Same opinion different camp
[QUOTE=Gene2;5626855]Hey man. I appreciate your posts and reviews. However, there are other regions with passwords or similar protections in place. In Orlando they call it the "gatekeeper" for the UTR providers who really wish to remain that way. It took me a while to be granted access to a highly regarded massage provider who is Fantastic. She is a fitness / swimsuit model who also provides massage services with a level of edging that I've never had replicated here, and I've had some great experiences with Brit and her girls.
My point is that each posting region takes on its own personality. And like it or not, we have a region where Benz is a long standing member who plays by the rules. He also provides good reviews and brings new talent on board. We also have a region with a couple of members who never bring new talent, never provide enlightening reviews, and miss the purpose of the board. One only posts inarticulately to slam Benz, and the other never reviews and only posts to stir drama among the members, like a woman would do. And that's who you chose to agree with on this post. Feel free to read his post history. You will find only chick-like drama, never a review. He even tried to reaching out to another member to encourage that dude to continue a beef with me, a beef we had resolved like men. I called Backfire out for this. And Benz did too, which explains his butt hurt against Benz.
So I respect your right to a different opinion than mine, I just urge you not to place yourself in the same camp as the non-reviewer members here who add nothing to the forum, because you are different than they are. You contribute and are valued.
I'm out.[/QUOTE]Gene. Your example of the gatekeeper in Florida might be a good example of why a system like that can work. I'll admit when I'm wrong, but I also think you're comparing apples to oranges.
This gatekeeper provided access to highly reputable and highly regarded providers. That's awesome. That's not what's going on in GR with the FRENZ. But it seems like a waste of time to argue a point to people who've made up their minds already isn't it?
I guess I don't agree with an assessment that I've taken sides or taken up camp with an individual. I don't know any of you and don't care to. We're not friends, at best we are friendly and share info in a positive way. So I can't say I've sided with Biker or Blackfire. If their opinions seem to reflect my own, draw your own conclusions. Some old Asian dude once said "the enemy of my enemy is my friend. " But we're not friends.
I think Benz is king of specific things in this board. King douchiest, creepiest and most questionable individual that places everyone at risk, mongers and providers alike. I've never met him, so it's all he said she said bullshit anyway.
But I'd rather hear himself defend, deflect and divide rather than me make accusations. So I have a few questions for Benz:
- why aren't you posting daily messages about Serenity and their awesome coffee beans?
- why did you continue to promote Ashley Wynter when review after review came back about what a complete waste of money she was?
- why did you promote Curly sue left and right when there were clear issues with her reliability and service / preparedness.
- why was Brook Billions constantly advertised by you when she was a drugged out shell of her old self in the middle of a whorehouse drug bust?
- why is everyone you bring onto the scene have issues, between reliability, a place to stay, boyfriends, etc? I'd provide more examples from your myriad of posts but sadly you've blocked me. I'm sure they were all winners. But I'd argue they could have been better if it you weren't involved. Maybe they never would have gotten into escorting but maybe that would've saved them some pain and mongers some money in the process.
Just a thought, since it sounds like SBJ became a decent provider once, why does she still rely on you? You'll love this, I almost met her once. She didn't give a shit about not having a password, money talks. But after I read reviews on her I realized that anyone who associates with you isn't going to see money from me, so I told her that. You'd be surprised to hear what she said, but I could be making it all up, right? Right?
I guess that's where I differ. Your gatekeeper in Florida unlocked access to talent. What "talent" is Benz bringing you all? Is this a whole playing risky is rewarding fetish or something?
There's better ways to access talent. And truth be told there are limitations to what is provided. Jennifer lovin won't see me because I won't give her a copy of my driver license and W-2. Miss Hunter requires photo verification or references. It's a bit funny to me that people complain about one option and don't use the other.
Around here you don't need TER or other paid sites to get access. Reputable references seem to be the cleanest, you're all lying to yourselves if you thought the best providers in the area aren't conversing with each other to some degree.
So Gene nothing against you personally. I don't take sides though, so my intent is not to defend those who posts you don't like or don't see value in. I do think this is all just a game, and for certain individuals it's a fun one. And I can't help but chuckle at some of the posts here.
That's what this board is for anyway.
You really don't get it, do you?
[QUOTE=HornyFlyer;5636631]You first, JMaul. Who have you brought to the board? I'll wait.[/QUOTE]I already told you I haven't brought anyone to the scene. They are not a possession of mine nor do I have a fetish to find women in a tough spot so I can negotiating a free BJ.
If I see a provider and they are looking for more clientele, I give them a few tips, write a review and give some words of caution. Every woman in this hobby has a different perspective on how they approach the hobby.
Read my reviews, I've done a few TOFTT and reported. I wouldn't consider that bringing some in to the hobby, but it's bringing awareness to the provider.
I just happen to disagree with the FRENZ approach. "Need some senior dudes to break her in to the hobby softy, password needed. " If you can't see through that then I'm sorry.
I asked a question, I'm waiting for an answer.
If you think this is because I'm jealous of something or someone, I'm afraid you're mistaken. My goal is to review providers and lead decent hobbyists to great encounters. Why would I be jealous of some club that I have been vehemently opposed to from the start? That club can FUCK OFF. At worst you're wrecking it for other people who think someone they'll meet is something reliable or reputable. At best you've identified the lower rung of providers in the area, the good ones don't need FRENZ. So your special club makes it easier for guys like me to spend my money and time more wisely.
Why I left the escort side
[QUOTE=ChadAdler;5639169]I think you're missing the point. Women get into this industry out of desperation, usually driven by some form of addiction. Once they straighten their lives out, they're most often gone. They're not doing it because they enjoy having sex with lots of men and only wish they could find a way to make that happen.
We're doing enough harm by supporting the habits of those already in the game. Bringing in a new woman is ultimately luring a desperate person into a bad situation that will likely spiral out of control. Making them feel like they have to rely on you to keep them safe and bring them clients makes you their only lifeline.
If JMaul started bringing new talent to the board, his points would be weakened. I would want no part of it.[/QUOTE]I think your point is true in many, not all cases. It's the reason I left the escort side of the business. When Riley and Miss Hunter left during the pandemic I lost my fave 2 providers on and they both gave great massages too!
IMO a user is not worth seeing. Every post I see that says "she's definitely a user but. " is invalid to me. Because drugs attracts risks, other types of people, and I live under this silly impression that my money is going to help better their lives. Not true if drugs are involved, but true in other cases.
I think you'll find Chad that there are plenty of clean options out there. The problem is people want to pay what they're willing to pay and reliable options that are clean can charge more. Supply and demand. If someone who is only willing to pay $150/ hr for an escort and complains that all the options are drugged out hot garbage, I would say it doesn't cost too much more to find someone clean, sexy, and reliable.
How about a subject change?
As entertaining as this dumpster fire has been. Can I change the subject for a minute?
Here's my latest irritation (queue George Castanza's dad - "I got to lot of problems with you people!
Am I the only one annoyed by the constant "treat her right boys" ending to so many newbies reviews? I understand they don't know how to end the review, but c'Mon. Like that command is going to change how a monger would treat a provider. Is he going to think "well I only want to tip Maya $40 for the HE on a 30 minute massage, but JoeBlow69 with 14 posts told me to treat her right, so I'll give $60. " Or "I'll be sure to shower before seeing Linda because JoeBlow69 told me to treat her right. " I believe most posters here actually do treat the women well, it's one thing to offer specifics like "when first contacting her use your name and be respectful and use real English words. " That actually is good advice as some providers have told me they can tell a lot about a man just from his initial text. Maybe some of the advertiser members here can weigh in on initial text reactions.
But the whole "treat her right boys" is just inane and condescending. And doesn't it always come from a provider with a few posts, and less reviews.
Am I right, or am I just becoming grumpy before my time?
G2.