I've committed the cardinal sin
I'll probably someday marry my provider, I met her 3 years ago, was her first guest, we have chatted every day since, I tolerated her business because I wanted to see if she would leave the business on her own and she did, she told me many stories, but actually I think she's a good girl, I'll see her for lunch, or she'll bring food to my work, also she'll come stay at my cabin on weekends, she seems genuine and has never ask me for anything nor have I given her any cash, I know we're not supposed to get in this deep with our providers but damn it I did, so far so good.
Nothing wrong with asking.
[QUOTE=Makwah;5023889]I would be certain of such an accusation before confronting the provider and calling it out. Put your hands on it if reachable as I once did to find out. It was just a piece of a lowered ceiling hanger. And I would not mention the shop name either until certain for credibility reasons.[/QUOTE]You are right I wouldn't accuse, but it's acceptable to ask, although they will never admit it because the backlash would most likely get them fired and they'd probably have to leave the city to find work once word spread they ratted out the owner. If you see something suspicious in the room I'd explore when go to get towels or whatever, or when they leave the room when you're getting dressed. Worth checking if only just for piece of mind.