Rants, Raves, and Stupid Tinfoil Hat Wearing Conspiracy Bullshit

[QUOTE=Purple45;3378554]A man and a woman having sex is normal with no second thought given unless it is forced. A woman who grabs her man by the tie and drags him to the bedroom where she undress him, blows him and rides him till the bed collapses well that would be heaven, but sadly it doesn't happen often in life so men have to look else where for satisfaction. Paying or asking for sex well we all are guilty of that and depending on the country you are in; you could lose your big head for it. Is looking and paying for sex a problem? Yes it is, because it comes to the point where every women you see is a mental fantasy and a potential sexual rendezvous. Ever try to be professional on the job and you really can't hear what she is saying because the eye contact is really for day dreaming? Life's focus becomes the thrill of the next fine piece of ass that you can tag and bag for your own satisfaction while work and family become a lower priority or not one at all. Sex can be like any other addiction, but worse because of the complex involvement of the mind, body and soul so reality becomes skewed between fantasy, lust, love. Selfishness will cost a person their mental peace, their job, their family and potentially their life if the downward spiral reaches rock bottom.

I mentioned that certain activities was disgusting and not normal, but not the people themselves. I'm ok with anything sexual between a man and woman. If a man and a woman want to shit on each other and have some stinky fun well IMO that is gross. Do I have a problem for feeling that way? I don't think so. I'm not ok with homosexuality, pederasts, pedophilia and bestiality because the behavior is sickening. Is my reality wrong for feeling that way? I don't think so and it doesn't bother me if others disagree. My opinion is obviously different and we are probably not going to change our views. There is no disrespect taken or given, but in life sometimes it's necessary to agree that its ok to disagree. Nothing was said about putting anyone in a padded cell and throwing away the key. To me there was no extreme example given because IMO those sexual classifications are all categorized together as a mental disorder.[/QUOTE]Homosexuality is no longer classified as a mental disorder. It hasn't been for a long time. Did you know women who expressed sexual urges were once thought to have a mental disorder called hysteria? Stop living in the dark ages man.

[blue]You always gotta ask yourself "why the hate" and every time I do I can only come up with one reason. Unresolved homosexual ideation. I think fucking a guy is gross, sorry, I do, same with sucking a cock, I'm literally repulsed by the idea, but I don't think there is anything wrong with somebody else doing it. I don't hate guys who are into M4M, I know it's trite but I really do have tons of gay friends. I don't even think there is anything wrong with it, there's people in the world who love eating spiders and that shit is fucking disgusting to me so I don't eat spiders, I don't hate people who eat spiders, I just think eating spiders is fucking gross.

So it's like, why the hate? Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is the opposite of love, you cannot hate something that is outside of you, detached from you, you need to be invested in something before you can hate it. It's really more sad then it is contemptible.

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[QUOTE=Purple45;3378554]A man and a woman having sex is normal with no second thought given unless it is forced. A woman who grabs her man by the tie and drags him to the bedroom where she undress him, blows him and rides him till the bed collapses well that would be heaven, but sadly it doesn't happen often in life so men have to look else where for satisfaction. Paying or asking for sex well we all are guilty of that and depending on the country you are in; you could lose your big head for it. Is looking and paying for sex a problem? Yes it is, because it comes to the point where every women you see is a mental fantasy and a potential sexual rendezvous. Ever try to be professional on the job and you really can't hear what she is saying because the eye contact is really for day dreaming? Life's focus becomes the thrill of the next fine piece of ass that you can tag and bag for your own satisfaction while work and family become a lower priority or not one at all. Sex can be like any other addiction, but worse because of the complex involvement of the mind, body and soul so reality becomes skewed between fantasy, lust, love. Selfishness will cost a person their mental peace, their job, their family and potentially their life if the downward spiral reaches rock bottom.
I mentioned that certain activities was disgusting and not normal, but not the people themselves. I'm ok with anything sexual between a man and woman. If a man and a woman want to shit on each other and have some stinky fun well IMO that is gross. Do I have a problem for feeling that way? I don't think so. I'm not ok with homosexuality, pederasts, pedophilia and bestiality because the behavior is sickening. Is my reality wrong for feeling that way? I don't think so and it doesn't bother me if others disagree. My opinion is obviously different and we are probably not going to change our views. There is no disrespect taken or given, but in life sometimes it's necessary to agree that its ok to disagree. Nothing was said about putting anyone in a padded cell and throwing away the key. To me there was no extreme example given because IMO those sexual classifications are all categorized together as a mental disorder.[/QUOTE]You both articulated your opinions very well you get an A+ for your homework assignment. Who's right? Who's wrong? Depending on who you ask, One of you are absolutely correct the other one needs to study more. Speaking of reality, this difference of opinion will neeeeever change. Why? Because it's who we are. Agree to disagree is a step to move forward in respect for others opinion / get shit done depending on the environment it's being applied. Or it can be total gridlock and disrespect for the other side. You see the differences everyday everywhere, on CNN on Fox on Pussy websites, at work, at home, Overheard conversations while people are talking TOO FUCKING LOUD on there cell phones while setting beside me. Different opinions will neeever change. Damn! Must be cool as shit to be Prince.

[QUOTE=XHippie;3378614]You both articulated your opinions very well you get an A+ for your homework assignment. Who's right? Who's wrong? Depending on who you ask, One of you are absolutely correct the other one needs to study more. Speaking of reality, this difference of opinion will neeeeever change. Why? Because it's who we are. Agree to disagree is a step to move forward in respect for others opinion / get shit done depending on the environment it's being applied. Or it can be total gridlock and disrespect for the other side. You see the differences everyday everywhere, on CNN on Fox on Pussy websites, at work, at home, Overheard conversations while people are talking TOO FUCKING LOUD on there cell phones while setting beside me. Different opinions will neeever change. Damn! Must be cool as shit to be Prince.[/QUOTE]I am reminded of an exchange between Johnny Carson and a guest he asked for his definition of an alcoholic.

The guest responded that an alcoholic was anyone who drank more than him that he didn't like.

Members are a little selfish on this forum and for different reasons. Who can you really trust and who is better at taking care of yourself? Well the answer is; me, myself and I. Why? Fear and the love of money or pleasure.

P45.

Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Short answer Sure It happens all the time. Many monger's get into playing this game and get out of playing this game for different reasons. Same for the lady providers, they get in and out for different reasons. There is no simple answer to your question because this is real people having real encounters. You could ask 10 different people and probably get 10 different answers / advice based on THEIR current or past experience's. Here's my opinion, Sometimes it's just a sex attraction sometimes the two people actually do connect and sparks fly! She may have friends that will give her advice or she's thinking don't fall for him he's just another swinging dick that will eventually dump you or fuck around behind your back after all that's the way he met you right? Or the guys will say to you once she's had a taste of making money with that pussy, hands or mouth she will return to her old job once the love honeymoon is over. BUT it's like I said if the two REALLY connect on a level above all the sex etc. That's different. Sexual attraction is great but human attraction is something special, we all know when it's real you can feel it, It's what keeps us awake at night staring at the ceiling thinking about someone (oop's Freudian Slip). However I will say if she remained in the business of seeing others for cash and tries to hold a relationship, that's kinda like swimming up stream with a cinder block tied to your foot. But if she's getting out of the business and YOU yes YOU quit fucking other girls, you are one step closer to getting a mini van together which there is abosolutly nothing wrong with. We all need some love in our life.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Go in with the expectation you will used, and she will absolutely cheat on you. Then you can't go wrong.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Yep happen all the time. Times it works and times it don't. But the question is why would you want this? This is a relationship which no monger wants. If asked why they monger its "I don't want a relationship" The wife won't take care of me" or the popular "I pay them to leave". But these are the same guys who give bad reviews because they didn't get a GFE, was rushed, or didn't get to hang afterwards. Go figure. My opinion is if you want a relationship then go civy date and be a good boyfriend. Help them with the bills the same as you are with the P4P girls. I have no idea why you monger or why mongers need or want to insert themselves into a working girls life but more often it ends badly. Does this girl have any job skills? Have her punch a clock for awhile and see how long she last. Money is always a killer of a lot of relationships so hows that going to work? Some things to think on. Good luck whatever you choose.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3393779]Members are a little selfish on this forum and for different reasons. Who can you really trust and who is better at taking care of yourself? Well the answer is; me, myself and I. Why? Fear and the love of money or pleasure.

P45.[/QUOTE]I think its our own Egos that push us to our limits in anything we choose to do as humans. I also believe that in this business everyone is a squirrel and every nut is spoken for before it falls to the ground.

MZ.

[QUOTE=BeepBeepItsMe;3406323]Go in with the expectation you will used, and she will absolutely cheat on you. Then you can't go wrong.[/QUOTE]She is the one who said this was never her intention to do this. She is the one who said in 3 months she is done. She's doesn't do drugs, she truly has a plan and a great head on her shoulders. We're friends on FB too. She opened up pretty quick. Not going to say too much more. All she truly wants is for a friendship to develop. Hell, she mentioned she'd love to just go for coffee or tea and have meaningful conversation. Cuddle up and watch netflix.

Doesn't sound like someone who wants to do this or wants to hurt others.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406394]She is the one who said this was never her intention to do this. She is the one who said in 3 months she is done. She's doesn't do drugs, she truly has a plan and a great head on her shoulders. We're friends on FB too. She opened up pretty quick. Not going to say too much more. All she truly wants is for a friendship to develop. Hell, she mentioned she'd love to just go for coffee or tea and have meaningful conversation. Cuddle up and watch netflix.

Doesn't sound like someone who wants to do this or wants to hurt others.[/QUOTE]Wrong place to come seeking advice on love. This is a pussy board. You know her and your situation better than a bunch of guys masked with a username. Just saying.

Please don't take one of the good ones! There aren't that many of them left.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GiantG;3406497]Please don't take one of the good ones! There aren't that many of them left.[/QUOTE]She's going to leave the business within the next 3 months. We'll see how things develop with a relationship once she settles in.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]Can it work? Sure! Is it likely that it will? Probably not. The dynamic is already all wrong. You may grow insecure and find that she's not as sexual as when you paying her and she may start to resent giving you sex for free when she used to be paid for it.

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3406658]Can it work? Sure! Is it likely that it will? Probably not. The dynamic is already all wrong. You may grow insecure and find that she's not as sexual as when you paying her and she may start to resent giving you sex for free when she used to be paid for it.[/QUOTE]You appear to be a very active member of this board. Do you plan to continue visiting sex providers or you ready to go cold turkey. This is an addiction to some. Not saying you. But some.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406507]She's going to leave the business within the next 3 months. We'll see how things develop with a relationship once she settles in.[/QUOTE]Be a savior. Have done it several times and it is a fool's errand. You can't fix broken, and rest assured, any girl who works in this business to ANY degree is broken to a degree. Go ahead, make yourself feel better. You will see how it turns out. The ending is always the same. Disaster. Just how big of a disaster you need to prepare for is the great unknown.

Pluck your pay for sex escapades and romantic escapades from completely different ponds, else pay the price. And you will, whether you eventually admit it to the forum or not (or whether you even live to tell about it).

Don't be "that" lonely old guy.

[QUOTE=Amateur11;3407024]Be a savior. Have done it several times and it is a fool's errand. You can't fix broken, and rest assured, any girl who works in this business to ANY degree is broken to a degree. Go ahead, make yourself feel better. You will see how it turns out. The ending is always the same. Disaster. Just how big of a disaster you need to prepare for is the great unknown.

Pluck your pay for sex escapades and romantic escapades from completely different ponds, else pay the price. And you will, whether you eventually admit it to the forum or not (or whether you even live to tell about it).

Don't be "that" lonely old guy.[/QUOTE]While I'll agree with your points about being a "savior" I will have to disagree about every woman in this business being "broken" to the point of not being able to have a happy, healthy relationship. Perhaps not with someone who frequents providers but with someone who would fit into their social circle. One could argue that mongers would actually have a tougher time with relationships (and staying monogamous) because they are used to paying for who ever they want to have sex with them whereas most providers would be happy to only be with one person.

[QUOTE=Tabor;3406911]You appear to be a very active member of this board. Do you plan to contioftenbeitherisiting sex providers or you ready to go cold turkey. This is an addiction to some. Not saying you. But some.[/QUOTE]I actually just follow more than anything. I've seen maybe 5 providers. Can't afford to do it often either.

Of course generalizations can be right almost all of the time, but are usually defined by exceptions as well. As best as I know, most of the women in the biz have some kind of issue going on. Ranging from disasters like addiction to lesser things like minor personality disorders. I also know and have known some exceptions to the "broken rule" (again, as best as I can tell). Women who use P2 P as a means to an end, be it a financial goal (such as a college degree) or some personal thing. Any profession has a range of people involved in it, perhaps this one has a wider range than most. However, imagine a future USA in which the world's oldest profession is completely legal, suitably taxed and regulated for health, and is accepted by society as just another service business (albeit more intimate than most services). I think that would change things pretty dramatically. Won't happen in my lifetime, but I hope someday.

[QUOTE=Amateur11;3407024]Be a savior. Have done it several times and it is a fool's errand. You can't fix broken, and rest assured, any girl who works in this business to ANY degree is broken to a degree. Go ahead, make yourself feel better. You will see how it turns out. The ending is always the same. Disaster. Just how big of a disaster you need to prepare for is the great unknown.

Pluck your pay for sex escapades and romantic escapades from completely different ponds, else pay the price. And you will, whether you eventually admit it to the forum or not (or whether you even live to tell about it).

Don't be "that" lonely old guy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3407182]While I'll agree with your points about being a "savior" I will have to disagree about every woman in this business being "broken" to the point of not being able to have a happy, healthy relationship. Perhaps not with someone who frequents providers but with someone who would fit into their social circle. One could argue that mongers would actually have a tougher time with relationships (and staying monogamous) because they are used to paying for who ever they want to have sex with them whereas most providers would be happy to only be with one person.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=XHippie;3406225]BUT it's like I said if the two REALLY connect on a level above all the sex etc. That's different. Sexual attraction is great but human attraction is something special, we all know when it's real you can feel it, It's what keeps us awake at night staring at the ceiling thinking about someone (oop's Freudian Slip). However I will say if she remained in the business of seeing others for cash and tries to hold a relationship, that's kinda like swimming up stream with a cinder block tied to your foot. But if she's getting out of the business and YOU yes YOU quit fucking other girls, you are one step closer to getting a mini van together which there is abosolutly nothing wrong with. We all need some love in our life.[/QUOTE]XHippie is on point when he says, "If two REALLY connect on a level above all the sex. " and "Sexual attraction is great but human attraction is something special. " Everybody does need some love in life. My definition is; a person who you can't live without, a person who you are willing to change for the better, a person who you care about above yourself and a person who, if necessary, you are willing to die for. Love can be a feeling, but its more of a commitment. A conscious decision to do your best regardless of how you feel. It can work if both want it to work. When you like someone and there is an attraction and you enjoy their company because of genuine friendship; then the relationship and the sex will take care of itself because the focus will be on making them happy which in turn makes you happy and satisfied.

Anyone can change if they have the motivation to change. Trust will be the biggest issue in this relationship because of the past sex with different people. There can be no secrets about the past or in the future. Everything has to be open and honest. Passwords are known by both and everything is shared. No disappearing for two hours because the one half will wonder if the other half is having a quick rendezvous with the opposite sex. It's human nature to think the worst and never forget the bad so a conscious effort will be always be needed to remove any doubts. Real love forgives and forgets the wrong and only remembers the good. Real love believes and hopes and never quits giving regardless of how you feel. The problem is most people are selfish and protect themselves because we are afraid of being hurt. We are afraid that we are inadequate or will not be accepted or we will not measure up to past loves or lovers. We are afraid to give 100% because of fear the other person is holding back. We are afraid to be known because we are fearful the other person will not understand us or think less of us then they did before. Relationships and loves all have the same issues but having history of money for sex will stress the mind even more to completely trust and completely surrender unless there is genuine love.

[QUOTE=JohnWhitman;3407472]Of course generalizations can be right almost all of the time, but are usually defined by exceptions as well. As best as I know, most of the women in the biz have some kind of issue going on. Ranging from disasters like addiction to lesser things like minor personality disorders. I also know and have known some exceptions to the "broken rule" (again, as best as I can tell). Women who use P2 P as a means to an end, be it a financial goal (such as a college degree) or some personal thing. Any profession has a range of people involved in it, perhaps this one has a wider range than most. However, imagine a future USA in which the world's oldest profession is completely legal, suitably taxed and regulated for health, and is accepted by society as just another service business (albeit more intimate than most services). I think that would change things pretty dramatically. Won't happen in my lifetime, but I hope someday.[/QUOTE]I think many people in general have some sort of issue going on in this day and age but they are just better at hiding it because no one is questioning why you became an accountant, or chef or lawyer or whatever else. The military for instance seems to attract those who already have existing issues or leaves them with long lasting psychological problems but very few people tell someone who is pursuing a vet or active duty military member that they shouldn't bother because they are "probably" broken beyond repair (before anyone yells at me I am a vet). My point I guess is if you dig deep enough into some random person's life, it's likely you will find something wrong. We chose a risky profession that either leaves us leading double lives or on the edges of society so while many of us have some kind of issue I personally know of women who do it because of delibilating medical issues, to have more time for a special needs child, to put themselves through college, ect. I personally don't know anyone who is struggling with addiction (beyond the green stuff) though I do know a few with mental disorders (personality disorders are different and much more devastating) usually something like bipolar but I also know plenty of people outside this world who struggle with that. I have your typical garden variety depression with a dash of anxiety but again, I know plenty of people outside of this who struggle with it, some even worse than I do. While I think making this legal might attract healthier minded women, the stigma won't go away and people will always take any kind of issue you have with a "aha! So that's why you entered this profession". If we want to make this legal some day we have to start changing the attitude that anyone who does this is inherently broken beyond repair. If you have that attitude you might want to ask yourself why you are throwing stones in a glass house.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3407284]I actually just follow more than anything. I've seen maybe 5 providers. Can't afford to do it often either.[/QUOTE]You saved a lot of cash falling in love with one of the five providers you've seen over all these years.

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3407182]While I'll agree with your points about being a "savior" I will have to disagree about every woman in this business being "broken" to the point of not being able to have a happy, healthy relationship. Perhaps not with someone who frequents providers but with someone who would fit into their social circle. One could argue that mongers would actually have a tougher time with relationships (and staying monogamous) because they are used to paying for who ever they want to have sex with them whereas most providers would be happy to only be with one person.[/QUOTE]One could argue. I guess we can't use the w*h*o*r*e word... lol

[QUOTE=BeepBeepItsMe;3407845]One could argue. I guess we can't use the w*h*o*r*e word... lol[/QUOTE]Jesus, dude. Come on? That make you feel good?

So killing time and I search backpage london and. NOPE.

I can't seem to get there the backpage only allows me to view USA based cities?

Why'all try it and see if you get the same issue. ?

[QUOTE=BeepBeepItsMe;3407845]One could argue. I guess we can't use the w*h*o*r*e word... lol[/QUOTE]What makes you more qualified to give advice than myself? I'm a lot more objective and less biased than you appear to be.

[QUOTE=BeepBeepItsMe;3407845]One could argue. I guess we can't use the w*h*o*r*e word... lol[/QUOTE]If you don't think there are very broken people on the client side of this, and this is an ignorant comment. But I guess we can't use the word d*o*you*c*h*e*b*a*g*.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3407587]XHippie is on point when he says, "If two REALLY connect on a level above all the sex. " and "Sexual attraction is great but human attraction is something special. " Everybody does need some love in life. My definition is; a person who you can't live without, a person who you are willing to change for the better, a person who you care about above yourself and a person who, if necessary, you are willing to die for. Love can be a feeling, but its more of a commitment. A conscious decision to do your best regardless of how you feel. It can work if both want it to work. When you like someone and there is an attraction and you enjoy their company because of genuine friendship; then the relationship and the sex will take care of itself because the focus will be on making them happy which in turn makes you happy and satisfied.

Anyone can change if they have the motivation to change. Trust will be the biggest issue in this relationship because of the past sex with different people. There can be no secrets about the past or in the future. Everything has to be open and honest. Passwords are known by both and everything is shared. No disappearing for two hours because the one half will wonder if the other half is having a quick rendezvous with the opposite sex. It's human nature to think the worst and never forget the bad so a conscious effort will be always be needed to remove any doubts. Real love forgives and forgets the wrong and only remembers the good. Real love believes and hopes and never quits giving regardless of how you feel. The problem is most people are selfish and protect themselves because we are afraid of being hurt. We are afraid that we are inadequate or will not be accepted or we will not measure up to past loves or lovers. We are afraid to give 100% because of fear the other person is holding back. We are afraid to be known because we are fearful the other person will not understand us or think less of us then they did before. Relationships and loves all have the same issues but having history of money for sex will stress the mind even more to completely trust and completely surrender unless there is genuine love.[/QUOTE]I must say purple, spoken like a true romantic. Bravo. Its true all of what you said, the issue is application of that strategy. We as humans have a sense of curiosity and secrets. We would love to believe that we are told the whole truth and nothing but the truth, but in actuality we rarely speak to our partners about what we find alluring.

I think its overall better to remain open and honest, don't get me wrong. I also think that what truly makes us stronger, as a species, is sex with other people. If you take the hormone imbalance out of both them you are left with more logical partners. Its when we rely solely on one person for all of our sexual needs and desires we suffocate our relationship.

Its one thing to be super kinky crossed star lovers because you both realize there are no boundaries. Its another to be vanilla with a darker core, that's all boundaries.

I guess what I'm saying is that, if you want open and honest you might have to do a lot of things your not comfortable with in order to fully satisfy your partners needs and desires. If you won't another will.

MZ.

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3407881]What makes you more qualified to give advice than myself? I'm a lot more objective and less biased than you appear to be.[/QUOTE]Good Job, Sweetheart!

TS.

[QUOTE=BreannaBreeze;3407182]While I'll agree with your points about being a "savior" I will have to disagree about every woman in this business being "broken" to the point of not being able to have a happy, healthy relationship. Perhaps not with someone who frequents providers but with someone who would fit into their social circle. One could argue that mongers would actually have a tougher time with relationships (and staying monogamous) because they are used to paying for who ever they want to have sex with them whereas most providers would be happy to only be with one person.[/QUOTE]We're all broken in some ways. My vote is the mongers are broken much more than the girls. The girls are out there for the public to see. They stand on corners, they advertise their services and are reviewed. They put themselves out there in the public eye. Mongers on the other hand hide in the dark, slink around trying to play in this hobby. They have wives, family, jobs that could be lost if busted or caught. A lot couldn't get or maintain a relationship and working girls are their only solution. Mongers are way more broken IMHO.

[QUOTE=Sgiii;3406146]Has anyone ever met a provider and ended up becoming true friends, where the provider ended up leaving the life and started a normal job and even dated her like a true boyfriend / girlfriend type?

I am in close to a situation like that now.[/QUOTE]So it looks like your simple question hit a nerve and has come full circle with 2 answers. The romantics are saying if the emotions are real and beyond the sex thing go for it! The realist are saying once a player always a player HIM & HER. I'm thinking not many of us can say our girl friend or wife was a virgin when we connected. Meaning somebody else was tearing that pussy up with his rod and tongue before you 2 love birds fell in love. So the caveat to this girl is not that she was involved with others sexually but SHE DID IT FOR CASH. Does this caveat brand her like a tattoo for life meaning she has no option of changing or starting a new life maybe marriage and kids? So when you, me or any of us fall in love with someone at some point we had to put aside in our thought process that others had that pussy before you did so the relationship can move forward. Dwell on that and the relationship will never get off the ground. If these 2 put there past "habits and desires" aside, have real feelings for each other and TRUST each other let me say that again trust trust trust!! All I'm saying is sure it's possible. Junkies, Alcoholic's, Criminals etc. All have put it aside and moved on. Their circumstances did not brand them from changing. If they can do it so can a BP girl and a swinging dick monger. Corny, But Anything's possible if you want it bad enough. Ok that's my final 2 cents on the subject.

[QUOTE=Tabor;3408014]If you don't think there are very broken people on the client side of this, and this is an ignorant comment. But I guess we can't use the word d*o*you*c*h*e*b*a*g*.[/QUOTE]No. I agree. Broken on all sides.

[QUOTE=Llstickbow;3407862]So killing time and I search backpage london and. NOPE.

I can't seem to get there the backpage only allows me to view USA based cities?

Why'all try it and see if you get the same issue. ?[/QUOTE]Big Brother is watching you.

Not just you, I don't get there either. Well, dang, now we can't do research ahead of a transatlantic trip, LOL. I have been reading things about internet issues involving different countries and differing privacy laws, etc. I can only speculate but guess that some kind of legal issue is probably involved. Perhaps one of the IT experts amongst us knows more and can enlighten us.

[QUOTE=Llstickbow;3407862]So killing time and I search backpage london and. NOPE.

I can't seem to get there the backpage only allows me to view USA based cities?

Why'all try it and see if you get the same issue. ?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnWhitman;3408554]Not just you, I don't get there either. Well, dang, now we can't do research ahead of a transatlantic trip, LOL. I have been reading things about internet issues involving different countries and differing privacy laws, etc. I can only speculate but guess that some kind of legal issue is probably involved. Perhaps one of the IT experts amongst us knows more and can enlighten us.[/QUOTE]You could always just use a VPN or online proxy. There's a lot of free ones like [URL]https://hide.me/en/proxy[/URL], just make sure the selected IP is in the country of your choice.

Any boards here on the and. Topsail area?

A prostitute not having condoms is like a mechanic not having tools. It's a damn shame when you have to start asking prostitutes if they have condoms before handing over your money.

So do you not carry condoms Joe? As a rule I don't and even if I did I wouldn't use mine unless I preferred a certain type. I also only buy condoms when the prostitute says she'll pay me back. I usually don't charge them since I appreciate the gesture though.

The biggest reason I don't mess with prostitutes that don't have condoms is that it increases the chances they've done something unsafe. I've had more than a couple when faced with loosing money tell me how clean they are and offer bb.

Several guys on the backpage board have mentioned carrying when they see providers and doing that will get easier if constitutional carry becomes law. Does that mean that all mongers should carry? My answer would be no. Some tips if you do carry.

1. Keep it to yourself. No good can come of showing a prostitute your gun or telling her you have one.

2. Invest in a good holster. You don't want your gun falling out nor do you want it to be apparent that you have one.

3. Be mindful of where your clothes are and don't leave your gun in the room without you.

4. Invest in proper ammunition. You might get away with killing a pimp who has a knife but you won't get away with killing the person in the room next door if your bullet goes through a wall.

5. Don't get talked into buying a high caliber. At the range you'll be firing from a 22 will do the trick and not over penetrate. Remember this isn't a movie so you'll be firing until you run out not just once, which further negates the need for a high caliber gun that has the most stopping power.

6. Take defensive shooting course.

7. Practice drawing from your holster as well as getting up from a laying down position and retrieving your weapon from your clothes.

8. Find a lawyer before you need one and if you shoot someone keep your mouth shut when the police arrive.

9. If you can talk yourself out of the room then do it, NAL but your case should be stronger if you're trying to flee and have to defend yourself.

[QUOTE=JoeLooking;3421539]A prostitute not having condoms is like a mechanic not having tools. It's a damn shame when you have to start asking prostitutes if they have condoms before handing over your money.

So do you not carry condoms Joe? As a rule I don't and even if I did I wouldn't use mine unless I preferred a certain type. I also only buy condoms when the prostitute says she'll pay me back. I usually don't charge them since I appreciate the gesture though.

The biggest reason I don't mess with prostitutes that don't have condoms is that it increases the chances they've done something unsafe. I've had more than a couple when faced with loosing money tell me how clean they are and offer bb.[/QUOTE]You should assume that all do bb for the right price and if they have an outside life are they making a bf cover up? Thats very doubtful so somewhere along the line they are doing bb with someone.

What the hee-haw-heck is up with the high-end ladies copping attitudes when scheduling? I've reached out to two different ladies off of eros who were downright rude and arrogant in emails trying to schedule, get references, etc. This is why I shouldn't stray from my regulars. At least with BP gals you know what you get, but with 300-400-500/ hr ladies I'd expect at LEAST a little courtesy. Jeesh!