coaching, suggesting action, or heckling. Even if you are just commenting on the action with someone else they might ask you to be quiet. Once the show is over, it's over, politely thank them and walk away.
You will be expected to wear a condom, not negotiable. The women will tell you to get one, her man will tell you to get one, even other guys will tell you to put one on. Some Eskimo brother might even hand you one as they wait their turn. You can get them free at the front desk, or bring your own for a good fit. If it breaks, retreat and get a new one right away. Don't' be an ass, just put it on, and be grateful.
There are times you will find success. Either you seduced a female to go play, or you got lucky and was chosen by a female for fun times. Once the fun is over it is over. Go on your way, she's not your girlfriend, and you do not own her. Nobody is expecting you two to be paired up as a couple. Getting clingy usually repulses the female so don't do it. Trust me, she usually wants you to wander off a happy camper. She might do this because she is done with you, or she might be looking for her next fuck buddy and doesn't want you to limit her chances.
If she wants you to stay, she'll make that clear she's still interested in your company. But then again you may be the one who wants to leave her and go hunting some more. Despite all the sexual fun it is funny that once the sex is over, even if it was great for everyone, fuck buddies seem to go off in separate directions. This is just one of the swinger's ways about the life style. Same as if you're with a couple, once the fun is over thank them and go your own way. Don't linger around them. You can be sociable later but don't act like you are now BFFs.
Check your ego at the door. If you are rejected, move on, if you get to close to the action and they tell you to back off, back off. If she is gobbling and slobbering on the guy's cock next to you but won't touch you, so be it, deal with it. It is not about you, remember that. The women choose who they play with. Take rejection well and like an adult. Trust me, everyone who goes has been rejected at one time or another, even the lucky studs. If you're not what they're looking for that is fine, just remember there are women you don't want to fuck too.
If a gang bang starts or is going on and suddenly the guy or the woman stops all the action, that means stop the action. She may have been offended, or hurt, overwhelmed, or reached her max orgasm limit. No matter where you are in the fun, that party is over, respect that and back out of the scene.
Stop means stop, no means no, and as I wrote before, after you made an offer or requested permission, a no really means "not interested, now go away. ".
Bring or rent a towel, they come in handy, and it's expected for you to sit on your towel when you sit on any furniture. This is not a well enforced rule, but is more a courtesy to others and it makes you look clean, classy, and conscientious.
Know you might see some wild stuff, some kinky stuff, even some bizarre stuff. Everyone has their own flavor of sexual fun, and human sexual kinkiness runs deep, so don't be surprised if someone does something you never imagined doing or would never do. To each their own right?
The underlying rule is anonymity, and discretion. You think Vegas has secrets? Well I assure you Thad's has millions. Be discrete about everything that you see and do. If you bump into someone you know from the real world, be cool, calm, and classy about it. Don't go back to work and tell all your buds you saw married Betty Boop from accounting, sucking stranger's cocks at Thad's.
Exchanging personal information is not allowed. Don't ask for anyone's number or email. That is the rule, but in reality, if you really hit it off with someone and you're both interested in meeting outside of Thad's then be discrete about it. Talk outside in the parking lot before you leave that way nobody can say you broke any rules. People pretend they don't hook up outside after meeting at Thad's but they do.
I have to say it. No cameras, no phones. Don't be that creepy asshole trying to get pictures of any action. Yes, you'll be ejected for it. All "Social Influencers" who think they're going to show all their fans about their fun at Thad's can stay home. Even videoing your self is forbidden.
Above all, be respectful. If you need a soft skills check list: Respectful, friendly, accommodating, and discrete. These work wonders in the swinger's world along with being a giver instead of a taker.
Finally Checked out Thad's, Day One. Friday
After reading some of the posts I just had to check out Thad's.
Friday, plenty of people, most surrounding the fire pits talking, not crowded, but people everywhere. A lot of single guys but some couples and some large single women hanging around. People were friendly enough. Wandered around a lot as advised in the posts. Got the lay of the land, and found the voyeur room with the window and watched a 3 some going on. All of a sudden an attractive Asian woman, late 30's, shows up and says oooh a threesome, and she's now watching the action, but we're now paying attention to her. I say hello and ask her name, "Bunny. " Okay, I'm sure most give fake names but who knows.
One guys asks to "touch" and she says yes, I immediately ask and she says yes again with a smile and my hands go exploring. I get to her bare wet pussy and play, as she's tugging on both our cocks. He asks if she wants to do a 3-some, and she says she just came from one. Then she has a quivering orgasm to my touch, and says "thank you" adjusts her nighty to cover her tits, and walks away.
I start to see where she might go next and she talks to a guy in the hallway and then goes to the couple's room with him. Damn, felt I missed the chance.
After a while I see the Bunny with another couple and small group of guys going to the pool house and sure enough Bunny is initiating a very pretty wife to some Girl on Girl action. She shows the wife a good time and soon she's giving instruction to the wife to blowing her husband and eventually having her husband's friend fuck her. I ask Bunny if I can "touch" again and she smiles at me and says yes and I play with her as we all watch the guy's buddy fuck his wife as he's getting sucked within a circle of spectators. Wild!
Shortly after that the husband calls an end to the fun and show and the group disperses, but a few. One guy asks Bunny if he can bust a nut on her tits and she gets all excited and asking other guys to if they want bathe her too. Two other do so, I just watch.
Time passes and I eventually end up in hot tub with a couple (40's?) and two other guys. One guy asks to touch the wife and the husband tells her to suck him. She starts blowing him and then the husband says, do you guys want to go to a room with us? Like hell yes. We all end up in the Voyeur room with the window having a 3 on one with this guy's wife as he lies on the bed enjoying all we do to her and giving instruction like smack that ass, fuck her throat, fuck her harder.
We all take turns getting DT blow jobs and fucking her pussy with her and him happy, as a group of guys watch the action from beyond the window. Feels good to be on this side of the glass in the action instead of watching. Every once in a while during the action someone will test the locked door, and knock ever so softly wanting an invitation. Unfortunately, they are ignored, but I learn it never hurts to check doors.
Finally, I'm feeling great and ready to bust, I want to fuck her face some more. I go bare and thrust in deep with her husband's encouragement, I let her know I'm ready to bust and he's telling me to fuck her throat make her drink my cum. I let lose a fine load to close out the deal. He asks his wife if she's good and she's saying yes. We all depart to join the crowds again.
The rest of the night for me is relaxing and just mingling around seeing people getting freaky here and there. Most of the "couples" go to closed door rooms, or to the couple's area with just a few exceptions of some sex out in the open for people to enjoy watching. I leave pretty late, and plan to come back Tomorrow (Saturday) and will post about that soon.
Day 2 - Saturday Night at Thad's
Thad's on Saturday is much busier than Friday, and has a different feel to it. Much more bar like where you don't know anyone instead of the smaller crowd on Friday. Many more guys, and many young, fit, well hung guys. There are couples here and there, and to be honest, some women I don't want to have sex with. I mean no offense, but I do have preferences. The sexy women definitely catch your eye and stand out, but not enough of them.
Seeing that the competition is much higher I recognize that my Friday might have been a lucky night for me, but I have not surrendered yet. I do some talking with people around the fire pits, but don't sit in one place too long as I learned, it is best to occasionally move around. I go to the window at the voyeur room and sure enough a couple has a third with them. They play well, and we watch. The guy really likes his wife playing as he's watching us enjoy the action. I wander around a little, but come back to the window where the action is still going on. After a while I notice the door somehow got ajar and was cracked open. I go to the door, knock lightly and go in.
When I get in he goes you're next, put on a condom, I immediately get one out and hear her say "no." She was being fucked doggie facing away from me and didn't even look up. He asks her something in Spanish and she indicates no, that she's done. The guy stops fucking her, and the husband says to me, "sorry" she needs a rest. I depart the room condom still in my hand. Damn so close.
The night is a lot of mostly being sociable, and seeing sexual things going on here and there, or watching couples going together up stairs to the private rooms. I wander to the hot tub and find a cute 20's something couple there sitting on the edge. The girl is fucking adorable, petite, B tits, pointy dark nipples, bare pussy. Long brown wavy hair. I'd fuck her in a heartbeat. We get to chatting and everyone is engaged and friendly. After a while I ask if she would like to play, and get a soft "I'm good" with a warm smile. We kept chatting a little while longer, but when the conversation lulled, I left using the bathroom excuse.
The night wasn't looking too good at this point, but I was there and willing to see what might happen.
A group of 5 younger girls in their 20's showed up and sort of took over the place by drawing everyone's attention where ever they went. They clearly were into the young studs who hovered around them ever ready to please. Eventually after teasing every living male at Thad's with their presence they took some lucky studs to a private room for what I'm hoping was an amazing orgy. I was oddly happy someone was getting to fuck them.
I didn't notice on Friday, but with the larger crowd on Saturday I saw that Thad's is a multi-cultural, multi-racial mix of sexually outgoing people. That's a good thing to me. The sex with the exception of some girl on girl action was straight. There was a "girl" there who I'm sure was a TS, but everyone was cool about everything going on. People had their friends, and you could spot the regulars, but I was able to talk with just about everyone I tried to talk to.
I soon learned why you keep moving. It was late, very late and I strolled into the down stairs gang bang room, and I see a couple sitting in a chair watching this sweet goddess bent over the bed being fucked by a lucky guy. She is beautiful and although I had spotted her earlier, I didn't have a chance to be close to her till now. The guy fucking her pulls out and she asks did you cum? He says yes, and she turns to a guy sitting in the chair and says, "do you want to play?" Of course he says yes. He suits up as she gets on her hands and knees on the bed to take it. I immediately get next to her and ask, may I touch? And get the "yes!" I go to playing with her tits as he's fucking her. I soon ask do you want to suck a cock? And she grabs my cock and pulls it to her mouth as I get my body closer.
We got two couples watching and one single guy in the room as we put on the show. He's drilling her pussy I'm fucking her face, it is amazing. He starts telling her he's cumming and I tell her I'm about to come and she sucks harder gobbling my cock in deep as he's pounding her from behind. To say amazing is not enough of a word. Heavenly. I convulse with each shot and orgasm in her face clutching her head down onto my cock, and then she sucks harder and deeper into her throat. I literally quiver. She holds onto my cock working it in her mouth and I'm beyond orgasm, it's ecstasy. He pulls out, and she stops sucking me and looks up at me with a huge smile. They know when they've giving you a blow job you'll remember for life. We all get off the bed and stand there telling her how spectacularly beautiful she is. She is smiling as I kiss her shoulder and thank her. She leaves the room and I'm done in the best way.
Even with that I wander around a few more minutes to see how things are turning out. A lot of the private rooms have closed and "locked" doors being taken by couples that formed up. Still a lot of single guys hoping to get lucky at the bar, or by the fires. Definitely a different feel from Friday.
Most of the women are taken, those not taken are either not interested in me or I'm not interested in them, so I finally decide it is time to head for home. Besides I busted an awesome nut just a while ago and probably couldn't do anything anyway. In the dressing room the beauty comes through and wishes me a good night with a huge smile on her face. I toss a dozen compliment to her and thank her again.
Got home, good hot shower, sleep like a baby.
Strange Experience at Blacks Beach
Last time I was at Blacks, I just got a good hike in and didn't even get naked, thought today might be like that. Started off overcast but turned into a perfect beach day. I disrobbed and walked in the direction of the Volley Ball Courts.
I passed by a group of three clothed women. Two of them politely kept their eyes down and kept walking. I quickly looked back and saw the third one was looking at me. I walked towards the cliffs and set up a spot. The ladies sat down, maybe 200 feet from me right by the water. A man with an erection walked up to them and started chatting. The lady who looked at me kept looking in my direction. I wasn't sure if the boner man was making her uncomfortable and she wanted me to shoe him off or if I was making her uncomfortable so I just looked down in a different direction. Boner boy eventually wandered off.
She got up and started walking towards the cliffs. As there are no restrooms, people sometimes use that area as a make shift potty, but it became clear that she was walking towards me. I smiled and she smiled back. She began speaking in Spanish and I let her know that I could barely speak any Spanish. She then came back with her phone. She looked at my privates and spoke into the translate app. She then showed me, "Delicious. " She said, "Sexo. " Which I understood. Then she spoke into the append it said "You take care of me, I take care of you. " She next said "Rich man. " I was slowly putting it together that she was asking for money. I spoke into the phone "Poor man. " And then I said, "I have no money and you have a much nicer phone than I have. " At this point she excused herself. She and one of the other ladies walked up north and I began getting dressed to walk up as it was getting uncomfortably hot in the sun. Another nude guy began speaking with the remaining lady and she held her phone to him presumably for the translate app.
I know that some ladies shoot Only Fans content, but I don't think this was that. I would be surprised to be solicited on the beach. I am left wondering if this is some kind of TikTok prank or "social experiment. " IDK that LE would do busts on the nudie beach, but I figure "poor man" would protect me from legal consequences, at least I hope it would.
Oh, well, overall a weird experience.
The Views are Usually Free On Black's Beach
Seen some wild stuff on Black's beach, but never heard of anyone asking for money.
[QUOTE=NudeBeachPerv;6180919]Last time I was at Blacks, I just got a good hike in and didn't even get naked, thought today might be like that. Started off overcast but turned into a perfect beach day.
I know that some ladies shoot Only Fans content, but I don't think this was that. I would be surprised to be solicited on the beach. I am left wondering if this is some kind of TikTok prank or "social experiment. " IDK that LE would do busts on the nudie beach, but I figure "poor man" would protect me from legal consequences, at least I hope it would.
Oh, well, overall a weird experience.[/QUOTE]
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