SA is not TER for a reason
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Now the new idea for here would be to follow the Cincinnati, Knoxville, and several other Sd forums that provides actual links and info to all of these SB that everyone seems to have here. That makes for much more entertaining reading. Just my thoughts.[/QUOTE]Sharing SB info too freely will drive some out when they realize we are comparing notes -- they will feel like ******.
Chatting with an RVA gal who has an SB mentor -- one girl might not realize a bunch of guys are conspiring to bang her like a drum for the lowest possible price, but two are sure to figure it out and get super careful.
Looking for some advice / input
Traveling to Boston next week. Have two POTs lined up, one in the afternoon and one in the evening. Things look really great for both but want some feedback on a couple of things:
POT 1 (afternoon): mid 20's student, curvy white / latina with youthful features (she looks 21). Seems to have some minor body issues and doesn't appreciate how amazing her body is, so I am more than happy to help build that confidence. . Also likes a dominant but caring guy and that is me. We've had some great conversations, lots of pic exchanges, etc. Lined up to meet at my hotel, I offered to meet for a drink and she said, "why not just meet at your room?" So that's great. Nothing UTR about this girl in her profile or in our conversations. You can see the meager college / grad student furnishings in the background. No discussion of arrangement, actually. We've generally talked about meeting up as an opportunity to relieve some holiday / finals stress. So question 1 is whether there is a sugar expectation.
But question 2 is the more interesting one. As we were talking today she asked about using condoms, noting that she was clean per a test last month but not on Birth control. I said "of course" but as we continued to chat she made it clear that she likes being teased by a bare cock. Not full bareback fucking, but just wants me to tease and maybe put in "just the tip". Dare I play with fire (say in the second round when I am not worried about an accidental discharge)? Or just play it safe? My gut says play it safe for 79,000 different reasons. And maybe just enjoy withholding from her something that she would really like, which would turn me on as well. Certainly for the first meeting. Given how much it turned her on I was wondering whether there is some sort of specific fetish about being teased in this way that I didn't know about. I know the risk of getting her pregnant would be pretty damn small, particularly on round 2 when I can control, but that is a really stupid risk to take, right?
POT2 (evening girl): late 20's white girl, college grad and career oriented. Curvier than the first girl but still within my wheelhouse. Down for meeting at hotel bar for drink and going up to room if there's a connection. (Hope I can get the hotel staff to change the sheets and towels during my intermission! Definitely getting a dd / lg vibe from her (which I like). She's a first timer, but talked about she fantasizes about a man taking care of her every need and making her happy. The most recent conversation was mostly sexual. At some point it seemed to turn a little bit toward the sugar discussion, but when she asked "what do I get if I'm a good girl" I responded "what would you like" and she said she wants me to choose. The whole thing is vague enough that I really don't know whether we were still talking about sex stuff or something else. I shifted to focusing on fulfilling physical and affection needs and everything continued on. So, again, any obligation or expectation of sugar on my part?
I should note that in my time doing this I have had quite a few sugar-free encounters (at least 50%) and apparently my game is pretty strong particularly when I tap into our mutual kink. It never seemed to deny me a repeat visit or three. I'm a little reluctant to just leave each girl with a base $--don't want to insult them and would also rather give them nothing and make it up to them the next time. And cash is frankly tight on the home front. But it is Christmas.
Grinch or St. Nick?
Share the Scammer Details
If you run into scammers, share them, please.
That's fair play regardless of what you are thinking about the rest.
[QUOTE=Mike7794;2726589]I have to agree with this. Some of these girls are right on the edge of cancelling soon after they register if things don't go their way in short time let alone one of them finding out that they are being talked about by others who want to do them. Recently I've had to talk out of cancelling a few women where things weren't going their way on the site. I found this out when I reached out to them for the first time. I had to sell them to have more patience. The last thing these women want to be associated with is anything other than a sugar baby.[/QUOTE]
Getting tired of the pay pal shakedown
I'm getting real tired of texting with a new potential SB for only a short time before they start asking for me to pay pal them money. I tell them to go fuck off. I hope no one actually sends money.
Bowl is flowing once again
I can only assume that the lack of posts here means that other brothers are busy juggling their babies. It's been an eventful few weeks in real life and the bowl for me. The holidays have been busy and things picked up quite nicely right before Christmas.
I've swapped out my entire rotation for the new year. I kicked the swim instructor to the curb after she started to get a little too clingy. Decided that I needed to end things before she got even more attached emotionally. Sorry brothers, but her account is still dark.
My new lineup consists of a brunette college coed, a Midwest brunette young professional, and a yellow haired mid twenty something who loves nothing more than sitting on my face. All three are very pretty. Midwest was once a little heavier than I normally like them (based on her Facebook pics) but has since lost about fifteen lbs, which explains why she loves the attention I give her. The brunette coed is pure innocence and sweetness, until I got her into the hotel room. When she started begging me to use her anyway I wanted to, I almost came right there. It amazes me because the brunette coed was the one that received the victorias secret gift card from another SD after she missed the first m&g, but my arrangement with her is based solely on taking her out and helping her explore her sexuality.
It goes to confirm that not all of the ladies on SA are out there to dig for gold. Some of these young things are just looking to have new and different experiences. Finding one of them is like finding a diamond in the rough, but could not be more worth the effort. Life is good brothers.
Happy new year, and happy hunting.
How do you keep trips to FC from getting stale / monotonous?
Do you put in the effort or is the SB adventurous or team work? In case of the last how do you communicate to the SB that our "meetings" are getting boring and predictable?