Need some advice / frustrated hobbiest
Need some advice from natives of this area that have been around for a while. I need to know how you guys communicate with ladies because I guess I'm striking out.
The past 2 days I've really felt I wanted to indulge. I have several on my radar so I started with them. I get no replies or I get a "How are you? But then nothing else. There was 1 that would've worked out but our schedules didn't align. I'd guess out of the first batch I probably messaged 8 girls. 3 replies, 2 went cold, 1 didn't work out.
I get it, this happens. The same thing happened in my previous location before moving here. It's hit or miss.
Then I started broadening my radius a bit. Same thing. No answer after no answer after no answer mixed with some 1 or 2 replies then going cold.
I'll tell you how I communicate (this worked where I lived before in the South) and let me know what I'm doing wrong:
Initial Contact: "Hey how are you, saw your add and would love to chat and see if everything aligns for a meeting. Shoot me a reply when you have time. Thanks!
They reply and say whatever.
So I say something like "Looking for a regular to see from time to time, could you let me know your location, rates and what's NOT on the menu?
Then it's more times than none. Radio silence.
So I started with some of them in my follow up reply that "I'm looking for someone that enjoys DATY, DATO and offers Greek".
Most of the time it's radio silence again or if they don't, they say they don't. One even said she doesn't do explicit talk in text. Now correct me if I'm wrong, isn't that why these acronyms were created? So that I don't have to say things like "I love to eat pussy" "looking for a girl who offers anal".
Also, my google voice number still has my old area code, should I get a new number?
I ask these questions so I don't drive 45 minutes to find out I'm not going to get to enjoy things I want to enjoy. I want my donations to go towards dates that meet my needs.
I've been in this hobby for about 12 years off and on and have never had this much trouble. I finally just started sending text to anyone so see if we could get a conversation going. I text 24 girls, 18 either didn't reply or went silent after 1 or 2 replies.
Any help is appreciated fellas.
Me running to her profile
[QUOTE=Xpp920;7655187]Boy I can sure pick them'. Maybe it's because I'm from TN and I'm just not used to seeing shit like this, but I had text with this one on 2 occasions the past month and today I finally decided to set something up. She's a very nice and bubbly person and makes you feel comfortable from the first text message, but this person was 100% born as a man. I have nothing against the people that want to live their lives however they want. It doesn't bother me one bit, but what she is doing is wrong. She should advertise as a post op trans woman (I'm assuming post op, but never made it that far).
I walked in and the minute she started talking I knew in my gut she was trans. When we got upstairs I asked her and said, "please don't get offended by me asking this, but are you trans?" She looked me dead in the face, lied and said "no I just have a deep voice, you're not the first person to ask". I still didn't feel right, but my little brain needed action and I said to myself, "Ok I'll trust her and lets see how this goes".
Again, I want to be clear, she is a very nice person. She laid on my chest and we started to chat and get to know each other. At some point she climbed on top of me and started slowly grinding on me (I still had my underwear on). Little man was not budging and I was incredibly uncomfortable. I knew something was off. So I decide to put my hands and her thighs and rub her thighs. Well. Her THIGHS had stubble. I've never been in bed with 1 woman ever that had prickly or stubble on their thighs. It was hard and coarse too, not like a woman who hasn't shaved in several days. So I reached out and got a handful of her ass. This was not a woman's ass, as I've felt many in my life. I even used to fuck a body builder chick in the ass back in the day and her ass wasn't as hard as this one and to top it off her ass also had the same hard coarse prickly stubble.
That's when I stopped everything and told her, sorry, but I think I'm going to go. I didn't confront her and I didn't get angry. I'm not in a position in my life to be confrontational and have something happen that shouldn't. So I just got up, told her to have a good day and left.
Again, it doesn't bother me how people live their lives. Whatever makes you feel comfortable in your own skin, then do it, happy for you. Just don't fucking lie to people.
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/members/ali-morgan.644792/[/URL]#about.[/QUOTE]Ahhh shit I am a freak because here is me running to her profile and reading that she loves greek can squirt and has a big ass clit. Already planning my next trip up to the seattle area from portland. I know she may not be your type and sorry for that experience but hey as someone else on here said they can be some freaks that's for sure.