I honestly am embarrassed, this is not how I want people to think of me
[QUOTE=Namilab;3226528]I think everyone sees what's up. When you give feedback, you're met with a lawyerly defense for a response. Honestly, sounds like GPS to me.
With so many mongers repeating a similar tale, a smart provider might think about running a special for members, offering a code. While at the same time taking the criticism as an opportunity to learn something and make corrections. I'd recommend returning to $. 50 - with a code. For a few weeks to restore confidence. Any white knights can feel free to lay out the current rate for a couch.[/QUOTE]I definitely agree with you. Believe me, I am taking all of this as constructive criticism and making sure all of my clients leave happy. This is my livelihood. This is how I support myself so I want to make sure I am putting every ounce of effort into it that I can so my customers stay happy!! I have messaged one in particular with the chance to come see me free of charge so I can make things right.
Anyone who had a lackluster experience is welcome to text me with USA name or PM me so I can have another chance to make things right.
I appreciate every one being honest. I just want you guys to know, I take my work very seriously! I want everyone to enjoy their experience with me. If our session hasn't been as good as you want it, please give me a second chance! The majority seem to enjoy their experience with me, so if you give me another chance, I guarantee I can sway your opinion about me. (: I am doing my absolute best to use up every minute in my recently scheduled appointments. I definitely am learning from the constructive criticism.
Star Baby The Sociopathic Liar
[QUOTE=Harley08;3171191]I recently have gotten some messages from some board members concerning Star Baby and whether she is pregnant or not. Let me say first and foremost that she is not pregnant. I think that she is being confused with the other Star that posts and has ads. I first met Star Baby as a client and over time we became close friends, more so than client / provider. Yes, she went through some hard times and made bad decisions but she is getting her life back in order and being pregnant is definitely not on her bucket list. I live in West TN now and don't post much anymore as Star Baby was the only provider that I saw here. I come to Louisville once a month and Star Baby and I always meet each time when I am here. We constantly talk and text and if she was pregnant, we most surely would have talked about it. As for her location, someone in a post mentioned her driveway and it is steep and kind of bumpy, but what waits at the end, makes the adventure well worth it. Guys, it's the holidays, so please remember the ladies that we visit and leave a little something extra.[/QUOTE]Well everyone can believe whatever you want but the facts are (last names not included because there are a million people with these first names):
Jim died on March 10,2016. Many of you know his last name and we all know how torn up she was over his death. He was the love of her life. She didn't know if she could survive without him. Oops.
Star Baby, Bethani married William Andrew (Drew) on March 25, 2016. Wait that's only 15 days after Jim passed away. I guess the mourning period for a sociopath is less than 14 days.
The newlyweds are expecting their first child in May of 2017. Ok, I guess that means she is pregnant unless he is and that would be one for the record books.
Hey hun, your Promissory Note is Due. Small claims in Kentucky is easy to file on-line. Oh just in case you are still with AA or NA, Step Eight is [B]"We made a list of all the persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all"[/B]. So can I expect your payment anytime soon? Welcome to 2017 Bethani!
Liars, sociopathic or otherwise
If it's not "how do you like your dick sucked" or "do you like mish, doggie or cowgirl," why do you give a shit what she says?
Understanding Is What Step Eight is All About
Star, your pontification holds no water with me, many on this board, many in your past life and those that you have harmed even since you became "Sober". Yes you have stolen or scammed others since your "Sobriety". Yes it was their choice to believe in you and help you out with certain expectations, but it was your choice to continue with your addictive behavior and take from them knowing you would not make good on your promises.
You need not tell me about addiction and NA. I am more familiar with it than you will ever be, because I lived it through the eyes of my deceased fiance for over 5 years. I live it today and give back to others on a daily basis in memory of her achievement. I will always stand by any addict that is in recovery, even you. I do this because an addict in recovery should be supported and praised for their accomplishment. It's a very hard road to travel and if you are truly on that road then I commend you.
You may not be an active user, but you have yet to start your recovery. I remember that breakfast very well. I remember the humility in your spoken words about how you and your sponsor had discussed the need for you to start to repay those who you had harmed. How you needed to repay me and even BGUAM. Yet you once again fail to follow the steps of your sobriety. Did you bypass step eight? It is obvious from the words of your post that you have not truly tested your newfound humility because of the title to your post [B]I Will Never Understand[/B]. It is your inability to "understand" that tells me you have not a care in the world to even begin to make "Amends to those you have harmed". Not one word in you post even begins to show the Humility of what step eight requires. Maybe you and your sponsor should revisit this step so you can once again start the forgiveness process, so you can possibly forgive and be forgiven.
I care not what you do in your life, but I do care about your sobriety. I may never like you or trust you but I will always hope that you stay sober because that achievement is paramount. So please don't continue to lie to this board about how you have truly "changed your ways". You, your sponsor, others on this board, others in your life and I know the truth because there is no humility in your post. Only the Star, the addict, hopefully a recovering addict not an active one, but one who still has very addictive behaviors. Make amends and then you will make believers of us all. Then I will move on.