Best to consider every scenario
[QUOTE=MissionaryMan;7453767]A UTR wants to live with me. And help her get straight. What would you do?
Missionary Man.[/QUOTE]Although you are an admirable guy for even considering this scenario for a split second you have to use your big head to weigh the potential pros and cons of the situation. On the pros you might succeed in helping her get clean and bask in the great feeling of helping another person overcome their demons. You might also get free pussy (if there ever is such a thing). On the negative side you might get robbed, have mongerers be in your house when you are away, potentially have the drugs / dealers in and around your house, have to explain the situation to family, friends and neighbors, etc.
Only your big head can decide if the pros outweigh the cons (we all know what would happen if the decision were left to the little head).
It all depends on the girl
[QUOTE=MissionaryMan;7453767]A UTR wants to live with me. And help her get straight. What would you do?
Missionary Man.[/QUOTE]Attitude is the most important to me. If she's got a good attitude, I would and have three times now. Not one has ever taken or stolen anything from me. The last girl I took to rehab. She now lives a perfectly normal life. Actually has two legit jobs. If you are not sure how to, let me give you advice, don't do it! It is costly and many times disgusting. Especially when they get dope sick. Best to date her and move on with your own life.
RP.
Here's my personal take on this.
[QUOTE=MissionaryMan;7453767]A UTR wants to live with me. And help her get straight. What would you do?
Missionary Man.[/QUOTE]I have had five different girls from the hobby live with me. Yeah, there were some good times but the bad times really outweighed them. Most of them I couldn't wait to get them out of my home. Whenever I was gone, I was always terrified of what could be happening in my place. One of them ended up having her thug break into my place after I finally got her out. He took some valuable things from me. I ended up being a victim of Identity theft.
The only one that was actually decent and respectful to me was the girl they used to call, "Ghost," because she was so white in complexion. The one with the scar on her chest where she had open heart surgery for a bacterial infection. She was a sweetheart. I won't use her real name but she is now clean, has three lovely kids and seems really happy in life.
ALL of the rest of them were total nightmares and kept me so stressed out. The drama with them was staggering. The financial drain was tough, as well. They need money for everything and YOU are the one that's supposed to give it to them.
You pretty much have a better chance of winning the lottery than ever making one of these girls your live-in GF. Remember, the success rate for a junkie that WANTS, and TRIES, to quit is only 2%. That means for every one that makes it, 49 of them don't. That's tough math, my friend. My. 02.