General Reports

[QUOTE=Hat487;3043705]Thanks for the feedback Jeepster and Bankshot. You guys brought up a few points I have not considered. I travel every week so I am looking for a good and safe system to facilitate the hobby on the road. And find some more options when home. I may give the trial of P411 a shot unless the app process gets too intrusive. Like most, anonymity is a priority for me so we'll see.

Hat.[/QUOTE]I have been a member of both of these sites for a while. The DateCheck site has not been as productive as the P411 site. Anonymity is also very important to me, but with these you will have to take a little bit of a leap of faith. They both do ask a lot of very specific questions, and P411 will definitely call you at work unless you can be verified by existing providers. However, when they do call, you have already given them what to say when they call. You tell them who to say they are and what they want. I was very apprehensive about the whole process, but it turned out to be very easy. The P411 girls are typically have higher donations, but they are usually higher quality and way more reliable than most girls. It definitely gives you a little piece of mind that the provider you are going to see is real and not LEO. I hope the earlier info on DateCheck redoing their website and getting rid of old profiles is correct because it does not provide the needed up to date info that you would want. Overall, I would say that the P411 site is helpful, and the DateCheck site may be after they update it.

Be safe!

GPM.

Just spent 3 hours on my bday looking at profiles on a know fetish site. What a complete waste of time for a sub male. Was recommended to look there for my likes but mostly old old profiles or not what I want. Lots of big fat femdoms LOL. Mostly sub girls and Dom guys looking for sub girls. No way to search for exactly what your looking for so have to go through 333 pages of profiles. So lesson learned and I'm sticking to USASG from now on. Just hate wasted time there but not finding my birthday present to my self anywhere else so tied. Oh well time running out so back to my search. LOL. Will keep why'all posted. Sad thing is the one I thought I could count on cause have played for years just seems to busy with life now.

[QUOTE=KinkyMemphism;3042433]Tomorrow is my birthday and was hoping to find two spinners who love a lot of daty and openminded. Also non clock watches, allow multi pops and can play in the morning for a little while. Really was hoping to vet someone before so I might feel comfy enough for maybe some light bondage and more. I was hoping to find girls who want their pleasure as much if not more than mine. Even couple girls who find it fun to take out frustrations on me along with some humiliation. But I didn't have any luck and although there are several on BP I'm interested in I'm not ready to take that risk unless a senior I know well verifies them. Looks like it's going to be a Sh--why birthday again this year and I should just goto work.

Sorry just venting and now most who didn't know some of my kinks do now but at this point don't care cause tired of broken promises by girls who say they are into it but really are not. But who knows still have 24 hrs and miracles do happen.[/QUOTE]Happy Birthday Kink!

[QUOTE=Concrete2;3041724]I have a girl who is 20, blonde, really cute, in need. She is a rank rookie who is a bit shy.

There will be a vetting process. Meeting at a public location will also be needed. The first meeting will be with me. Weekly expected outlay is 4-600.

Anyone interested?

Crete.[/QUOTE]Dammit. Broke for awhile and too many others depending on me at the moment.

[QUOTE=Concrete2;3041724]I have a girl who is 20, blonde, really cute, in need. She is a rank rookie who is a bit shy.

There will be a vetting process. Meeting at a public location will also be needed. The first meeting will be with me. Weekly expected outlay is 4-600.

Anyone interested?

Crete.[/QUOTE]I replied to your PM but never heard back from you. Did they fill up your mail box.

[QUOTE=Secretshoppa;3044367]Happy Birthday Kink![/QUOTE]Thanks for wishing me a happy birthday. I just wish I had some juicy details to post but the day ended up being a bust. A lot of it was my fault because I was holding out hoping to find two kinky girls but never could. I think if I had concentrated on just one I would've been better off.

Oh and Mimi thanks for the text an offer for you to be my birthday present but at that time I was out of time.

If anyone has a mature utr provider that they are will to share, please PM. I am looking for a well seasoned lady that will enjoy some attention. Thanks in advance, Dogg.

[QUOTE=Concrete2;3041724]I have a girl who is 20, blonde, really cute, in need. She is a rank rookie who is a bit shy.

There will be a vetting process. Meeting at a public location will also be needed. The first meeting will be with me. Weekly expected outlay is 4-600.

Anyone interested?

Crete.[/QUOTE]Hi Crete,

This is Steve. You know you set me up with Tara.

I would like to part take your new find. Please.

Let me know.

Steve.

Hey guys. I'm sitting here at the Love's waiting on a provider to respond to me. A van just pulled up and several men hot out with wired ear pieces, some got into a blush for 250 others into different cars. They all just pulled out. Just doesn't look right to me. Maybe a bust going down. Be careful guys.

[QUOTE=BadLuck;3046715]Hey guys. I'm sitting here at the Love's waiting on a provider to respond to me. A van just pulled up and several men hot out with wired ear pieces, some got into a blush for 250 others into different cars. They all just pulled out. Just doesn't look right to me. Maybe a bust going down. Be careful guys.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up.

[QUOTE=Hentai;3047118]Thanks for the heads up.[/QUOTE]I passed the track this afternoon and I think Shelby Lamar was out walking from mapco towards loves.

Glad to see you guys still being active, I'm a very cautious and paranoid old fart, so I don't have the nerve now. But happy for the guys that are still dipping and tipping.

[QUOTE=BigBoiTerry;3048022]Glad to see you guys still being active, I'm a very cautious and paranoid old fart, so I don't have the nerve now. But happy for the guys that are still dipping and tipping.[/QUOTE]Exactly why I only see 2-3 girls that I can trust. I too am a paranoid old fart.

I'm seeking opinions on how long are you willing to wait on a provider. I had a time set with one of the well known providers a few days ago. She asked me to contact her when I was ten minutes away, which I did. I got a text back from her saying that she needed an extra ten minutes from our appt time. I'm thinking maybe she needs to shower, douche, whatever, no big deal. I can wait an extra ten minutes. So I arrive close to her location, give it an extra ten minutes or so, and then contact her to see if she's ready. I get a text back saying her current appt has ran over and she needs more time, but he is about to leave and she will let me know when the coast is clear. So here I am, sitting in a strange place, wondering if dude has left yet, wondering if she has taken the time to shower and freshen up, wondering how much longer it will be, etc. . So twenty five minutes later after no contact and also seeing three unmarked cars cruise by, I decide to bail. As I'm leaving, I see the provider causally strolling from another place of business back to her motel room. I'm setting out here waiting all this time and she wasn't even freaking there. Then about 10 minutes later after I have already bailed, I get a text saying she's ready. I tell her I got tired of waiting and had already left. Now my phone is blowing up, first offering me "specials" if I will come back, then cussing me out for leaving when I tell her I'm not. WTF!!

Hammer.

[QUOTE=HammerGuy;3049532]I'm seeking opinions on how long are you willing to wait on a provider. I had a time set with one of the well known providers a few days ago. She asked me to contact her when I was ten minutes away, which I did. I got a text back from her saying that she needed an extra ten minutes from our appt time. I'm thinking maybe she needs to shower, douche, whatever, no big deal. I can wait an extra ten minutes. So I arrive close to her location, give it an extra ten minutes or so, and then contact her to see if she's ready. I get a text back saying her current appt has ran over and she needs more time, but he is about to leave and she will let me know when the coast is clear. So here I am, sitting in a strange place, wondering if dude has left yet, wondering if she has taken the time to shower and freshen up, wondering how much longer it will be, etc. . So twenty five minutes later after no contact and also seeing three unmarked cars cruise by, I decide to bail. As I'm leaving, I see the provider causally strolling from another place of business back to her motel room. I'm setting out here waiting all this time and she wasn't even freaking there. Then about 10 minutes later after I have already bailed, I get a text saying she's ready. I tell her I got tired of waiting and had already left. Now my phone is blowing up, first offering me "specials" if I will come back, then cussing me out for leaving when I tell her I'm not. WTF!!

Hammer.[/QUOTE]My rule is 10 mins. After all, we pay them. There are always other options.

[QUOTE=HammerGuy;3049532]I'm seeking opinions on how long are you willing to wait on a provider. I had a time set with one of the well known providers a few days ago. She asked me to contact her when I was ten minutes away, which I did. I got a text back from her saying that she needed an extra ten minutes from our appt time. I'm thinking maybe she needs to shower, douche, whatever, no big deal. I can wait an extra ten minutes. So I arrive close to her location, give it an extra ten minutes or so, and then contact her to see if she's ready. I get a text back saying her current appt has ran over and she needs more time, but he is about to leave and she will let me know when the coast is clear. So here I am, sitting in a strange place, wondering if dude has left yet, wondering if she has taken the time to shower and freshen up, wondering how much longer it will be, etc. . So twenty five minutes later after no contact and also seeing three unmarked cars cruise by, I decide to bail. As I'm leaving, I see the provider causally strolling from another place of business back to her motel room. I'm setting out here waiting all this time and she wasn't even freaking there. Then about 10 minutes later after I have already bailed, I get a text saying she's ready. I tell her I got tired of waiting and had already left. Now my phone is blowing up, first offering me "specials" if I will come back, then cussing me out for leaving when I tell her I'm not. WTF!!

Hammer.[/QUOTE]Hi Hammer.

I am not happy to see providers right after someone's session. Many cases her V was already loosen by previous guy. If she did not take shower, I would leave. Sometimes, I gave her a small donation for sorry. When I saw a lot of used towels, I am also discouraged. Many providers found in BP do not care those and want to meet the number of guys in a single day. Some girl I liked used to say I am the first of today, so my V is tight. Who trusts? But, I am pleased to hear that phrase. Unless providers are out for shopping, or just arrived from other city, I will not wait more than 10 min. Bug.

[QUOTE=HammerGuy;3049532]I'm seeking opinions on how long are you willing to wait on a provider. I had a time set with one of the well known providers a few days ago. She asked me to contact her when I was ten minutes away, which I did. I got a text back from her saying that she needed an extra ten minutes from our appt time. I'm thinking maybe she needs to shower, douche, whatever, no big deal. I can wait an extra ten minutes. So I arrive close to her location, give it an extra ten minutes or so, and then contact her to see if she's ready. I get a text back saying her current appt has ran over and she needs more time, but he is about to leave and she will let me know when the coast is clear. So here I am, sitting in a strange place, wondering if dude has left yet, wondering if she has taken the time to shower and freshen up, wondering how much longer it will be, etc. . So twenty five minutes later after no contact and also seeing three unmarked cars cruise by, I decide to bail. As I'm leaving, I see the provider causally strolling from another place of business back to her motel room. I'm setting out here waiting all this time and she wasn't even freaking there. Then about 10 minutes later after I have already bailed, I get a text saying she's ready. I tell her I got tired of waiting and had already left. Now my phone is blowing up, first offering me "specials" if I will come back, then cussing me out for leaving when I tell her I'm not. WTF!!

Hammer.[/QUOTE]10 minutes max. After all arrangements are made, I confirm with a text eta & voice call. I always arrive early to scope out the area (just for my paranoia / safety). If the provider goes dark / doesn't answer and 10 minutes go by. I start making other arrangements. Let's face it, we are pumped up & ready to go. Having agreed & driven to a place. I'm not happy with a missed / delayed apt.

Venom gave me the silent treatment yesterday, I aint hanging around that area long. Made the fast dash over to Jasmine's place & saw Nydia for Relief. LOL.

Old Spice.

Answering Hammer's how long to wait poll:

One of my problems is I have usually driven from my downtown office to some eastern or southern part of town, and I hate to waste the trip. I also try to schedule time to grab a small bite of lunch while out. So, when I get the "not ready" message, I swing into a McDonalds or something and order lunch to go, but sit in the restaurant and eat. If the "ready now" comes quickly, I take the rest of the lunch with me to eat on the drive back to the office. I pop a mint and head to the incall. As for time of wait, 10 minutes after I get my lunch, I begin calling other girls to see if one of them is available now in that general area. If yes, I tell the first one, "sorry couldn't wait. " If not successful on a replacement date, I finish my lunch and leave, which is generally about 10-15 more minutes. Also, on the first "not ready call" I generally casually say "Oh, if you're with another guy, don't rush him, I know I hate to be rushed. " Believe it or not, they usually answer in a way that makes it pretty obvious if they are with someone already. And, if I think they are, I really don't want to follow that right away, and I don't want to see a girl who takes calls in the middle of appointments.

[QUOTE=GenioDan;3049546]My rule is 10 mins. After all, we pay them. There are always other options.[/QUOTE]I totally agree. Who was it?

Mendal,your post was dead on. That's the way to look at things.

Hammer, post who did the BS stuff. Maybe we can cut off her cash flow and maybe, just maybe she would get the hint.

[QUOTE=HammerGuy;3049532]I'm seeking opinions on how long are you willing to wait on a provider. I had a time set with one of the well known providers a few days ago. She asked me to contact her when I was ten minutes away, which I did. I got a text back from her saying that she needed an extra ten minutes from our appt time. I'm thinking maybe she needs to shower, douche, whatever, no big deal. I can wait an extra ten minutes. So I arrive close to her location, give it an extra ten minutes or so, and then contact her to see if she's ready. I get a text back saying her current appt has ran over and she needs more time, but he is about to leave and she will let me know when the coast is clear. So here I am, sitting in a strange place, wondering if dude has left yet, wondering if she has taken the time to shower and freshen up, wondering how much longer it will be, etc. . So twenty five minutes later after no contact and also seeing three unmarked cars cruise by, I decide to bail. As I'm leaving, I see the provider causally strolling from another place of business back to her motel room. I'm setting out here waiting all this time and she wasn't even freaking there. Then about 10 minutes later after I have already bailed, I get a text saying she's ready. I tell her I got tired of waiting and had already left. Now my phone is blowing up, first offering me "specials" if I will come back, then cussing me out for leaving when I tell her I'm not. WTF!!

Hammer.[/QUOTE]I'm a bit curious about the unmarked LE and her coming from another location. Do you think she could have flipped?

[QUOTE=OutdoorMan;3050043]I totally agree. Who was it?[/QUOTE]Let me just say this. She is a provider that advertises regularly on USA and I've had some nice dreams with her in the past, but she has also flaked on me and others on this board before. I am not ready to call her out by name just yet, but I will if I don't get a very reasonable explanation very soon. To be continued. . .

Hammer.

[QUOTE=TnTornado;3050160]I'm a bit curious about the unmarked LE and her coming from another location. Do you think she could have flipped?[/QUOTE]I don't think that was the case. Just a bad spot and I think they had someone else on their mind because they all kept going and never came back through while I was waiting about 40 minutes.

Hammer.

[QUOTE=SweetBug;3049570]Hi Hammer.

I am not happy to see providers right after someone's session. Many cases her V was already loosen by previous guy. If she did not take shower, I would leave. Sometimes, I gave her a small donation for sorry. When I saw a lot of used towels, I am also discouraged. Many providers found in BP do not care those and want to meet the number of guys in a single day. Some girl I liked used to say I am the first of today, so my V is tight. Who trusts? But, I am pleased to hear that phrase. Unless providers are out for shopping, or just arrived from other city, I will not wait more than 10 min. Bug.[/QUOTE]The was one of the main reasons I stopped seeing Cara. She would hold you up with "almost there" when literally I knew she was at the place because I had stopped by earlier because I had some time to kill and saw her ride drop her off but she didn't see me in the parking lot. Before she even gave me the room number I was in the right place to see a dude come out and I basically bailed out as I knew she wasn't going to be horny and I would just been wasting my donation on a flat experience. Literally waited around for almost an hour to see all this unfold in front of my eyes and kinda laughed to myself how careless she was in her lies. Needless to say it was a big turnoff.

I understand this is a biz but if I am a semi reg I should get first dibs of the day. Especially since I bought a brand new battery for her ride as she was stranded after a session our first time and didn't even ask her to give me a dream at discount.

For the new guys...

This is just a warning to the nice guys, don't go above the call of duty or wait on these girls "schedules" even if you think it will help your cause later. Things change so much on a day to day basis for these girls that loyalty is almost nonexistent. After maybe 6 months yeah, but don't start doing favors on the front end even if the session was good. It will cloud your judgement to providers that turn out to be subpar longterm or even by the next session lol.

These kind of little favors add up and you can get careless with your cash all in the name of the rush and experience of it all. I added up all the extra favors I did for girls since last October and it was pretty much the down payment on a 2016 car. Yes it can get to that point gentleman, especially the single guys who aren't use to high quality trim in their dating life. As Depp said in Fear and Loathing "The tendency is to take it as far is it can go". Looking back id much rather be in that new car right now in the Memphis heat with some cold ass AC blowing and bluetooth/onstar everything than worried if some girl sucking some other guys cock at this moment thought I was "sweet" for doing what I did.

Basically,experience is worth alot on something so underground as this to me so I don't take that learning curve negatively. But to some of the guys, just don't feel like an asshole for saying no and you can most of the times prevent the mistakes I did by realizing your not "really" the last hope to these girls if they are in a jam. Also realize the true assholes are the pimps,beaters and needle pushers to these girls. Also there are so many experiences around the corner that could work in your favor more with what your comfortable doing with an even hotter chick. I've had it happen many times so just shoot straight and don't go directly after another guy if you can help it lol

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[QUOTE=HighTide;3050426]The was one of the main reasons I stopped seeing Cara. She would hold you up with "almost there" when literally I knew she was at the place because I had stopped by earlier because I had some time to kill and saw her ride drop her off but she didn't see me in the parking lot. Before she even gave me the room number I was in the right place to see a dude come out and I basically bailed out as I knew she wasn't going to be horny and I would just been wasting my donation on a flat experience. Literally waited around for almost an hour to see all this unfold in front of my eyes and kinda laughed to myself how careless she was in her lies. Needless to say it was a big turnoff.

I understand this is a biz but if I am a semi reg I should get first dibs of the day. Especially since I bought a brand new battery for her ride as she was stranded after a session our first time and didn't even ask her to give me a dream at discount.

For the new guys...

This is just a warning to the nice guys, don't go above the call of duty or wait on these girls "schedules" even if you think it will help your cause later. Things change so much on a day to day basis for these girls that loyalty is almost nonexistent. After maybe 6 months yeah, but don't start doing favors on the front end even if the session was good. It will cloud your judgement to providers that turn out to be subpar longterm or even by the next session lol.

These kind of little favors add up and you can get careless with your cash all in the name of the rush and experience of it all. I added up all the extra favors I did for girls since last October and it was pretty much the down payment on a 2016 car. Yes it can get to that point gentleman, especially the single guys who aren't use to high quality trim in their dating life. As Depp said in Fear and Loathing "The tendency is to take it as far is it can go". Looking back id much rather be in that new car right now in the Memphis heat with some cold ass AC blowing and bluetooth/onstar everything than worried if some girl sucking some other guys cock at this moment thought I was "sweet" for doing what I did.

Basically,experience is worth alot on something so underground as this to me so I don't take that learning curve negatively. But to some of the guys, just don't feel like an asshole for saying no and you can most of the times prevent the mistakes I did by realizing your not "really" the last hope to these girls if they are in a jam. Also realize the true assholes are the pimps,beaters and needle pushers to these girls. Also there are so many experiences around the corner that could work in your favor more with what your comfortable doing with an even hotter chick. I've had it happen many times so just shoot straight and don't go directly after another guy if you can help it lol[/QUOTE]Is this the Cara your talking about? My question was did her pussy smell? A lot of the girls will douch between dates and wash off half ass in the tub with a rag so they are semi fresh. But if girl has a smelly one I don't have time for her. I have been thinking of seeing this Cara but now not so sure.

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[QUOTE=KinkyMemphism;3050671]Is this the Cara your talking about? My question was did her pussy smell? A lot of the girls will douch between dates and wash off half ass in the tub with a rag so they are semi fresh. But if girl has a smelly one I don't have time for her. I have been thinking of seeing this Cara but now not so sure.

[URL]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/naughty-sexy-and-tight/16804665[/URL][/QUOTE]I have seen her before. She lives in southeaven with a 'roommate'. I think she does outcalls mostly (at least with me). When I saw her, she was clean with no smell.

[QUOTE=GenioDan;3050697]I have seen her before. She lives in southeaven with a 'roommate'. I think she does outcalls mostly (at least with me). When I saw her, she was clean with no smell.[/QUOTE]When I visited her, she didn't appear to have a roommate, but she does have kids. When I last seen her, I had to wait for her to drop off her kids at her parents. She was also clean as well, but the room was filled with smoke.

Very well said.

[QUOTE=HighTide;3050426]The was one of the main reasons I stopped seeing Cara. She would hold you up with "almost there" when literally I knew she was at the place because I had stopped by earlier because I had some time to kill and saw her ride drop her off but she didn't see me in the parking lot. Before she even gave me the room number I was in the right place to see a dude come out and I basically bailed out as I knew she wasn't going to be horny and I would just been wasting my donation on a flat experience. Literally waited around for almost an hour to see all this unfold in front of my eyes and kinda laughed to myself how careless she was in her lies. Needless to say it was a big turnoff.

I understand this is a biz but if I am a semi reg I should get first dibs of the day. Especially since I bought a brand new battery for her ride as she was stranded after a session our first time and didn't even ask her to give me a dream at discount.

For the new guys...

This is just a warning to the nice guys, don't go above the call of duty or wait on these girls "schedules" even if you think it will help your cause later. Things change so much on a day to day basis for these girls that loyalty is almost nonexistent. After maybe 6 months yeah, but don't start doing favors on the front end even if the session was good. It will cloud your judgement to providers that turn out to be subpar longterm or even by the next session lol.

These kind of little favors add up and you can get careless with your cash all in the name of the rush and experience of it all. I added up all the extra favors I did for girls since last October and it was pretty much the down payment on a 2016 car. Yes it can get to that point gentleman, especially the single guys who aren't use to high quality trim in their dating life. As Depp said in Fear and Loathing "The tendency is to take it as far is it can go". Looking back id much rather be in that new car right now in the Memphis heat with some cold ass AC blowing and bluetooth/onstar everything than worried if some girl sucking some other guys cock at this moment thought I was "sweet" for doing what I did.

Basically,experience is worth alot on something so underground as this to me so I don't take that learning curve negatively. But to some of the guys, just don't feel like an asshole for saying no and you can most of the times prevent the mistakes I did by realizing your not "really" the last hope to these girls if they are in a jam. Also realize the true assholes are the pimps,beaters and needle pushers to these girls. Also there are so many experiences around the corner that could work in your favor more with what your comfortable doing with an even hotter chick. I've had it happen many times so just shoot straight and don't go directly after another guy if you can help it lol[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=KinkyMemphism;3050671]Is this the Cara your talking about? My question was did her pussy smell? A lot of the girls will douch between dates and wash off half ass in the tub with a rag so they are semi fresh. But if girl has a smelly one I don't have time for her. I have been thinking of seeing this Cara but now not so sure.

[URL]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/naughty-sexy-and-tight/16804665[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, according to my friend, it definitely smelled. Wasn't just minimal either. He said the dream involved a GREAT bbbjwcim. But special steps ought to be taken if doggy / mish are more your cup of tea assuming your olfactory senses are still operational.

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I am only asking opinions.

I won't mention names but I do know of a provider that does have a relationship with a senior member, found out the other day, they are still together and are doing well.

My last gf was going to be a provider but I guess I stopped that by being with her over 2 years.

We tend to forget that our providers are women first, They want what any of us want, a happy life.

Sure they may choose to do this for whatever reason but we should never fault them for that.

With all that said, Do you all think it is possible to have a lifelong, only you and her, marraige and kids relationship with any woman we consider providers?

[QUOTE=EvilerDuckmann;3058864]I am only asking opinions.

I won't mention names but I do know of a provider that does have a relationship with a senior member, found out the other day, they are still together and are doing well.

My last gf was going to be a provider but I guess I stopped that by being with her over 2 years.

We tend to forget that our providers are women first, They want what any of us want, a happy life.

Sure they may choose to do this for whatever reason but we should never fault them for that.

With all that said, Do you all think it is possible to have a lifelong, only you and her, marraige and kids relationship with any woman we consider providers?[/QUOTE]Not a dumb question at all. I for one think that it is very possible, but it would involve a huge amount of trust on both sides. I truly believe it can be done.

[QUOTE=EvilerDuckmann;3058864]I am only asking opinions.

I won't mention names but I do know of a provider that does have a relationship with a senior member, found out the other day, they are still together and are doing well.

My last gf was going to be a provider but I guess I stopped that by being with her over 2 years.

We tend to forget that our providers are women first, They want what any of us want, a happy life.

Sure they may choose to do this for whatever reason but we should never fault them for that.

With all that said, Do you all think it is possible to have a lifelong, only you and her, marraige and kids relationship with any woman we consider providers?[/QUOTE]I agree with you that providers are women also but there is a big difference in their experiences and someone you might meet in a real life situation. They are accustom to being lied to, receiving ill treatment by men and the community. They become jaded to protect themselves and some of them have real problems in their lives. When would you start trusting them? They are not going to trust you at first so they are going to lie to you and attempt to get as much out of you that they can because they believe you are not going to be there for them. Even when you prove that you will they think it is just something temporary. If they had boyfriends while they were providing they are usually not treated well by those boyfriends because they know some guy is going to be putting a dick in their mouth. I believe that it would take a lot of work to get to the point that you and a provider could get into a trusting relationship. I have helped providers in the past because I wanted to and I felt good doing it but unnecessary dumb lies turned me off to most of them. I stopped helping them because I didn't want to be near them. To me the environment around them was toxic. It seems like when women or men start making stupid mistake they don't know how to stop. They believe that they always have bad luck but most of their problems are from their own making. Now there is always an exception to a rule but you won't know you aren't that lucky until somewhere down the line. Of course dating can be almost as bad if you pick the wrong dates. There are women and men out there that are officially nuts.

Thought I would extend a greeting to my fellow mongers and to the ladies. I appreciate the vast info generated on here so a big thanks to the admin and members that report on the local talent.

I recently started to travel on business to Memphis every few weeks and you really have something special here. I used to partake years ago when I was traveling and Memphis never disappointed.

I decided to join USASG after I had no 'acceptable' verification means for hooking up with Missy on my last trip. She seems to use discretion which is a plus. Tasha was next on the call list but having GPS in the co car is a * so I couldn't risk it. I ran out of time and options but no worries, dreams eventually come true. -GenX75 out.

[QUOTE=GenX75;3059690]Thought I would extend a greeting to my fellow mongers and to the ladies. I appreciate the vast info generated on here so a big thanks to the admin and members that report on the local talent.

I recently started to travel on business to Memphis every few weeks and you really have something special here. I used to partake years ago when I was traveling and Memphis never disappointed.

I decided to join USASG after I had no 'acceptable' verification means for hooking up with Missy on my last trip. She seems to use discretion which is a plus. Tasha was next on the call list but having GPS in the co car is a * so I couldn't risk it. I ran out of time and options but no worries, dreams eventually come true. -GenX75 out.[/QUOTE]Really? Welcome I guess LOL.

[QUOTE=BigBoiTerry;3059926]Really? Welcome I guess LOL.[/QUOTE]This is really really good or really really shady.

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Are there any no tell motels near Olive Branch or Collierville that are reasonable? Need to know asap.

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