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Not as many red flags along the way but the same result at the end. You make plans to meet up and then she needs uber money. Sigh.
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Not as many red flags along the way but the same result at the end. You make plans to meet up and then she needs uber money. Sigh.
[QUOTE=ZakkWylde;5518737][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5a293b12-61f0-49db-81f9-3c32adf19b9e[/URL]
Not as many red flags along the way but the same result at the end. You make plans to meet up and then she needs uber money. Sigh.[/QUOTE]And they don't have a filled out profile as well. They probably found a random picture and are using it to catfish people. I don't like to even start messaging unless the person has at least 3-4 unique pictures.
[QUOTE=Wolves432;5518779]And they don't have a filled out profile as well. They probably found a random picture and are using it to catfish people. I don't like to even start messaging unless the person has at least 3-4 unique pictures.[/QUOTE]I had the same skepticism of such one picture accounts at one time, but in many ways this is a numbers game. The one photo, one sentence accounts may be scammers, or as I've experienced, discreet undertakings by more inexperienced girls.
I reached out to one of these "one photo one sentence" accounts, and it was a super hot 18 year old who wanted to get some quick money and sexual experience. She's now a Tik Tok model with a six-figure following. It was a pleasure to creampie her.
[QUOTE=Wolves432;5518779]And they don't have a filled out profile as well. They probably found a random picture and are using it to catfish people. I don't like to even start messaging unless the person has at least 3-4 unique pictures.[/QUOTE]A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.
As always, YMMV. But in 4 weeks, I have not been out for any dates, but have been to bed with 4 from SA. I paid 2 of the 4. The other 2 just wanted to do it as much as I did. I have several now who want to meet, but we have just not set the agreed on the price / time / place yet. Along the way, there have been a lot of conversations. I talked with 1 who was obviously not in the area, but claimed that she was, and wanted money for pizza. Another talked for a week, and then wanted money up front before the meet. So there are all kinds on there for sure. But it is hardly a wasteland! I wish that I was 20 years younger, and could perform the way I used to. And I would have my hands full! So, if you haven't met anyone yet, I am not sure what to tell you. Keep chasing. They are out there.
[QUOTE=ZenAdventurer;5519105]A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ZenAdventurer;5519105]A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.[/QUOTE]I'm a writer by vocation. I've encountered a number of different posts with supposedly different subjects, but when you engage with them and they start asking for money, the tone and "voice" and language are the same. Sweetie, honey baby. Even if they supposedly know your name. I think a group gets together with their Cash App handles, they post a series of fake profiles, they each conduct a series of fake interactions, all hoping to get money. It would be so easy. The whole thing for the most part is a scam.
[QUOTE=ZenAdventurer;5519105]A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.[/QUOTE]My experience had been completely opposite of you. Yes, there are girls on there that wants PPM, rents, the kitchen sink etc. Yes, there are girls that will give you for free or want platonic, they come in all size and shapes.
Most of the guys are looking to get laid and approach them as prostitutes' or treat them as a piece of meat. When this happens, it messes up the experience for them, hence closing of accounts. If you approach them and only talk about slamming them in bed, you'll get treated as a ATM. If you treat them as a human being, actually take the time to know them and show sincerity, you'll get some of the hot girls whom are on there for the experience and not so much PPM. I will attest to this all day, twice on Sunday.
For the last 2 years or so, I've had more than 60+ vaginas from 18-38, most are under 22 as that's my preference. At any given time, I'll have over 4 on rotation to keep me busy, yes am a maniac. 98% of them wasn't a one and done, they're all college girls whom wants experience and tired of the frats and fuckboys.
I haven't been on there for quite some time and are now with just one girl since the beginning of the year. Yes, you read it right, one to where I am seeing often from this site and kept my interest peak as a real sugar baby, without the PPM or transactional. I don't foreseeing throwing her back in the pond to trade as she had two long term arrangements in the past.
Take this post how ever you want to, approach them as a piece of meat and you'll get the same treatment back. If you approach them like a gentlemen and make it to third base, you're in for a ride, put some effort and watch the fruition of your labor.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;5517562]You sure do like SA profiles that don't show faces (3 out of 4 are faceless).[/QUOTE]Haha. That's a fair call-out!! I didn't realize that until you pointed it out! Just sharing my experiences. Luckily, I have had better success with others on the site.
She checks a lot of boxes for me LOL. Does anyone here have any info on this one?
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[QUOTE=ZenAdventurer;5519169]I'm a writer by vocation. I've encountered a number of different posts with supposedly different subjects, but when you engage with them and they start asking for money, the tone and "voice" and language are the same. Sweetie, honey baby.[/QUOTE]Ha. I've noticed the term "dear" a lot from scammers. Not used as much by the younger generation, so easy to spot. But I have also noticed that there are a lot more scammers that have a pretty good command of the English language which makes them hard to spot right off.
[QUOTE=Cmqiu018;5521854]Ha. I've noticed the term "dear" a lot from scammers. Not used as much by the younger generation, so easy to spot. But I have also noticed that there are a lot more scammers that have a pretty good command of the English language which makes them hard to spot right off.[/QUOTE]I absolutely hate it when they call you "daddy. " Totally skeezes me out. But also, for me, another scammer red flag. I prefer when they use whatever name you give them. Even had one this week keep calling me by a different name. She was getting her texts messed up. Also a ref flag. Lmao.
[QUOTE=Dmm150;5521570]Haha. That's a fair call-out!! I didn't realize that until you pointed it out! Just sharing my experiences. Luckily, I have had better success with others on the site.[/QUOTE]Was wondering why they were all a pass, clicked links to look at profiles, then noticed they each didn't have a face (in their profile) hahaha. Happy hunting.
May be wrong. Seem to believe this one will promote her OF to you rather than actually meet. You may have a different experience. Two yellow flags in her profile. First, she says she is new to this. No, she has been around for almost a year. Second, is the. She has encountered to many scammers and you have to prove to her you are legit. Line. Those two things are never a good starting point.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5521808]She checks a lot of boxes for me LOL. Does anyone here have any info on this one?
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I'm just dipping my toe in the SB thing so it's nice to know what the red flags are with them. I thought it was strange about the scammer stuff but I have not been in her position so I thought maybe it's something I'm unaware of. I'll not waste my time, skip.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;5522378]May be wrong. Seem to believe this one will promote her OF to you rather than actually meet. You may have a different experience. Two yellow flags in her profile. First, she says she is new to this. No, she has been around for almost a year. Second, is the. She has encountered to many scammers and you have to prove to her you are legit. Line. Those two things are never a good starting point.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=OnlyBlondes;5521338]My experience had been completely opposite of you. Yes, there are girls on there that wants PPM, rents, the kitchen sink etc. Yes, there are girls that will give you for free or want platonic, they come in all size and shapes.
Most of the guys are looking to get laid and approach them as prostitutes' or treat them as a piece of meat. When this happens, it messes up the experience for them, hence closing of accounts. If you approach them and only talk about slamming them in bed, you'll get treated as a ATM. If you treat them as a human being, actually take the time to know them and show sincerity, you'll get some of the hot girls whom are on there for the experience and not so much PPM. I will attest to this all day, twice on Sunday.
For the last 2 years or so, I've had more than 60+ vaginas from 18-38, most are under 22 as that's my preference. At any given time, I'll have over 4 on rotation to keep me busy, yes am a maniac. 98% of them wasn't a one and done, they're all college girls whom wants experience and tired of the frats and fuckboys.
I haven't been on there for quite some time and are now with just one girl since the beginning of the year. Yes, you read it right, one to where I am seeing often from this site and kept my interest peak as a real sugar baby, without the PPM or transactional. I don't foreseeing throwing her back in the pond to trade as she had two long term arrangements in the past.
Take this post how ever you want to, approach them as a piece of meat and you'll get the same treatment back. If you approach them like a gentlemen and make it to third base, you're in for a ride, put some effort and watch the fruition of your labor.[/QUOTE]Best advice given on here and my experience has been similar. I even have several ladies that work at various clubs see me for nothing because of the reasons you mentioned.