[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5832063]Actually, I heard there were multiple spas raided in Spring Valley along with a very popular spa on this forum.[/QUOTE]Is this recent? When anything is good to be true it probably is.
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[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5832063]Actually, I heard there were multiple spas raided in Spring Valley along with a very popular spa on this forum.[/QUOTE]Is this recent? When anything is good to be true it probably is.
Do You Know if Your Favorite Providers Read Your Posts and Know It's You Posting it?
I've see posts where the monger makes a statement right to the providers as if he knows they are reading it and knows they know it's him posting it. It's been a thank you for something, or a glowing compliment written right to them. Praising your favorites, and sharing intel is great, but do the women know it's you posting it?
I think many guys who Hobby are like me and try to keep a low profile and remain anonymous.
We know providers read posts, but I myself don't discuss this site with my ladies. I've read enough posts about a good thing being ruined because a provider read a post they didn't like and knew who posted it. I avoid giving clues to my identity in my posts, so I have to wonder how anyone gets by being well known by the ladies and manages to post a lot of details and still remain anonymous?
I'll ask those of you who seem to be popular with the women, who posts a lot in these forums. Do the women know your handle, and do they read your posts knowing it's you writing about them?
If they know the positive reports, and recommendations are coming from you, there must be rewards. How do you avoid a back lash if you give anything but a good recommendation about someone who knows it's you? Or what if they notice you visited them and they know you regularly post, but don't post anything at all? Is there back lash there?
What about your last All Time Favorite, now reading all about your praise and compliments about your New All Time Favorite? Any problems there?
How do you enjoy the benefits of being known and still avoid the pitfalls?
I'm very interested to know how the popular and well known mongers handle this. You can PM me if you don't want to post your replies in the open forum.
Your wisdom and maturity are apparent. Your way is the best way. I'll PM you some additional thoughts.
[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;5836344]Do You Know if Your Favorite Providers Read Your Posts and Know It's You Posting it?
I've see posts where the monger makes a statement right to the providers as if he knows they are reading it and knows they know it's him posting it. It's been a thank you for something, or a glowing compliment written right to them. Praising your favorites, and sharing intel is great, but do the women know it's you posting it?
I think many guys who Hobby are like me and try to keep a low profile and remain anonymous.
We know providers read posts, but I myself don't discuss this site with my ladies. I've read enough posts about a good thing being ruined because a provider read a post they didn't like and knew who posted it. I avoid giving clues to my identity in my posts, so I have to wonder how anyone gets by being well known by the ladies and manages to post a lot of details and still remain anonymous?
I'll ask those of you who seem to be popular with the women, who posts a lot in these forums. Do the women know your handle, and do they read your posts knowing it's you writing about them?
If they know the positive reports, and recommendations are coming from you, there must be rewards. How do you avoid a back lash if you give anything but a good recommendation about someone who knows it's you? Or what if they notice you visited them and they know you regularly post, but don't post anything at all? Is there back lash there?
What about your last All Time Favorite, now reading all about your praise and compliments about your New All Time Favorite? Any problems there?
How do you enjoy the benefits of being known and still avoid the pitfalls?
I'm very interested to know how the popular and well known mongers handle this. You can PM me if you don't want to post your replies in the open forum.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5831486]I heard there were a lot of Filipina women that would hang out at Mr. D's in Chula Vista at night looking for Mr. Goodbar or their soulmate. Can anyone confirm?[/QUOTE]Not I. I stopped hanging out at these type of bars. Especially the reputation of Trophy Lounge back in the day, as well as a few other bars around CV / IB. But I haven't been down that area in years. If you don't count my visits AtoZ.
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5839889]Not I. I stopped hanging out at these type of bars. Especially the reputation of Trophy Lounge back in the day, as well as a few other bars around CV / IB. But I haven't been down that area in years. If you don't count my visits AtoZ.[/QUOTE]A to Z looks promising as a nice addition to the San Diego area full menu AMP scene. Google "Dreadlock Salon" in Chula Vista and it's in the same plaza. It's where I get my dreadlocks, but I sure miss my Jerry Curls.
Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.
Have fun brother, the 101 would be a nice drive.
You'll be nicely recharged after to see all the SD ladies! LOL.
Take care man.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5840680]Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DeeeezNutss;5840766]Have fun brother, the 101 would be a nice drive.
You'll be nicely recharged after to see all the SD ladies! LOL.
Take care man.[/QUOTE]Thanks brother! I'm actually taking a female friend / UTR who only works when she's here visiting SD. I might have a kink neck (LOL) after the week long spring break and will need a thorough massage. LOL.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5840680]Happy Spring Break everyone! I will be entertaining some friends / doing some staycations and taking some nearby coastal road trips during spring break. Please take care of all the lovely SD ladies.[/QUOTE]Have a good time man! Maybe you'll get a chance to explore some new territory.
[QUOTE=RChangDatyKing;5840776]Thanks brother! I'm actually taking a female friend / UTR who only works when she's here visiting SD. I might have a kink neck (LOL) after the week long spring break and will need a thorough massage. LOL.[/QUOTE]I took one of my most memorable motorcycle rides up US-1 from San Diego to Portland, then part of the 101 back south. Phenomenal roads and views! Personally, I consider that a solo trip, but more power to you if you can ride with a woman for that long. Haha!
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5840389]A to Z looks promising as a nice addition to the San Diego area full menu AMP scene. Google "Dreadlock Salon" in Chula Vista and it's in the same plaza. It's where I get my dreadlocks, but I sure miss my Jerry Curls.[/QUOTE]I've been to AtoZ several seperate times over the past 2-4 months, including the visits to VIP and 108/107.
Last visit was with Mia. Paid for the hr, got 1/2. Same MO as the other visits. Mask stays on, no LFK / DFL, okayish massge, kinda of a sub par HJ / BJ below that. Mia was older than mentioned. Stated 30, I'd say closer to mid 40's. Another isit was supposed to be new girl, but was the same girl from my 2nd visit. Again was not anything to write home about, or even tip extra for services. Was extremely dissappointed, but was in need everytime. I did have high hopes with my first visit with Crystal, but with every girl after that, was nothing to write home about, and was so dissppointed, I called on a past escort just to feel satisfied. Fortunately, and unfortunately, it was the last time I got to see my ATF before she moved out of state permanently. And I just don't want to go visit other places to be dissappointed. VIP and 108 were never like that. Not everytime, but every visit was good enough for me that I came back (pun intended).
I actually know a few cuties that have passed through A to Z, but many working girls are impatient and if they aren't making their goal per day, they're gone. As the business improves, their talent will to. It's on my hit list if I'm in the area, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stay.
Also close by is Bluegreen Spa at the corner of Bonita Rd and Lynwood Dr. Fun fact. . . 3 sisters work there, all look completely different from each other. If any of them like you, the world is your oyster. Hehe!
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5840979]I've been to AtoZ several seperate times over the past 2-4 months, including the visits to VIP and 108/107.
Last visit was with Mia. Paid for the hr, got 1/2. Same MO as the other visits. Mask stays on, no LFK / DFL, okayish massge, kinda of a sub par HJ / BJ below that. Mia was older than mentioned. Stated 30, I'd say closer to mid 40's. Another isit was supposed to be new girl, but was the same girl from my 2nd visit. Again was not anything to write home about, or even tip extra for services. Was extremely dissappointed, but was in need everytime. I did have high hopes with my first visit with Crystal, but with every girl after that, was nothing to write home about, and was so dissppointed, I called on a past escort just to feel satisfied. Fortunately, and unfortunately, it was the last time I got to see my ATF before she moved out of state permanently. And I just don't want to go visit other places to be dissappointed. VIP and 108 were never like that. Not everytime, but every visit was good enough for me that I came back (pun intended).[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ryan1979;5841084]I actually know a few cuties that have passed through A to Z, but many working girls are impatient and if they aren't making their goal per day, they're gone. As the business improves, their talent will to. It's on my hit list if I'm in the area, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stay.
Also close by is Bluegreen Spa at the corner of Bonita Rd and Lynwood Dr. Fun fact. . . 3 sisters work there, all look completely different from each other. If any of them like you, the world is your oyster. Hehe![/QUOTE]MMS occassionaly texting me "Miss you" is nice, but every visit brought down the quality level. They were all attractive, but the service went down. AtoZ is waaaay further south than I'm willing to add to my daily / end of day commute, especially off Palomar during the rush hours. And the "paid for 60/ recieved 30" was the last straw for me. I just hugged MMS afterwards, said thank you, kissed MMS her on her cheek, and left dissappointed. Didn't even get a hug or kiss from any of the other girls. Only Crystal. I enjoyed my visits, but it wasn't enough to keep me there, or even worth it to keep going that direction.
BlueGreen sounds promising, but that will be left on how they stack up to VIP /108/107. They really set the bar high unless BG does something that can really sway the scales in their favor. Seriously, I get picky, but I'm fairly easy. Thank you for the info.
{after I kiss the girl / s and hug MMS and thank them for their time, I put on my mask, head to my ride, and slowly leave the parking lot of the place. I turn up the car stereo, and do a slow clap build up to whatever song I have my iPod playing on the stereo, and keep singing like no one's watching}.
If the service gets me to do this (Almost EVERYTIME when I leave either VIP, or 108 with Eva. No joke, no lie, no cap), I definitely return.
Sorry this is long.
No doubt the girls at 108, VIP are more beautiful across the board along with a few other popular spas, but I do prefer the more laid back atmosphere of these less popular spas. Also, I tend to like a bit of a challenge getting a thrill by persuading a girl to push their boundaries. I'm sure a few of you can can relate to that.
[QUOTE=Dwykz619;5841285]MMS occassionaly texting me "Miss you" is nice, but every visit brought down the quality level. They were all attractive, but the service went down. AtoZ is waaaay further south than I'm willing to add to my daily / end of day commute, especially off Palomar during the rush hours. And the "paid for 60/ recieved 30" was the last straw for me. I just hugged MMS afterwards, said thank you, kissed MMS her on her cheek, and left dissappointed. Didn't even get a hug or kiss from any of the other girls. Only Crystal. I enjoyed my visits, but it wasn't enough to keep me there, or even worth it to keep going that direction.
BlueGreen sounds promising, but that will be left on how they stack up to VIP /108/107. They really set the bar high unless BG does something that can really sway the scales in their favor. Seriously, I get picky, but I'm fairly easy. Thank you for the info. . .[/QUOTE]
I'd like to share what I saw on another board.
I too see myself as DATY connoisseur and love it when I can get the women to squirt all over my face and convulse (as some of you might have had TAZ, she can do it on her on) multiple times and the bed is soaked, not with pee.
RCDK is the king of it and might chime in.
From another user K-.
Going Down? (tutorial).
I consider myself a lover of oral and like many of the posters here. Getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to receive such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.
I love love love getting girls off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.
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First of all, I tease a girl to death before I go NEAR her clit. I repeat, stay away form the clit! Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomach, illicit crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! Much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagina, explore the folds, the hole (with your tongue only at this point) run your tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. Spending even a small time teasing will save you time in the end. DO NOT seem anxious or in a hurry no matter how excited you are. You'll know that you really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before you even touch their clit.
Once I do begin to lick their pussy I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save you so much work. Try not to "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.
If you're doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If you can't tell what she likes, freaking ask her if it feels good or not! Don't be a dumbass and assume!
Now for the fingers.
There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know you're thinking it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm talking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every girl since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and applying pressure until she is trying to fuck my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make your dick feel even bigger once you fuck her and yes I am fucking that tight hole when I am done making you cum with my mouth.
I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and using rythem, gauging her response. If you are doing everything right, you will feel her pussy begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Viola! The G-Spot is coming to life! Angle your finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.
Once you have her at this point, she is all yours, you have her right where you want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while you massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it, be patient not aggressive. When she cums do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think. When she done, simply start over. Light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If she is anything like the girls I've been with, you could make her cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.
Have fun!
Oh, and don't forget to tell her how much you love licking her pussy!