Safe Mongering in Honolulu

[QUOTE=Macko69;3003195]Diamond Head clinic doesn't test for HSVs or HPVs, and people who have these viruses may not even know they have them. It's entirely possible that you have one or both of these viruses and you're spreading them all over without even knowing it. Not judging you and your choices, just stating the fact. It's a risky hobby, and everyone who participates also accepts the risks.

Realize that if you are basing your hypothesis of the existence or non-existence of STDs solely on your own experiences, you are conducting an experiment with a sample size of one. One can't reach a reliable conclusion with a sample size that small.

As for me, (analogy alert) I've never had cancer, and god knows I've put a lot of crap into my body (bad foods, cigarettes and Bob Marley-like quantities of weed), but just because I haven't had cancer, doesn't mean I think it doesn't exist. I know cancer exists, but I take the risk anyway because I kinda enjoy my vices.

That said, I don't BBFS. For me, that's a line I won't cross anymore. Did it only once with a provider. My second time visiting a provider she led me into her BB, and I just went with it. Felt damn good, but I spent the next several months worrying and avoiding sex with my SO because I had to make sure enough time had lapsed so that if I did have something, it'd register on the test (I was negative). So I completely understand the urge. Good luck.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing your experience and advice. I'm going to remember this one. You sound like a smart guy.

[QUOTE=Blake123;3009429]I have had 100s of BBBJs (I normally do not care about CIM because it doesn't really excite me). Caught an STD only one time from a BBBJ.

I can tell you that one can catch a dose of Chlamydia, among other STDs. Chlamydia is easily treatable with two pills at DHC.

However, if you are that worried about it and if you have an SO who you frequently have sex with, I would strongly recommend using a cover when getting a BJ from the working girls--just to be on the safe side and for peace of mind.

On the other hand, if you are single, I wouldn't worry too much about it. You're not going to die from a BBBJ.[/QUOTE]I hear you on this one. I know I won't stop getting a BBBJ. Remember the old mongering days only a select few providers would even consider giving a BBBJ and now its the norm. CIM was pretty much non existent LOL. I guess you could say that I've been around the park a couple of times haha.

Sup Mongers,

I was wondering for those mongers that partake in BBBJ and BBFS activities, do you guya get regularly tested? I remember when I started out, every time I got a BBBJ I would wait a couple of weeks then run to Walmart to get one of those HIV testing kits. Now I've gotten lazy and haven't done it in a long time. I've also stopped since I feel that BBBJ are fairly safe as long as the girl doesn't scrape your dick red. I've never had BBFS, but one provider offered it to me, and my dick was literally knocking on heaven's gate ready to go. But at the very last second I changed my mind and slid on the cover. God, thinking about that moment makes me horny. After eating her out and stuff she was wet and ready to go. I looked up and she asked if I was ready. I said sure and then she replied, "So, you want to go swimming, huh?" I knew what she meant, and I thought that was probably the most sexiest thing a girl has said to me. That question alone made me consider letting junior jump into the deep end without a jacket on.

Although I knew I made the safe decision, a part of me wishes I just said fuck it and went with it. She was literally the hottest provider / girl I ever fucked. Plus I never felt raw punani before so I was very curious.

Back to the topic, I was just wondering if people get tested. I was thinking I should start a thing where if I get tested, some of the other guys get tested and post the results. As a community I think its important. For the old-timers who might not worry as much, I think you guys should do it more for the girls, and not the guys. These girls area literally angels. Beautiful women letting mongers like us discover them whenever we want. While we can't protect these women from people not on the forums, we can do our part to protect them and ourselves by getting test regularly. LMK what you guys think, cause knowledge is always the best weapon.

[QUOTE=StickyWeed;3015322]Sup Mongers,

I was wondering for those mongers that partake in BBBJ and BBFS activities, do you guya get regularly tested? I remember when I started out, every time I got a BBBJ I would wait a couple of weeks then run to Walmart to get one of those HIV testing kits. Now I've gotten lazy and haven't done it in a long time. I've also stopped since I feel that BBBJ are fairly safe as long as the girl doesn't scrape your dick red. I've never had BBFS, but one provider offered it to me, and my dick was literally knocking on heaven's gate ready to go. But at the very last second I changed my mind and slid on the cover. God, thinking about that moment makes me horny. After eating her out and stuff she was wet and ready to go. I looked up and she asked if I was ready. I said sure and then she replied, "So, you want to go swimming, huh?" I knew what she meant, and I thought that was probably the most sexiest thing a girl has said to me. That question alone made me consider letting junior jump into the deep end without a jacket on.

Although I knew I made the safe decision, a part of me wishes I just said fuck it and went with it. She was literally the hottest provider / girl I ever fucked. Plus I never felt raw punani before so I was very curious.

Back to the topic, I was just wondering if people get tested. I was thinking I should start a thing where if I get tested, some of the other guys get tested and post the results. As a community I think its important. For the old-timers who might not worry as much, I think you guys should do it more for the girls, and not the guys. These girls area literally angels. Beautiful women letting mongers like us discover them whenever we want. While we can't protect these women from people not on the forums, we can do our part to protect them and ourselves by getting test regularly. LMK what you guys think, cause knowledge is always the best weapon.[/QUOTE]If everyone got tested regularly STDs wouldn't be as bad as they are on the island. The only people that are probably getting regularly tested would be the girls. The thing is though if a provider is willing to let you go BB, she is also willing to let other customers go BB. I would not trust any of these girls to admit they have anything / risk of giving you anything because it will hurt their business. If you choose to go BB that is your choice but do not expect any man or woman to be honest with you about sexual health status. I've had friends catch STDs from long term girlfriends and guys who bb every escort they can find and haven't caught a single thing. The luck of the draw. I will say though that if you start doing BBBJ it will be hard to go back to CBJ and the same thing will happen the second you start getting BBFS. That's a big part of the reason Kison is so popular.

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[QUOTE=StickyWeed;3015322]Sup Mongers,

I was wondering for those mongers that partake in BBBJ and BBFS activities, do you guya get regularly tested? I remember when I started out, every time I got a BBBJ I would wait a couple of weeks then run to Walmart to get one of those HIV testing kits. Now I've gotten lazy and haven't done it in a long time. I've also stopped since I feel that BBBJ are fairly safe as long as the girl doesn't scrape your dick red. I've never had BBFS, but one provider offered it to me, and my dick was literally knocking on heaven's gate ready to go. But at the very last second I changed my mind and slid on the cover. God, thinking about that moment makes me horny. After eating her out and stuff she was wet and ready to go. I looked up and she asked if I was ready. I said sure and then she replied, "So, you want to go swimming, huh?" I knew what she meant, and I thought that was probably the most sexiest thing a girl has said to me. That question alone made me consider letting junior jump into the deep end without a jacket on.

Although I knew I made the safe decision, a part of me wishes I just said fuck it and went with it. She was literally the hottest provider / girl I ever fucked. Plus I never felt raw punani before so I was very curious.

Back to the topic, I was just wondering if people get tested. I was thinking I should start a thing where if I get tested, some of the other guys get tested and post the results. As a community I think its important. For the old-timers who might not worry as much, I think you guys should do it more for the girls, and not the guys. These girls area literally angels. Beautiful women letting mongers like us discover them whenever we want. While we can't protect these women from people not on the forums, we can do our part to protect them and ourselves by getting test regularly. LMK what you guys think, cause knowledge is always the best weapon.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SureYourRight;3015729]If everyone got tested regularly STDs wouldn't be as bad as they are on the island. The only people that are probably getting regularly tested would be the girls. The thing is though if a provider is willing to let you go BB, she is also willing to let other customers go BB. I would not trust any of these girls to admit they have anything / risk of giving you anything because it will hurt their business. If you choose to go BB that is your choice but do not expect any man or woman to be honest with you about sexual health status. I've had friends catch STDs from long term girlfriends and guys who bb every escort they can find and haven't caught a single thing. The luck of the draw. I will say though that if you start doing BBBJ it will be hard to go back to CBJ and the same thing will happen the second you start getting BBFS. That's a big part of the reason Kison is so popular.[/QUOTE]One time when I fucked a girlfriend bareback while she was on her period (we were both too horny to wait) and I pulled out to cum on her tits, I noticed that there was a thin line of blood about a 1/4" long in my first spurt of cum. It was an eye opener because that showed me how much vaginal fluids get sucked into your cock from the suction that occurs during fucking. Which explains how STDs from BBFS can happen. So getting tested is a good idea if doing BBFS that involves multiple partners.

[URL]http://www.cnn.com/2016/09/21/health/gonorrhea-cluster-hawaii/[/URL]

6 men and 1 woman found infected with the antibiotic resistant strain. Sounds like the 1 woman might be a provider. This happened back in April and May.

"The thing is though if a provider is willing to let you go BB, she is also willing to let other customers go BB. I would not trust any of these girls to admit they have anything / risk of giving you anything because it will hurt their business. If you choose to go BB that is your choice but do not expect any man or woman to be honest with you about sexual health status. " -Sureyourright

I guess better safe than sorry. Anyone have a provider who was known as safe only, start to let you go bb after seeing her a lot and building trust. She tells you that she only lets you go bb. And then find out later she let other frequent Johns go bb? I wonder how much this really happens. Or how often girls will use this lie?

[QUOTE=Matisse;3085118]"The thing is though if a provider is willing to let you go BB, she is also willing to let other customers go BB. I would not trust any of these girls to admit they have anything / risk of giving you anything because it will hurt their business. If you choose to go BB that is your choice but do not expect any man or woman to be honest with you about sexual health status. " -Sureyourright

I guess better safe than sorry. Anyone have a provider who was known as safe only, start to let you go bb after seeing her a lot and building trust. She tells you that she only lets you go bb. And then find out later she let other frequent Johns go bb? I wonder how much this really happens. Or how often girls will use this lie?[/QUOTE]There was a post here that described that exact situation. A whole bunch of senior mongers listed who they had BB. I'd say about 70% of the girls were "covered only". If you want to run the risk then run the risk, but don't fall into the fantasy.

[QUOTE=Matisse;3085118]"The thing is though if a provider is willing to let you go BB, she is also willing to let other customers go BB. I would not trust any of these girls to admit they have anything / risk of giving you anything because it will hurt their business. If you choose to go BB that is your choice but do not expect any man or woman to be honest with you about sexual health status. " -Sureyourright

I guess better safe than sorry. Anyone have a provider who was known as safe only, start to let you go bb after seeing her a lot and building trust. She tells you that she only lets you go bb. And then find out later she let other frequent Johns go bb? I wonder how much this really happens. Or how often girls will use this lie?[/QUOTE]LOL this is Page from Rejuve for me. She kept telling me "noooo don't tell noone you only one I get in trouble" then to find out multiple people posting on the rejuve page with her and bb. I wasn't mad but it ruined the "exclusiveness" mentality I had going in. Probably won't repeat with her now since her service was going down hill as well. Can't trust these hoes.

[QUOTE=Brudda1;3085240]LOL this is Page from Rejuve for me. She kept telling me "noooo don't tell noone you only one I get in trouble" then to find out multiple people posting on the rejuve page with her and bb. I wasn't mad but it ruined the "exclusiveness" mentality I had going in. Probably won't repeat with her now since her service was going down hill as well. Can't trust these hoes.[/QUOTE]Take it easy, bro. That is just a place we play our temporary roles. She is just a girl playing tricks, indeed, smart enough to keep her customers. Expecting for her return!

[QUOTE=STDayue2016;3085366]Take it easy, bro. That is just a place we play our temporary roles. She is just a girl playing tricks, indeed, smart enough to keep her customers. Expecting for her return![/QUOTE]I think Brudda1 was just laughing it off. Although, she is playing tricks and risking his life in the process (he does has to take some of the responsibility). Yes, she is in it for the money and wants to keep repeat customers. So she uses deception and I hope she does get tested regularly. If she does catch anything from any of her other BB clients, they are all at risk. I always wonder when girls go on vacation if it includes a round of antibiotics until things clear up.

[QUOTE=Brudda1;3085240]LOL this is Page from Rejuve for me. She kept telling me "noooo don't tell noone you only one I get in trouble" then to find out multiple people posting on the rejuve page with her and bb. I wasn't mad but it ruined the "exclusiveness" mentality I had going in. Probably won't repeat with her now since her service was going down hill as well. Can't trust these hoes.[/QUOTE]It is still a exclusive club, she don't BB everyone. Be proud that you are a member. She is no different then any regular guys or girls w multiple partners. Some get more or less then other. I did noticed the more comfortable she is with me the less service l get. The first time with her was out of this world. Then its less and less each time until she just want to bang and sleep next to me. Just like a real girl friend l guess. What do you guys think?

[QUOTE=ExitOnly;3085426]It is still a exclusive club, she don't BB everyone. Be proud that you are a member. She is no different then any regular guys or girls w multiple partners. Some get more or less then other. I did noticed the more comfortable she is with me the less service l get. The first time with her was out of this world. Then its less and less each time until she just want to bang and sleep next to me. Just like a real girl friend l guess. What do you guys think?[/QUOTE]Same shit here. Used to go til the session ended. Then she started complaining if I lasted too long and one time fell asleep for 1/4 the session. It was fine but the nagging about lasting too long turned me way off. And trying to get me to pay 2 bills to take her out to a movie. I get it, she's in it for the money and that's fine with me. But she came off as wanting me to just start throwing it at her instead of me getting my end too haha!