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[QUOTE=LTlurker53;4501731]I have seen her a few times. Clean home in good neighborhood near the beaches. Maybe one of the most real and laid back women I have met. Very attractive. The pics are spot on. She's not 20 but knows what she likes and is very giving. Be a gentleman and I'm sure you will have a great time. $$.[/QUOTE]She quoted me much more but sounds like she's fun.
I may have to re-engage her.
Or it might've been away. Anyone remember her? She still at the same number? Still active? PM is ok.
[QUOTE=Krusen09;4507914]Or it might've been away. Anyone remember her? She still at the same number? Still active? PM is ok.[/QUOTE]Think it was Anchors Up. She doesn't show up on my list of people messaged anymore.
[QUOTE=Sned1;4509229]Think it was Anchors Up. She doesn't show up on my list of people messaged anymore.[/QUOTE]If your asking about the one who had an apartment off sunbeam. This may be her under a new name?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/12773f4a-9a60-41df-ad29-0dbb9c3a875e[/URL]
[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;4512743]If your asking about the one who had an apartment off sunbeam. This may be her under a new name?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/12773f4a-9a60-41df-ad29-0dbb9c3a875e[/URL][/QUOTE]Could be her. But I'm leaning toward it not being her. Just my opinion.
[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;4512743]If your asking about the one who had an apartment off sunbeam. This may be her under a new name?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/12773f4a-9a60-41df-ad29-0dbb9c3a875e[/URL][/QUOTE]No, that's not her. I remember the face of the one you're talking about, and this definitely isn't her. She had kind of a crooked jaw or crossbite. (I never saw her in person, just on the site).
So I was wondering how others get SB to accept payment AFTER the meet instead of BEFORE without pissing them off or spoiling the mood.
[QUOTE=BudGreen;4514923]So I was wondering how others get SB to accept payment AFTER the meet instead of BEFORE without pissing them off or spoiling the mood.[/QUOTE]I've never had a problem just leaving the envelope on the table with a real SB. Just stay away from the ones that are also on stg and escort sites because they probably have management or other issues. And don't treat them like they owe you something. Most think of it as dating with benefits and hope you'll continue the relationship so they can get off the SB site and settle in with a regular SD. Chatting on seeking is a pain in the ass for us and for them as well.
[QUOTE=BudGreen;4514923]So I was wondering how others get SB to accept payment AFTER the meet instead of BEFORE without pissing them off or spoiling the mood.[/QUOTE]Establish a good rapport with them. Prove to them you're not a douche and that you're good for the money you've agreed to.
Tell them you got cashed and Dashed on before for providing the money before and now its your policy to provide it after. If they don't understand the find someone else.
[QUOTE=BudGreen;4514923]So I was wondering how others get SB to accept payment AFTER the meet instead of BEFORE without pissing them off or spoiling the mood.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BudGreen;4514923]So I was wondering how others get SB to accept payment AFTER the meet instead of BEFORE without pissing them off or spoiling the mood.[/QUOTE]I make it clear at the first meet / greet that I understand there are cads out there who either don't pay. Or pay less than agreed upon. And I hate it as much as they do. So, I tell them, I will place ALL the cash on the dresser and I even encourage them to count it. So every body is happy. And "happy" is what it's all about. Like the saying goes. They don't care how much you know if they don't know how much you care.
[QUOTE=BudGreen;4514923]So I was wondering how others get SB to accept payment AFTER the meet instead of BEFORE without pissing them off or spoiling the mood.[/QUOTE]I've never had one of mine ask for it. I just leave it near their purse or keys or whatever they have in there, at the END of the date. I don't ever even talk about it. We had already set the amount prior to the dates, so no need to bring it up. I don't say "Here you go" or anything like that. Just leave it.
Like another monger said, if you have a girl ask for it up from, she's probably not a good SB, and maybe came from STG. If you are dating the lower end ones, then you just need to treat them the same as you would on STG.
Anyone recommend a Gift Card they have actually used to pay for Seeking? I'm looking at the ones they sell in Publix, the Visa Gift Cards but on the back it says not for use on reoccurring charges or something like that. Any help is appreciated.
[QUOTE=ShaggyD;4525201]Anyone recommend a Gift Card they have actually used to pay for Seeking? I'm looking at the ones they sell in Publix, the Visa Gift Cards but on the back it says not for use on reoccurring charges or something like that. Any help is appreciated.[/QUOTE]I use the ones from Publix. I register it with a fake name and address. Then use that same info on my SA profile when paying. Works fine.
[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;4525221]I use the ones from Publix. I register it with a fake name and address. Then use that same info on my SA profile when paying. Works fine.[/QUOTE]Thanks, wasn't sure if it would work. I assume you used one recently since it's a month sign up? How did the automatic deduction thing work on a card that's limited funds?