Turned into a rant. Sorry.
One thing I always preach after being in this game for 30 yrs is self preservation. There are rules for mongers and essentially it boils down to ALWAYS protecting your "Other" life (Your identity, family, freedom, job and finances etc). Sometimes for convenience sake we forego the rules. We read about it all the time how someone got drugged and had their place robbed. How someone sent a deposit and got ghosted, the infamous cashndash or how someone got arrested bc they took a girl to cop and the cops were watching the dealer. All it takes is one thing to ruin your life and reputation. I always treat the girls that I deal with fair and I'm nice to them but they know I'm no sucker. It costs more to protect yourself and that's not always convenient and that's why guys do it In cars and take girls home and I don't knock that but for me peace of mind is EVERYTHING. Everything about this part of my life is fake including my name. I have a fake Facebook and instagram that I use to successfully meet these girls I never use my place or car for the deed. I use the same motels that don't ask for I'd.