Relationship with worker at AMP?
Hello,
I've gotten myself in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice from some clear headed, experienced mongers. I have a Chinese, middle-aged female friend. Platonic, completely. Who lives in New York and has been trying to fix me up with her sister, who just moved here from China and speaks NO english, and just went to work in a massage parlor 1. 5 hours from where I live. When I told my friend (without going into too much detail why) that I didn't care for that "work", she said her sister wasn't like that, she would say no to a monger, or to someone who wanted "special service" as it's called in China.
But, as I have spent a lot of time in massage parlors (mostly in China) I just don't see her sister being able to work there without indulging, especially as a FOB woman looking to make some cash to support herself here. I know if I were a punter going to a AMP, I'd certainly want to hit it.
My question is, would you get involved romantically with a AMP worker? I've met the newly-arrived sister once, and she is really cool, fun, we had a blast, but I had to park down the block to pick her up from the MP after she got off work (she didn't want her boss seeing her get into my car) and after two hours I had to bring her back to the MP, where she is apparently living. Also, after only a week here she has already moved to another nearby MP (she sent me an email telling me the first one was "buhao", meaning "not good" in Chinese) which to me suggests that she is already bouncing around on the MP circuit. I'm looking for a serious chick to date, hence I don't want a bunch of mongers stretching out my poon, LOL.
Hope I don't come off as too judgemental, but we all must set our standards, right? Any advice is appreciated.
Advice, for what it's worth. NOT MUCH!
Judging by your request, I think you already know the answer and are looking for support. If you are of a mind to try and "save" her, I think you are going to lose on that. If you wish to continue on, get used to sharing her. Just my thoughts. Bottom line, ONLY you can decide. Best of luck, and let us know how it turns out for you.
PS. Where does she work, hours, and name? Just kidding. :)
[QUOTE=QControl; 1172000]Hello,
I've gotten myself in a bit of a pickle and I'd like some advice from some clear headed, experienced mongers. I have a Chinese, middle-aged female friend. Platonic, completely. Who lives in New York and has been trying to fix me up with her sister, who just moved here from China and speaks NO english, and just went to work in a massage parlor 1. 5 hours from where I live. When I told my friend (without going into too much detail why) that I didn't care for that "work", she said her sister wasn't like that, she would say no to a monger, or to someone who wanted "special service" as it's called in China.
But, as I have spent a lot of time in massage parlors (mostly in China) I just don't see her sister being able to work there without indulging, especially as a FOB woman looking to make some cash to support herself here. I know if I were a punter going to a AMP, I'd certainly want to hit it.
My question is, would you get involved romantically with a AMP worker? I've met the newly-arrived sister once, and she is really cool, fun, we had a blast, but I had to park down the block to pick her up from the MP after she got off work (she didn't want her boss seeing her get into my car) and after two hours I had to bring her back to the MP, where she is apparently living. Also, after only a week here she has already moved to another nearby MP (she sent me an email telling me the first one was "buhao", meaning "not good" in Chinese) which to me suggests that she is already bouncing around on the MP circuit. I'm looking for a serious chick to date, hence I don't want a bunch of mongers stretching out my poon, LOL.
Hope I don't come off as too judgemental, but we all must set our standards, right? Any advice is appreciated. [/QUOTE]