It is not ok to NC / NS I don't care how cute you are!
A professional provider should NEVER NC / NS due to not being comfortable with the person that SHE scheduled time with. You should not even schedule with someone if you are not comfortable with them! Now had this been any other provider, you guys would have wrote her off in a quick minute. I understand the said provider is good, cute, ect. But that does not make it ok to be unprofessional and cancel or NC / NS all of the times I have read on here. Maybe if you guys didn't fall at her feet as if she had the last vajaja in Brevard, she would stop disrespecting all of you and not scheduling an apt until she has followed through with the proper background!
Just saying.