Rants and Raves

[QUOTE=BlkDodge;6635039]Steve: some of us are looking for videos because we've already seen the ones on ccp, and a lot of it is 3 years old. Just looking for NEW material.

Headluv: some of us take care of the SWs because we actually give a fck. The addicts are still people and I don't think it's that much of an issue to give cigs, food, a hoodie, whatever.[/QUOTE]Ima say to you what I said to the other guy. If you care so much, stop helping them kill themselves. It's real simple. You spend a few bucks on little shit as charity to make yourself feel good. But that's after you give her "standard" so she can go buy vials of fentanyl mixed with heroin and horse tranquilizer and roll the dice on an OD. I see through the bullsh%t, dawg.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6637702]Ima say to you what I said to the other guy. If you care so much, stop helping them kill themselves. It's real simple. You spend a few bucks on little shit as charity to make yourself feel good. But that's after you give her "standard" so she can go buy vials of fentanyl mixed with heroin and horse tranquilizer and roll the dice on an OD. I see through the bullsh%t, dawg.[/QUOTE]I've been clean for over 40 years so I know what the fuck I'm talking about.

Couple things to keep in mind.

1. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix. I don't give a shit if your jones is opiates, gambling, food, hookers, it doesn't matter, junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

2. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

And lastly,

3. Junkies in active addiction are always going to get their fix. ALWAYS.

Your idea is to remove the simple, risk free way for them to get enough money to do what they are going to do REGARDLESS of what happens. I'm not saying that having to suck dick for the money for a fix is a good idea, it's a fucking tragedy and it's fucking sad. I'm saying that sucking the dick of a steady customer to get the money for a fix is 10,000 times better than getting shot holding up a corner market because your steady customer listened to some asshole who didn't know what the fuck he was talking about say that he shouldn't give you money anymore.

Junkies will always get their fix, I would rather they get it sucking a dick than breaking into a house.

You're welcome.

A2.

[QUOTE=Admin2;6638018]I've been clean for over 40 years so I know what the fuck I'm talking about.

Couple things to keep in mind.

1. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix. I don't give a shit if your jones is opiates, gambling, food, hookers, it doesn't matter, junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

2. Junkies in active addiction are ALWAYS going to get their fix.

And lastly,

3. Junkies in active addiction are always going to get their fix. ALWAYS.

Your idea is to remove the simple, risk free way for them to get enough money to do what they are going to do REGARDLESS of what happens. I'm not saying that having to suck dick for the money for a fix is a good idea, it's a fucking tragedy and it's fucking sad. I'm saying that sucking the dick of a steady customer to get the money for a fix is 10,000 times better than getting shot holding up a corner market because your steady customer listened to some asshole who didn't know what the fuck he was talking about say that he shouldn't give you money anymore.

Junkies will always get their fix, I would rather they get it sucking a dick than breaking into a house.

You're welcome.

A2.[/QUOTE]I'm sure you have a unique, personal perspective as a recovering addict and congrats on your sobriety. However, it's evident that sobriety and reading comprehension don't necessarily go hand in hand. To deduce from my comments that I'm implying an addiction will miraculously disappear is clearly a miscomprehension jaded by the bias of what you assume I am saying. Nowhere did I state that or imply it. My point is that understanding someone is going to do what they want anyway and to be complicit in those doings are two different things. I know my uncle is going to get high regardless of what I do or say, but I cannot say I love him while giving him $$ to feed his addiction. I am not going to even attempt to rationalize that BS to myself. It simple. I care about you, so I refuse to actively help you harm yourself. I know you are going to do it anyway, but it won't be with my assistance. How you get from that clear point to me assuming I can stop a junkie's addiction by removing my funds is beyond me. I assume while you were in the throes of your addiction, you really appreciated all of the loved ones who helped you harm yourself slowly out of pity.

And for the record, since we are in "Rants and Raves", I could give three fucks about your opinion. You can use your bully pulpit as the forum admin to censor posts and chime in with your bullshit two cents but just understand you aren't altering my worldview / perspective and if I truly had an extra fuck to give about the essay you wrote, I probably still wouldn't donate. How I see things serves me all and no ex junkie using his "authority " as a forum admin is going to change my opinion. While you felt compelled to chime in with your dope-cured opinion is beyond me, but just know that you wasted your time. Maybe spend more time learning to properly understand what the fuck you read instead of trying to lecture me and you might be better off.

[QUOTE=Mumford1;6660152]Saw a face I haven't seen in years today out walking around the circle, triangle, busybees. If you guys remember Tracy from a few years ago. She was blonde, athletic, sexy white, late thirties. Well she was out today, been clean for 3 years and Way thicker. She was walking around with a tight white mini skirt. Anyway, I used to be a regular of hers back in the day. This girl gave great head and would Polish the balls really good too, just don't come in her mouth she'd say. Anyway I picked her up and asked her if she wanted to go to Tim's. She said sure. I wanted to explore that phat white ass and boy she didn't disappoint. Sucked on them balls just like old times and I started playing with the pussy. Inserted two fingers and I started massaging the g spot. Then she starts moving her hips, moaning and asks me to fuck her. I hold out for a while still doing this until she begs me to fuck her. She put on the rubber and I went to town and boy this woman acted like she hadn't been fucked in a while but she was always like that no matter how much cock she got. Anyway I had a good time, BBBJ attention to the balls but she only does covered full service and no cum in mouth. 70 beans a little high but she's civilian now. Has a real job, apartment, and car. Only out to make rent money. If you see a fat ass blonde civilian walking around Wilkins dressed sexy, that's who it is. Grab and go for it LOL. Oh it was mid day early afternoon.[/QUOTE]You paid $70 for a BBJ with no CIM? And you actually admitting that shit? Come on, dude. The rate for a BBBJ is $20. Why in the fuck would you just give that away and not even get to cum in her mouth? That's the fuck shit that messes it up for everybody else. You could have kept that to yourself. A ***** ain't never getting more than 20 from me.

And why pay more for a civilian anyway? If someone who normally doesn't walk is walking, that indicates a level of desperation. Why pay more then? That's like going to a clearance sale where they have lowered prices to move inventory, and you walk in offering more than full price. SMH.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6660610]You paid $70 for a BBJ with no CIM? And you actually admitting that shit? Come on, dude. The rate for a BBBJ is $20. Why in the fuck would you just give that away and not even get to cum in her mouth? That's the fuck shit that messes it up for everybody else. You could have kept that to yourself. A ***** ain't never getting more than 20 from me.

And why pay more for a civilian anyway? If someone who normally doesn't walk is walking, that indicates a level of desperation. Why pay more then? That's like going to a clearance sale where they have lowered prices to move inventory, and you walk in offering more than full price. SMH.[/QUOTE]Called disposable cash for a reason, don't shame others since you don't have it. Step your game up to get it. Personally, giving them a little extra always has them coming back with A1 service, and a friend in tote. I have a couple dozen messages weekly of ladies trying to link up because of the. 10,. 20, . 30 tip. If you diverted that passion for hatred on others, you could possibly make some dough. Throwing shade post after post exemplifies how much you dislike your own situation.

[QUOTE=PitMan187;6661404]Actually I see three or four women. Two to three times a week. I'm not married and I have the extra cash why not. I think what you spend with a provider is between you and the provider. If you don't like their prices you can always negotiate. If I into the person that I'm trying to see I will see them more than one time a week that's giving me discounted rates because I'm not the once a month guy. I hear several of these guys paying high rates. I understand the first time you may pay a high rate but then after that if you choose to see that provider more and cannot negotiate your price down then that's on you. But what I'm not going to do is have one of these people say well I'm not going to pay that because this guy said he only paid this much. To ruin the deal that I have going on with a provider. It's always a guy on here that ruins it for the next one. Because they cannot keep their mouth shut. If you get get a lead on something good and pass it on to the next one you'll deal with that provider is your deal. It doesn't matter what the next man pays a provider. Don't worry about my pockets I'll definitely will not overpay.[/QUOTE]You say what a person pays is between them and the provider, and that mongers talk too much and it's bad to go back and complain about your personal rate based on what another is paying, yet you have done that and indirectly encouraged it to happen. You may not have given a price, but you told the world you get a discount. So any monger naturally knows she will accept less than what she is asking for. You also blatantly indicated she doesn't charge you for videos, etc. So there you explicitly indicate something was free. She may charge someone else for that. It seems like the post was just a thinly veiled way to "humble brag ". The entire point was to seem like an insider and brag that you pay less, then play the "what I pay is private " card. You gave this entire board enough info to do what you claim you don't like. Approaching a provider with info regarding another monger's rates. If that was truly how you carry it, you wouldn't have mentioned shit about price or any reference to what you pay. Just tell the man what the discount is and what you pay. SMH.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6661895]You say what a person pays is between them and the provider, and that mongers talk too much and it's bad to go back and complain about your personal rate based on what another is paying, yet you have done that and indirectly encouraged it to happen. You may not have given a price, but you told the world you get a discount. So any monger naturally knows she will accept less than what she is asking for. You also blatantly indicated she doesn't charge you for videos, etc. So there you explicitly indicate something was free. She may charge someone else for that. It seems like the post was just a thinly veiled way to "humble brag ". The entire point was to seem like an insider and brag that you pay less, then play the "what I pay is private " card. You gave this entire board enough info to do what you claim you don't like. Approaching a provider with info regarding another monger's rates. If that was truly how you carry it, you wouldn't have mentioned shit about price or any reference to what you pay. Just tell the man what the discount is and what you pay. SMH.[/QUOTE]Wow! 238 posts and none of you having any information to share on interactions with an actual female. Like I've said before. Let your next post be of an actual encounter with a female. That's what this forum is for. All you do is cry about people making it difficult for you to get pussy. Stop finger wagging and start contributing.

[QUOTE=BenDhover;6661478]Called disposable cash for a reason, don't shame others since you don't have it. Step your game up to get it. Personally, giving them a little extra always has them coming back with A1 service, and a friend in tote. I have a couple dozen messages weekly of ladies trying to link up because of the. 10,. 20, . 30 tip. If you diverted that passion for hatred on others, you could possibly make some dough. Throwing shade post after post exemplifies how much you dislike your own situation.[/QUOTE]Step my game up to get it? You think $20-$40 dollars breaks me? It's the principle behind it. WTF? Can't be serious.

I had a whole post addressing this but admin chose to not post it. Didn't even move it to Rants and Raves, he just completely censored me and didn't post it. I guess folks can take their shots at me, but I can't respond. Anyway.

You all like to act like this is some type of fraternity. Sharing info and looking out for each other, right? Well market interjections affect everyone. The general consensus here is to not overpay. What's the mantra?? "You messing up the game!" But individuals always get defensive and rationalize when they do it. Artificial market interjections disrupt markets. That's what your overpayments are. You create issues of entitlement and poor service for other mongers. How often have we heard a SW remark about required effort for "only" $20. It's "only" $20.but she doesn't have it and is sucking a dick for it. Ok. This attitude carries over if they are getting above market rates. We all acknowledge this, we all know this. Yet some clowns like to justify the bullshit when it's convenient. I don't offer $5 for $3 milk. It's simple.

And let me address this nonsense about service and prioritization. Often hear about the service being better and being selected over other mongers. Not true. I routinely get seat squirming, toe curling service for standard or less. I NEVER overpay under any circumstances and will drop their ass back off in a heartbeat. Moaning, squeezing my leg, swallowing. All into it. For $20 or less. I think it says more about the guy when he has to overpay and tip heavy for service level another monger gets for "standard". Think about it. You would fuck a model for free. But you may ask the fat ***** to kick you out a Benjamin. Let's not forget that they are addicts but still women by nature. If they find you attractive or drawn to your personality via interaction, they will not require as much. I'm speaking from detailed, personal experience. Once had redhead Nicole come to my car after heading to another. When she got in she commented that the guy was a regular and would be upset, but she enjoyed dating me becasue "we don't get many lookers out here". She specified that the other guy usually pays more, but wanted to get it in with me. She said he will "Still be there". Your overpayment s can make you seem desperate and get you taken for granted.

And for the record, I ROUTINELY pay LESS THAN STANDARD. I'm talking $10 or $15, usually $15. And don't give the crap about the bottom of the barrel. Going back to SW Idol Crystal, Ellie newer ones like MILF Melissa, Bubbles, Layla, Goldie, even your infamous Special K. Too many to name them all. Every last one of them has sucked me for $10 or $15 dollars. I can promise you all that. I have never overpaid any of these women to earn a "discount". NEVER. I just don't simp for them. I'm pleasant, fair and firm. None of the extra shit you guys do, and I still get same level of service and prioritization. That justification you all use is a fallacy.

And also, who gives a sh%t if they got addicted SWs lined up to deal with them?? Really? This should be a complimentary outlet to our sex lives. I could give 3 fucks if Inhabe a handful of addicts "on deck". A handful of successful, accomplished women. Yes. Be proud of that. This bullshit?? Naw. And if a SW goes and gets other SWs, dude that doesn't make you a player or pimp. It just solidifies you are the sucker that overpays. They go get their friends to use you, not because you are some stud. Can't believe I have to spell that out.

And thanks for the psychoanalysis! Pretty sharp to gain such insight from a few forum posts. LOL. Just consider me the deveins advocate. You all bounce the same shot off of each other without a differing opinion.

[QUOTE=Apache12;6663879]Yes she is definitely doing much better right now and hopefully she stays in Columbia for a good while longer, but like you said she does have more energy and stamina. I saw her earlier this week and had a great time. Yup and gave her a Franklin plus. Oh yeah and her phone was cut off but hopefully she will get it back soon.

Apache[/QUOTE]Keep feeding her "Franklins". It will be back on soon enough! LMAO!

That is unless she gets high with the $$. They never do that, though.

You eight mongers let her rest up and get well, and stop freaking her out and giving her $100+ to get high, since why'all care so much. And when she is revitalized and back on the stroll and zooming toward zombie status with the assistance of your plentiful reviews, her shared digits, overpayments, and complimentary "jelly donut injections ", what next? When she breaks all the way down and takes that final break from the life, why'all going to come here and eulogize her? Reminisce on all the cooperative exploitation and semen transfers?? LOL.

I am laughing my ass off at the "she needs to rest, I just slutted her out, but don't ask me for the number, I just slutted her out" post. This shot is pure comedy. Aw man, you clowns are laughable. I'm in tears. LMAO!

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6663999]Keep feeding her "Franklins". It will be back on soon enough! LMAO!

That is unless she gets high with the $$. They never do that, though.

You eight mongers let her rest up and get well, and stop freaking her out and giving her $100+ to get high, since why'all care so much. And when she is revitalized and back on the stroll and zooming toward zombie status with the assistance of your plentiful reviews, her shared digits, overpayments, and complimentary "jelly donut injections ", what next? When she breaks all the way down and takes that final break from the life, why'all going to come here and eulogize her? Reminisce on all the cooperative exploitation and semen transfers?? LOL.

I am laughing my ass off at the "she needs to rest, I just slutted her out, but don't ask me for the number, I just slutted her out" post. This shot is pure comedy. Aw man, you clowns are laughable. I'm in tears. LMAO![/QUOTE]Well that's exactly why I threw that out there so you could have a good laugh. But while your laughing I'm having a great time, and that's why I pay good so that I can enjoy my time with no rush, she never asks how much are you paying, never asks for anything up front, does anything and any position that I ask, I could keep her out for hours and never hear any complaints. This also goes for other regulars that I have. I've been in this game for a very long time, there's probably only a less than 5 on this board that's been doing this longer than me. So go ahead keep laughing I'm glad I can give you a good laugh, but in the end I will have the last laugh.

[QUOTE=Apache12;6664895]Well that's exactly why I threw that out there so you could have a good laugh. But while your laughing I'm having a great time, and that's why I pay good so that I can enjoy my time with no rush, she never asks how much are you paying, never asks for anything up front, does anything and any position that I ask, I could keep her out for hours and never hear any complaints. This also goes for other regulars that I have. I've been in this game for a very long time, there's probably only a less than 5 on this board that's been doing this longer than me. So go ahead keep laughing I'm glad I can give you a good laugh, but in the end I will have the last laugh.[/QUOTE]If you think having a stable of addicted SWs eager to separate you from your $$ as "having the last laugh", let me get you a subscription to Comedy Central and a tank of nitrous oxide to go with that. LMAO!

Like I've said before, this sex trade is transactional. $$ for drugs in exchange for sexual acts to provide sexual relief. The girls never lose sight of why they are doing what they are doing. Mongers do.

Let me ask, do you think any of these women would deal with you outside of their addiction and need for $$ Answer that honestly and with a sincere sense of humility. How many in here think any of these women would actually deal with them and perform the sexual acts that they do minus the addiction? Seriously. Addiction and its affect on humans and their behavior is well documented. Both scientifically and in society's collective observations in how addicts operate and the changes in behavior caused by the addiction, particularly heroin which is a strongly physical addiction. Hence, the getting ill and sick upon withdrawal. A heroin addict is the most desperate of addicts. They turn into opportunists, searching for next chance to get $$ and get high. Often the fear of being ill is as bad as the need to get high. If you have a bunch of addicts eager to get with you, it's not because you are some stud. You are an easy opportunity. The path of least resistance. You think there is honor in that? It is no badge of honor to have junkies eager to get with your gullible ass, to the point where they calling friends over to expose them to the easy opportunity. As a youngster, nobody got the fellas together to run a train on the respectable girl they wanted as a girlfriend. You got your friends for the floozy who was a a loose and easy nut. Same principles apply here. You are just an easy mark because you come off as desperate and you overpay. I've had girls say, "why are you out here". They know their circumstances and how far they have fallen. If you are all caught up in the "monger life" and overpaying and all that, they recognize it as desperation and they take advantage. Please don't fool yourself.

Why do you think these girls disappear when they clean themselves up?? They don't need you any more. And the simps who keep in contact and track them down through social media, they may keep contact with you, but only because you continue to give them money / help when they need it. It has to be something in it for them.

So fellas, go out monger, bust your nuts and have fun. But please stop trying to act like the studly cool crew because you fucking dope fiends at will. Just stop. We have seen the pictures of these girls before addiction and / or after they clean up and leave the life. None of these women would touch any of you outside of a heroin addiction and you know it. Just stop.

Now for those who say I don't report anything, Heaven is alive and well. Saw her on Pulaski. She is still clearly getting high, but nowhere where she was. She had weight on her. I'm just going to say I saw her.

[QUOTE=Mumford1;6662274]Wow! 238 posts and none of you having any information to share on interactions with an actual female. Like I've said before. Let your next post be of an actual encounter with a female. That's what this forum is for. All you do is cry about people making it difficult for you to get pussy. Stop finger wagging and start contributing.[/QUOTE]I'm on my 4th or 5th screen name. You missed a lot of posts. Lmao!!

I'm not concerned with senior status, post count, or fitting in with / being accepted by any of you. Could care less. I'm past redundancy and repeating what been said. I'll report health and safety info as I get it. But I'm not repeatedly chiming in with BS for any of your approval or inclusion. In fact, with some of the fuck shit I read from you guys, I'm likely inclined to shy away from anything that would do that.

All things in life are dynamic. There are general "feels" and context around everything. You may not agree, but my post are related because they typically tie in to perspective and frame of thought as a monger. How we approach what we do. Most of you all have the wrong approach, whether you realize it or not. I just piss people off when they are in an echo chamber having all of their clown shot validated by other clowns, then here I come with the differing opinion putting things back in a more proper perspective. Most of the disdain for me is based in defensive posturing because my commentary often forces the juxtaposition of reality with the BS you all come here and tell yourselves.

[QUOTE=BusterHymen55;6662376]Well as someone who does actually contribute and report, I have no problem with HeadLuvr. Yes, he's arrogant, cocky, abrasive, confrontational, but at least he speaks his mind and is a straight shooter. Most of the stuff he says you can't refute or deny. He is simply speaking the truth. Now can he go about it in a more subtle way and be less condescending, absolutely!

But the fact of the matter is there is way too much grabass and tomfoolery going on in this forum with these posts. (Baltimore Section). I mean take a good look at the last 700 pages and 35,000+ posts for reference. Whether it be endless and ridiculous Kiara threads and posts, or 500+ reviews on the same provider that we already know about who is credible and legit (bolton hill redhead casey is a good example)

members constantly asking if someone is legit or not without contributing anything themselves, or someone asking for digits without putting any work in the field themselves, or has anyone seen (insert whomever) lately, or overpaying ridiculous GPS prices and but yet these very same people are the ones that bit*ch and complain about these providers overcharging (the irony is rich!) and one of my biggest pet peeves is seeing so-called senior members coming out of the woodwork every time someone reports on a new chick and asking for digits! Ditto for newbies with just two or three posts to their names, the list goes on and on!

Having said that, I do agree with your basic premise that this forum is about posting useful information on our dates and encounters with providers and looking to help out our fellow brethren in this game. But the sad truth of the matter is that 90% of these posts are the same redundant, tedious, tiresome, BS that gets constantly regurgitated and spewed on these message boards ad nauseum! Just my $0. 02! And for the record, you are good peeps in my book Mumford![/QUOTE]Thank you, Buster. Best back-handed compliment I ever received. LOL! At least you get it. You probably came up like me. Strong male figures (family and coaches) who got in my shit and pulled no punches. You understand everything ain't warm and fuzzy and some folks will call you in your bullshit. From childhood, people have been calling me out for my bullshit and pulling no punches. That's how I operate. Being abrasivly called out on my bullshit motivates me. My father was in my ass. My coaches, in my ass (yelling, yanked by the face mask, berated in front of the team). Even my mother would pull my card and tell me about my shit. It requires emotional intelligence, self reflection and most importantly. HUMILITY. Takes a real one to not get defensive and honestly consider a critical assessment. Am I harsh and abrasive as described. Yeah. LMAO! Do I give a fuck? No. LOL!! But in no way can anyone say I am not articulate and spewing nonsense. I'm opinionated as fuck, but I think hard and develop my opinions from a place of insight and knowledge and deep perspective.

Buster, you nailed it. A lot of "contributions" tjat don't actually contribute shit. I've said it before. Many here are ugly, old or longtime socially awkward. This forum is their entry to the cool club. They get waaaaaay to into this and create this false sense of confidence and superiority. This isn't some exclusive fraternity. Any jerk off with $20 and a hard dick can do this. The attempts to make this some exclusive group of "in the know" studs and players is beyond laughable and ridiculous is an understatement. Repetitive reports on the same person just to seem cool. Folks telling me to "put in work", but they all over the board asking for "digits". Dudes who won't pick up a chick without coming here to ask first. Eulogizing women you helped kill. The clown shit is in abundance. But everyone hates me for calling it out. I do or have done all the shit you guys do (minus fucking dirty SWs, ewwww) without any of your board dramatics. 20+ yrs getting my dick sucked in the streets. Difference is, I'm not proud of it. This isn't my entryway to the cool club.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6665804]Thank you, Buster. Best back-handed compliment I ever received. LOL! At least you get it. You probably came up like me. Strong male figures (family and coaches) who got in my shit and pulled no punches. You understand everything ain't warm and fuzzy and some folks will call you in your bullshit. From childhood, people have been calling me out for my bullshit and pulling no punches. That's how I operate. Being abrasivly called out on my bullshit motivates me. My father was in my ass. My coaches, in my ass (yelling, yanked by the face mask, berated in front of the team). Even my mother would pull my card and tell me about my shit. It requires emotional intelligence, self reflection and most importantly. HUMILITY. Takes a real one to not get defensive and honestly consider a critical assessment. Am I harsh and abrasive as described. Yeah. LMAO! Do I give a fuck? No. LOL!! But in no way can anyone say I am not articulate and spewing nonsense. I'm opinionated as fuck, but I think hard and develop my opinions from a place of insight and knowledge and deep perspective.

Buster, you nailed it. A lot of "contributions" tjat don't actually contribute shit. I've said it before. Many here are ugly, old or longtime socially awkward. This forum is their entry to the cool club. They get waaaaaay to into this and create this false sense of confidence and superiority. This isn't some exclusive fraternity. Any jerk off with $20 and a hard dick can do this. The attempts to make this some exclusive group of "in the know" studs and players is beyond laughable and ridiculous is an understatement. Repetitive reports on the same person just to seem cool. Folks telling me to "put in work", but they all over the board asking for "digits". Dudes who won't pick up a chick without coming here to ask first. Eulogizing women you helped kill. The clown shit is in abundance. But everyone hates me for calling it out. I do or have done all the shit you guys do (minus fucking dirty SWs, ewwww) without any of your board dramatics. 20+ yrs getting my dick sucked in the streets. Difference is, I'm not proud of it. This isn't my entryway to the cool club.[/QUOTE]Amen brother. and you are very welcome! No thanks necessary! Keep preachin' my man! Yes, I grew up in a strong family household with strict parents! Dad was very hard working (had 3 jobs and retired from the Navy). Made sure bills were paid and we had food on the table. Taught me the values of working hard, getting an education, and basically to be self-supporting and independent. I graduated from the University of Maryland at College Park (class of '94) with a BS degree in Business Management and Logistics. Was self-employed as an independent contractor, moderately successful, and very happy with my bachelorhood and freedom! Unfortunately, I had to move to Cyprus to take care of my ailing mom. Like yourself, I'm also a straight shooter and not a bullshitter. Tell it the way it is. I know a lot of people seem to have a problem with that but tough shit. And spot on with the second paragraph! My sentiments exactly! Agree 100% and basically everything I've mentioned! It's a big part of the reason why these Baltimore boards have gone to shit. Hell, If I wanted a clown show I'd go to a goddamn circus! LMAO!

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6665804]Thank you, Buster. Best back-handed compliment I ever received. LOL! At least you get it. You probably came up like me. Strong male figures (family and coaches) who got in my shit and pulled no punches. You understand everything ain't warm and fuzzy and some folks will call you in your bullshit. From childhood, people have been calling me out for my bullshit and pulling no punches. That's how I operate. Being abrasivly called out on my bullshit motivates me. My father was in my ass. My coaches, in my ass (yelling, yanked by the face mask, berated in front of the team). Even my mother would pull my card and tell me about my shit. It requires emotional intelligence, self reflection and most importantly. HUMILITY. Takes a real one to not get defensive and honestly consider a critical assessment. Am I harsh and abrasive as described. Yeah. LMAO! Do I give a fuck? No. LOL!! But in no way can anyone say I am not articulate and spewing nonsense. I'm opinionated as fuck, but I think hard and develop my opinions from a place of insight and knowledge and deep perspective.

Buster, you nailed it. A lot of "contributions" tjat don't actually contribute shit. I've said it before. Many here are ugly, old or longtime socially awkward. This forum is their entry to the cool club. They get waaaaaay to into this and create this false sense of confidence and superiority. This isn't some exclusive fraternity. Any jerk off with $20 and a hard dick can do this. The attempts to make this some exclusive group of "in the know" studs and players is beyond laughable and ridiculous is an understatement. Repetitive reports on the same person just to seem cool. Folks telling me to "put in work", but they all over the board asking for "digits". Dudes who won't pick up a chick without coming here to ask first. Eulogizing women you helped kill. The clown shit is in abundance. But everyone hates me for calling it out. I do or have done all the shit you guys do (minus fucking dirty SWs, ewwww) without any of your board dramatics. 20+ yrs getting my dick sucked in the streets. Difference is, I'm not proud of it. This isn't my entryway to the cool club.[/QUOTE]One muthafuckin hundred man. I think you covered it all on this one here. But they'll still try to punch holes in this with witty dumb ass comments.

[QUOTE=HeadLuvr;6665782]I'm on my 4th or 5th screen name. You missed a lot of posts. Lmao!!

I'm not concerned with senior status, post count, or fitting in with / being accepted by any of you. Could care less. I'm past redundancy and repeating what been said. I'll report health and safety info as I get it. But I'm not repeatedly chiming in with BS for any of your approval or inclusion. In fact, with some of the fuck shit I read from you guys, I'm likely inclined to shy away from anything that would do that.

All things in life are dynamic. There are general "feels" and context around everything. You may not agree, but my post are related because they typically tie in to perspective and frame of thought as a monger. How we approach what we do. Most of you all have the wrong approach, whether you realize it or not. I just piss people off when they are in an echo chamber having all of their clown shot validated by other clowns, then here I come with the differing opinion putting things back in a more proper perspective. Most of the disdain for me is based in defensive posturing because my commentary often forces the juxtaposition of reality with the BS you all come here and tell yourselves.[/QUOTE]I've been in this game since 1986 and brother you are spot on. I've been with hundreds of girls in multiple states (I traveled quite a bit). I stay away this not to brag, I just have been at it a long time and in every case the act has been 100% transactional. This isn't the loveboat. I've managed to not get rolled, busted by the cops or taken to the cleaners because I've played by the rules and I always and I mean always treated the act as nothing more than a transaction. I remember a girl in Detroit laughing about the idiots that think she was actually attracted to them. It don't matter what you look like or how big your dick is, they don't care. Treat them with respect, keep it honest and most of the time you'll get the same in kind. Don't think though that these girls think about marching down the aisle. They are addicts. Period. I say that not to disrespect anyone just echoing the truth.

Just curious how many of my fellow mongers regularly get replies two or more hours after trying to contact a provider, and of those how many are actually still game by that point?

I msged someone tonight, got my first reply 20 minutes later. Tried to confirm with the second msg and get on my way. And thank fuck she hadn't given me the address by then because she went silent for a full two hours, then after that suddenly texted "still interested?

No, I am very fucking much not still interested. I have long since found someone who isn't nodding off to give my money to, and left the area without thinking about your inattentive ass.

[QUOTE=SymptomAddict;6673838]Just curious how many of my fellow mongers regularly get replies two or more hours after trying to contact a provider, and of those how many are actually still game by that point?

I msged someone tonight, got my first reply 20 minutes later. Tried to confirm with the second msg and get on my way. And thank fuck she hadn't given me the address by then because she went silent for a full two hours, then after that suddenly texted "still interested?

No, I am very fucking much not still interested. I have long since found someone who isn't nodding off to give my money to, and left the area without thinking about your inattentive ass.[/QUOTE]It's happens too often. And it's aggravating as hell when it happens. What I do is play with them and get their address and pretend like I am there and even have them give me their room number. Then when she gets asks if I'm coming up, that's when I go off on her. They'll give some dumbass excusea about falling asleep or their phone dying or some other personal calamity, but I still proceed to make them feel stupid. And then tell them why their ain't making any money.

[QUOTE=SymptomAddict;6673838]Just curious how many of my fellow mongers regularly get replies two or more hours after trying to contact a provider, and of those how many are actually still game by that point?

I msged someone tonight, got my first reply 20 minutes later. Tried to confirm with the second msg and get on my way. And thank fuck she hadn't given me the address by then because she went silent for a full two hours, then after that suddenly texted "still interested?

No, I am very fucking much not still interested. I have long since found someone who isn't nodding off to give my money to, and left the area without thinking about your inattentive ass.[/QUOTE]This happens a lot. Sometimes it might be a few hours and sometimes it might be a day or two. Girls tell me all the time guys book and don't show up all the time. With that bit of knowledge. If rents due. She will most likely be over booking. Might lead to rushed sessions. You've got to use this bit of knowledge for your personal gain. Mongers fall into two basic categories. Fresh meat or Reliable client. If you're fresh meat, it's your job to build trust with the provider. This will limit some of the headache. Reliable clients tend to get priority because they have built some trust and respect. I'm referring to booking appointments. Remember never give a deposit or let your guard down.

When I come to Baltimore, I give girls a few hours advance notice. Text message (s) go out. I see who responds and then book an approximate time. One thing I've learned is, I'm always trying to be respectful of the providers time. Sometimes I get text messages back that say I'm short on rent really need your help today. I will prioritize her request. The provider asking for help has to come in a timely response. I'm not going to waste another girls time when I have already booked a visit. A little bit of respect goes a long ways and will get you in the door for future visits. At the location. I'm not going to wait very long maybe 10 to 15 minutes. Several mongers have passed on this bit of information including DMV below. Moving on relieves a lot of frustration... this might be the perfect time to start looking for Plan B. Sometimes I get text messages in this situation 1 to 2 hours later. I don't know what's happened on her end and I just move on. Politely respond with I've left the area maybe sometime in the future we can get together.

Fresh Meat: There's nothing like kitty with a new provider for the first time. With that said, it's a crapshoot, sometimes because the provider has regulars, and in a lot of cases has overbooked. Always have Plan B ready to go.

If girls are not going to be respectful of your time, just move on. Never show your mad.

Hope to read more comments on this topic.

Exchanged messages, showed up, laid the donation on the table and then BANG BANG BANG some guy pounding on the door acting like her husband. He didn't know I carry so I picked up the money, moved across the room opposite from the door told him to open it while he was looking into the business end moved them both into the bathroom, maybe helped myself to a few things and went home.

Stay away

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[QUOTE=Gosling982;6690475]Exchanged messages, showed up, laid the donation on the table and then BANG BANG BANG some guy pounding on the door acting like her husband. He didn't know I carry so I picked up the money, moved across the room opposite from the door told him to open it while he was looking into the business end moved them both into the bathroom, maybe helped myself to a few things and went home.

Stay away

[URL]https://comeescort.weebly.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]M.

Nice info for your first post! Tell us more about the setup? When was this? Where was the spot located in Baltimore? What was the donation agreed to? What service was expected? Were the pics accurate? What time of day was this?

Good thing you carry.

MJ1.

[QUOTE=MrJusnupin1;6691019]M.

Nice info for your first post! Tell us more about the setup? When was this? Where was the spot located in Baltimore? What was the donation agreed to? What service was expected? Were the pics accurate? What time of day was this?

Good thing you carry.

MJ1.[/QUOTE]Are you serious? This man saved his own ass but you do realize he proceeded with an armed robbery? Why in the fuck would he sit here and give you identifying details on his felony? Heed the fucking warning, avoid the provider and chill with the nosy clown shit. I can't believe you really asked this dude to publicly provide further self incriminating details. It's bad enough he did it himself. A safety warning would have been sufficient for this board. The rest was some clown bragging shit that didn't need to be mentioned. But you asking 21 questions after the fact is even worse. Smh.

[QUOTE=HeadChaser;6691959]Are you serious? This man saved his own ass but you do realize he proceeded with an armed robbery? Why in the fuck would he sit here and give you identifying details on his felony? Heed the fucking warning, avoid the provider and chill with the nosy clown shit. I can't believe you really asked this dude to publicly provide further self incriminating details. It's bad enough he did it himself. A safety warning would have been sufficient for this board. The rest was some clown bragging shit that didn't need to be mentioned. But you asking 21 questions after the fact is even worse. Smh.[/QUOTE]And yes. I am highly likely to let you be the arbiter of what I post here. ROTFLMAO. Assuming you believe everything that you read also.

I will not respond further on this topic. Way too mature deliberate in my thought process for that one.

Let's just say you move on... He/she can feel free to respond via PM if they choose to...

MJ1.

[QUOTE=Gosling982;6690475]Exchanged messages, showed up, laid the donation on the table and then BANG BANG BANG some guy pounding on the door acting like her husband. He didn't know I carry so I picked up the money, moved across the room opposite from the door told him to open it while he was looking into the business end moved them both into the bathroom, maybe helped myself to a few things and went home.

Stay away

[URL]https://comeescort.weebly.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]She did it to me as well.

[QUOTE=WillieSimpson;6693190]I connected with Victoria again recently. Very nice lady to spend time with. Very laid back, great conversation, good sense of humor and amazing oral skills. With lots of attention to the boys and no gag reflex. She really took her time again making the final explosion intense. She really enjoys what she does. YMMV but I will be back for more.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SteveThompson4;6693183]I saw her once. Pretty girl, nice body, very nice, maybe a little shy. I would recommend.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JackNicholson3;6693177]My first visit with my fav started at 30 ish minutes. My last visit before she left was close to 2 hours. Covered only. Pretty safe location.[/QUOTE]Damn Victoria! You managed to create three separate accounts! I'm impressed!

Three brand new accounts with no post history whatsoever suddenly showed up out of nowhere to make a post defending this one provider in the span of ten minutes?

Seems legit. Totally not fake at all.

[QUOTE=BusterHymen55;6693684]Damn Victoria! You managed to create three separate accounts! I'm impressed![/QUOTE]She didn't even try with the names like how dumb does she think we are.

[QUOTE=Damon66;6696486]Saw her two day ago. Good visit. She asked if OK with her husband being there and I said sure. I've not done that before, so can cross off list. Did not have to be there if not wanted. Only wants to see her happy.[/QUOTE]Better Victoria. Much better. Still lot's of room for improvement and a very long ways to go! LMAO!

[QUOTE=BusterHymen55;6696654]Better Victoria. Much better. Still lot's of room for improvement and a very long ways to go! LMAO![/QUOTE]Crazy how when you look at her profile, the only other post that's visible is her replying to the exact same thing she said here.

[QUOTE=ThanoStalin;6697370]Crazy how when you look at her profile, the only other post that's visible is her replying to the exact same thing she said here.[/QUOTE]I don't know what's crazier or more pathetic, her creating all these fake "accounts" or mods allowing it to happen!

[QUOTE=DmvTrickGawd;6674066]It's happens too often. And it's aggravating as hell when it happens. What I do is play with them and get their address and pretend like I am there and even have them give me their room number. Then when she gets asks if I'm coming up, that's when I go off on her. They'll give some dumbass excusea about falling asleep or their phone dying or some other personal calamity, but I still proceed to make them feel stupid. And then tell them why their ain't making any money.[/QUOTE]No point to even doing this. To new mongers. They likely double-booked or got with a client they were already aware of while keeping you on the hook. If communications happen and then it dries up for whatever reason. Block them and build up a mutually beneficial relationship with someone else.

I had an overnight a little bit after I preferred this way of having company (less headaches) -and she 'pillow talked' about how she manages her clients and showed receipts (and if you don't think some of yall pics have been shared to clients or other ladies. LOL. Hate to break it to you but they likely have).

Time to rant. I've been in the game for a long time and I've never had issues because I'm discrete. I don't circle for hours, stop in the middle of the road, do a you-turn in the middle of Washington Blvd and I carefully pick out my spots. Keeping these spots secret is a fools game. First girl you take there, if she isn't tweaking, will bring every other Tom Dick and Harry back to the same spot. But here's my rant, I pulled up to my favorite spot yesterday and its a condom garden. WTF, leave the used rubbers and Kleenex in the car. You might as well hang a billboard up. Here sits some dude getting his Johnson sucked. Cops now know to stop by from time to time but worse, the locals are pissed. Every wonder why you pick up more nails in your tires than your neighbor? Leave an old coffee cup in the car. Stick your scrap in there and dump it at the first gas station you come to.

Over priced vanilla ice cream uh pass me a scoop or two an what else yeah got. Well maybe later.

Happy New Year 2024.

Oh yeah I got to test the positions I ask or consider asking the women to be in before asking them say it ain't so. Ah the women performance overall was not horrible I mean there are moments but even those moments are from decent performers. I heard from a women the hood was hot an I kept checking when I got home may need a pillow or two I wouldn't do it maybe lions den its for simple reasons maximum performance with no lag.

Some positions cause neck pains an I want no part ah my neck (wouldn't let that happen to me though. Haha) I mean probably their necks I look in the mirror an ask myself the same request hell no never more. Those are pro out there try reaching over the center console uh no they are pros well carplay pros at minimum need to get the indoor action going. Alot of amazing women seen this year upgraded the phone dual Sim its was time was amazed better photo quality.

Need to change your handle to icantsaywhatisaw.

[QUOTE=RockyB;6733391]Time to rant. I've been in the game for a long time and I've never had issues because I'm discrete. I don't circle for hours, stop in the middle of the road, do a you-turn in the middle of Washington Blvd and I carefully pick out my spots. Keeping these spots secret is a fools game. First girl you take there, if she isn't tweaking, will bring every other Tom Dick and Harry back to the same spot. But here's my rant, I pulled up to my favorite spot yesterday and its a condom garden. WTF, leave the used rubbers and Kleenex in the car. You might as well hang a billboard up. Here sits some dude getting his Johnson sucked. Cops now know to stop by from time to time but worse, the locals are pissed. Every wonder why you pick up more nails in your tires than your neighbor? Leave an old coffee cup in the car. Stick your scrap in there and dump it at the first gas station you come to.[/QUOTE]Even better. An old SW put me on back in the day and told me not to throw my DNA out on the street, you never know what might happen out there. Ever since I take your approach, I'll have a cup or bag and toss somewhere in the actual garbage. This was great advice, nice post.

[QUOTE=ISawWhatIsAw;6733446]Over priced vanilla ice cream uh pass me a scoop or two an what else yeah got. Well maybe later.

Happy New Year 2024.

Oh yeah I got to test the positions I ask or consider asking the women to be in before asking them say it ain't so. Ah the women performance overall was not horrible I mean there are moments but even those moments are from decent performers. I heard from a women the hood was hot an I kept checking when I got home may need a pillow or two I wouldn't do it maybe lions den its for simple reasons maximum performance with no lag.

Some positions cause neck pains an I want no part ah my neck (wouldn't let that happen to me though. Haha) I mean probably their necks I look in the mirror an ask myself the same request hell no never more. Those are pro out there try reaching over the center console uh no they are pros well carplay pros at minimum need to get the indoor action going. Alot of amazing women seen this year upgraded the phone dual Sim its was time was amazed better photo quality.[/QUOTE]Confucius say Man who lay woman on ground have peace on earth!

Ay there brother ah the new year fresh air new women or are they the same no bother to be had.

Oh by the way no man wants to hear she was pounded before entering. Lie I mean tell the "truth".

Your time to shine. If ever a time needed.

Seen a few out nothing new still nothing new around MP do women even exist near the circle. Maybe they hide between the cars or did that happen somewhere else.

Just say no don't start to chew at first it can seem cool to be meal at first. Well it takes time to heal always excuse me for being ever so rude but it hurts.

Never forget.

Haha haha. Ayy haha haha come to butthead haha.

Still nothing new found over near Garrison bring M. Are. Hat or twig when you go either or not ither or better days to come.

I wasn't sure where to put this. Hope I don't have to write more of these.

Two years ago, I was trying to schedule a visit to Nasty Nikki. I had a couple fellow mongers recommend her. Reached out to her the day before told her I would be in the area the following morning around 10 AM. She said just send me a text when you're on your way. The following morning I texted her but no response. When I got to Glen Burnie sent a couple texts and a phone call but no response. I figured I was just getting ghosted. I realize stuff happens people get busy I'm not the only guy contacting her. I was still determined to meet this sexy MILF. However, I don't see her ads anymore. Did she retire? Did she have a state sponsored vacation?

Her situation is far worse. She overdosed on fentanyl. I read in this form she had passed away. I reached out to her doubles partner. She confirmed her passing. I've always been amazed at how women throw away their beauty for drugs. It doesn't matter where I go when I see a girl doing hard-core drugs. It makes me wonder if they're going to end up like Nikki. I've even asked. Where is the Narcan on several visits as a preventive measure. I'm not here to judge girls and I don't want to be judged. January 20 is the last day her ad is posted on listcrawler. Today is 2 years since her passing.

RIP Nikki


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[QUOTE=ShootAndRoll;6760213] RIP Nikki [/QUOTE]Yeah this is one of the shitty things that comes with the hobby. We've all seen women deteriorate right before our eyes and it's so sad. Like you said, they trade their youth, beauty and vibrancy for drugs. Some, like Nikki, sadly exchange their lives.

About a year ago, I arranged a date with a girl. I showed up at her hotel and she wasn't responding. Then a bunch of emergency vehicles show up. Still no response. I move along but wonder if that was her. I send her a text a couple days later and she says it was her, that she just got out of the hospital and is much better now. Never ended up seeing her but I wonder sometimes.

One girl I've seen repeatedly uses enough that she occasionally just falls asleep before I leave. I've checked her breathing and her pulse before I leave. I think to myself "how sad is that?

Normally there are 4 reasons why I'll stop seeing a girl that I like:

1) Her performance / cost changes enough that it's not worth it.

2) She degrades physically to the point I don't want to see her anymore (Crofton Bri).

3) She quits (best case scenario).

4) She dies.

[QUOTE=ShootAndRoll;6760213]Her situation is far worse. She overdosed on fentanyl. I read in this form she had passed away. I reached out to her doubles partner. She confirmed her passing. [/QUOTE]Over the last year I asked 3 different street walkers how they felt about fentanyl. I expected them to say something negative about the dealers adding fentanyl, but what I got was approval. I remember Karina's exact words: "I like it. ".

They seem to understand the dangers, but they don't care.