Thanks for the tip of the hat.
[QUOTE=PntyRdr;2668826]I learned from Lex that no matter how sweet or vulnerable a girl may seem, they are after one thing. So i try to keep that in perspective and stay as safe as possible. This is a risky game were playing.[/QUOTE]Brother PR,
I am happy that you agree with my mind set about the providers we choose to spend our time and money on and getting robbed or scammed is part of this game we play. I would caution any one about looking to get revenge on a provider that pulled a fast one and think they got away with it. Yes, I know some of you will say; Lex, you fought back one time when it happened to you! Yes I did, and luck was on my side and I walked away intact without a mark and my bankroll. The other bloke wasn't as lucky but looking back, I was a bit foolish to fight over mere pocket change when I spend more on some shirts than her hour rate. It's a lesson learned and a reminder to never get to relaxed no matter how many times you have see this provider, you are nothing but a means to an end in one form or another, either to pay a bill, buy Rx for her demons or what ever. I have met a few providers (higher end) that love what they do but for them too, it was nothing but a job. Now the average BP provider in my opinion are made up of a lot of single moms that doing what they have to do make ends meet by getting fast money they only way they know how. Then there are a few that loves making that that fast money without much effort, they may be free of demons but totally disconnected to the act itself. The WSW turned BP girl. Most of these play in both worlds and are only feeding their demons and see no profit from all their work. Turn and burn, just enough to stay high and hopefully keep enough to pay for a room to stay in. Lastly, the ones that give all their money to a handler, pimp or BF. I tend to think that they are not in control and will do what ever they are told, if the handler says rob this client, they will do it. Because either he supplies all their needs, feeding their demons, food, clothing keeping a room for them etc. Most are in relationships with these guys and they may even think its a real relationship and will do anything he says. I think those are the most dangerous ones to deal with because they tend to think they are a modern day Bonnie and Clyde.
Lex.