Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[QUOTE=Vudu33;5604137][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48150b1a-5c70-429a-ba33-e3949d76153d[/URL][/QUOTE]Yes. She really updated / changed her profile info since I found it in Sa the other day. Much more detailed now. Sounds like she is no longer into " once and done" arrangements. LOL. I never had the pleasure to meet her as we found out we live too close to each other and she was not comfortable meeting someone that was in that close of proximity to her. I always heard she was fun tho! Good luck guys trying to capture her attention. Sounds like she is playing harder to get now.

[QUOTE=BestDjInOhio;5600766]Have you? Share your experience if you can. She looks like my kinda girl.[/QUOTE]Really well put together, took the effort to find a crutch that matches her hair.

[QUOTE=Mmiikkeessmm;5604266]Yes. She really updated / changed her profile info since I found it in Sa the other day. Much more detailed now. Sounds like she is no longer into " once and done" arrangements. LOL. I never had the pleasure to meet her as we found out we live too close to each other and she was not comfortable meeting someone that was in that close of proximity to her. I always heard she was fun tho! Good luck guys trying to capture her attention. Sounds like she is playing harder to get now.[/QUOTE]Talked to her a couple of years back. Told me she had previously had some kind of "gift" that she needed to take antibiotics for. Not sure why she mentioned that, but I appreciated the honesty. Needless to say, I didn't partake.

[QUOTE=BumLick1;5605389]Talked to her a couple of years back. Told me she had previously had some kind of "gift" that she needed to take antibiotics for. Not sure why she mentioned that, but I appreciated the honesty. Needless to say, I didn't partake.[/QUOTE]If this is who I'm thinking of (very tall, easily over 6 feet in heels, long brownish / blonde hair) then I met her a few years back because I recall her voluntarily admitting that she caught something that she cleaned up with antibiotics and therefore insisted on protection and exchanging a clean bill of health which was fine with me. I only met her the one time but she was a lot of fun. She drove to me (over an hour) for an afternoon of fun. In between rounds I grilled us some steaks. Her donation request was extremely low for the distance, amount of time we spent together and her enthusiasm in the bedroom. She was up for a 4th round which just isn't possible for me covered these days. I would have saw her again if not for the distance and the fact that her schedule was impossible. Since then I've matched with her on a "normal" dating app and we caught up but I never did meet up with her again.

She told me that she was in a long term semi SB relationship with an other man and was very content with that (not sure why she was on Bumble then.). IMHO she's worth a shot if you are looking for an ongoing thing with one girl.

Well the previous 4 posts on this subject were me being bored and waxing poetic.

The real reason for this experiment was to see if Brad Pitt could get the hot girls on seeking. My assumption would have to be that if he could not, the girls were bots or scammers of some sort.

I don't know why a scammer would only "prey" on hot guys though, so if a hot chick flaked out, it could be coincidence, but if they all did, something was up.

I don't think Brad messaged on the site much more than normal me did with hot girls. Again, my definition of hot might be different than yours, but suffice it to say she would need to be attractive by just about any straight man's scale.

Brad got a bunch numbers and ultimately set up a lunch or dinner with two girls that I do believe are real, that did not give normal me the time of day when I messaged them on the site.

Was it because I was ugly, my more aggressive profile, something else, etc I do not know.

What I do know is if you would classify a girl as an 8 or better, I spent an extra $90 to convince myself that she is more than likely a dude, or AI to begin with.

Does this mean I will no longer use seeking?

No, but it does jade me on the site.

I have met some coo-coo's on seeking, some girls who are essentially prostitutes, and a couple who are confused AF about their lives, like they are now the boss's of their bodies, lives, futures, because they are "tricking" me into giving them money. Not that these last girls would listen, but when I want to stop seeing them, I tell them this isn't the way to go for them. If they end the arrangement, it's over, good luck to them; neither probably heeds my advice anyway.

It seems to me adding bots, encourages this last group of girls, that there is success in this line of work. There isn't. It just puts the thrusters to full blast on the way to the crash at the bottom.

When I have met up with a prostitute, massage girl, OTC stripper, etc., I feel nothing towards them, good or bad. Complete business transaction. It's a big part of why I meet them. I do like the occasional wham-bam-thank you ma'am.

For some reason, that last group of girls I mention on seeking has me going soft. They are in the process of messing up their lives, vs having messed up their lives, and I do feel a twinge of guilt / sad / desire to help that girl.

Or maybe they are just better at the GFE, the F do I know.

For the tl: dr crowd.

Asianblowjob believes there are many bots on seeking, looking to waste your time, and try to get you to re-up for another month.

[QUOTE=BestDjInOhio;5600760]Interesting read for sure. But honestly I think you put way more time than needed. I think of it as a numbers game. Cast a wide net, get a lot of phone numbers, weed out the ones you don't want (scammers, prostitutes, etc), then setup meets with the rest. About half of those will flake, or come up with a reason they can't meet, etc. Then who is left over are the ones that are serious.

Hope this helps. I've been doing seeking off and on and found that doing it my way is already enough work that feels like a part time job.[/QUOTE]I agree. My purchasing a second membership was not to get more girls, it was an attempt to see if the hot girls on the site were real, or fake.

Hot, rich, available, guy who is into making the girl "his everything" doesn't get the hot chick (with rare exception) anymore than my normal profile. I was willing to pay $90 to find that answer.

I'd like to think we will rally forces and train this new to the area girl but I am sure the more money than brains guys will jump in and ruin it for all.

This one is new to the area having moved from Nevada where girls are more than Ohio.

I simply asked if she wanted to meet, she rolled that into asking if I can host. So, yes we have a professional here.

This again on her lead goes to the PPM question. I said... its your business, you tell me. 500 is the answer.

I beg off with sorry that is too much for me and the Cleve. Area. Informing her 250/300 is high end and a regular can be less. She says 400 Min.

Thanks but no thanks good luck and good by. Game over for me. Up to you guys! That is a sweet looking ass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e390f8e3-85de-4c5a-b992-870168b116c8[/URL]

[QUOTE=PainWint;5611897]I'd like to think we will rally forces and train this new to the area girl but I am sure the more money than brains guys will jump in and ruin it for all.

This one is new to the area having moved from Nevada where girls are more than Ohio.

I simply asked if she wanted to meet, she rolled that into asking if I can host. So, yes we have a professional here.

This again on her lead goes to the PPM question. I said... its your business, you tell me. 500 is the answer.

I beg off with sorry that is too much for me and the Cleve. Area. Informing her 250/300 is high end and a regular can be less. She says 400 Min.

Thanks but no thanks good luck and good by. Game over for me. Up to you guys! That is a sweet looking ass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e390f8e3-85de-4c5a-b992-870168b116c8[/URL][/QUOTE]I had sent her a text at the beginning of the month, I guess I'm not her type. LOL.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5613275]I had sent her a text at the beginning of the month, I guess I'm not her type. LOL.[/QUOTE]Could be timing, They are all unpredictable. Seems like days ahead are probably too early to think about it. But maybe she is a planner and the rent is due on Monday.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5561074]I met Norvina last year, she is a sweet girl, big round ass, small breasts. Knows how to please and was looking for regulars.[/QUOTE]I met Norvina a few nights ago and she is nowhere near the pictures on her profile, she has put on more than a few more pounds. Face is still not bad. She suggested having dinner to break the ice but I wasn't into curvy gals so I only had her give me a BJ. She is working full time too so don't think she would have a lot of free time to meet up. She's definitely legit, just not my type.

[QUOTE=PainWint;5485787]The Escort types are sometimes not smart enough to know if they gave you a number or not. I'm sure this one would not. The question is why would I give the # to others who are too cheap to join when I am sure anyone that has the ability to contact her through the site can get in.

Not endorsing this one at all. She is washed out at 22 . Looks like hell in reality and is no prize. My advise. HARD PASS.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3ecbe4ed-7e27-4be2-b083-3abfddfdd6d5[/URL][/QUOTE]Wish I had seen this post earlier! I met her last month and in full agreement. She has a great looking face and even did a selfie for me before coming over to meet me. It's when she undressed then reality hits, must have had more than one kid. It was so saggy that she had to hold it up during the entire session. Don't ask me how I still manage to do it, guess I didn't want to waste my money. She still texts me checking to see if I would want to meet up again. Never again, took me forever to get over that image.

[QUOTE=PainWint;5611897]I'd like to think we will rally forces and train this new to the area girl but I am sure the more money than brains guys will jump in and ruin it for all.

This one is new to the area having moved from Nevada where girls are more than Ohio.

I simply asked if she wanted to meet, she rolled that into asking if I can host. So, yes we have a professional here.

This again on her lead goes to the PPM question. I said... its your business, you tell me. 500 is the answer.

I beg off with sorry that is too much for me and the Cleve. Area. Informing her 250/300 is high end and a regular can be less. She says 400 Min.

Thanks but no thanks good luck and good by. Game over for me. Up to you guys! That is a sweet looking ass.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e390f8e3-85de-4c5a-b992-870168b116c8[/URL][/QUOTE]From what I can see I have to agree that the most she would be worth paying would be the 250/300, not one penny more.

[QUOTE=Fuzzyek;5614510]From what I can see I have to agree that the most she would be worth paying would be the 250/300, not one penny more.[/QUOTE]I encourage any and all to tell her or any of them.

Start these "sugar babies" at 200. End the madness and get it back to an affordable hobby that we can all enjoy.

"I need money for gas" Bullshit
What would your Boss say if you told Him/Her you needed gas money to get to work. Especially if you got paid 200 + an Hr.

Doing a meet and greet with an SA girl tomorrow. It's at her apartment, so I'm prepared for more than a M&G. This is my first SA girl, any warnings or advice?

Thanks in advance.