I'm with Lefty on this one. A different girl, one I really like (sweet-seeming, fantastic sex) is currently on her second stretch as a guest of the state. At first I tried to do some things, sent some correspondence, looked into if I could help, but in reality you can't do much and that which you can do puts your own reputation at risk. I try to keep my hobby life quarantined from the rest of my life and having a girl who's been "in" twice knowing where I live, what stuff I have in my house, etc doesn't do anyone any good.
[QUOTE=LookingForLefty;1795628]Not trying to be a smartass but I wonder what would be the best way to help? She obviously has some serious issues if she is in jail. I mean you have to mess up pretty bad to do that. Up to this point I was thinking the best thing to do is not see her and give her money. We know where the money went. Putting money on the books, letters and visits, that would only associate you with a known felon. Lots of victims in this situation, particularly her kids. I'm no exception, I've had a soft spot for some really nasty girls. Taken some in like stray cats and kept them around as pets. Always drew the line when it came to drugs and with juveniles. Remember you got feelings, they got feelings. Don't fall in love with a provider.[/QUOTE]
