Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=NerdJohn;3968733][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/38776799-9868-4832-9e46-19ac9481a44d[/URL]

Saw this lady today. More petite than I thought, so great if you're into the spinner type. Donation was reasonable. Head game was not on the menu, and movement and emotions were mechanical.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=UrTexasBiker;3968820]This has been messaging me last few days and can't seem to find anything.

Pic seem familiar, any info on her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/38776799-9868-4832-9e46-19ac9481a44d[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lemonader;3968916]She was on backpage once upon a time. I personally have not seen her but remember a limited menu.[/QUOTE]She was definitely on BP in early 2018 and didn't have favorable reviews back then. Not the way that I would choose to use a premium SA account by scooping up BP and CL refugees, but to each his own. And wouldn't you know it. ,. , adding another Amber to the list.

Stay safe,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=Muffbuster69;3968315]I tried that this morning I simply told her I was looking for arrangement where I took care of her and she takes care if me something mutually beneficial for both of us, she reported me and blocked me LOL,.[/QUOTE]I was responding to muffbuster because I understood he had already made a deal with her. It sounds to me as if you were not that far along and even if you had been I don't think you said what I advised muffbuster to ask. It's very seldom that this girl will do full service. I've never met own her to kiss even and a BJ is laughable. 99 times out of 100 she will gill a shitty massage and a jerk and that's it. That is why I advised muffbuster to ask specific questions about what she will and will not do. It might turn out that once you know what she offers you won't even want it.

Fit.

[QUOTE=FitDaddy3;3969048]I was responding to muffbuster because I understood he had already made a deal with her. It sounds to me as if you were not that far along and even if you had been I don't think you said what I advised muffbuster to ask. It's very seldom that this girl will do full service. I've never met own her to kiss even and a BJ is laughable. 99 times out of 100 she will gill a shitty massage and a jerk and that's it. That is why I advised muffbuster to ask specific questions about what she will and will not do. It might turn out that once you know what she offers you won't even want it.

Fit.[/QUOTE]Yeah I'm not sure about this one. We've been messaging on alternate messanger service and she says she was down to play and open menu excluding greek but did like it played with. She sent several pics from neck down showing all the goods and one in swimsuit showing face but Fit is right that its not the same girl in profile pic but is attractive. She asked me to meetup last night but I was unavailable. She however did not give a specific donation required.

[QUOTE=Muffbuster69;3968252]My seeking account was just suspended said I violated their rules LOL,At least I got 23 numbers before they got me, Be careful as they got me and I never actually came out and asked for anything, I was actually offered more than I ever ask about.[/QUOTE]I've heard about dudes getting banned, but I still couldn't understand how it happens in practice (like I can't understand how dudes still get cashed and dashed). Chances are that the dudes didn't do anything wrong with the communication in the first place (the AI needs to be properly trained); SA says no refunds but you can dispute the charge. I've had conversations with several mongers about this and it seems impossible to get banned .,., for the communication violations at least .,., with a slight PM-procedural modification.

After anyone messages you, the conversation should immediately be taken offline (not just SA, but any other "dating" site with direct message). Simply provide a burner email address, burner phone number, burner handles for popular messaging apps (hopefully encrypted), and any other disposable information she needs to get in contact with you outside of SA. If you let your account lapse from Premium mode, she still has the message with your contact info. Even dudes who have the preset number of free PMs to send before getting a Premium account have their messages scanned for contact info and those are not delivered; that lets you know that sending contact info immediately is the way to go.

Furthermore, if you initiate the conversation, use the same template with all of your contact info in it so that she never has to contact you on the site at all. The AI bots are busy scouring the messages for anything that looks like a violation then passing it along to humans who simply rubber stamps the offenses. SA is in a major mode to cover its arse as the CEO is on video stating that SA will cooperate with LEO in any way necessary after the FOSTA/SESTA legislation passed (giving up info without any push-back at all).

Interestingly, you can embed your contact information in the profile itself and you will still have a flood of fresh contacts long after you have ended your Premium membership.

Happy Hunting,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3969242]I've heard about dudes getting banned, but I still couldn't understand how it happens in practice (like I can't understand how dudes still get cashed and dashed). I've had conversations with several mongers about this and it seems impossible to get banned .,., for the communication violations at least .,., with a slight PM-procedural modification.

After anyone messages you, the conversation should immediately be taken offline (not just SA, but any other "dating" site with direct message). Simply provide a burner email address, burner phone number, burner handles for popular messaging apps (hopefully encrypted), and any other disposable information she needs to get in contact with you outside of SA. If you let your account lapse from Premium mode, she still has the message with your contact info. Even dudes who have the preset number of free PMs to send before getting a Premium account have their messages scanned for contact info and those are not delivered; that lets you know that sending contact info immediately is the way to go.

Furthermore, if you initiate the conversation, use the same template with all of your contact info in it so that she never has to contact you on the site at all. The AI bots are busy scouring the messages for anything that looks like a violation then passing it along to a human who simply rubber stamps the offense. SA is in a major mode to cover its arse and the owner is on video stating that SA will cooperate with LEO in any way after the legislation passed (giving up info without any push-back at all).

Interestingly, you can embed your contact information in the profile itself and you will still have a flood of fresh contacts long after you have ended your Premium membership.

Happy Hunting,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]865 girl reported me and all I did was tell her I take care of her and she take care of me,She is another one I just mark up as her loss because she could have made some good money, So on to the next one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e78fddb8-2384-465a-9492-e0bb11df68d0[/URL]

Any one want to share info on this one?

OMG pics do not do her justice.

Met this one recently and had some fun. Short and thick, head was soso. The prize was in the pudding. She really could throw it back into you. Liked the dirty talk too. Will probably see again. Was looking for 2 but negotiation is the key.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8e7ff8b1-5773-4066-bfcb-6e282753b95c[/URL]

She gave me the number and block me. Told me to text to number but turned out it wasn't her. So I guess this is someone else is using the girl pics and playing game. Anybody talk to this one?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f26d04b-236c-4459-b992-b36cfe5fb4e0[/URL]

Saw her not too long ago. Nice girl overall. A bit of a hippie, and a huge freak. I'm not into kinks, but she repeatedly let me know that all sorts of fetishes were on the menu. Head game was strong. Pics are accurate. Definitely worth a visit. Claims to not be a high volume provider, so she's looking for a consistent daddy over many clients. In call was available after extensive texting and building trust. Donation was $$, and I can honestly say it was well spent on this one.

[QUOTE=AsiansBoy;3970294][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8e7ff8b1-5773-4066-bfcb-6e282753b95c[/URL]

She gave me the number and block me. Told me to text to number but turned out it wasn't her. So I guess this is someone else is using the girl pics and playing game. Anybody talk to this one?[/QUOTE]I was curious about that one, I did meet one of the new ones yesterday listed as no name right now. Pretty face, but body was not average as listed curvy at best but a lot of fun.

Wants 2 a visit but negotiable.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3969242]I've heard about dudes getting banned, but I still couldn't understand how it happens in practice (like I can't understand how dudes still get cashed and dashed). Chances are that the dudes didn't do anything wrong with the communication in the first place (the AI needs to be properly trained); SA says no refunds but you can dispute the charge. I've had conversations with several mongers about this and it seems impossible to get banned .,., for the communication violations at least .,., with a slight PM-procedural modification[/QUOTE]Everything Milfman said is correct and sage advice. Although I recently got suspended (banned) and couldn't figure out why. I am always careful about not saying certain things, and all of the things MILF laid out in his post. So after a painful process of getting to the right person it turns out it's because I used a credit card that I recently had to cancel do to charges showing up suddenly that were not me. And I quickly realized my card was comprimised. In the mix of all that (and since they were all online charges) SA's long confusing billing name was swept up in that freeze. So SA sees it as I was using a stolen card, when it was actually the opposite. However, after much headache and not too much joyful attempts with SA, I really wasn't up for getting an entire dialogue going with Chase and SA with me in the middle. I just assume start another profile and keep that scene a low profile. LOL. Regardless, since I was not expecting it, I never took screenshots of phone numbers sent to me and lost any that I hadn't already contacted. Maybe this helps someone in the future. If you are about to cancel a card because of fraud, change your SA payment card ASAP! On a side note- I thought it was funny when they quickly took the A out of SA, to "legitimize" the site. So, "arrangement" is too "dark web" these days? Fuck FOSTA and all those who signed it into law. Geez.

Been watching the post and wanted to relay my SA experiences as a guy that has been a member for some time. For me the hit it and quit it types seem unfulfilling and just not my style. I look for the girls that actually want a consistent SD. The sweet spot I found is around the 29 year old range. Out of college, but not yet in to the bitter old woman stage. I am in my mid 40's and married. When I first tried SA I hooked up with a college girl that just turned 21 and it was a disaster. She was always late and never knew exactly what she wanted it lasted 6 months and I have found memories and still communicate with her occasionally and wish her the best.

After that I met an amazing women who was 29 and had a successful job running a boutique in Knoxville. She was just tired of the dating scene of guys her age. I paid for lunches and once paid off a few speeding tickets but besides that I gave her $150-$200 when we met and it was always a good time. We talked about me helping her remodel her condo but soon she left to take a job out of state. Fun while it lasted and I still talk to her when she visits family back in Knoxville.

I rejoined SA and couldn't find anyone but just as my membership was going to expire I sent out a few random messages just to see who bit and found a wonderful woman who wrote a thoughtful response and we started seeing each other. This woman was an administrator at a local office had her head on straight and was just great on the looks scale a 9 or 10 for sure. She was tired of the dating scene and didn't have the time or energy for a conventional relationship. We dated for two great years. We kept in contact every few hours and really "dated" as much as my situation allowed. During the time we were together I helped her move from a place she had a roommate to her own apartment. We saw each other 3-7 times a week and always had a great time. I gave her $1,300.00 per month and of course spoiled her for holidays and when I could. Eventually she wanted to get back to the dating scene and she and I parted ways. We loved each other and had a great connection and still hurts today to have lost her. I am sure we will keep in touch as time goes by and maybe if she loses faith in guys her age again we will rekindle a friendship or more.

After a month or two of the getting over her I signed up again and had a few dates that were mostly women wanting money for sex and older women bitching about ex-husbands I stumbled on a profile that hadn't been active in a month or so but looked intriguing. I took a chance messaged her and got a response. This woman had recently gotten out of a relationship and was looking for guidance and help. So far so good. We talk every few hours and always know what each other is doing / planning for the day and building a great connection. I pay her rent which is under $1,000.00 a month and we see each other a few times a week. She is pretty close to my work and were I live and I have a key to her place (on her insistence). I have helped her get some furniture and of course spoil her. It is looking promising but I am being more cautious because I am still sore from the last one. She is certainly a 10 in looks.

I enjoy the chase and the lasting relationships more than I enjoy the random sex and hook-ups with different women. For most cases f I wasn't married I could go to the local bar and pick-up a different girl every night. I could also have many affairs with women in my social circle and not have to pay for anything. I chose this route because its safer and we can deal with the rules up front and with no prior connections it is way less conspicuous for my marriage. Just putting this out here for anyone that is looking for a similar arrangement and saying that all girls from the site are not just looking for money for sex and some are looking for actual SD's that can have lasting emotional relationships. I might follow up with a few other ones I have talked to and looking for similar relationships, but for now I am glad I found one I am with.

Good luck with whichever you chose.

[QUOTE=EasyComeEasygo;3970116]Met this one recently and had some fun. Short and thick, head was soso. The prize was in the pudding. She really could throw it back into you. Liked the dirty talk too. Will probably see again. Was looking for 2 but negotiation is the key.[/QUOTE]I've been talking to her about meeting this weekend, how short and thick are we talking here, I like them with some meat on them but not to much meat, Thanks.

[QUOTE=Muffbuster69;3971383]I've been talking to her about meeting this weekend, how short and thick are we talking here, I like them with some meat on them but not to much meat, Thanks.[/QUOTE]I've seen her before. She was on the maximum end of the spectrum of the line between "thick" and "fat. " Still worth a visit if you can keep the donation around $.

[QUOTE=FastCars1966;3971026]I was curious about that one, I did meet one of the new ones yesterday listed as no name right now. Pretty face, but body was not average as listed curvy at best but a lot of fun.

Wants 2 a visit but negotiable.[/QUOTE]Sounds like one I've been talking to past cpl days. Thick Blonde only been on a few days. If your ok with a few details with her via pm, I would apprechiate. Thanks.