A strippers view of the world
[QUOTE=Mike04]You know, one thing I've noticed at some of the clubs, TL and GL especially, a lot of the girls are sitting at one end of the bar or the other with guys who are apparently regulars. But those regulars aren;t even spending any money on them.
I just don't get it. I'm there to spend a few bucks, and they're supposed to be there making bucks. Sometimes they're more like the neighborhood bar than a titty bar. I don't want them constantly pestering me, but damn, they oughta be asking for dances.[/QUOTE]
I see this comment a lot and thought I'd throw in my .02. I dated a few dancers in my younger days and heard things from the other side. Strippers sell fantasy. Some guys get so wrapped up in the fantasy that they think the girl really likes them, might date them like a regular girlfriend. You see this guy not tipping and think that she is wasting her time. She is laying the groundwork for money in the future. She acts like she really cares, "you're not like most guys that come in here...". Then after a while it's, "my kids really sick and they are going to turn off the heat, my ex boyfriend stole the rent money, etc..." So now for a little conversation the guy slips her $100 to help out and she maybe gives him a hug and kiss and it's more profitable than grinding all of the dicks in the room.
The next time you see that 'lucky" guy getting all of the "free" attention just laugh to yourself and ask the second hottest girl in the place for a dance.