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[QUOTE=MrZ83;7191130]Now we are paying these girls for lunch dates?? Wowww. I don't understand some of why'all. RIP to this hobby.[/QUOTE]Read my post. I never said it was a paid date. I do meet and greets all the time and only cover the cost of coffee or lunch. It sure doesn't take much to set some of you guys off, which is why I rarely post anything on here.
Mule.
[QUOTE=PlowMule;7191273]Read my post. I never said it was a paid date. I do meet and greets all the time and only cover the cost of coffee or lunch. It sure doesn't take much to set some of you guys off, which is why I rarely post anything on here.
Mule.[/QUOTE]Keep posting, bro. Some of the best SB's I've had from Seeking started out with a $10 coffee or $20 lunch date. A lot of these girls are just young kids that are a little unsure of fucking a stranger off the Internet. If a $10 coffee gets them back to the fuck chamber I chalk that up to the cost of doing business. I couldn't even get her to a lunch date, so report back how it goes.
[QUOTE=PlowMule;7191273]Read my post. I never said it was a paid date. I do meet and greets all the time and only cover the cost of coffee or lunch. It sure doesn't take much to set some of you guys off, which is why I rarely post anything on here.
Mule.[/QUOTE]Yeah I read it and I think it's foolish. Why wouldn't you just ask some regular girl out for a date and try to make more happen? It's clear in her ad that they are desperate financially so why wouldn't you take advantage of that? You are on an escort site not a dating site. I just think it's pathetic to give a girl money or dinner for nothing unless you are really trying to date a girl. Between that and paying fat girls who should be free, why'all are the ones ruining this hobby. Do what you have to do I guess but I don't want to see any of why'all complaining in the future when you actually have to pay a decent looking girl. Have a little self pride fellas.
[QUOTE=MrZ83;7195672]Yeah I read it and I think it's foolish. Why wouldn't you just ask some regular girl out for a date and try to make more happen? It's clear in her ad that they are desperate financially so why wouldn't you take advantage of that? You are on an escort site not a dating site. I just think it's pathetic to give a girl money or dinner for nothing unless you are really trying to date a girl. Between that and paying fat girls who should be free, why'all are the ones ruining this hobby. Do what you have to do I guess but I don't want to see any of why'all complaining in the future when you actually have to pay a decent looking girl. Have a little self pride fellas.[/QUOTE]I probably shouldn't chime in but I have to agree with Mule and FireBall. Firstly, $10-20 can go a long way to NOT spending any more on them. I also had Therasa set up for a drink and stayover tonight. I am actually a little afraid she may be a bit bigger than my liking and was wanting to see if that was the case. She has now blocked me because I mentioned that today was Valentine's Day and as big of a deal as she makes about it being okay with her husband, thought it was somewhat ironic that she was going home with me. Evidently that pissed her off.
Secondly, one of the best "deals" I have ever had started with a Starbucks coffee. She wound up quite reasonable in her expectations also and we saw each other for almost a year. At the end of it, she used to come by once a month for free just "to get hers. " Best investment in a cup of coffee I ever made. She was also only 26, 5'6", 120#, blonde with a cute little ass and some ink on the canvas.
[QUOTE=MrZ83;7195672]Yeah I read it and I think it's foolish. Why wouldn't you just ask some regular girl out for a date and try to make more happen? It's clear in her ad that they are desperate financially so why wouldn't you take advantage of that? You are on an escort site not a dating site. I just think it's pathetic to give a girl money or dinner for nothing unless you are really trying to date a girl. Between that and paying fat girls who should be free, why'all are the ones ruining this hobby. Do what you have to do I guess but I don't want to see any of why'all complaining in the future when you actually have to pay a decent looking girl. Have a little self pride fellas.[/QUOTE]You can call it an escort site all you want. And technically that is true as we all know what are there for. But I view SA and "sugaring" as very different from a typical site like STG or tryst. Most of the girls there (at least the decent looking ones) don't want to view themselves as escorts. It takes a little more finesse than that at least in my experience. I personally have no problem buying lunch or coffee for a girl if it gets me in the door. Once there's hot 20 year old college girls on STG then my views might change, but until then it's a small price to pay.
Either way I personally don't really mind a meet and greet. It gives me an equal opportunity to scout them out as well before committing to any kind of ppm. Is it more work than a normal site? Yes. But for me it's worth it in the long run as the girls are generally better looking, not strung out, and don't watch the clock. The same amount of money for an hour with someone on STG can get me all night with someone on SA. It just takes a little more leg work to get there. But again, to each their own. No one's telling anyone what to do with their money. There is plenty going on that "ruins the hobby" like paying for pics etc. But if you think not doing meet and greets with SA girls is going to drive these 20 something's toward advertising on STG for 150/ hr I would most certainly disagree with that. Most of them are just looking to supplement easy income and aren't desperately seeking money for their next fix or whatever. Of course that's just my experience with the ones I've seen. Regardless I wish the best for everyone here and appreciate everyone that shares intel. Stay safe out there.
I am thinking of trying SA since there is a shortage of quality providers on the normal circuit. I have a couple questions if anyone would mind answering them (pms are fine too if you prefer). How much do you all spend on SA the site itself every month to use it? Do the girls on average ask for more on SA than say skip?? From what I have seen the quality is higher but I'm not rich (I'm not broke either) so I don't mind spending some on a girl who is worthwhile but this is all a new venture for me so I am wanting to decide if it is worth the plunge or not. Thanks in advance.
I have dates setup with all of them. Anyone ever partake?
El.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3bd1eb30-f652-4dc5-8ef5-284877da08e9[/URL]
Christine.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abd473ed-d305-42d0-801e-0de50029251c[/URL]
Pretty Venus.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a52a6f7-af69-4615-806e-35d02bc63bc1[/URL]
[QUOTE=FireBall99;7201113]I have dates setup with all of them. Anyone ever partake?
El.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3bd1eb30-f652-4dc5-8ef5-284877da08e9[/URL]
Christine.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/abd473ed-d305-42d0-801e-0de50029251c[/URL]
Pretty Venus.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9a52a6f7-af69-4615-806e-35d02bc63bc1[/URL][/QUOTE]The top one is a scam artist. Will meet with you. Add her, you buy her content, and that's all she pretty well. Wants to do is up charge. The second one is a picture seller. No show and if you don't agree to her terms, she will block. You don't know anything about the third one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1a1fc7b-8332-467c-8165-c24be30fa679[/URL]
[QUOTE=JimTom31;7203443]The top one is a scam artist. Will meet with you. Add her, you buy her content, and that's all she pretty well. Wants to do is up charge. The second one is a picture seller. No show and if you don't agree to her terms, she will block. You don't know anything about the third one.[/QUOTE]Update-.
The 3rd one ended up ghosting. Supposedly she hasn't met anyone before so I think she got cold feet.
The 2nd one I met with a couple days ago. She is real, but pretty expensive and not memorable. Don't plan on repeating.
The 1st one our date got moved to tomorrow so I will report back on her later.
[QUOTE=Macintn;7204304][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d1a1fc7b-8332-467c-8165-c24be30fa679[/URL][/QUOTE]I've fucked her.
Has anyone met Savannah / Yaya?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e0346f27-3d79-43a7-9fef-5b4b2e8cb010[/URL]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4db00cb04655a639[/URL]
Or Redrubi?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/3cda6b91-7253-4cac-8343-4353c9810a36[/URL]
Or Jules?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9b3e7668-ddd3-49b5-bfb7-600a17c30dee[/URL]
[QUOTE=Djsb82;7204978]I've fucked her.[/QUOTE]I guess I stand corrected. She must have just been trying to scam me. LOL.
[QUOTE=Macintn;7205297]I guess I stand corrected. She must have just been trying to scam me. LOL.[/QUOTE]It's totally possible that she has done both. Lots of girls start out legit and then start testing boundaries to see what they can get by with. Then they just start scamming. I almost exclusively search for Asian providers when I travel. The likelihood of scammers is a bit less and you usually get better bang for your buck.
[QUOTE=Macintn;7205297]I guess I stand corrected. She must have just been trying to scam me. LOL.[/QUOTE]How'd she try to scam you?
[QUOTE=Djsb82;7205549]How'd she try to scam you?[/QUOTE]Wanting money for food first then when that wasnt going to happen wanted to sell me content.
[QUOTE=Macintn;7206250]Wanting money for food first then when that wasnt going to happen wanted to sell me content.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I talked to her a little bit as well and she seems to have changed. I would not trust her. She sent me some pictures and she looks like she might be on drugs or something.
Be aware that my SA account was hacked yesterday and whoever this was sent messages all over the country. I was able to see it for a couple of minutes and then got bumped off. I tried to log in again and it won't let me. It says it does not have an account connected to the email I was using.
[QUOTE=MateCheck;7209615]Be aware that my SA account was hacked yesterday and whoever this was sent messages all over the country. I was able to see it for a couple of minutes and then got bumped off. I tried to log in again and it won't let me. It says it does not have an account connected to the email I was using.[/QUOTE]Someone tried to hack mine yesterday too. I have Two-Factor authentication turned on so SA sent me like 12 log in codes to my email that kept them from logging in.
[QUOTE=FireBall99;7210000]Someone tried to hack mine yesterday too. I have Two-Factor authentication turned on so SA sent me like 12 log in codes to my email that kept them from logging in.[/QUOTE]At least I had turned off auto renewal and deleted my payment method prior to this happening. Whoever this was is right now getting a free month on me. I have contacted SA about it but have not received a reply as of yet.
Anybody know this one? I'm pretty sure I recognize her face and she's been talked about here in the past.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7be56f16-30a5-4a2d-b044-b141c10bc3ed[/URL]
[QUOTE=FireBall99;7210671]Anybody know this one? I'm pretty sure I recognize her face and she's been talked about here in the past.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7be56f16-30a5-4a2d-b044-b141c10bc3ed[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah she's been on and off for a while. I can't remember what name she used before. Sweet girl has some skin issues wears a wigg I think. She's an absolute blast and reqsonable donation. Can't remember what it was been a long time since I've seen her. No limits as far as I can remember. Looks about a 6 skin 4 enthusiasm 10 plus 20 for limits skill 8. As for clean or on something I lean towards on something for sure. I'm trying to remember more but that's all I got. Hope that helps you out.
I'm going to be visiting your city and have been in contact with the following women. Any info you have is appreciated. Trying to avoid people who are going to last-minute ask for pay upfront or some shit.
Alys.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/215f53e5-b62b-4f31-9e31-d8b635a14cf8[/URL]
Lia.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c422443-1cd6-46ab-a507-7039828dc576[/URL]
Shandra.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e65b31bd-ad95-4d57-992b-c9348f810ae3[/URL]
Cass.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cccf51cf-e087-49f9-8ba0-f145d3b077a9[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8dd849ee-29f0-4dc6-b48d-c27da3474b05[/URL]
Veronica
Met her once a couple months back. Cute, 24 yr old single mom. A little ghetto, but not terrible. Pics are somewhat accurate, but of course doesn't like quite as good in person. When I saw her she was about half asleep. Not sure if it was from lack of rest or extras. Either way, pretty solid skill set. Head game was very, very good. Outside of that not that memorable. No cover required.
Kayote
Cool chick with that semi goth tattooed vibe. Great personality. Actually lives in Newport. Pics are accurate. Tall with a thin body. Overall very attractive if you're into that look. Excellent top game and takes a cock really well. No cover required.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/401882a9-74e0-491b-b2d0-4068a49039de[/URL]
Saw in my email that I'd received a message on SA and tried to login via my email to view it. Get sent the verification code to put in and then get a message saying, "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content. " Did I catch a shadow ban or is the site legit being stupid? Just sucks because I've been communicating with a couple different ladies of late on there and haven't had the opportunity to get a number.
Just curious if anyone else is experiencing this.
[QUOTE=FireBall99;7230074][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8dd849ee-29f0-4dc6-b48d-c27da3474b05[/URL]
Veronica
Met her once a couple months back. Cute, 24 yr old single mom. A little ghetto, but not terrible. Pics are somewhat accurate, but of course doesn't like quite as good in person. When I saw her she was about half asleep. Not sure if it was from lack of rest or extras. Either way, pretty solid skill set. Head game was very, very good. Outside of that not that memorable. No cover required.
Kayote
Cool chick with that semi goth tattooed vibe. Great personality. Actually lives in Newport. Pics are accurate. Tall with a thin body. Overall very attractive if you're into that look. Excellent top game and takes a cock really well. No cover required.[/QUOTE]Share a link to kayote please.
[QUOTE=RockyMntHigh;7230914]Saw in my email that I'd received a message on SA and tried to login via my email to view it. Get sent the verification code to put in and then get a message saying, "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content. " Did I catch a shadow ban or is the site legit being stupid? Just sucks because I've been communicating with a couple different ladies of late on there and haven't had the opportunity to get a number.
Just curious if anyone else is experiencing this.[/QUOTE]I also cannot login in with code nor with password. Must be a site-wide issue because I can't imagine anything I would have got banned for either.
[QUOTE=Patriarchist;7231613]I also cannot login in with code nor with password. Must be a site-wide issue because I can't imagine anything I would have got banned for either.[/QUOTE]This is interesting. I use both Web browser on computer and browser on cell phone. My computer has been asking for the code when logging in some time. Cell phone seems to stay logged in and does not ask for code or credentials. Currently my computer web browser does send the code but gives error of "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content. " Cell phone still works with no issues currently. My account is an older account with no photos and not verified in any way.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/756084b8-518b-4cce-8f3d-b05ac34c3615[/URL]
I looked and did not see a review for Kendal other than someone had a lunch date scheduled.
Any info?
Thanks!
Anexp.
It is important to note that the current SA girl Kendal (one L) is not the same as a previous SA girl, Kendall (2 Ls).
[QUOTE=AnExplorer40;7232008][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/756084b8-518b-4cce-8f3d-b05ac34c3615[/URL]
I looked and did not see a review for Kendal other than someone had a lunch date scheduled.
Any info?
Thanks!
Anexp.[/QUOTE]
"Officials say the arrests mark the largest fentanyl seizure in Harlan County history. ".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c437f391-f4e1-4d27-8c72-82aeacfcdd24[/URL]
[QUOTE=Colanguss;7230834][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/401882a9-74e0-491b-b2d0-4068a49039de[/URL][/QUOTE]Oof how much is she offering you?
I have been on SA for 10 years off and on. Had great success. Two LTRS that were best in class. This current Knoxville scenario is a joke. Nashville is only a little better. I went to Thailand last year for a month. Think I'll just save my money and go back.
Could you possibly elaborate? That article is from 18 months ago.
[QUOTE=GaltGuy;7232249]"Officials say the arrests mark the largest fentanyl seizure in Harlan County history. ".
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c437f391-f4e1-4d27-8c72-82aeacfcdd24[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JoyBoy1223;7236211]Could you possibly elaborate? That article is from 18 months ago.[/QUOTE]I think the implication is that if she was involved in that little venture, she might still run with that element and you might want to exercise some caution. Could be she has completely changed in 18 months, but my guess is the probability might be pretty low. GaltGuy can certainly correct me if I am wrong.
Anyone talk with her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0fcdfe44-6ebd-405e-b132-dc27ef67b5a4[/URL]
Exactly my thoughts. Thanks.
[QUOTE=OnTheGo13;7236545]I think the implication is that if she was involved in that little venture, she might still run with that element and you might want to exercise some caution. Could be she has completely changed in 18 months, but my guess is the probability might be pretty low. GaltGuy can certainly correct me if I am wrong.[/QUOTE]
Thanks guys. I wasn't sure if this post was location or person, specific. Appreciate the added clarity.
[QUOTE=GaltGuy;7236984]Exactly my thoughts. Thanks.[/QUOTE]
To answer my own question, I can confirm that Lia is definitely worth it. It was a once in a lifetime experience for me to get to fuck someone who has the biggest tits I've ever seen in my life. They remind me of Chesty Morgan's tits from way back before we were all born.
But even better, she is an intelligent, sensual, and sweet woman. Like, this is the first SB where I've thought that I would want to actually try to date her under different circumstances. I don't often want to get drinks beforehand with a SB, but I would recommend it for her.
If you're not into gigantic tits, or even big tits, don't bother, but if you are, you're in for a treat.
Treat her right gentlemen.
[QUOTE=DDorBiggerPlz;7223066]I'm going to be visiting your city and have been in contact with the following women. Any info you have is appreciated. Trying to avoid people who are going to last-minute ask for pay upfront or some shit.
Alys.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/215f53e5-b62b-4f31-9e31-d8b635a14cf8[/URL]
Lia.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c422443-1cd6-46ab-a507-7039828dc576[/URL]
Shandra.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e65b31bd-ad95-4d57-992b-c9348f810ae3[/URL]
Cass.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cccf51cf-e087-49f9-8ba0-f145d3b077a9[/URL][/QUOTE]