Honest opinion or am I paranoid
So tried meeting up with someone new tonight and I don't know if I handled it properly or not. I started texting this girl who I made arrangements to pick up and have a cardate with (last minute couldn't get a hotel and couldn't get my roommates to leave) so I pick her up at the corner like she requested and we drove down the block to find a spot not even a minute into this she said that her phone had been busy all night and that she wanted to know exactly what I wanted to do. I had a million thoughts that ran through my head because the girl was very attractive but I got this gut feeling that something wasn't right. So I told her you know what I'm really nervous right I think ill take you back to where I picked you up from. She said ok and as we were driving back she apologized for making me uncomfortable and tried to get me to park near her house to do what I wanted to do which I still hadn't told her. We both apologized and I was on my way. Idk if I'm a little gun shy after what happened at the beginning of the week with Ren that I'm getting thrown off but I'd like someone's opinion on what I did was right or if I should have gone through with the date. Adding link let me know if anyone has been with her. Thanks everyone.
[URL]https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/juicy/57935452[/URL]
Re: Honest opinion or am I paranoid
[QUOTE=Mustang1994;6592961]So tried meeting up with someone new tonight and I don't know if I handled it properly or not. I started texting this girl who I made arrangements to pick up and have a cardate with (last minute couldn't get a hotel and couldn't get my roommates to leave) so I pick her up at the corner like she requested and we drove down the block to find a spot not even a minute into this she said that her phone had been busy all night and that she wanted to know exactly what I wanted to do. I had a million thoughts that ran through my head because the girl was very attractive but I got this gut feeling that something wasn't right. So I told her you know what I'm really nervous right I think ill take you back to where I picked you up from. She said ok and as we were driving back she apologized for making me uncomfortable and tried to get me to park near her house to do what I wanted to do which I still hadn't told her. We both apologized and I was on my way. Idk if I'm a little gun shy after what happened at the beginning of the week with Ren that I'm getting thrown off but I'd like someone's opinion on what I did was right or if I should have gone through with the date. Adding link let me know if anyone has been with her. Thanks everyone.
[URL]https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/juicy/57935452[/URL][/QUOTE]To be honest, you may have been paranoid but probably for the right reasons. She sounded a little pushy and impatient to me. Wierd that she said it was ok when you asked to just drop her off and if a donation wasn't handed. The "her phone has been busy all night" would have been a deal breaker for me. I don't want to hold anyone up from taking another call just on my account.
I have been thrown off the horse a few times and I seem a little edgy climbing back on after. One night, a night I refer to as "the hunch back night", I went to 3 calls back to back and each one had a jacked up back when they answered the door and wasn't able satisfy me. The dates that went really sideways for me had one thing in common. A spur of the moment decision. From your post, it sounds as if you had a spur of the moment decision to arrange a date that you were not comfortable to begin with since you compromised from doing an outcall and resorted to a car date. So, the cards were already stacked against you if you normally don't do car dates. I doubt you would have enjoyed the date if you did go through with it. Listen to the little voice in the back of your head if it is telling you to bail. There will be other opportunities.
Rusty Z.