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[QUOTE=MongerSeeker;5510293]Fairly surprising this the first report I have read about SW's in the hotel circle area. I am glad we have not seen that whinny the Summer Stephenu on TV lately. About a year ago she said that all working girls are human trafficking victims.[/QUOTE]Yeah I recall picking up a very hot Hawaiian girl there about 10-15 years ago. She was 20 yo very sexy body. She would walk on ECB off the 805. She disappeared for a while, when she came back she had gained some weight, still very cute tho. I think I only saw her once and she disappeared again. I want to say her name was Kelly but I don't quite remember.

Are there any hourly rate motels around San Diego?

Kind of reminds me of this joke:

Barbara Walters was doing a documentary on the customs of American Indians.

After a tour of a reservation they were on, she asked why the difference in the number of feathers in the headdresses. She asked a brave who had only one feather in his headdress.

His reply was, "Me have only one squaw, me have only one feather. ".

She asked another brave, feeling the first fellow was only joking. This brave had four feathers in his headdress.

He replied, "Ugh, me have four feathers, because me sleep with four squaws. " Still not convinced the number of feathers indicated the number of squaws involved she decided to interview the chief.

Now the chief had a headdress full of feathers, which needless to say, amused Ms. Walters.

She asked the chief, "Why do you have so many feathers in your headdress?

The chief proudly pounded his chest and said, "Me chief, Me fuck-them-all. Big, small, fat, tall. Me fuck-them-all. " Horrified Ms. Walters stated, "You oughta be hung. " The chief replied, "You damn right me hung. Big, like buffalo. Long, like snake. " Ms. Walters cried, "You don't have to be so goddamned hostile!" The chief replied, "Hoss-style, dog-style, wolf-style, any style me fuck-them-all. " Tears in her eyes, Ms. Walters cried, "Oh dear. " The chief said, "No deer. Me no fuck deer. Asshole too high, and fuckers run too fast, no fuck deer. ".

Hey I understand it, it's a job and a career for some.

SB on arrangements want our attention and we pay this abhorrent price.

* give us blue balls and we pay the outrageous subscription fee to get a glimpse of their bodies and pussy.

I try not to get to close to these women, but emotions are hard (no pun intended) to suppress.

Sometimes you find that ATF and fall madly in "Love" (Lust).

When you try to connect a little to get to know them, find out how they got to where they are, sometimes they share.

Hey it's wonderful I got to fuck a beautiful (beauty is in the eye of the beholder), especially when they organically cum, as Baller55's stories are great with his Unicorn. We all have that unicorn, but the reality is they're fucking others as well. We just turn a blind eye.

Well finding out that my ATF has a boyfriend, (I was envious, because he gets to fuck her for "Free") nothing is entirely free because we all have to spend a little here and there.

But Long Story Short, I fucked a woman who has a BF or SO and so what I paid it, as Charlie Sheen said, "I paid her to leave" (LOL).

But she enjoyed it with me, which got my endorphins running high and a great big boost to my EGO.

So for all fellow mongers here, I enjoy your stories with the K agencies, (The Peppers, Mannies, Aces, and what have you), and the High End Super Expensive Fun Escorts, and the Low to High End Independent Masseuses).

Peace and keep fucking

[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5538561]Hey I understand it, it's a job and a career for some.

SB on arrangements want our attention and we pay this abhorrent price.

* give us blue balls and we pay the outrageous subscription fee to get a glimpse of their bodies and pussy.

I try not to get to close to these women, but emotions are hard (no pun intended) to suppress.

Sometimes you find that ATF and fall madly in "Love" (Lust).

When you try to connect a little to get to know them, find out how they got to where they are, sometimes they share.

Hey it's wonderful I got to fuck a beautiful (beauty is in the eye of the beholder), especially when they organically cum, as Baller55's stories are great with his Unicorn. We all have that unicorn, but the reality is they're fucking others as well. We just turn a blind eye.

Well finding out that my ATF has a boyfriend, (I was envious, because he gets to fuck her for "Free") nothing is entirely free because we all have to spend a little here and there.

But Long Story Short, I fucked a woman who has a BF or SO and so what I paid it, as Charlie Sheen said, "I paid her to leave" (LOL).

But she enjoyed it with me, which got my endorphins running high and a great big boost to my EGO.

So for all fellow mongers here, I enjoy your stories with the K agencies, (The Peppers, Mannies, Aces, and what have you), and the High End Super Expensive Fun Escorts, and the Low to High End Independent Masseuses).

Peace and keep fucking[/QUOTE]It's totally true. I agreed.

[QUOTE=Captn619;5514494]Are there any hourly rate motels around San Diego?[/QUOTE]Not hourly but the next best thing. Seems to have good options. I haven't tried it yet. Let us know how it goes.

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/l/hotels-by-the-hour[/URL]

[QUOTE=SDMonger69;5541452]Not hourly but the next best thing. Seems to have good options. I haven't tried it yet. Let us know how it goes.

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/l/hotels-by-the-hour[/URL][/QUOTE]Here is another one:

[URL]https://harvey-s-motel-san-diego.booked.net/.[/URL] $50-$60 for about two hours. Nice place, clean.

What a great post and thanks for sharing. I recently had this happen to me. Fell in love / lust with my ATF and found out she had a boyfriend. I had asked her several times if she had a SO but she repeatedly denied having one, but stupidly I looked her up on social media and found out she did have someone. I have to admit it took me by surprise and against good judgement, I stupidly said something to her about it. I wasn't angry or anything but I admit I was hurt that she lied to me. I had thought we were good friends, but I realized I was just another stupid John she found amusing. In the end, she ended up getting pissed off and wouldn't see me anymore. Worse than that she told her hot friends about it and they didn't want to see me either and her bookie wouldn't schedule any appts with them. What a freaking headache!

If you find yourself in this situation, let me recommend you just keep your mouth shut. It's hard but if you want to continue fucking your ATF and her hot friends, it's best to just not to say anything. Better yet, don't fall in love / lust. Easier said than done, I know, since we're human. Funny thing is she recently texted me but wouldn't see me when she came to town. She also got pissed off when she found out I recently fucked one of her friends. Like I said, it can be hard when all you think about is her. IMHO, you just can't have a serious relationship with a prostitute. If she really loves you, she'll find a way to quit the profession / career to be with you. I like you guys but I won't share my girl with anyone.

[QUOTE=DrPornDawger;5538561]Hey I understand it, it's a job and a career for some.

SB on arrangements want our attention and we pay this abhorrent price.

* give us blue balls and we pay the outrageous subscription fee to get a glimpse of their bodies and pussy.

I try not to get to close to these women, but emotions are hard (no pun intended) to suppress.

Sometimes you find that ATF and fall madly in "Love" (Lust).

When you try to connect a little to get to know them, find out how they got to where they are, sometimes they share.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SDMonger69;5541452]Not hourly but the next best thing. Seems to have good options. I haven't tried it yet. Let us know how it goes.

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/l/hotels-by-the-hour[/URL][/QUOTE]Once I booked a hotel via day use and I arrived at the hotel.

Hotel denied me the room saying that they are not entertaining dayuse customer at that moment as they were full.

I had to then get another hotel right away.

[QUOTE=Magnum44;5542059]What a great post and thanks for sharing. I recently had this happen to me. Fell in love / lust with my ATF and found out she had a boyfriend. I had asked her several times if she had a SO but she repeatedly denied having one, but stupidly I looked her up on social media and found out she did have someone. I have to admit it took me by surprise and against good judgement, I stupidly said something to her about it. I wasn't angry or anything but I admit I was hurt that she lied to me. I had thought we were good friends, but I realized I was just another stupid John she found amusing. In the end, she ended up getting pissed off and wouldn't see me anymore. Worse than that she told her hot friends about it and they didn't want to see me either and her bookie wouldn't schedule any appts with them. What a freaking headache!

If you find yourself in this situation, let me recommend you just keep your mouth shut. It's hard but if you want to continue fucking your ATF and her hot friends, it's best to just not to say anything. Better yet, don't fall in love / lust. Easier said than done, I know, since we're human. Funny thing is she recently texted me but wouldn't see me when she came to town. She also got pissed off when she found out I recently fucked one of her friends. Like I said, it can be hard when all you think about is her. IMHO, you just can't have a serious relationship with a prostitute. If she really loves you, she'll find a way to quit the profession / career to be with you. I like you guys but I won't share my girl with anyone.[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear about your experience and the pain you're feeling over it.

It is true, we can fall for our providers. Whenever sex is involved the heart can follow. I'm careful that my FWBs and providers don't get attached to me, but there have been times I've felt the extra connection to them and had to manage it accordingly with the reality that it's just sex, or the sex business.

I have a special unicorn where I spent a lot of fun time with where I discovered I cared way more than I should have when I saw a post in here about her. He shared a lot about her, many details, and I was like what are you doing? I took his sharing about her like a punch in the gut. Right then I realized it was time for me to step back and do a reality check, because I knew I was not going to let her interfere with my real life. She's a provide, sure a great one, a friend to me, but a provider, and I'm a client, maybe a friend to her, but still a client, and that fact wasn't going to change. I now still see her, and truly enjoy her, but I see her a lot less.

Providers have to protect their lives and hearts, just like we should. Sure some do mutually fall in love and change each other's lives, but that doesn't' always work. Rescuing that special fallen angel is a common hero fantasy. If that is possible, both of you will know it, and show it.

Although you are a John I don't think you were just another John to her, it is possible you are still special to her on some level. Providers have their own lives and just as we'd dump a clingy or overly connected provider that we don't want interfering with our real lives they too don't want someone interfering with their real lives either. You got too close, she had to cut you off.

Unfortunately, she is doing what women who have dumped someone will do, she wants to know you still care, which is why she reached out to you. Despite this she still intends to keeps you distant. This is her feeding her own ego knowing you still feel for her. Your connection was probably special to her on some level which is why she doesn't want you going to her friends. Again this is her feeding her own ego of control over you. Do your best to let go as soon as you can.

And a point I always remember. All women are prostitutes to some degree.

Men give something to get sex, we give $, security, love, etc.

Women give sex to get something, they want $, security, love etc.

Your experience is a lesson to us all, thank you for being open enough to share it.

Hang in there, it's never fun to experience unreturned love.

Max.

[QUOTE=SDMonger69;5541452]Not hourly but the next best thing. Seems to have good options. I haven't tried it yet. Let us know how it goes.

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/l/hotels-by-the-hour[/URL][/QUOTE]This is a really nice option. If you have a great girl, these would be a great way to spend an afternoon or evening. Thanks for letting us know about these.

Thanks Max. Your words are appreciated. Maybe, she'll see me again. IDK. Obviously, I enjoyed the sex (love-making) and that's what I really miss. Honestly, that's why I am so sad. LOL! I think we can still have some fun, but you're right, it would be different. I'd just like to enjoy her again casually, before things got sideways with me wanting to get to know her. For anyone reading this, just don't do what I did, but I believe it happens more often than we think. Save yourself a headache.

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;5542742]Sorry to hear about your experience and the pain you're feeling over it.

It is true, we can fall for our providers. Whenever sex is involved the heart can follow. I'm careful that my FWBs and providers don't get attached to me, but there have been times I've felt the extra connection to them and had to manage it accordingly with the reality that it's just sex, or the sex business.

I have a special unicorn where I spent a lot of fun time with where I discovered I cared way more than I should have when I saw a post in here about her. He shared a lot about her, many details, and I was like what are you doing? I took his sharing about her like a punch in the gut. Right then I realized it was time for me to step back and do a reality check, because I knew I was not going to let her interfere with my real life. She's a provide, sure a great one, a friend to me, but a provider, and I'm a client, maybe a friend to her, but still a client, and that fact wasn't going to change. I now still see her, and truly enjoy her, but I see her a lot less.

Providers have to protect their lives and hearts, just like we should. Sure some do mutually fall in love and change each other's lives, but that doesn't' always work. Rescuing that special fallen angel is a common hero fantasy. If that is possible, both of you will know it, and show it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;5542742]Sorry to hear about your experience and the pain you're feeling over it.

It is true, we can fall for our providers. Whenever sex is involved the heart can follow. I'm careful that my FWBs and providers don't get attached to me, but there have been times I've felt the extra connection to them and had to manage it accordingly with the reality that it's just sex, or the sex business.

I have a special unicorn where I spent a lot of fun time with where I discovered I cared way more than I should have when I saw a post in here about her. He shared a lot about her, many details, and I was like what are you doing? I took his sharing about her like a punch in the gut. Right then I realized it was time for me to step back and do a reality check, because I knew I was not going to let her interfere with my real life. She's a provide, sure a great one, a friend to me, but a provider, and I'm a client, maybe a friend to her, but still a client, and that fact wasn't going to change. I now still see her, and truly enjoy her, but I see her a lot less.

Providers have to protect their lives and hearts, just like we should. Sure some do mutually fall in love and change each other's lives, but that doesn't' always work. Rescuing that special fallen angel is a common hero fantasy. If that is possible, both of you will know it, and show it.

Although you are a John I don't think you were just another John to her, it is possible you are still special to her on some level. Providers have their own lives and just as we'd dump a clingy or overly connected provider that we don't want interfering with our real lives they too don't want someone interfering with their real lives either. You got too close, she had to cut you off..[/QUOTE]I have an ATF that I've been seeing for several years. Financially it was a steal for me and I always got full GFE. We've gone out to lunches, hung out for coffees. I helped her move and decorate her place. Even did her brakes. We would chat on the regular and I would say the line between provider and john was pretty blurred. She's now in a relationship and it definitely has put a damper on activities and the mood. Funny when I fucked her friend she took it as a challenge to try to provide with more effort. Maybe I should resort to that again.

[QUOTE=DRaj123;5542507]Once I booked a hotel via day use and I arrived at the hotel.

Hotel denied me the room saying that they are not entertaining dayuse customer at that moment as they were full.

I had to then get another hotel right away.[/QUOTE]I've experienced something similar. But I have my sugarbaby get the room and reimburse her. She got to the hotel, they claimed the reservation number she had was not valid. We were not able to meet that day.

I have used another service, hotelsbyday, that has never pulled that. However, they aren't as widely used. One other thing you can do. Many Hilton properties have a day rate. You use the reservation search function, just list the same day as check in and check out. I have posted on this extensively in the archive of the Richmond sugarbabies thread.

I was in a relationship, well I thought I was, I bought the groceries and took her to meals and what have you even paid for the birth control pills. I got paid back in sex mostly. So eventually I paid for sex. (What do you guys think).

Of course I fell for her but she didn't. She was seeing others on the side.

Was it just a seeking kind of arrangement?

I've read the SA / SB forum. How much sex do people get for that 1200-1700/ month arrangements?

[QUOTE=HardRock365;5544176]I have an ATF that I've been seeing for several years. Financially it was a steal for me and I always got full GFE. We've gone out to lunches, hung out for coffees. I helped her move and decorate her place. Even did her brakes. We would chat on the regular and I would say the line between provider and john was pretty blurred. She's now in a relationship and it definitely has put a damper on activities and the mood. Funny when I fucked her friend she took it as a challenge to try to provide with more effort. Maybe I should resort to that again.[/QUOTE]