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[QUOTE=Frequent904;4586814]I'm on [URL]Seeking.com[/URL], I have a paid profile, and I still don't see much of anything. Every link that you guys post on here shows up that the profile is unavailable. Wth am I doing wrong? Thanks! -F904.[/QUOTE]Took me a while to figure this one out. When you click the link HERE, it will more often than not show up as unavailable. Then click on 'reload' or 'refresh' on your browser, and most of the time, the profile will then show up.
Anyone have any intel on this one?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b44423bf-2117-4667-b8f3-0b50fb4147ab[/URL]
Name is Dianna allegedly.
Been in comms with her for a little bit. She seems pretty cool and legit and contrary to her name hasn't seemed to GPS. Seems pretty laid back.
Wanted to see if anyone has had any encounters with her before I pull the trigger. She sent me some pretty good pics too.
Thanks for any info.
[QUOTE=Scooter6;4588464]Unless it's someone who blocked me. Seems that profile is no longer active.[/QUOTE]She blocked you. I can still see her profile.
[QUOTE=Scooter6;4588477]Anyone have any intel on this one?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b44423bf-2117-4667-b8f3-0b50fb4147ab[/URL]
Name is Dianna allegedly.
Been in comms with her for a little bit. She seems pretty cool and legit and contrary to her name hasn't seemed to GPS. Seems pretty laid back.
Wanted to see if anyone has had any encounters with her before I pull the trigger. She sent me some pretty good pics too.
Thanks for any info.[/QUOTE]Nice girl.
Teeth are F'd.
Body is slim and fine. Just Appalachian teefs.
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;4588572]She blocked you. I can still see her profile.[/QUOTE]That's strange. Looked thru my messages and don't see that URL to any that have that grey circled out icon.
What is her username?
[QUOTE=Scooter6;4588926]That's strange. Looked thru my messages and don't see that URL to any that have that grey circled out icon.
What is her username?[/QUOTE]I believe the username you're looking for is toocute4 u_ and no I've never seen her before.
[QUOTE=Frequent904;4586814]I'm on [URL]Seeking.com[/URL], I have a paid profile, and I still don't see much of anything. Every link that you guys post on here shows up that the profile is unavailable. Wth am I doing wrong? Thanks! -F904.[/QUOTE]I don't know. I don't even have a paid account there and I can see most all of the links posted here.
Unless you put something in your profile that automagically screens out your account for a lot of them. Like "flat broke. Has herpes, bad!
[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4589044]I don't know. I don't even have a paid account there and I can see most all of the links posted here.
Unless you put something in your profile that automagically screens out your account for a lot of them. Like "flat broke. Has herpes, bad![/QUOTE]It depends how you're seeking to use the link. Because (usually) the link is truncated here on this site, if you merely right click and copy the link, it won't work in your other browser window. If, on the other hand, if you right click and choose "copy link location", it should work.
Hope this helps!
[QUOTE=JohnSmith1855;4588933]I believe the username you're looking for is toocute4 u_ and no I've never seen her before.[/QUOTE]Now I see. That was a while back.
Yeah same scam she wanted me to send her $ just to meet for coffee. Said that's her rules because too many guys waste her time.
When I told her I'd consider giving her gas $ when we met in public she blocked me haha.
Scam.
[QUOTE=Gorilla2525;4588722]Nice girl.
Teeth are F'd.
Body is slim and fine. Just Appalachian teefs.[/QUOTE]I was afraid of that in looking at pics she sent me. That sucks.
I had high hopes. She seems fun.
[QUOTE=DonJon;4574850]Guys, Please help a brother out.
I've been on for a week and all I have found are:
1 - young scared chicks that are NOT willing to meet and just time wasters.
2- The few that are willing to meet are ok looking at best. No better than STG (backpage) chicks.
3- The rest are looking for someone to marry or some shit.
How are you guys getting these younger 20 something girls to meet?
I'll tell you now that tried the direct approach. In saying I'm a nice guy but looking to meet girls that are serious about an arrangement.
I also tried the nice guy thing and selling them the dream like in the movies. But that brought out the time wasters and when it came down to. Lets meet. They want dark.
Did I just waste $89 on a membership or What's the secret??
- Don Jon.[/QUOTE]I wish we could get some good intel like this on the vegas and L. A. Threads, so thanks for sharing and here is my 2 cents in the BOLD adding to Sparkish post.
Dude, I don't think there's a secret. As an earlier poster said, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. That's not to say it won't take a little time and effort and you absolutely will message and spend some time on more girls than you actually have a successful rendezvous with; but again, my experience has been better quality, cleaner, more dependable, and generally more appreciative girls once you get the leg work out of the way. - AGREED.
Don't hit every girl with the same approach. Ask questions, get them talking. That will reveal much and give you time and space to fine tune your approach. About 10% will get to a PPM indicator pretty quickly if that's what they are there for. Do what you want in that case. - AGREED IF YOU GOT THE TIME.
Be clear that intimacy (that's a great word to use) is expected; but don't discuss details of what that means on site. If they want to know know more, then move them to text or kik or similar. Don't cave on this point. Offline for those discussions. - AGREED.
Don't be just about intimacy. Talk about other interests, offer coffee or lunch. Ask them about their interests. Not because you care; but because once you get them talking, they will drop information you can use to home in on their particular formula. - AGREED.
Don't be in a rush. Read over your earlier comms. I'm going to guess you're telegraphing some over eagerness or worse, desperation. Just like regular girls, that's a turn off for them. I'm not telling you that to be a dick. I'm just saying text conversations are more open to interpretation than live ones. - AGREED.
I don't feel like this is required; but I think it's a good idea: insist on a platonic meet first. For my part, I want a girl that wants that level of discernment. No I'm not fooling myself about how many dicks she's sucking. I'm just pointing out that some standard is better no standard and it generally translates to better interactions, personally and physically. - I ALWAYS GIVE THEM THE CHOICE OF PLATONIC OR INTIMATE FOR THE FIRST DATE.
Don't get impatient with the girls that don't answer fast. They've got lives too and you should hope that they do. One of two things is true: 1) a good prospect will get back to you; and 2) if they aren't communicating, then they probably can't be depended on. - AGREED.
If I understand you correctly, you joined about a week after the first of the month. That's not optimal. Rent is paid, Christmas cash is coming from their family (for the lucky ones). They aren't feeling their needs as acutely as they will near the end of the month. December may be an aberration here. The girls with kids may want a little extra cash to make their kids Christmas nice; but the daddy's girls are probably getting gifts and such that make them a little less needy. January should improve in this regard. Maybe around the end of the month, reach out to a few of them again and see if you don't get a little more bounce from them. - I NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE TIME OF THE MONTH UNLESS IT INVOLVES AUNT FLOW.
OK, last point, I don't know what kind of financial arrangements you're discussing. You'll find a range of opinions on here and I may get some grief on this from both sides; but IMO, 200 - 300 is the sweet spot. The girls that are better know it and they know they can get it. The girls that come along for much less have been, in my experience, uniformly undesirable ultimately. I don't normally go above that unless we're talking a multi-hour, multi-pop situation. - AT THOSE RATES YOU COULD BE A CIRCUS CLOWN IN UNIFORM AND GET LAID.
Good luck to you man. Patience is your friend. Believe it or not, most of them need you more than you need them. Just keep that in the front of your brain. Don't be arrogant about that, just know that it's true and run your decisions through that filter. - 100% AGREED.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4589458]I wish we could get some good intel like this on the vegas and L. A. Threads, so thanks for sharing and here is my 2 cents in the BOLD adding to Sparkish post.
Dude, I don't think there's a secret. As an earlier poster said, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. That's not to say it won't take a little time and effort and you absolutely will message and spend some time on more girls than you actually have a successful rendezvous with; but again, my experience has been better quality, cleaner, more dependable, and generally more appreciative girls once you get the leg work out of the way. - AGREED.
Don't hit every girl with the same approach. Ask questions, get them talking. That will reveal much and give you time and space to fine tune your approach. About 10% will get to a PPM indicator pretty quickly if that's what they are there for. Do what you want in that case. - AGREED IF YOU GOT THE TIME.
Be clear that intimacy (that's a great word to use) is expected; but don't discuss details of what that means on site. If they want to know know more, then move them to text or kik or similar. Don't cave on this point. Offline for those discussions. - AGREED.
Don't be just about intimacy. Talk about other interests, offer coffee or lunch. Ask them about their interests. Not because you care; but because once you get them talking, they will drop information you can use to home in on their particular formula. - AGREED.
Don't be in a rush. Read over your earlier comms. I'm going to guess you're telegraphing some over eagerness or worse, desperation. Just like regular girls, that's a turn off for them. I'm not telling you that to be a dick. I'm just saying text conversations are more open to interpretation than live ones. - AGREED.
I don't feel like this is required; but I think it's a good idea: insist on a platonic meet first. For my part, I want a girl that wants that level of discernment. No I'm not fooling myself about how many dicks she's sucking. I'm just pointing out that some standard is better no standard and it generally translates to better interactions, personally and physically. - I ALWAYS GIVE THEM THE CHOICE OF PLATONIC OR INTIMATE FOR THE FIRST DATE.
Don't get impatient with the girls that don't answer fast. They've got lives too and you should hope that they do. One of two things is true: 1) a good prospect will get back to you; and 2) if they aren't communicating, then they probably can't be depended on. - AGREED.
If I understand you correctly, you joined about a week after the first of the month. That's not optimal. Rent is paid, Christmas cash is coming from their family (for the lucky ones). They aren't feeling their needs as acutely as they will near the end of the month. December may be an aberration here. The girls with kids may want a little extra cash to make their kids Christmas nice; but the daddy's girls are probably getting gifts and such that make them a little less needy. January should improve in this regard. Maybe around the end of the month, reach out to a few of them again and see if you don't get a little more bounce from them. - I NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE TIME OF THE MONTH UNLESS IT INVOLVES AUNT FLOW.
OK, last point, I don't know what kind of financial arrangements you're discussing. You'll find a range of opinions on here and I may get some grief on this from both sides; but IMO, 200 - 300 is the sweet spot. The girls that are better know it and they know they can get it. The girls that come along for much less have been, in my experience, uniformly undesirable ultimately. I don't normally go above that unless we're talking a multi-hour, multi-pop situation. - AT THOSE RATES YOU COULD BE A CIRCUS CLOWN IN UNIFORM AND GET LAID.
Good luck to you man. Patience is your friend. Believe it or not, most of them need you more than you need them. Just keep that in the front of your brain. Don't be arrogant about that, just know that it's true and run your decisions through that filter. - 100% AGREED.[/QUOTE]Thats a long reply brah.
[QUOTE=Scooter6;4589422]I was afraid of that in looking at pics she sent me. That sucks.
I had high hopes. She seems fun.[/QUOTE]Just going to jump in on this talk. I wouldn't worry about the teeth. They aren't terrible, just less than perfect. Nice girl, sweet as pie, sweet little body, down for anything. You won't regret it.
Thanks for the tips. I got it figured out and now I see thousands of ladies. All I can think now is, "why the hell have I been on STG for so long? This looks to be a numbers game. Run through a few dozen with messages, 15-20% will filter out and about 5%of those will meet my needs at my desired rates. Thanks for the help! I'll be sure to share as I play. -F904.
[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4589044]I don't know. I don't even have a paid account there and I can see most all of the links posted here.
Unless you put something in your profile that automagically screens out your account for a lot of them. Like "flat broke. Has herpes, bad![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sicilly;4589897]Thats a long reply brah.[/QUOTE]I thought it was excellent.