[QUOTE=Little Dickie; 1535402]Some of the information regarding paying before or after, and regarding tips, will vary greatly depending on what service you are talking about. Seems like most guys are giving you info that is related to AMPs. Since this thread is in the General Reports section, and not the AMP section, you could be talking about AMPs, streetwalkers, escorts, or other. There is a big difference in the way things are done in those different areas.
For AMPs, normally you pay the mamasan the house fee upon entrance, then you 'tip' the girl who services you. Usually after the service, but sometimes before. The previous replies (especially Lowly's) have good info about that. For streetwalkers, you usually negotiate fees for service upfront, and almost always pay upfront. (Of course this can also get you in big trouble if the SW is undercover LE) For escorts usually they will require the money up front, with no mention of it. You are usually expected to place it on a counter, desk etc, upon entrance to her incall (or have it out in plain site already if she is coming to you at an outcall) , and not mention it. Tips are another story. In the AMP world, the money you pay the gal servicing you is the "tip." For escorts, they have a fee or rate for their time. It is sometimes called a "gift" or "donation." It is usually spelled out on their website or ads. Sometimes negotiated over the phone or by email prior to the date. Rarely ever discussed in person. A "tip" in the escort world is additional money given for service above and beyond. (Just like tipping waitstaff, and other service industry people) A good escort always says "Tips are appreciated but never expected." Some hobbyists always tip. Some never do, and some tip occasionally. It is also often said that the best tip is a repeat visit. If an escort asks or expects a tip, then that is "upselling" and it is not a good thing.
As for the abbreviations, as another poster mentioned, a lot of them can be found at the link at the top of the page. Other hobby sites also have their own glossaries of acronyms and terms. You can also find a lot of those on urbandictionary.
Welcome to the forum. Have fun.[/QUOTE]Again, thank you so much for the clarification. I have read Abbreviations and couldn't find it at first. Until today, I went back and check again. Voila! It's there. LOL Thank you
