MotorCity Mayhem

[QUOTE=Jd2011;7579998]Since this is in the Motorcity mayhem thread, I will answer somewhat aggressively. Take off your pink cotton panties, put on some big boy pants, and get out there and fuck some pussy.[/QUOTE]We're men and men have needs! We come from the cave, and we hunt to survive. Was told by a Dr. Once fucking broads helps reduce prostrate cancer by 15-20%. Looked it up on the internet and it's true! So really all you're doing is helping her. RTFF and follow the sage advice from Seniors with hundreds of posts.

Not in order, but my fellow Seniors could add on.

Lesson 1 - Don't be an a-hole in the hobby.

Lesson 2 - Don't cause GPS.

Lesson 3 - Always have your head on a swivel thinking with your big head not little.

Lesson 4 - As JD says put those big boy pants on and get out there!

Lesson 5 - RTFF.

Lesson 6 - Follow 1-5.

Appreciate it! Definitely got some good tips. But really I just need to just do it. I have a couple of AMPs I'm thinking of and I will report my experience. Thanks gents.

[QUOTE=SirKul;7579636]I've been out of the hobby for a few years but I've never lost my interest in it. I lurk here on the boards and look at the ads on Escort Alligator, STG and Tryst and I find a woman I like. Get vetted, sometimes a deposit but that's where I end. I can't get through the door so to speak. I love my wife and family but she's not really interested in sex anymore. I have to do a myriad of things she likes just to a blow job and that's not a guarantee. How do I say, don't worry about it, a porn star is in town and I have a date set up later. Obviously that won't work.

I just feel great finding one and setting it up but then feel intense guilt which keeps me from taking the final step. Any suggestions about how I break through and start enjoying the hobby without feeling super guilty. Thanks.[/QUOTE]SK:

You say your guilt over the hobby is preventing you from moving forward to actually enjoy sex with another woman. You have two choices on addressing that guilt:

1) Consider that your wife apparently feels NO guilt over shortchanging you in the marital bed. You are willing and able, but she is able and NOT willing? And she has observed that she can apparently satisfy you with less than you expect, because you have been accepting less. Have you told her this is unacceptable? How long have you been married? Children? Stress over family, chronic illness, job, debt, education? Perhaps something is bothering your wife that you don't know about. Sit her down and explain that you are dissatisfied with the status quo in the bedroom, what's wrong? If there is disagreement as to what is expected in the bedroom, then time for an impartial referee in couples counseling, try to resolve the root cause of her disinterest in sex.

Or.

2) Consider that your wife is no longer interested in keeping you happy in the bedroom, and ask yourself why she doesn't feel guilt about doing the minimum or less? Ask yourself, are you doing everything in your power to keep her interested in you? If you aren't, then step it up and see if she changes her tune. But, if nothing you have tried so far has gotten her to warm up to you, then ask yourself why you should feel guilty about getting what you want elsewhere when your wife could do so, but refuses.

And when you go home to your wife after a session with a SP, be mindful that your SP is keeping you satisfied in bed so that you can continue being married to your wife without resentment building over the lack of sexual relations at home. Your SP is providing more than just sex; she is offering respite, and a sympathetic ear. These women spend more time listening to their clients' problems than their clients spouses do.

Good luck.

WK.