They're not all the same, just like we aren't.
[QUOTE=CruisingY;6498767]There all the same. There 304's. Lots of really delusional lonely duds out there.[/QUOTE]304 ? WG?
Nope, I can say with all sincerity that they're not all the same. Not sure why you feel this way. There's a big difference between the girl who scowls at you as she's jackhammering you demanding a tip by bringing your pants or your wallet over to you and the kind of girl who doesn't ask you.
So that's my current situation. And yes, she was grateful for the flowers. By the way, its not every trip to the spa I bring a gift. Very rare actually. It was a holiday. Special occasion. Like Chinese New Year or International Woman's Day.
I've had some that I've come to take them "shopping" with a stopover at their apartment. They are a lot different when they don't watch the clock and worry about making noise. So no, they're not all the same. Just like all mongers are not the same.
And I'm certainly not "weak and vulnerable". I know right like Red said, I'm a journeyman. I've made a few mistakes in the past for sure.
Good behavior should be rewarded. If you prefer to do it with more cash that's your deal. Just remember these girls are people and some of them are very nice. Some are complete bitches, but most of them fall somewhere in between. Is it a real relationship that's going to go somewhere? No. Absolutely not.
As one girl told me, "we have no past and we have no future all we have is now let's make the best of it". It's pretty damn good for the three months that she was here and then *poof* gone with little warning. New friends in new cities. I still talk to some.
BTW, I'm not lonely. And I'm certainly not delusional because I know what the future is. There is no future with a working girl. You can never match their income at least not the full service ones if you're any good. And if you could get them to quit, would they always be looking back? After the Bliss I'm Brown is over can you start thinking about what their occupation was?
Proper AMP monger etiquette. Bring cash, be on time, not too early.
I realize some of you guys do everything on credit card. I mean everything. $5 purchases etc. And I do also realize that sometimes just don't have the money, so happy ending now, pay later. But I think most of you have access to cash. Yes, they have to have credit card machines because they'd rather not lose the business. Also, I realize they also have legit customers. It's not a perfect world for them. But if you can, make it easier for everybody. Just bring cash.
But seriously, be on time and not too early and by all means, bring cash. I don't know how that works when you pay the room fee with a credit card, I'm sure they write everything down and then mamasan must take the cash that most mongers pay with and give it to the girls at the end of the day and then keep the credit card money for themselves? Believe it or not, a great many of these businesses actually pay taxes.
When you tip with a credit card that messes up everything for them. Plus, you created paper trail. Stop at the ATM on your way there. Get your room fee and your tip money. And of course, take only the amount you're willing to spend. It might actually keep some of you guys from overtipping! This is why some spas are still cash only.
A recent experience at a fun place turned into a ordeal when the guy's card kept getting rejected. Then another card. I don't know what the problem was but it interfered with my BBBJ as my lady had to keep leaving the room. She comes back in the room saying " no too smart". She started up again and then of course, another monger came in. Unless they know you, they want you to pay up front. She wanted him to pay first before she hid him in another room. This was a guy who showed up early for his appointment and interrupted mine, so she had to leave the room again.
That's another thing.
If you can, text your girl if you see a lot of cars in the parking lot and make sure that she's done before you go in early. If she doesn't answer, wait, because some girls wait until the last 10 minutes to do the HE. You could seriously ruin it for another guy If you drop in early. "I give you 10 minutes free next time okay, OK?" Grrrrrr. What started out as a nice BJ ended up with a jackhammer. Frustrating as hell and my CASH tip reflected it too. She wasn't happy and I wasn't happy.
This has been a public service address.