[QUOTE=PattrickDan;3694348]Just made some plans with this one from SA. Seems like a UTR pro, anyone had any dealings with her?
Thanks.
Stay safe.[/QUOTE]How was the meeting with her go? Was she safe and legit and provide a good service.
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[QUOTE=PattrickDan;3694348]Just made some plans with this one from SA. Seems like a UTR pro, anyone had any dealings with her?
Thanks.
Stay safe.[/QUOTE]How was the meeting with her go? Was she safe and legit and provide a good service.
[QUOTE=SNathan;3753683]How was the meeting with her go? Was she safe and legit and provide a good service.[/QUOTE]Pics are old or its not the same woman. CBJ, CFS. Rushed and not worth the effort. Had to provide a room too. But of course, YMMV.
Stay safe.
[QUOTE=DCloud9;3752610]It didn't work for me either. Nor does it work for the other site. It seems all international does not take vanilla. Any help is appreciated here too.[/QUOTE]Posted in BP Reviews. Works like a charm anywhere Visa is accepted, on-line or at hotels. Read other post for info.
Stay safe.
I am needing a discreet place to park for some car fun with a girl I have met. I am looking for somewhere close to or downtown Greenville. Any suggestions? Best parking garage? Abandoned businesses? Any good suggestions? PM me if you have a good place to share. It would be much appreciated.
We've texted extensively. She talks a good game but she's baled on me twice. Now I think she's a big time waster. Anyone talk to or meet her?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9ad7d6a9-976c-4fd8-a7cb-4f774c960952[/URL]
Alyssa_bby.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6a5577fa-01ff-4bc6-a496-e8f768546474[/URL]
Does anyone know anything about her? Why does she look so damn familiar? Past pro? I know I have seen her face somewhere before but can't nail it down.
007.
You have a PM brother.
[QUOTE=JustForToday;3762499]Alyssa_bby.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6a5577fa-01ff-4bc6-a496-e8f768546474[/URL]
Does anyone know anything about her? Why does she look so damn familiar? Past pro? I know I have seen her face somewhere before but can't nail it down.
007.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Shelby500;3757392]We've texted extensively. She talks a good game but she's baled on me twice. Now I think she's a big time waster. Anyone talk to or meet her?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9ad7d6a9-976c-4fd8-a7cb-4f774c960952[/URL][/QUOTE]She, will drag you along for a bit. She is not worth the it. Was set to visit her, and then she ask about the compensation, when I offered $300, she countered with the line, ' I have been offer 20 K for a week. ' so take that for what its worth.
Supposed to meet Alyssa_bby this weekend. Any info? For hwr social media, snapchat, seems ok.
The question should be "So you were offered 20 k, but did you get 20 K? And if you did get 20 k, what the f. U. K. are you doing here? Shouldn't you be blowing the chucklehead that gave you the 20 K!"
Peace.
Pappa54.
[QUOTE=Jims2321;3762644]She, will drag you along for a bit. She is not worth the it. Was set to visit her, and then she ask about the compensation, when I offered $300, she countered with the line, ' I have been offer 20 K for a week. ' so take that for what its worth.[/QUOTE]
Agreed to 2. 5 Was good to go until it was time then needed more dates to work up to it. No thanks.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0bbacf25-2792-4137-982e-e114ff848a03[/URL].
Seems like a gps type. But we are chatting. Will find out soon.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cab66d4c-b5fa-4847-997f-fb13328d293a[/URL].
Agreed to 2. 5 Meeting next few days. Any info?
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/12bf75a8-4dca-46cb-8d55-fd380571ea05[/URL].
Wants 4. Too much. Cute / Friendly But unless she reconsiders its a pass.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a3240708-33a0-4922-a109-5ea7e17ac73a[/URL].
Agreed to 2. 5. Will have to decide if I follow thru. Too many responded positively. Not enuff time / funds to see them all.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a9dd82bf-faca-429f-818b-fecf8f7e386c[/URL].
3 seperate profiles. All with same pics. Each for a seperate girl. Scam of just all 3 on site. Talking to this one.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6808ac92-8896-4518-b054-3d4ee63b8f37[/URL].
Texting with this one. Went dark for laat couple days though.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/45ce00c2-deb8-4e7a-9ced-7aaa98892f67[/URL].
Really wanted to meet this one. Very positive in chat. Agreed to amount. What an ass! Dark for a few days. Uggh!
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5f6286f6-8f27-4a0c-af72-7864c11f68ac[/URL].
Would avoid. Drama and shady.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2bfef503-291b-4b73-97dd-223ca0d8a08e[/URL].
Got a couple more but going to wait till I meet before posting LOL. I know links from here get profiles blown up. So want first shot LOL.
[QUOTE=Jims2321;3762644]She, will drag you along for a bit. She is not worth the it. Was set to visit her, and then she ask about the compensation, when I offered $300, she countered with the line, ' I have been offer 20 K for a week. ' so take that for what its worth.[/QUOTE]I would have laughed then said good maybe next you can find a guy with a private plane to take you for dinner in Paris.
#1 makes me sad for you.
[QUOTE=RedThunder;3762838]Agreed to 2. 5 Was good to go until it was time then needed more dates to work up to it. No thanks.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0bbacf25-2792-4137-982e-e114ff848a03[/URL].
Seems like a gps type. But we are chatting. Will find out soon.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cab66d4c-b5fa-4847-997f-fb13328d293a[/URL].
Agreed to 2. 5 Meeting next few days. Any info?
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/12bf75a8-4dca-46cb-8d55-fd380571ea05[/URL].
Wants 4. Too much. Cute / Friendly But unless she reconsiders its a pass.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a3240708-33a0-4922-a109-5ea7e17ac73a[/URL].
Agreed to 2. 5. Will have to decide if I follow thru. Too many responded positively. Not enuff time / funds to see them all.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a9dd82bf-faca-429f-818b-fecf8f7e386c[/URL].
3 seperate profiles. All with same pics. Each for a seperate girl. Scam of just all 3 on site. Talking to this one.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6808ac92-8896-4518-b054-3d4ee63b8f37[/URL].
Texting with this one. Went dark for laat couple days though.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/45ce00c2-deb8-4e7a-9ced-7aaa98892f67[/URL].
Really wanted to meet this one. Very positive in chat. Agreed to amount. What an ass! Dark for a few days. Uggh!
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5f6286f6-8f27-4a0c-af72-7864c11f68ac[/URL].
Would avoid. Drama and shady.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2bfef503-291b-4b73-97dd-223ca0d8a08e[/URL].
Got a couple more but going to wait till I meet before posting LOL. I know links from here get profiles blown up. So want first shot LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jims2321;3762644]She, will drag you along for a bit. She is not worth the it. Was set to visit her, and then she ask about the compensation, when I offered $300, she countered with the line, ' I have been offer 20 K for a week. ' so take that for what its worth.[/QUOTE]Was that in Venezuelan currency? If not, I think she needs to be presented with the GPS lifetime achievement trophy. You can see a UTR for a year for half of that.
[QUOTE=RedThunder;3762838]Agreed to 2. 5 Was good to go until it was time then needed more dates to work up to it. No thanks.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0bbacf25-2792-4137-982e-e114ff848a03[/URL].
Seems like a gps type. But we are chatting. Will find out soon.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cab66d4c-b5fa-4847-997f-fb13328d293a[/URL].
Agreed to 2. 5 Meeting next few days. Any info?
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/12bf75a8-4dca-46cb-8d55-fd380571ea05[/URL].
Wants 4. Too much. Cute / Friendly But unless she reconsiders its a pass.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a3240708-33a0-4922-a109-5ea7e17ac73a[/URL].
Agreed to 2. 5. Will have to decide if I follow thru. Too many responded positively. Not enuff time / funds to see them all.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a9dd82bf-faca-429f-818b-fecf8f7e386c[/URL].
3 seperate profiles. All with same pics. Each for a seperate girl. Scam of just all 3 on site. Talking to this one.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6808ac92-8896-4518-b054-3d4ee63b8f37[/URL].
Texting with this one. Went dark for laat couple days though.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/45ce00c2-deb8-4e7a-9ced-7aaa98892f67[/URL].
Really wanted to meet this one. Very positive in chat. Agreed to amount. What an ass! Dark for a few days. Uggh!
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5f6286f6-8f27-4a0c-af72-7864c11f68ac[/URL].
Would avoid. Drama and shady.
*[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2bfef503-291b-4b73-97dd-223ca0d8a08e[/URL].
Got a couple more but going to wait till I meet before posting LOL. I know links from here get profiles blown up. So want first shot LOL.[/QUOTE]#3 is possible time waster. We've working on a date for a while. Though in fairness to her, USC was on spring break this past week, so that was a valid excuse.
[QUOTE=Bruco;3763072]#3 is possible time waster. We've working on a date for a while. Though in fairness to her, USC was on spring break this past week, so that was a valid excuse.[/QUOTE]She did tell me she was out of town laat week and messaged me yestetday wanting to meet Sunday.
[QUOTE=Bruco;3763072]#3 is possible time waster. We've working on a date for a while. Though in fairness to her, USC was on spring break this past week, so that was a valid excuse.[/QUOTE]Says phone was stolen on spring break. I have a great idea how she could get money to replace it. Still can't pin her down to a day or time. Moving on.
[QUOTE=RedThunder;3763173]Says phone was stolen on spring break. I have a great idea how she could get money to replace it. Still can't pin her down to a day or time. Moving on.[/QUOTE]Yep, got the same story. I'm done as well.
[QUOTE=Bruco;3763322]Yep, got the same story. I'm done as well.[/QUOTE]I'm not pulling out on that one yet. I will let you know how it goes after Monday.
[QUOTE=Jims2321;3762644]She, will drag you along for a bit. She is not worth the it. Was set to visit her, and then she ask about the compensation, when I offered $300, she countered with the line, ' I have been offer 20 K for a week. ' so take that for what its worth.[/QUOTE]Well that works out to $119 and hour, so tell her you take two hours and tip her a $10.
This is the infamous Danielle from the Clinton Mob. Avoid her. She's a druggie, alcoholic, and psycho. Probably homeless. I saw her twice and she was stoned when I picked her up, had several drinks, and smoked weed in the room. Sex was lackluster. Second time I told her to be sober but she had six drinks at dinner and was drunk during the session. She bitched all the time during play trying to upsell. BBFS for the right price. The photos are from that night. She's nasty as f**k.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a056e8c-5c64-40fa-b6a0-0e6c8d1d8bf4[/URL]
[QUOTE=Shelby500;3763412]This is the infamous Danielle from the Clinton Mob. Avoid her. She's a druggie, alcoholic, and psycho. Probably homeless. I saw her twice and she was stoned when I picked her up, had several drinks, and smoked weed in the room. Sex was lackluster. Second time I told her to be sober but she had six drinks at dinner and was drunk during the session. She bitched all the time during play trying to upsell. BBFS for the right price. The photos are from that night. She's nasty as f**k.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a056e8c-5c64-40fa-b6a0-0e6c8d1d8bf4[/URL][/QUOTE]You beat me to the punch. I was getting ready to post the same warning. I had the same experience last year that you did.
[QUOTE=Shelby500;3763412]This is the infamous Danielle from the Clinton Mob. Avoid her. She's a druggie, alcoholic, and psycho. Probably homeless. I saw her twice and she was stoned when I picked her up, had several drinks, and smoked weed in the room. Sex was lackluster. Second time I told her to be sober but she had six drinks at dinner and was drunk during the session. She bitched all the time during play trying to upsell. BBFS for the right price. The photos are from that night. She's nasty as f**k.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7a056e8c-5c64-40fa-b6a0-0e6c8d1d8bf4[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm honored that my name for this one and a few of her friends from that area has stuck. A former running mate of hers currently on SA I see posting from time to time. Lesson previously learned so never been back to the well.
You're referring to these two?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/475b5720-9625-4cab-bda9-937c25173042[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a08442bb-ba87-4ede-830f-fdd1b2bb88d6[/URL]
[QUOTE=ClamDigger69;3763645]I'm honored that my name for this one and a few of her friends from that area has stuck. A former running mate of hers currently on SA I see posting from time to time. Lesson previously learned so never been back to the well.[/QUOTE]
Just this:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/39e16995-643f-44e9-a217-9f0de7d26fd3[/URL]
My membership is about to expire so I'm getting many unsolicited messages. I'm actively communicating with 7-10 at the moment.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/dca9beea-db7c-44a9-8902-cc4153ccbf41[/URL]
Met for lunch last week. Pics are accurate. Hit it off. Just moved here and needs cash. She's good to go. We missed connecting twice this weekend but have an upcoming playdate.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c953e299-0d28-4b62-a576-9aceb6d86566[/URL]
Great communication. Texts and phone calls. Meeting next week. I'm very interested.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/50672742-9e43-4787-87ce-a302745cb158[/URL]
19 year old Clemson student. Newbie to SA. Never been in arrangement. Private photos are hot. Typical college student looking for cash without doing anything. Wanted to Skype. Told her I was only interested in physical meeting. Says she's OK with that. On sprig break. We'll see if she get back to me. I doubt this will work.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/09ac44a7-678b-4ca1-86ac-8ff812596ba2[/URL]
Time waster.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ef012ab6-8d84-4cda-9351-93b426a28265[/URL]
Baled on me twice without notice. She's not serious. Time waster.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/63198e58-58a4-6459-64c0-a7b190d739ac[/URL]
Gorgeous! I'd crawl over broken glass to blow the last guy who f**ked her! Very picky. Wants $ up front. I told her I could do that in person. She gave me her number to text but no response for three days. Got my fingers crossed but looks like a flake.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/65ad1dca-de31-4d9d-9e54-675058ea7588[/URL]
Met her for dinner about a year ago. She got pissed when I wouldn't send her money right away. I recently reconnected. She's down for dinner. Her private photos are stunning!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cd954131-4e45-4628-96c4-32228b3ac7a2[/URL]
Responded to my message three weeks ago. Said she was looking for the same thing and interested in meeting. Crickets now.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7038eb06-f46d-4893-a0f7-c0b94bf4a39e[/URL]
Interested and DTF. We've had a hard time making schedules work. Continuing to pursue.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9d69895a-9b70-48fc-ab9b-835d6238c5f2[/URL]
Time waster.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/52582ad5-5a7e-4dbb-8963-43bc297f0a01[/URL]
Time waster.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/993c6522-1911-4447-87e0-7086b6e11629[/URL]
Another teenage flake.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b429728d-48d2-3bbb-de9f-ded4b282f780[/URL]
Contacted me. Eager to meet. DTF and bring her GF. I'll see her if she comes here.
Just began contact with three more.
[QUOTE=Shelby500;3763665]You're referring to these two?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/475b5720-9625-4cab-bda9-937c25173042[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a08442bb-ba87-4ede-830f-fdd1b2bb88d6[/URL][/QUOTE]Funny, I went looking for the second link but it was not there any longer and then you posted her newest profile. Same gal and first link been around awhile if I'm not mistaken.
[QUOTE=RedThunder;3763666]Just this:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/39e16995-643f-44e9-a217-9f0de7d26fd3[/URL][/QUOTE]I definitely feel like I've seen some of these pics on different "dating" sites or porn sites.
Good thing I had an old stand-by for last night. Although I'm cutting her loose soon.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/5d0d0a48-74f1-4465-81eb-a63b145a9bd5[/URL]
Cute / excited to meet. Texting early on with ppics. Now dark. WTF. First timer, think she just got cold feet. Holding out hope.
Had a meet setup with this one. Texts me to confirm at 745 am on a Sunday. Who the f* is up at that time. Text back at 10:30 No response See on snapchat out with another dude. Just broke up with her bf. Wonder if he knows she's giving BBFS to 3-4 guys a week. Blocked.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6a5577fa-01ff-4bc6-a496-e8f768546474[/URL]
Completely nuts. GPS. Our exchange LOL.
Violetsslumber about 20 hours ago.
You already messaged me before. 500 per meet.
RedThunder about 20 hours ago.
Anybody actually give you that?
Violetsslumber about 6 hours ago.
Yes. This is a sugar daddy site. My first sugar daddy paid for my apartment and gave me 3000 a month allowance plus gifts. Most people here are looking for prostitutes. Not sugarbabies or escorts.
RedThunder about 6 hours ago.
Cool story.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fc408643-f53f-4e5a-b518-aaa9b2fec351[/URL]
Really pressed this one for a specific time / place meet. Just excuse after excuse. But always with "I really want to meet".
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/12bf75a8-4dca-46cb-8d55-fd380571ea05[/URL]
This one seemed sweet, asked for low allowance. Text with pics. Social media checked out. Supposed to meet today at 7 pm. Now dark. Did ask for paid meet and greet. I declined and she agreed to meet without. Guess not really LOL. Hold out hope for this one, but probably a no go. On social media as I write this but ignored my text.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2487dd58-9d5e-4492-b050-1a391ec861e6[/URL]
Like this type look. 9 piercings a few tatts. Just chatting at the moment but seems promising.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c1e8ee92-0196-43d2-8556-d552a87368e0[/URL]
Any info? Seems clingy? Or a scam. Claims no sex for last 2 years. Little thick for my taste but wants to meet.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1b1d46bd-0c0e-40ea-98d6-304ddcf71499[/URL]
Asian, my fetish LOL. Agreed to 3. Wanted to meet next day. Couldn't schedules didn't line up. Now she's not responding. Damn it.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9233b943-39af-4893-b430-06837e3d3c97[/URL]
Cute Asked for 4. Snap dropped to 250 before I could even respond. Easy to get to text.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8b4b761e-f2d3-ccb2-2c56-6d19463433d4[/URL]
Definitely seems more like an UTR / Working type girl. But nice little body. Too far to travel for though.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fb06e7da-884b-4a3a-6ecc-91c2883d628a[/URL]
High hopes for this one. Then ghosted.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/81f54bbf-dda5-417f-a7b6-c17798072980[/URL]
So all in all a pretty shitty couple week as far as SA goes. Lots of phone numbers and good signs followed by flakes and time wasting LOL. Still holding out hope for a couple of these to come around but usually if you don't strike while the iron is hot you miss out. Still have my all time favorite in Asheville and a couple Greenville girls than come to me. One recently got back on SA though and then blocked me LOL, but continues to see me. The Asheville girl is no longer on SA. Bought her a toy and she has started to get freakier LOL. Sent me a video of her tying herself up and she now has some type of rope fetish she wants to explore. Anyway here's the Greenville girl that comes to me. Super sweet, a little thick, but great ass. BBBJ, no cim, everything else covered. Wants 3. Will take 2 or 2. 5.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c97d80ca-f8ac-43b3-a255-2e82fd995848[/URL]
[QUOTE=RedThunder;3764692]Good thing I had an old stand-by for last night. Although I'm cutting her loose soon.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/5d0d0a48-74f1-4465-81eb-a63b145a9bd5[/URL]
Cute / excited to meet. Texting early on with ppics. Now dark. WTF. First timer, think she just got cold feet. Holding out hope.
Had a meet setup with this one. Texts me to confirm at 745 am on a Sunday. Who the f* is up at that time. Text back at 10:30 No response See on snapchat out with another dude. Just broke up with her bf. Wonder if he knows she's giving BBFS to 3-4 guys a week. Blocked.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6a5577fa-01ff-4bc6-a496-e8f768546474[/URL]
Completely nuts. GPS. Our exchange LOL.
Violetsslumber about 20 hours ago.
You already messaged me before. 500 per meet.
RedThunder about 20 hours ago.
Anybody actually give you that?
Violetsslumber about 6 hours ago.
Yes. This is a sugar daddy site. My first sugar daddy paid for my apartment and gave me 3000 a month allowance plus gifts. Most people here are looking for prostitutes. Not sugarbabies or escorts.
RedThunder about 6 hours ago.
Cool story.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fc408643-f53f-4e5a-b518-aaa9b2fec351[/URL]
Really pressed this one for a specific time / place meet. Just excuse after excuse. But always with "I really want to meet".
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/12bf75a8-4dca-46cb-8d55-fd380571ea05[/URL]
This one seemed sweet, asked for low allowance. Text with pics. Social media checked out. Supposed to meet today at 7 pm. Now dark. Did ask for paid meet and greet. I declined and she agreed to meet without. Guess not really LOL. Hold out hope for this one, but probably a no go. On social media as I write this but ignored my text.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2487dd58-9d5e-4492-b050-1a391ec861e6[/URL]
Like this type look. 9 piercings a few tatts. Just chatting at the moment but seems promising.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c1e8ee92-0196-43d2-8556-d552a87368e0[/URL]
Any info? Seems clingy? Or a scam. Claims no sex for last 2 years. Little thick for my taste but wants to meet.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1b1d46bd-0c0e-40ea-98d6-304ddcf71499[/URL]
Asian, my fetish LOL. Agreed to 3. Wanted to meet next day. Couldn't schedules didn't line up. Now she's not responding. Damn it.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9233b943-39af-4893-b430-06837e3d3c97[/URL]
Cute Asked for 4. Snap dropped to 250 before I could even respond. Easy to get to text.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8b4b761e-f2d3-ccb2-2c56-6d19463433d4[/URL]
Definitely seems more like an UTR / Working type girl. But nice little body. Too far to travel for though.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fb06e7da-884b-4a3a-6ecc-91c2883d628a[/URL]
High hopes for this one. Then ghosted.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/81f54bbf-dda5-417f-a7b6-c17798072980[/URL]
So all in all a pretty shitty couple week as far as SA goes. Lots of phone numbers and good signs followed by flakes and time wasting LOL. Still holding out hope for a couple of these to come around but usually if you don't strike while the iron is hot you miss out. Still have my all time favorite in Asheville and a couple Greenville girls than come to me. One recently got back on SA though and then blocked me LOL, but continues to see me. The Asheville girl is no longer on SA. Bought her a toy and she has started to get freakier LOL. Sent me a video of her tying herself up and she now has some type of rope fetish she wants to explore. Anyway here's the Greenville girl that comes to me. Super sweet, a little thick, but great ass. BBBJ, no cim, everything else covered. Wants 3. Will take 2 or 2. 5.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c97d80ca-f8ac-43b3-a255-2e82fd995848[/URL][/QUOTE]Lizzielou was / is a massage parlor girl in Charlotte, so more of a pro than an SB, but I'm guessing she'll be DTF.
A fellow member from Charleston, SC. Thanks for the wonderful thread here on SBs. Let me explain my situation. I signed up for SA about few months ago just for a month. I chatted with about 50 girls, met 8 girls in person (2 flaked), and went on dates with 5 (all intimate to hotel rooms except one). But, my gut feeling is that all of those five are either Pros or at least UTR escorts. I was not inclined to go on repeat dates with any of those girls. My objective of joining SA is to find a decent SB with whom I can have little bit closer relationship or connection than what I get from a BP girl or UTR escort where it is just one hour affair and done.
I think the results I got from SA is mainly due to my own flawed approach. I am obsessed with privacy and anonymity, and don't want to be featured in sites such as pred alert etc. I am divorced and no SO, but don't want my children to know what's going on. My ethnicity is not white or black and it is rare, and I have unique features so if my face photo is placed in such a website, it would be easy for anyone who knows me to identify me. Although I am not into social media, there are enough of my photos on the web with my name associated for my professional work.
I was a premium member at SA and had a profile photo very casual and with no face shown. Did not upload any private photos. I have chatted with about 10 girls whom I thought serous SB's and what I am looking for (mostly college girls and some other 25-30 yr range). In most cases, we agreed on almost everything (I am not a haggler when it comes to allowance as long as the offer is reasonable), except the photo issue. They were adamant either I upload private photos and give access to them or e-mail or text them photos. I was stubborn and didn't give in, so most of these chats ended there. My argument was that I was ready to M&G any place and any time they want before going on a date, so photos are not necessary. Looking back, the girls who did not demand the photos (and whom I met and dates) are the Pros. I understand why a serious SB wants to see photo of a person before agreeing to M&G, it was a mistake from my end.
I am going to renew membership again and trying to relax my rules on photos so that I can actually get a real SB to meet me. Few advice I need from fellow members.
1. Do you think giving access to private photos after establishing good connection with a girl is safer than e-mailing or texting photos directly? I know if someone wants thy can take a screenshot of uploaded photos and use them for anything if they want.
2. Do girls always demand clear face photos or some slight alteration to hide identity is OK with girls?
3. What do girls really want by demanding photos. Just to make sure I am real, or how do I look?
4. Anyone out there who developed a good relationship with a serous SB without ever sharing a photo before first meet?
5. What is a typical type of private photos you share (e. G. Face pic, photo showing the whole body). Typically how many private photos?
Sorry for loaded questions, I need some guidance. Or am I over-paranoid about this whole photo thing? Or am I not the kind of guy who should get in to this SA thing? By the way I am in my early 50's and in good shape for my age.
Thanks for your input.
Dr. S.
Hello Doc,
I'll summarize what I do and hope that helps. If you have an active membership you don't have to load a public photo that shows on your public profile. I have no public photos but have two private photos loaded. They are really me. I control access to who sees them. When I have an interest in a profile I send a message and give them access to my private photos. It shows you're sincere to give them access first. I also request access to their photos. If I get no response in a reasonable time, or no access to their photos, I remove access to my photos. Often I'll block them too as being time wasters. My public profile also states very clearly that I will not respond to anyone who requests my photos without introducing themselves first. It happens anyway. I either ignore it or send a short reply if I'm interested; but they don't get access until I get a positive response. Photo collectors aren't serious. Sometimes I tell them if they read my profile they'd know they need to introduce themselves first so they know what a dumbass they are. I get blocked. LOL.
I believe the real SB's think it's important to see your photo before they are going to respond. I understand your reluctance but it's going to drive the good ones away. You want to see their photos don't you? Even one will do. They want to know you're real and it's suspicious otherwise. The pros only care about the cash as you discovered. Doing it my way limits my risk to those I think are serious. I've never had a problem.
I want the same type of SB as you. How you approach them in your initial message is ultra important. As soon as an SB posts her profile she's inundated with crude messages like, "How much for an hour?" and dick pictures. Those guys aren't looking for an SB; they're looking for a cheap hooker. The SB's you want to see get frustrated by that crap. So you want to stand out from the crowd. I introduce myself. Say something about their profile, use their name, so they know you read it. Compliment them on their photos or something they say in their profile. Then I say I'm looking for in an arrangement. Women are attracted by politeness, being respected and treated like a human being. They aren't "objects" and reject being treated like that. I also suggest we get to know each other eventually by meeting in a public place of their choice for coffee, lunch, or dinner with no other expectation than to see if you both want to move forward. They want to feel safe meeting you for the first time. In your case you can tell the truth about your privacy concerns and that you'll share your private photo soon if there's a connection on the site. Just tell the truth. I end my message asking if we may, not can, continue with a discussion. I'm asking for their permission to talk.
SA is about numbers. I send a ton of messages and I get a small number of quality responses. My approach works for me and I'm very selective about who I see.
Good luck. Feel free to PM me.
[QUOTE=DrSummer;3764820]
I think the results I got from SA is mainly due to my own flawed approach. I am obsessed with privacy and anonymity, and don't want to be featured in sites such as pred alert etc. I am divorced and no SO, but don't want my children to know what's going on. My ethnicity is not white or black and it is rare, and I have unique features so if my face photo is placed in such a website, it would be easy for anyone who knows me to identify me. Although I am not into social media, there are enough of my photos on the web with my name associated for my professional work.
Thanks for your input.
Dr. S.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Shelby500;3764931]Hello Doc,
I'll summarize what I do and hope that helps. If you have an active membership you don't have to load a public photo that shows on your public profile. I have no public photos but have two private photos loaded. They are really me. I control access to who sees them. When I have an interest in a profile I send a message and give them access to my private photos. It shows you're sincere to give them access first. I also request access to their photos. If I get no response in a reasonable time, or no access to their photos, I remove access to my photos. Often I'll block them too as being time wasters. My public profile also states very clearly that I will not respond to anyone who requests my photos without introducing themselves first. It happens anyway. I either ignore it or send a short reply if I'm interested; but they don't get access until I get a positive response. Photo collectors aren't serious. Sometimes I tell them if they read my profile they'd know they need to introduce themselves first so they know what a dumbass they are. I get blocked. LOL.
I believe the real SB's think it's important to see your photo before they are going to respond. I understand your reluctance but it's going to drive the good ones away. You want to see their photos don't you? Even one will do. They want to know you're real and it's suspicious otherwise. The pros only care about the cash as you discovered. Doing it my way limits my risk to those I think are serious. I've never had a problem.
I want the same type of SB as you. How you approach them in your initial message is ultra important. As soon as an SB posts her profile she's inundated with crude messages like, "How much for an hour?" and dick pictures. Those guys aren't looking for an SB; they're looking for a cheap hooker. The SB's you want to see get frustrated by that crap. So you want to stand out from the crowd. I introduce myself. Say something about their profile, use their name, so they know you read it. Compliment them on their photos or something they say in their profile. Then I say I'm looking for in an arrangement. Women are attracted by politeness, being respected and treated like a human being. They aren't "objects" and reject being treated like that. I also suggest we get to know each other eventually by meeting in a public place of their choice for coffee, lunch, or dinner with no other expectation than to see if you both want to move forward. They want to feel safe meeting you for the first time. In your case you can tell the truth about your privacy concerns and that you'll share your private photo soon if there's a connection on the site. Just tell the truth. I end my message asking if we may, not can, continue with a discussion. I'm asking for their permission to talk.
SA is about numbers. I send a ton of messages and I get a small number of quality responses. My approach works for me and I'm very selective about who I see.
Good luck. Feel free to PM me.[/QUOTE]This basically mirrors my approach. I would add:
-totally agree about giving them a compliment and personalizing the message. Tell them they have a great smile or pretty eyes. If they have a pic with a dog, ask the pups name. Something like that.
-I always request pic access when they request mine. I've found almost without fail that if someone doesn't almost immediately message back or give me access after they viewed my pics, they aren't into me. So I'm quick to remove access, if I've seen that they viewed my profile again.
-After I meet them, even if it goes well, I remove the access. The less time my pics are floating around, the better. I've never had anyone notice or say anything.
-I will occasionally text additional pics (if they ask) but ONLY if I've been able to identify them and determine from their social media that I'm pretty confident that they won't cause problems.
[QUOTE=Bruco;3764809]Lizzielou was / is a massage parlor girl in Charlotte, so more of a pro than an SB, but I'm guessing she'll be DTF.[/QUOTE]Good to know, thanks. Probably pass then. It's a long drive.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/dca9beea-db7c-44a9-8902-cc4153ccbf41[/URL]
Had an excellent dinner and playtime with Leeanna. She's from NYC so you have to be down with her sarcastic wit. If your bent is towards demure Southern girls look elsewhere. She has a wondering eye that can be distracting at first. She's Italian and has the most beautiful skin tone! Her body is OK; boobs probably B and a tad droopy. On the upside she's a total DTF freak in bed. Awesome BBBJWSTC. Enjoys DATY and foreplay. Take your time on that clit and she'll have a thundering O. Needs cash. She's a lot of fun with me and I'll see her again.
I'll share details via PM if you plan to see her and willing to share about someone you've seen on SA. Also have some credible contributing posts on the board. I ignore everyone else.
I am not sure why, but my original SA account was suspended with no reason given. I had never done much of anything with it except occasional searches and clicking on links from this thread. Perhaps they got tired of me lurking without paying for a sub. Anyway I created a new account and that promptly got suspended too, perhaps because I used the same email to sign up. So I just created another account yesterday with a different email, and so far so good. What's odd is that I already have 11 views, 10 who favorited me and 2 messages in only a day. About the only thing that might be different from my last profile is my net worth might be listed as one notch higher, go figure. The problem is of the 10 that favorited me, only one is local and I remember it's not one that I'd want to see (think it's a time waster, her slogan is "Like a new job, I offer excellent benefits" I checked my profile, and it's Greenville, SC USA yet I'm getting favorited by girls in NY, CA, VA, IN, GA, Ontario, Phillipines and Columbia. Does everyone get all this out of the area attention? I don't recall this being a problem last time I signed up but I also didn't get nearly this much attention so quickly either.
[QUOTE=OldTiger;3766939]I am not sure why, but my original SA account was suspended with no reason given. I had never done much of anything with it except occasional searches and clicking on links from this thread. Perhaps they got tired of me lurking without paying for a sub. Anyway I created a new account and that promptly got suspended too, perhaps because I used the same email to sign up. So I just created another account yesterday with a different email, and so far so good. What's odd is that I already have 11 views, 10 who favorited me and 2 messages in only a day. About the only thing that might be different from my last profile is my net worth might be listed as one notch higher, go figure. The problem is of the 10 that favorited me, only one is local and I remember it's not one that I'd want to see (think it's a time waster, her slogan is "Like a new job, I offer excellent benefits" I checked my profile, and it's Greenville, SC USA yet I'm getting favorited by girls in NY, CA, VA, IN, GA, Ontario, Phillipines and Columbia. Does everyone get all this out of the area attention? I don't recall this being a problem last time I signed up but I also didn't get nearly this much attention so quickly either.[/QUOTE]I had the same thing regarding the suspension. I opened a new one with a different email. They may age out and purge if you haven't upgraded. I personally haven't had much success but I'm older and have found mostly time-wasters (although I'm a big hit in the Philippines) LOL.
[QUOTE=OldTiger;3766939]I am not sure why, but my original SA account was suspended with no reason given. I had never done much of anything with it except occasional searches and clicking on links from this thread. Perhaps they got tired of me lurking without paying for a sub. Anyway I created a new account and that promptly got suspended too, perhaps because I used the same email to sign up. So I just created another account yesterday with a different email, and so far so good. What's odd is that I already have 11 views, 10 who favorited me and 2 messages in only a day. About the only thing that might be different from my last profile is my net worth might be listed as one notch higher, go figure. The problem is of the 10 that favorited me, only one is local and I remember it's not one that I'd want to see (think it's a time waster, her slogan is "Like a new job, I offer excellent benefits" I checked my profile, and it's Greenville, SC USA yet I'm getting favorited by girls in NY, CA, VA, IN, GA, Ontario, Phillipines and Columbia. Does everyone get all this out of the area attention? I don't recall this being a problem last time I signed up but I also didn't get nearly this much attention so quickly either.[/QUOTE]Yeah out of area interest is nothing out of ordinary. You will get inquiries from all over and outside the country. Most girls never check your net worth. The smart ones who do will call you on it when urvtrying to talk them down a hundred dollars LOL. But I've only run into 3 in last 3 years that question net worth.
Have you noticed the new and featured SB profiles when you sign in? SA does that to SD new profiles and as "Featured Members" when your account is about to expire. They attract all of the scammers all over the world. They view your profile and favorite you. Ignore and block.
You're talking about Hazeleyedbaby2018. Her name is Jamie and she's been reported negatively here, Columbia, and Charlotte numerous times. Search the forum.
[QUOTE=OldTiger;3766939]I am not sure why, but my original SA account was suspended with no reason given. I had never done much of anything with it except occasional searches and clicking on links from this thread. Perhaps they got tired of me lurking without paying for a sub. Anyway I created a new account and that promptly got suspended too, perhaps because I used the same email to sign up. So I just created another account yesterday with a different email, and so far so good. What's odd is that I already have 11 views, 10 who favorited me and 2 messages in only a day. About the only thing that might be different from my last profile is my net worth might be listed as one notch higher, go figure. The problem is of the 10 that favorited me, only one is local and I remember it's not one that I'd want to see (think it's a time waster, her slogan is "Like a new job, I offer excellent benefits" I checked my profile, and it's Greenville, SC USA yet I'm getting favorited by girls in NY, CA, VA, IN, GA, Ontario, Phillipines and Columbia. Does everyone get all this out of the area attention? I don't recall this being a problem last time I signed up but I also didn't get nearly this much attention so quickly either.[/QUOTE]
Can't make this shyte up. This exchange got her banned. I had access to her private pics but didn't save them in time. Let's just say she's a bigun, not terribly attractive, and delusional about her "value". LOL. I was going to continue leading her on but alas Princess skyee is no more. Sorry you missed the circus sideshow.
Skyee1997 about 3 days ago.
Hey, daddy! 😘 How are you? You seem very genuine, and it looks like we share somethings in common. I love to learn as well, anything and everything, I crave knowledge.
ME about 3 days ago.
Your profile mentions you are in a relationship. Is your partner aware you are searching?
Skyee1997 about 3 days ago.
Yes, he is! He loves me to be pleasured to the fullest and doesn't mind sharing. I'm available anytime!
ME about 2 days ago.
So can you host? What are the details?
Skyee1997 about 2 days ago.
What do you mean by hosting?
ME about 2 days ago.
Meet at your place, or room.
Skyee1997 about 2 days ago.
I'm looking to send pictures and videos to start off for a monthly allowance and eventually meeting if we connect 😘.
ME about 9 hours ago.
What are you thinking for an allowance and what will you give in exchange? What's your timeline to meet in person?
Skyee1997 about 9 hours ago.
Perhaps ppm at first which would be $1 k and I'm willing to do anything. I'm available to meet weekends to start then throughout the week between my BFs contracts.
ME about 9 hours ago.
You want $1000 to meet in person? Is physical intimacy included? For how long?
Skyee1997 about 8 hours ago.
Yes it is and until I make you cum.
ME about 8 hours ago.
That's a lot of money to just cum once.
ME about 8 hours ago.
Will you require condoms?
Skyee1997 about 8 hours ago.
I could make you cum more than once, that's not a problem. And yes condom is required, my boyfriend decided when or if you don't.
ME about 6 hours ago.
How long is the date? Four hours?
Skyee1997 about 6 hours ago.
Up to you daddy.
ME about 4 hours ago.
Are you providung the room?
ME about 4 hours ago.
I'm thinking an overnight visit.
ME about 4 hours ago.
*providing.