Sugarbabies?

[QUOTE=JLZ61;4221789]So, I never pay for time with SBs, and would certainly never do so for a first meeting. I'll get dinner, cover Uber or whatever, but not time.

Yes, I fully understand the irony of this statement when noting my immediately preceding post re Daisy. On rare occasions, if it's clear the SB is actually an escort (which is what Daisy really is) and I'm really interested, I'll acquiesce and pay.

Anyway, I'm increasingly running into the expectation of payment for time on the first meeting. How many of you guys pay for time on the first meeting? Has it been changing for you guys like it has for me?[/QUOTE]Absolutely not. Never pay for a meet and greet. If I'm reasonably confident the girl is who she says she is, I might leave time to arrange a date after the first meeting (and let her know that), but a cup of coffee and maybe a pastry is what they get for showing up.

[QUOTE=Auzzie;4222237]Absolutely not. Never pay for a meet and greet. If I'm reasonably confident the girl is who she says she is, I might leave time to arrange a date after the first meeting (and let her know that), but a cup of coffee and maybe a pastry is what they get for showing up.[/QUOTE]I hate to say this but some hot longtime SB's make a lot of money demanding compensation for the meet and greet with no intention of following through. Some have admitted as much to me. I have no problem buying coffee, drinks or lunch as a getting to know you meeting. And you know in the first 5 minutes if you want to move forward. So does she!!

[QUOTE=CinMiner;4222071]Several have asked. I make it clear upfront in response that I am not paying to buy them dinner. Surprisingly, perhaps, most say they understand. As for the others, I pass and never meet.[/QUOTE]Agree. I make it clear that I'll pay for food, drinks, coffee, whatever when we decide to meet and decide to move forward. But never pay just for the "privilege" of meeting.

Found one on Tinder, I respectfully declined her "generous" offer of payment to meet her and she'd also send me some pictures for my efforts. She came back saying that's fine and asking where to meet.

I will pay for a decent dinner, if the vibe is right and the girl seems interesting. Makes for something to look forward to.

But I just had 3 girls over the last few days state their time is too valuable and refused to meet without payment for time on an initial meet: Student23, Lady Annabella and mother cannabis. I realize it could just be me but still.

That said, I have 4 on the hook I think I can reel in without a first meeting donation. Still, 3 in a row was a record for me on the "no, I won't meet without money" front. Aggravating, to say the least.

[QUOTE=Auzzie;4222237]Absolutely not. Never pay for a meet and greet. If I'm reasonably confident the girl is who she says she is, I might leave time to arrange a date after the first meeting (and let her know that), but a cup of coffee and maybe a pastry is what they get for showing up.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4a107f0-5128-4f6f-afff-747ccbb49199[/URL]

Anyone got any info on this one? Supposed to meet her tomorrow. She seems legit but she also stated that she hasnt met anyone off the site which I find hard to believe. She seems dtf. Plan is to have a meal and get a room. Seems too easy. I will keep you posted.

[QUOTE=JoeBogus;4222906]I hate to say this but some hot longtime SB's make a lot of money demanding compensation for the meet and greet with no intention of following through. Some have admitted as much to me. I have no problem buying coffee, drinks or lunch as a getting to know you meeting. And you know in the first 5 minutes if you want to move forward. So does she!![/QUOTE]The number of them who are just "kicking the tires" and trying to get money without doing anything seem to be increasing every year it seems.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1671f75e-3db8-4352-ad97-8c049bc57dfc[/URL]

Friend of mine went to meet her last night. He was not very smart and didn't follow my advice. He met her at what he was told her house that she lived alone in Middletown. Got there and went to bedroom. Gave her money upfront (told him not too). About the time the got undressed to guys and a girl barged in. One dude yelling at her he can't believe she was doing this in his house. Told my buddy to get the fuck out. I told my buddy he was set up and they played a con on him. 513-267-7099.

Make that 4 in a row. Forgot about Taumia. Sheesh.

[QUOTE=JLZ61;4224501]I will pay for a decent dinner, if the vibe is right and the girl seems interesting. Makes for something to look forward to.

But I just had 3 girls over the last few days state their time is too valuable and refused to meet without payment for time on an initial meet: Student23, Lady Annabella and mother cannabis. I realize it could just be me but still.

That said, I have 4 on the hook I think I can reel in without a first meeting donation. Still, 3 in a row was a record for me on the "no, I won't meet without money" front. Aggravating, to say the least.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LTL429;4224840][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1671f75e-3db8-4352-ad97-8c049bc57dfc[/URL]

Friend of mine went to meet her last night. He was not very smart and didn't follow my advice. He met her at what he was told her house that she lived alone in Middletown. Got there and went to bedroom. Gave her money upfront (told him not too). About the time the got undressed to guys and a girl barged in. One dude yelling at her he can't believe she was doing this in his house. Told my buddy to get the fuck out. I told my buddy he was set up and they played a con on him. 513-267-7099.[/QUOTE]I had a meeting set up with her on Friday. She wasn't ready on time, so I drove around the neighborhood which was sketchy af even during the day. She messaged me and said she would meet me outside and walk me in. I drove up to where she was and kept driving. The profile pics are in her better days and she looked rough af. Big head decided I wasn't that horny. Glad for once I let the big head drive. Sorry this happened to your friend but thanks for letting the board know. I'll post a link of your report on the Dayton board.

[QUOTE=Charlie7605;4224810][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4a107f0-5128-4f6f-afff-747ccbb49199[/URL]

Anyone got any info on this one? Supposed to meet her tomorrow. She seems legit but she also stated that she hasnt met anyone off the site which I find hard to believe. She seems dtf. Plan is to have a meal and get a room. Seems too easy. I will keep you posted.[/QUOTE]I would be very interested in how your date goes. She agreed to meet me for lunch and then was coming back to my place. She canceled due to illness. I have not rescheduled.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1671f75e-3db8-4352-ad97-8c049bc57dfc[/URL]

Legit good to go, body not the best, but very reasonable.

[QUOTE=KyMike2018;4226763]I would be very interested in how your date goes. She agreed to meet me for lunch and then was coming back to my place. She canceled due to illness. I have not rescheduled.[/QUOTE]So I went through everything and she is definitely dtf. At least in the texts. But my spidey senses said there was something off. In my experience the finds on sa are much better looking and usually no drug drama, but they are a little more psycho if you end it or don't see a match. So same drama as a pro or SW just manifests itself differently. I attached 2 of the pics she sent. I was like why is this beautiful 29 yo woman seeming so dtf when she doesn't know much about me. Asking $$ Seemed TGTBT. And I felt like there would be drama on the back end of the mtg. If you pull the trigger let me know. In the meantime I found 2 strippers doing outside work. So that will satisfy me.

[QUOTE=Charlie7605;4227580]So I went through everything and she is definitely dtf. At least in the texts. But my spidey senses said there was something off. In my experience the finds on sa are much better looking and usually no drug drama, but they are a little more psycho if you end it or don't see a match. So same drama as a pro or SW just manifests itself differently. I attached 2 of the pics she sent. I was like why is this beautiful 29 yo woman seeming so dtf when she doesn't know much about me. Asking $$ Seemed TGTBT. And I felt like there would be drama on the back end of the mtg. If you pull the trigger let me know. In the meantime I found 2 strippers doing outside work. So that will satisfy me.[/QUOTE]Those same pictures were used by a girl in Maysville Ky. The pictures on the SA profile listed in Cinci though are different.

[QUOTE=HuntingOne;4228241]Those same pictures were used by a girl in Maysville Ky. The pictures on the SA profile listed in Cinci though are different.[/QUOTE]She told me she used to have a profile but someone at her job found out so she used her sisters pics. I have no clue if her. I was just struggling with why someone who looked like that was dtf so quickly for 3 benjies. She may be legit. She may be a fake. She may be bat shit crazy and clingy. Out of the three options 2 were not for me. LOL.

Lia97 Female 21 Asian. M&G $150 then $3-400. Negotiable. Says on site with another Asian friend. Meet for early Friday lunch. Won't be mutual. What is known as a Rinser: She will rinse your wallet clean if you give then move to next opportunity. Has personality of a door knob.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5349b7fe-d3d4-46ec-b228-b359c1dc87a5[/URL]

Mariah_95 Female 22. SB Pro. Been at it for a long time. Seeking 500. No M&G. Met before going to Tampa. Has had quite the life already. Nice girl. Smart. Savvy. Just a little to GPS.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/adf50c19-7f43-41d6-9525-02b8898ceb4a[/URL]

DaisyBabe19 Female 19. Aggressive in desire to meet but not to annoying level. Has been reviewed on here already. Will do M&G but may ask for donation upfront for it. $300 allowance after.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0cf5d89e-c718-484a-8d99-bd22e210c938[/URL]