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[QUOTE=LickYourClit;5071843]Wonder what she did to the guy he must of really loved her and she broke his heart or something.[/QUOTE]Speaking generally, not on any specific situation, sometimes it may not be the provider's fault. A customer, maybe one who hasn't had much success with women and who might have preexisting psychological problems, mistakes the compensated sex and companionship of a prostitute for a real relationship, perhaps even love. When the provider makes clear that there's no real relationship or love involved, the guy becomes angry and decides to get revenge on the provider by harassing her. One way to do that can be to obsessively attack her on an internet forum.
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[QUOTE=Redneck1;5072657]Speaking generally, not on any specific situation, sometimes it may not be the provider's fault. A customer, maybe one who hasn't had much success with women and who might have preexisting psychological problems, mistakes the compensated sex and companionship of a prostitute for a real relationship, perhaps even love. When the provider makes clear that there's no real relationship or love involved, the guy becomes angry and decides to get revenge on the provider by harassing her. One way to do that can be to obsessively attack her on an internet forum.[/QUOTE]Damn I think I know how he feels I felt like that before he just got to get over it not easy but just got to remember who you are and understand that was not ment for you and focus on something else that makes you happy or it will make you crazy especially if you are on drugs thinking it will help but it will make it worse my advice to him if he is reading this forget about it get some exercise that always help and remember you don't need that kind of girl anyway they are just hoes and stay positive.
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[QUOTE=Redneck1;5072657]Speaking generally, not on any specific situation, sometimes it may not be the provider's fault. A customer, maybe one who hasn't had much success with women and who might have preexisting psychological problems, mistakes the compensated sex and companionship of a prostitute for a real relationship, perhaps even love. When the provider makes clear that there's no real relationship or love involved, the guy becomes angry and decides to get revenge on the provider by harassing her. One way to do that can be to obsessively attack her on an internet forum.[/QUOTE]Well said Red. This happens to Cam, Bebe and l think Dallas. These guys actually call the police on the AMP. This kind of shit will only hurt the hobby.
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Paid or free service
[QUOTE=WhisperingEye;5065699]See some guys are getting suckered right now based on his recent reviews[/QUOTE]Maybe he's getting compensated for posting good reviews by the Chinese connection?
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Yea,
[QUOTE=Redneck1;5072657]Speaking generally, not on any specific situation, sometimes it may not be the provider's fault. A customer, maybe one who hasn't had much success with women and who might have preexisting psychological problems, mistakes the compensated sex and companionship of a prostitute for a real relationship, perhaps even love. When the provider makes clear that there's no real relationship or love involved, the guy becomes angry and decides to get revenge on the provider by harassing her. One way to do that can be to obsessively attack her on an internet forum.[/QUOTE]Sensei Red, I think they become very infatuated from a false sense of love where it's really business. It will be ok until she feels weirded out and not worth her time. Guy becomes crazy and vengeful. As why hard?! Knew a guy who used to act like this, like watching a movie, insane vindictive, lost it all, his business, family, and friends in the long run because who wants to be around that actions. Sad, but the way of the world.
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Got to Love 'them
[QUOTE=Makana9;5073820]I think they become very infatuated from a false sense of love where it's really business. Guy becomes crazy and vengeful.[/QUOTE]What's the problem? It's their (Provider, KBG, Black Widow, etc.) job to bait, lure, hook, snag, and gut your okole; these actresses also call it "business" and they're good at it. Or should I say that "there's a sucker born every minute?" Anyway, live and learn for the customers; "Next sucker!" for the vamps.
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Better not love them
[QUOTE=MitsFunai;5075523]What's the problem? It's their (Provider, KBG, Black Widow, etc.) job to bait, lure, hook, snag, and gut your okole; these actresses also call it "business" and they're good at it. Or should I say that "there's a sucker born every minute?" Anyway, live and learn for the customers; "Next sucker!" for the vamps.[/QUOTE]It goes both ways as well. I knew some bar girls that fell in love with me and I had to stop seeing them because I don't want a crazy person following me around. I don't mind being friends with providers and bar girls but being boyfriend / girlfriend is not what I am wanting from them.
I also know of a certain provider that got freaked out a few years ago about me asking her some personal questions and she put me on her no repeat list. I respect that. Everyone has certain boundaries that they don't want to cross.
Respect their decision and move on. If you can't move on, then you have a major problem and please get help. Don't be a stalker or cause any drama with them because of it. Way too many murders / suicides now and people have to be careful. You have to be better than that.
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You Right
[QUOTE=MeCook;5075611]It goes both ways as well. I knew some bar girls that fell in love with me and I had to stop seeing them because I don't want a crazy person following me around. I don't mind being friends with providers and bar girls but being boyfriend / girlfriend is not what I am wanting from them.[/QUOTE]It does go both ways. Funny, but when they fall for you they crazy. If they reject you it's OK but when they get rejected they go deaf and get mad; not ordinary kine mad. Kill kine mad. Next thing they do, guarans, is tell everybody they know to make you the enemy and bad guy. Shat, they normally crazy anyway.
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[QUOTE=MitsFunai;5075734]It does go both ways. Funny, but when they fall for you they crazy. If they reject you it's OK but when they get rejected they go deaf and get mad; not ordinary kine mad. Kill kine mad. Next thing they do, guarans, is tell everybody they know to make you the enemy and bad guy. Shat, they normally crazy anyway.[/QUOTE]That's why you shouldn't start relationships with bar girls.
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[QUOTE=GhostRecon;5075748]That's why you shouldn't start relationships with bar girls.[/QUOTE]The worst nightmare to shallow bar and AMP girls is being seen in public when they are with poor looking customers.
They want to be seen with guys who look affording to shop at Cartier. No interests in Walmart guys.
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[QUOTE=ClaraForever;5076653]The worst nightmare to shallow bar and AMP girls is being seen in public when they are with poor looking customers.
They want to be seen with guys who look affording to shop at Cartier. No interests in Walmart guys.[/QUOTE]I've went shopping with these types of girls before if they really like you they don't care how you look I've been with them to cartier gucci and other stores even Walmart they have there own money they don't care if you rich or poor as long as you treat them good I'm not a rich looking guy and they been with me to many public places but if it was money that got them there attention then maybe. But for me I don't care to go out with girls who only want money I take girls out who want me not money.
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Car salesmen
[QUOTE=LickYourClit;5077751]I've went shopping with these types of girls before if they really like you they don't care how you look I've been with them to cartier gucci and other stores even Walmart they have there own money they don't care if you rich or poor as long as you treat them good I'm not a rich looking guy and they been with me to many public places but if it was money that got them there attention then maybe. But for me I don't care to go out with girls who only want money I take girls out who want me not money.[/QUOTE]I have come to the conclusion that the girls who like you will fuck you without monetary considerations. Those are the ones to adhere to. However, it is difficult at best to discern which girls are fucking you because they like you just because they like you or if they're doing so for future financial considerations. And in my opinion, you won't figure that out until you're deep into the relationship. All girls will make you think you're the only one; the trick is to expose the truth as early as possible before you lose your ass. If this sounds cynical, I think that means you've never had a relationship with a bar girl or an AMP girl outside of their workplace.
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[QUOTE=FleshPrince;5077834]I have come to the conclusion that the girls who like you will fuck you without monetary considerations. Those are the ones to adhere to. However, it is difficult at best to discern which girls are fucking you because they like you just because they like you or if they're doing so for future financial considerations. And in my opinion, you won't figure that out until you're deep into the relationship. All girls will make you think you're the only one; the trick is to expose the truth as early as possible before you lose your ass. If this sounds cynical, I think that means you've never had a relationship with a bar girl or an AMP girl outside of their workplace.[/QUOTE]What you're saying is probably closer to the what happens to most guys who do get into a relationship with a bar girl / AMP girl. It's also totally different than just going dinner, shopping, beach, hiking, or whatever every so often with them. That's more like a friend or maybe even fwb then a relationship. You're right some guys only find out after they marry or get her pregnant that she just wanted financial security (pension, alimony, sugar daddy husband, etc) or a green card. Though there are a small percentage of lucky exceptions.
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[QUOTE=FleshPrince;5077834]I have come to the conclusion that the girls who like you will fuck you without monetary considerations. Those are the ones to adhere to. However, it is difficult at best to discern which girls are fucking you because they like you just because they like you or if they're doing so for future financial considerations. And in my opinion, you won't figure that out until you're deep into the relationship. All girls will make you think you're the only one; the trick is to expose the truth as early as possible before you lose your ass. If this sounds cynical, I think that means you've never had a relationship with a bar girl or an AMP girl outside of their workplace.[/QUOTE]I had a few relationships with AMP and bar girls outside there work place. I replied to the post because it said they don't want to be seen with poor looking customers in public that might be true but not true for all girls I don't look rich or act rich but still got to have relationships with these kind of girls outside the work place and still do some just like to have your company and do regular people things and have fun not just work I lived with them sleep with them they even got me gifts cooked me food took me out to restaurants their not all cold hearted money hungery girls they are humane and have a heart too. Just got to remember that you don't own them and they will do what they want and got to do.
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I got to Ditto,
[QUOTE=LickYourClit;5077904]I had a few relationships with AMP and bar girls outside their workplace. I replied to the post because it said they don't want to be seen with poor looking customers in public that might be true but not true for all girls I don't look rich or act rich but still got to have relationships with this kind of girls outside the workplace and still do some just like to have your company and do regular people things and have fun not just work I lived with them sleep with them they even got me gifts cooked me food took me out to restaurants their not all cold-hearted money hungry girls they are humane and have a heart too. Just got to remember that you don't own them and they will do what they want and got to do.[/QUOTE]And add to what you mentioned LYC. Lucky or at times with some unlucky to have had also a few relationships with AMP / Bar / Stripper from Hilo bk in the 90's / amongst some DTSW also from the 80's and 90's. Some just want company because of the BS in the AMP / SW lives and volume to make $$$ just look for normal. Not money hungry that you can see coming from a mile away. But, as for me (YMMV) not others, some just wanted to have an SD really. But a couple of SW and an AMP girl were really sweethearts, in public could never tell unless you mongered her way. Different, shared their lives, have fun on trips here and away, share gifts and time away. Most I think, cannot handle what the girl does, it is what it is. More to the stories, but end here for now. Well documented here in my older posts, Rest in Aloha Jayda and Nani.