This is why I don't eff with the SLU crew.
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/threads/worship-of-the-feminine-a-manifesto.3217795/[/URL]
As long as the members of that growing brothel share this mindset, I'm staying far away from them. Worship of the feminine? Good gawd. Is there anymore room in her ass with her and all the hobbits trying to gain brownie points stuffed up in there? I find women delightful and I'm not advocating being shitty to them. But, if you want this kind of connection from a provider, you're A) a sucker, B) in need of relationship therapy and C) probably overpaying and ruining the field for folks who want to bust a quick after work nut. PSA: THESE WOMEN ARE NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND / WIFE / PARTNER. No matter how you feel after, this shit is all transactional. And, just like you shouldn't worship Target or your auto mechanic, you shouldn't be worshipping anyone that you're paying. If you paid for it, it's not intimacy.
Seattle is a joke when it comes to hobbying.
Nothing wrong with connection
[QUOTE=LeeGroinman;7530376]Some guys like that sorta thing. Having more of a connection than a fuck and go transaction. Whole lot of different options to fill whatever the whim. Shop accordingly.[/QUOTE]And, you know what? Sometimes, I like that sort of thing, too! I talk a good game, but I'll cuddle and convo with a provider. That stuff feels good: human connection is great for the soul. If you're seeing a provider for human warmth and connection, I dig it. But, that's not the same as intimacy. You can get connection in a lot of places. Hell, you can feel connected to a rando at a bar you had a good chat with. Still, if a provider makes you feel that, give her your cash if you want to. My frustration with this piece is that you have a woman who charges 700 for an hour with her because that's the "cost of intimacy". The cost of intimacy is time, communication, and effort: shit a lot of us get into the hobby to AVOID. The only things shit like this does is convince hobbyists that this is what a "good" session is and what it costs and convince providers that you can be average AF and charge whatever you like because you are a special flower with a unique, special choocie. Are you seeing MandyWood for intimacy? Likely not. But, her rates are climbing just like the rest of them. See a provider for whatever (non-toxic) reasons you want. But, don't let someone piss in your wallet and tell you it's raining intimacy.
Sedonaparker - Good Guy Gone Bad Alert
I'm assuming that quite a few of you have see the following alert, but the gist of it is that this guy apparently got hooked on this provider and admitted to paying her over $10,000 in a month. He bought luxury hotel rooms and AirBnBs to hang-out with her all night and watch TV, cook and socialize. He claims he left a backpack with $3K in her room and she lifted the $3K in addition to her shorting his time.
If this guy has money to blow then good on him, seriously. He did something right. The problem is that he could have blown it in a more worthwhile manner than buying a 19 year-old's time to hang-out with her. Scenarios such as this one [I]always[/I] seems to end-up going bad, am I right? I've never been tempted to do anything like this at all. He could have spent much less money just spending an hour with her and getting-off. Well, maybe. A look at her profile suggests that she basically doesn't do anything -.
"Topics I hate discussing: I ONLY offer what's listed above BB Anything BBFSCIM COB COF DATO DATY DFK Facials".
I don't understand why guys waste money on providers like her. And a lot of money, too. To make matters worse, they seem to want to [I]hang-out for considerable blocks of time[/I] with them. I have a young regular I see on a regular basis now, she's nice but she's always on her phone and other young gal BS, she puts-out really well which is why I see her but socially she's a brick with lips, like a [i]lot[/i] of young women her age. Of course I realize that not every young female is the same, but i've been doing this long enough to know that the ones who are different are a rarity. I would have zero desire to want to spend more time with her after I ejaculate. I don't understand why guys want to spend huge chunks of time and money on gals like this but that's me.
Or perhaps i'm the odd one? Is it me? I don't get it.
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/threads/good-guy-gone-bad.3224041/[/URL]
Why chase Sedonaparker or any provder?
[QUOTE=Hoballer;7539274]I'm assuming that quite a few of you have see the following alert, but the gist of it is that this guy apparently got hooked on this provider and admitted to paying her over $10,000 in a month. He bought luxury hotel rooms and AirBnBs to hang-out with her all night and watch TV, cook and socialize. He claims he left a backpack with $3K in her room and she lifted the $3K in addition to her shorting his time.
Scenarios such as this one [I]always[/I] seems to end-up going bad, am I right? I've never been tempted to do anything like this at all.
I don't understand why guys waste money on providers like her. And a lot of money, too. To make matters worse, they seem to want to [I]hang-out for considerable blocks of time[/I] with them.
Or perhaps i'm the odd one? Is it me? I don't get it.
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/threads/good-guy-gone-bad.3224041/[/URL][/QUOTE]I [I]think[/I] I get it. Based on the back and forth in that alert, it sounds like they developed feelings for each other. Granted, it's not based in reality. They both take a vacation from real life: no bins to take to the curb, no poopy diapers to change, no laundry to wash and fold, no house maintenance projects, no groceries to buy, no doctor appointments, etc. Sure, it's great to hang out with a fun and sexy person! But, like Hoballer, most of us recognize it's a fantasy.
You all don't owe me shit. But I'm hopeful somebody pulls me back from the abyss if I ever fall into the spiral that ColdPablo encountered.
