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[QUOTE=DirkPitt;2070342]Sort of. I have always kept lurking but just haven't been playing any. I have seriously thought about coming out of retirment and just wondering if you guys think it is safer from LE to have the girl come to you instead of your going to their incall. Last time I did this I was married and didn't have my own place. Now I do. I don't relish the idea of some crazy chick knocking at my door unbidden but I haven't heard or read any of those stories here.

Collective wisdom please?[/QUOTE]Welcome back brother. I would chose my dates very carefully and get a safe for my valuables.

[QUOTE=Nickn3;2071526]Welcome back brother. I would chose my dates very carefully and get a safe for my valuables.[/QUOTE]There are several factors you must consider when going to a girl or having a girl come to you. Do you have a lot of valuables that are easily removed? If not, then I wouldn't worry too much about inviting them over. I believe it is much less of an LE risk to have a girl come to you. I think this because there is no opportunity for them to set up cameras, microphones and such devices that give them more evidence. This not to say that they couldn't be wearing a mic or a camera, but a lot harder to set up something like that. Because PatProst is just a misdemeanor, I doubt they would be so inclined to go to this length to get you. I think most stings or all stings in Knoxville are incall locations that cops have set up already to entrap you. This does not apply to streetwalker stings.

Either way you do it, if you never talk about sexual conduct and just "go with the flow" of the date and don't talk about the money, then they will not be able to "get you" as easily. They may still arrest you and detain you, but they are less likely to have the evidence they need to prosecute you. If the provider asks you what you want, she may be trying to get you to verbalize the sexual things you are paying for. Don't answer that question with anything that is sexual in nature. Always establish the price before you meet! The more distance you put between the money exchange and the sexual act, the more you can argue that they were not related. That is why when I see a new girl, I always chat for about 10 minutes or more after $ is exchanged to get to know her or find some chemistry that works.

If you are in a room with cops being accused of PatProst, then they will likely be taking you to jail. What they want is to make you sweat so they can get more evidence out of you. Never, ever ever talk to the police when in this position. They want you to try to talk your way out of it. They want you to plead your case to them. They want you to confide in them as if they are your friend. Don't talk. Ask if you are being detained or arrested. Ask for your attorney AND invoke your 5th amendment right to silence. Do not talk even if you think you can talk the cops out of taking your picture and bringing you to jail. Don't say "I was just getting a massage." Say nada, nothing, zip other than detained, lawyer, silent. Not talking is not evidence that can be used against you, esp after you are being detained or arrested. If they are in the room with you, you can assume you are going to jail even if they don't have any good evidence on your activities. Don't give them more than they already have against you.

Good luck. Cops already know all this, so this is to inform you of what the cops already know. It will reduce your risk of being found guilty.

LTM.

[QUOTE=Tbone40;2071297]It's unfortunate that "the beautiful woman waiting" will probably never know how big a change you made and rededicated your life to her![/QUOTE]I don't know InFromBehind at all beyond his posts here. We've never exchanged so much as a PM BUT I have to say that I think that was a pretty cheap and utterly unnecessary shot.

We are all supposed to be here for the same reasons.

If he happened to find a woman he wants to settle down with, then good for him and good luck to him.

What business is it of yours? And why would you even be here if you weren't doing the same things the rest of us are?

[QUOTE=InFromBehind;2070776]After being on here a few years and playing around in this hobby I have had enough and will be moving on. There are several reasons but mostly I am not wanting to hurt the one I love by taking the risk of getting caught by LEO or taking something home to her. I had a lot of experiences with ladies I've meet on here some not so good and some great but none as good as the feeling of a beautiful woman waiting on me when I get home. I came to this conclusion after spending the weekend with a retired provider who has helped me get some things straightened out in my personal life. I can say that she is one of the best people I've ever meet and glad to call her a friend. I wish you guys well and may you find all the happiness in this hobby that you can, it just ran out for me and I understand why now.[/QUOTE]You've always provided insightful comments and I've appreciated the PMs that we have exchanged over time. Be sure to check back on occasion and let us know how you are doing.

Happy Hunting,

MilfMan.

[QUOTE=Anksgf;2071855]I don't know InFromBehind at all beyond his posts here. We've never exchanged so much as a PM BUT I have to say that I think that was a pretty cheap and utterly unnecessary shot.

We are all supposed to be here for the same reasons.

If he happened to find a woman he wants to settle down with, then good for him and good luck to him.

What business is it of yours? And why would you even be here if you weren't doing the same things the rest of us are?[/QUOTE]I didn't think that was a "cheap shot." I thought it was saying that when a man (or woman) makes a serious change for a person they care about that it's a commendable thing. Obviously, giving up the monger life might not be info to share with the woman you love, but it's a sign of commitment that she would appreciate under different circumstances.

All the best to you. I made the same decision once and stayed away for quite a while and I never regretted it. I used the time to get some things straight at home and in my head, and eventually came back because I felt it was a good decision FOR ME at that time in my life. If you do the same, or if you stay away because you never feel so inclined, I wish you good luck in the future.

Stay safe.

Shy.

[QUOTE=InFromBehind;2070776]After being on here a few years and playing around in this hobby I have had enough and will be moving on. There are several reasons but mostly I am not wanting to hurt the one I love by taking the risk of getting caught by LEO or taking something home to her. I had a lot of experiences with ladies I've meet on here some not so good and some great but none as good as the feeling of a beautiful woman waiting on me when I get home. I came to this conclusion after spending the weekend with a retired provider who has helped me get some things straightened out in my personal life. I can say that she is one of the best people I've ever meet and glad to call her a friend. I wish you guys well and may you find all the happiness in this hobby that you can, it just ran out for me and I understand why now.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mundane;2072147]I didn't think that was a "cheap shot." I thought it was saying that when a man (or woman) makes a serious change for a person they care about that it's a commendable thing. Obviously, giving up the monger life might not be info to share with the woman you love, but it's a sign of commitment that she would appreciate under different circumstances.[/QUOTE]Thanks Mundane for better stating my intent! InfromBehind is a better man then me.

[QUOTE=InFromBehind;2070776]After being on here a few years and playing around in this hobby I have had enough and will be moving on. There are several reasons but mostly I am not wanting to hurt the one I love by taking the risk of getting caught by LEO or taking something home to her. I had a lot of experiences with ladies I've meet on here some not so good and some great but none as good as the feeling of a beautiful woman waiting on me when I get home. I came to this conclusion after spending the weekend with a retired provider who has helped me get some things straightened out in my personal life. I can say that she is one of the best people I've ever meet and glad to call her a friend. I wish you guys well and may you find all the happiness in this hobby that you can, it just ran out for me and I understand why now.[/QUOTE]Good luck Buddy, I have walked away myself for the same reasons a few times, but true to form, I am a the kind of a-hole that can't stay on the straight and narrow for more than a few months anymore. I get a craving for strange and off I go. I wish you and your all of the joy in the world.

Nick.

[QUOTE=LoveTheMerch;2071662]There are several factors you must consider when going to a girl or having a girl come to you. Do you have a lot of valuables that are easily removed? If not, then I wouldn't worry too much about inviting them over. I believe it is much less of an LE risk to have a girl come to you. I think this because there is no opportunity for them to set up cameras, microphones and such devices that give them more evidence. This not to say that they couldn't be wearing a mic or a camera, but a lot harder to set up something like that. Because PatProst is just a misdemeanor, I doubt they would be so inclined to go to this length to get you. I think most stings or all stings in Knoxville are incall locations that cops have set up already to entrap you. This does not apply to streetwalker stings.

Either way you do it, if you never talk about sexual conduct and just "go with the flow" of the date and don't talk about the money, then they will not be able to "get you" as easily. They may still arrest you and detain you, but they are less likely to have the evidence they need to prosecute you. If the provider asks you what you want, she may be trying to get you to verbalize the sexual things you are paying for. Don't answer that question with anything that is sexual in nature. Always establish the price before you meet! The more distance you put between the money exchange and the sexual act, the more you can argue that they were not related. That is why when I see a new girl, I always chat for about 10 minutes or more after $ is exchanged to get to know her or find some chemistry that works.

If you are in a room with cops being accused of PatProst, then they will likely be taking you to jail. What they want is to make you sweat so they can get more evidence out of you. Never, ever ever talk to the police when in this position. They want you to try to talk your way out of it. They want you to plead your case to them. They want you to confide in them as if they are your friend. Don't talk. Ask if you are being detained or arrested. Ask for your attorney AND invoke your 5th amendment right to silence. Do not talk even if you think you can talk the cops out of taking your picture and bringing you to jail. Don't say "I was just getting a massage." Say nada, nothing, zip other than detained, lawyer, silent. Not talking is not evidence that can be used against you, esp after you are being detained or arrested. If they are in the room with you, you can assume you are going to jail even if they don't have any good evidence on your activities. Don't give them more than they already have against you.

Good luck. Cops already know all this, so this is to inform you of what the cops already know. It will reduce your risk of being found guilty.

LTM.[/QUOTE]I agree with all that is said. Silence is golden. Esp. When they are trying to coax you into talking by being friendly. They will say and act any way they think will make you relax and open your trap about the deed. Then when they got what they wanted to hear, They'll smile and wink to each other and arrest you if that has not been done yet.

Thanks for posting these tips. We all can use such advise, even we who have been in the hobby for years...

Damn Paula and FrankenMom are like the pied pipers of providers in Knoxville as her daughter always seems to find 1 or more girls to work with her. Currently it's Layla and I see Jay is back. I am guessing the fact they can satisfy their sweet tooth with candy must factor into why the Frankenclan attracts them like a magnet.

In the words of Dr. Dre " Attracting Honeys Like a Magnet".

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This is the ad where Jay is back.

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Hey guys, I am looking for my first ebony dream, any recommendations?

Again, thanks to BH and her gf. I'm done.

Guess last post didn't take. Blount honey more than compensated. Also have seen her with her partner. Good combo.

Thank you BH.

Anybody seen lately? Saw her on Merchant cpl nights ago.