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Showed up promptly at 10am on Thursday at CH (last week, it's been busy) and drew Nikki. Her english was excellent, and we talked a bunch through a very relaxed GFE with good table shower, massage, CBJ, and FS. $$ for the whole deal (door plus tip).
As I was walking out, around 11am, the guy who usually works the door now was parking his car and walking in.
Hey Guys,
I know it's frowned upon to ask without giving, but you have to start somewhere. I have been in the hobby for a while and am still pretty young, but have a lot of experience from Jersey to up here. I have been to DT, CH, Lily, 1021 and a few places in Boston. Prov is by far the best option, although I love Jersey.
Anyway, I agree, Kate from DT is very good and I saw a girl at 1021 a couple years ago that was really good, but then they shut down for a while.
I personally don't like Lilly, because I'm looking for more, but I can't say I've had a lot of great experiences there, anyway.
I wish I could remember more names of the girls that I've seen in this area, but now that I'm posting on here, I will do a much better job of it. I only frequent these places, maybe six times a year or so.
Anyway, I know a lot of you rate the providers by different standards. Best TS, HR, GFE and all of that. I personally am more into the looks and body than anything else. That all being said, and again, I apologize for not bringing much to the table here, who would you think the hottest provider is? I remember reading about a provider from CH, maybe last year, but she was expensive and I've read on here recently that Susie at 1021 was really good and I know from experience that Kate was good at DT, but I think I also remember the name Pepsi being good there.
If you can help me out, I will do my best to contribute on here when I can.
Thanks Guys.
As promised, here's a report for you. I just got back from DT. I wanted to go to 1021 to see Suzie, since I've seen two good reports on here lately, except that I haven't been in there in a couple years and I can't seem to find a phone number for them anywhere. I wasn't about to just drive from Boston if she wasn't even there. So, I went to DT instead, which is cool.
I got there and I guess they were really busy, because I had to wait in the room for about 10 minutes. Christina comes in and she's about 5'2", cute face, probably around 30 y/o, Japanese/Korean mix and later found out that she has really nice breasts and long nips. Anyway, because they were so busy, she did the massage first and not too bad on the back, but really didn't do anything on the flip, but we were going to do the TS after, so I didn't expect anything. The TS was pretty good and she was thorough. I liked her demeanor throughout and pretty good English too. Anyway, back to the room and no sauna and she just asks what I want. I wanted FS anyway, so I didn't expect a HR, but still, I just felt disjointed because we didn't do the TS first, so there was really no preamble to it all, so that kind of sucked, but what can you do? So, .6 to the house, $ .4 for the rest. Good cbj, but short, but expertly done from the application on down. She was cool with DATY and certainly made me feel like I was performing well, but who knows what's real and what isn't, but my track record has always been good, so whatever. Then right into mish and that was very good. She is pretty soft and likes to cuddle and she's delicate and just liked to lay there and cuddle, so it was all good.
Just a note, I've been with Kate before and I think, but I could be wrong, I think I put down $ .4 for FS and she was wanting more, so I wasn't sure what Christina would do, but she was cool with it. Says she's been in Prov for three weeks and was in Cali in LA for the previous five years.
Bostonguy. Speaking of nothing to add. Boston sucks for hot AMP chicks. RI is good, I get to DT a lot or did in the last year or so. I can't remember any names but the best I have had was in NYC. Sorry dude. Anyone else?
Toodw
Well, after a few missed attempts, I finally found DowntownAccupressure about a month ago. There is construction going on in the building, so the elevators weren't working. I went at lunchtime. It was hot as hell that day, but I wasn't leaving with sampling. I'm not sure if they were busy, but the girl took me up to the floor above theirs (didn't know they occupied more then 1 floor). Collected the. 6 for the house and then told me to undress. The set up is kinda screwing, as the girl gave me a massage in the room for quite some time, not a bad massage, but I kep asking if they had table showers. So after my massage and halfway through my time, sh eleads me to another room for a TS. Kinda quick, only so-so. We go back to the room and she starts the massage all over. Again no real flow to the place. She tells me to flip, grabs lotion and starts immediately with the HR. I mentioned I wanted to feel her lips, but sh ejust finished. I tipped. 6 and left. Wasn't impressed.
Today I walked by Bali Day Spa and they were opened. Made my way in, was seen quickly and led to a room. Niomi was the girl's name. Decent rack, a little thick in the waist but not too bad. She collected the. 6 for the house. Took me for TS. Very thorough scrub. I passed on the Sauna, (always hated them). Back to the room for a very nice massage. She was very sweet, and I think she was worried I was LE, (have been told I look the part). So when she asked me what I wanted, to ease her fear, I told her I want to feel her mouth on me and I want to play with her tits. She left the room, came back and locked the door. Took off everything but thong, and rubbed her bosy and tongue all over my my back, etc. Told me to flip. Put on rubber with mouth and proceeded to perform. She was doing well, and then stopped and asked if I like pu$$y. She removed the thong and turned for 69 position. I only used my fingers on her, . (I love to eat pu$$y as much as the next guy, but not on a pro. Just how I am.). I told her I wanted to watch, so she switch positions and I finished by holding her head and really working it to completion. I asked how much and took out. 6, she wanted more, so I added another. 2. She wanted $. 3, but I told her I didn't have anymore. She said next time. The overall service was outstanding, and would recommend to others. Nice GFE.
Although I thought a little pricey, but it's been a while since I've been to one, so maybe I need to get used to the inflation.
Strange how Harley doesnt have lots of details from DT but the other place he remembers every detail. I have to say, and y'all can jump down my back on this one, but Harley has to be connected to the other place....and I place low value on his report.
[QUOTE=Bostonguy]Hey Guys,
I know it's frowned upon to ask without giving, but you have to start somewhere. I have been in the hobby for a while and am still pretty young, but have a lot of experience from Jersey to up here. I have been to DT, CH, Lily, 1021 and a few places in Boston. Prov is by far the best option, although I love Jersey.
Anyway, I agree, Kate from DT is very good and I saw a girl at 1021 a couple years ago that was really good, but then they shut down for a while.
I personally don't like Lilly, because I'm looking for more, but I can't say I've had a lot of great experiences there, anyway.
I wish I could remember more names of the girls that I've seen in this area, but now that I'm posting on here, I will do a much better job of it. I only frequent these places, maybe six times a year or so.
Anyway, I know a lot of you rate the providers by different standards. Best TS, HR, GFE and all of that. I personally am more into the looks and body than anything else. That all being said, and again, I apologize for not bringing much to the table here, who would you think the hottest provider is? I remember reading about a provider from CH, maybe last year, but she was expensive and I've read on here recently that Susie at 1021 was really good and I know from experience that Kate was good at DT, but I think I also remember the name Pepsi being good there.
If you can help me out, I will do my best to contribute on here when I can.
Thanks Guys.[/QUOTE]
BG,
The women lately at 1021 including Susie are not hot in the looks and body department, I think. They are a bit older and not so fit, I have found. However, they are extremely fun and permissive. That is the attraction. Do not misunderstand, they are not ugly, just a little older and not so fit. That is just my opinion.
[QUOTE=Toodw]Bostonguy. Speaking of nothing to add. Boston sucks for hot AMP chicks. RI is good, I get to DT a lot or did in the last year or so. I can't remember any names but the best I have had was in NYC. Sorry dude. Anyone else?
Toodw[/QUOTE]Do any of you keep tabs on Old Midori Spa girls. There was one girl Ruby who was a godess. I have been trying to locate her for over a year. Shes mid 20;s long blk hair small boobs speaks good english.
It's too bad there arn any non asian places around. I remember the Alpha Club in Hartford CT or Whispers they had the entire UN there.
If any of you know about Ruby pleas let me know. Midori was a great spa
Thanks
[QUOTE=Meal Soy Hooing]Strange how Harley doesnt have lots of details from DT but the other place he remembers every detail. I have to say, and y'all can jump down my back on this one, but Harley has to be connected to the other place....and I place low value on his report.[/QUOTE]
I see no reason not to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. MSH, I think you're completely off base on this one.
Look at his two other previous posts. One he's looking to find DT, and the other he's looking to get into Bally, (without luck I might add). If he were "connected" to Bally, don't you think he'd know how to get in through their front door? I would think so...
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[QUOTE=Triesharder]BG,
The women lately at 1021 including Susie are not hot in the looks and body department, I think. They are a bit older and not so fit, I have found. However, they are extremely fun and permissive. That is the attraction. Do not misunderstand, they are not ugly, just a little older and not so fit. That is just my opinion.[/QUOTE]I could not agree with TH more. Having sampled the fruits three times, they are certainly not drop dead gorgeous lookers. They are kinda average on the attractive side in the looks department. They really need, IMO, to add a really hot young Asian to the lineup, and the place will have a line down the stairs and out the doors, even at $$ a whack.
However, Susie and Jung give new meaning to GFE and push the envelope so far that it almost falls off the table. They are, again, IMO, an outstanding value for your monger buck.
[QUOTE=DaddysLookin]...Susie and Jung give new meaning to GFE and push the envelope so far that it almost falls off the table. They are, again, IMO, an outstanding value for your monger buck.[/QUOTE]I do like the performance, wouldn't want it to get *too* popular.
Got to DT around 2:15p and greeted at the door by mamasan. Directed to the room and on arriving I asked who was available? She asked me "who I know"? and I thru some names out. She mentioned "mostly all new girls", so I just said OK.
In comes Yuri, 5'3", stylish, very pretty, slim, tanned, long black hair down to the small of her back, nice smile and nice cans. Immediately, you see she is smiling, a bit submissive and she has a VERY girlish high pitched voice that you are either going to think is syrupy sweet OR it will get to you. I liked her voice, it kind of went with the total package. She is a very sweet girl originally from Seoul Korea (no kidding) and now from Queens, NY. Very personable.
She grabbed my hand and did the 2 minute sauna while she prepared the room. TS was decent but nothing noteworthy. She did grab my johnson and stroked for a bit. Not so decent massage, but at DT you get a decent at best, not a Lily-like massage ever, so massage as status quo. "Please turn over, hehe" (she giggles alot in a nice way) and she gestures FS by pumping her fists and elbows into her hips (too funny). I whispered in her ear that I wanted "everything" and she left room to get the condom and came back in a few moments.
Back to the room she took her clothes off and I must say she had a smokin little body - she looked great. First face down, she did the usual foreplay stuff with kisses, licking, rubbing boobs. It was nice but like some girls really push the edge, she was more defacto, nice though. Turn over and she laid aside me which was cool. We did CG, Mish, me standing while she on the table, thar' she blows ....
a summary of visit is she is a great girl, nice to look at and interact with, defacto skills as she is a bit new at this I suspect, but fun. I would repeat but may hesitate to ask for her specifically, meaning I would be happy if I got her again.
Take care all ....
At about 5 PM Tuesday, I met with Susie at 1021. The house fee and tip were sixty and one forty, respectively. Susie was fun and open, including DFK, DATY, DATO, CBJ, and CFS. The Susie experience was almost exactly as I expected after reading the informative posts of others here.
Two things surprised me though. First, during the TS, she seemed intent on sticking a finger up my bunghole, even after I repeatedly told her, "easy there," "no, please," and "I don't like that." She just kind of looked at me wildly, resumed the playful TS, and then after a while tried again, giggling. It was no big deal. It just surprised me. On me, the only thing I want going the wrong way up the Hershey Highway is the tongue of a beautiful woman.
Second, she climaxed quite easily and often, evidenced by her creaming pussy. Can a lady fake that? I was tipsy coming from Cheaters. Between her wild look, permissiveness, relaxed attitude, and oozing sexual enjoyment, I fancied that maybe she was high too. It was just a passing thought and I have nothing on which to base it, but I remember thinking it.
[QUOTE=Ampdude 2003]
In comes Yuri, 5'3", stylish, very pretty, slim, tanned, long black hair down to the small of her back, nice smile and nice cans.[/QUOTE]Speaking of Yuri, unfortunately she has implants, but they look very nice.
I think I was a bit too rough with her, after I was done she got up and fell over because she couldn't walk straight. My bad.
Yuri was very pleasant with good attitude, but I thought she had a bad boob job and her long black hair is fake (extensions). Her high pitch voice was prob fake too. LOL. All in all good service but nothing special.
I'm cross posting this from Boston because SE Mass is as connected to Providence as much as it is to Boston.
Went to L&G Massage Center in Plymouth. It advertises that it is "Chinese" and offers "whole body accupressure," so I thought is was worth a shot. Korean massage lady did not object to my getting naked, but no extras were offered and I got the feeling that they would not be allowed if asked. Look elsewhere.
I'll be visiting providence around labor day weekend, and was hoping to check out the MP action out there. Now it seems to me that the going rate for FS is $. 40. What about a BJ? I've noticed that prices are crazy out there. Here in socal, I can spend $ on tip AND house fee for fs. A gfe if I go to the right place. Anyways any recommendations will be appreciated.
Thanks
Hello all,
As a new poster here, I'd like to thank you for all of your very detailed posts. I have read this entire thread, and found it very informative, helpful, and at times humorous. I have always had a thing for asian women, and was curious about the AMP's. Living in Providence, I figured I shouldn't let such an amazing and legal resource be squandered. After learning a lot here, I made my first AMP visit ever to Lily Spa.
I was a bit nervous, but armed with all of the information in this thread, I ventured out on Saturday night around 10pm. Surprisingly, it was very easy to find, and I never expected an establishment like this to have a neon pink sign! I parked the car in the lot, and went in the back door. I pressed the little doorbell, but the door was already ajar, so I just opened it. I'm not sure if I was supposed to wait, but the mamasan didn't seem to mind. I suppose in retrospect I should have waited since there could have been some guys in the room/hallway. There were 3 or 4 girls just hanging around towards the front "office" area. All looked pretty young and attractive (in their 20's or 30's) except the mamasan (50's? ). She led me into a changing room, where I took off my clothes. I didn't see one of the little plastic purses, so I just left my money in my pockets. (I only brought $, left my wallet in the car)
A girl came in, older, lots of makeup, almost hookerish clothes. Asked for the .6 for the house, and I gave it to her. She came back, saw me standing there naked, and said "Ooh, nice body! ", gave me a towel, and led me into the Sauna to warm up. That little compliment made me relax a little bit, even though she probably says it to everyone.
I sat in the sauna for about about 5-10 minutes, and to their credit, it was pretty warm, dry, and made of very clean wood. There were some magazines to look at, and during my time in there a girl came in and put a washcloth on my head. That was a nice touch, but unfortunately the washcloth wasn't really wet, so all it did was make me look like a naked jewish guy. Another girl came in a minute later and gave me a dixie cup of water to drink. Again, nice touch. If it wasn't an AMP, I would have gotten the feeling these girls just wanted to see me naked.
After a while, a different girl lead me into a table shower room. There were two of them, and they were right next to the sauna room. It was a small tiled room, shower on one wall, a metal cart of supplies, and a long padded table to lay on. I introduced myself, and found out that my girl's name was Mimi. She was wearing a lacy black vneck top, and grey cotton spandex shorts that went down to mid thigh. Not knowing what I was doing, I went to lay down on it right away. She stopped me and said "no no! Too cold", then splashed water all over it, then told me to lay down on my stomach. I felt a little silly, but that went away once she started pouring the warm water all over my body. What a great feeling! Lots of washing, rubbing, and cleaning places I don't even clean on my own. Flip to the front, and more of the same. She cleaned the boys, but didn't really spend much time there. That's fine with me, because I had a bad experience once with getting soap in my pee hole. After drying me off, she lead me to the massage room. (there were maybe 5 of those rooms? )
I think there must have been a couple other guys there that night, because I would have much rather done the table shower, then the sauna to warm up and dry off, then the massage. We got in the room, and I made a comment that it was a little chilly. That might have been the wrong thing to say, because she put a white sheet over my back before starting the massage. Is that normal?
She hopped up on the table and started the massage. It was pretty darn good, but then again I don't have any other AMP massage experiences to judge it against. I thought it was funny that the entire massage seemed to revolve around the axis of my ass. She'the do my back, then my ass, then my thighs, then my ass, then my calves, then my ass, then my neck, then my ass. Anyway, it was very pleasant.
After maybe 15 minutes of massage, I told her she can take the sheet off, so that way I could feel her hands on my skin. She obliged, and the massage was that much better. After another 10 minutes or so, she hopped off and turned down the lights. She started lightly brushing my back and legs with her fingertips and her hair, then teasing my goods from behind. In my opinion, this was the best part of the night. It felt great, then after about 2 minutes of that, I was hard as a rock and she asked me to flip over.
She didn't pull any punches, and went right for washcloth, baby oil, and started the HR. There was no asking what I wanted, but for my first time I wanted a HR, that's why I chose Lily. I asked if I could touch while she performed the HR, and she nodded yes but over her clothes. I grabbed her ass, reached under to her front, and she didn't mind. The way she was positioned I couldn't get past her left arm to feel her top, and I think that was on purpose, so I didn't push it. After about 5 minutes of pure bliss, and a lot of ass grabbing, I finished, she took the washcloth, and left the room. She came back with a hot towel to clean me up, which was nice, then she helped me dress. She was very amused by my polo shirt because I am really tall, and it came down to her knees.
I gave her .4 even though she made no mention of a tip, and she seemed happy, saying "Come tomorrow? ! " I smiled, and was lead out the back door. I wish she was able to speak better English, as there were many time she said something, and I had no idea what it was. Overall though, I was very happy with my first experience, and plan on testing the waters with other girls and other spas soon!
On my short walk back to the car, I felt like I actually made money in there.
[COLOR=red][B]Disclaimer: The following is a Dream Sequence and is entirely fictional. Any similarity between the fictional version of this story posted here and actual events of the past is PURELY COINCIDENTAL. This is a work of fiction. This is not an attempt to defame the character of any persons on the basis of libel, as the work is fictional.[/B][/COLOR]
So the other week I found myself with a strong urge to invade a foreign country. Recent chatter heralded the return of an infamous provider by the name of Young. For years, many solders had entered sketchy neighborhoods and endured musty smelling environments just to catch a glimpse of this reputable honey. Now my time had come.
I entered the year 1021 into the Wayback Machine. Once the door opened, I encountered a deer in the headlights type of reaction. (Look like a cop I do not) I asked if they were too busy and was told they were not. A friendly greeting elicited an "I'm just the MMS" response. (Yes, I know)
In the room I'm told that Young is there, but busy. They have another, cute girl for me. And her name?-Suzie. Intel from readywillingandasian.com says that a draw of Suzie would be better than good.
In she comes with all her cuteness and a wonderful, bright smile. I go for a hug that must have knocked her off her feet because within seconds she has grabbed onto my kickstand for support. She broadcasts many "oh yeahs" and it quickly spirals into a Junior High School makeout session. We are told that the TS is ocupado so Suzie explains that we will do massagi now. Well that went right out the window as a mutual groping dance ensued. Within a couple of minutes the shower room became available. I knew this was going to be one fun visit so I released my joystick from under the towel and insisted that she tow me to the TS room. Who do we see along the way? Why it was Little Miss Butterfly Tattoo herself, counting the bars of soap. Suzie drags me over to her to show me off. Young takes the opportunity to get a feel for the gear pattern (mid sixties, 4 speed). Nice. Young suggests that I should ask for her next time. I tell her I'd need to get Suzie's permission.
Suzie was great in the TS room. The highlight for me was when she plugged my bung hole like a disgruntled patron at the coin operated laundromat. She didn't know how very close I was to embarrassing myself as she washed my soapy rod. Or maybe she did.
Back in the room her tongue was determined to inventory my tonsils. She startled me with what seemed to be a BBBJ. But after a moment I realized that more was going on with masterful execution. I motioned for some sac attention and Suzie gobbled them up like a couple of Rocky Mountain Oysters at a Texas Rodeo.
This little honey was going for firecracker status. I needed to take control and slow her down, which she allowed. We shifted the focus to pushing all of [I]her[/I] buttons. Her PC muscles grabbed my fingers like the mandibles of a bloodworm. She quaked with every new move I threw at her. The phony "oh yeahs" were becoming somewhat believable. Little Black Sambo was working herself into a puddle of butter. In the end, she had to do an extra 50 yard dash to get me there. And it was she who was last to return from beyond. (Damn--I'm a superstar!!)
I hinted that another shower would be good but I instead received a standing soap up and rinse off of the hairy bits and hands. Suzie must have been late for an appointment because she tagged out and Young was in to clothe me. She wanted to know if I "fucked her good?" I deferred the question to Suzie who was no longer present.
[B]A word of caution for you married guys--[/B] A napkin wipe revealed that some lipstick had left with me--not surprising. But it was not until I got home that I realized that my face had a bunch of sparklely stuff on it. Combine that with a big grin that could not be wiped off and you've got a surefire way to get busted!
Apologies to all if this review looks like just an amalgamation of all the previous posts about this little sportster. Apparently the ride is very consistent.
Thanks for reading---UF
[QUOTE=Beconn Reconn]Hello all,
As a new poster here, I'the like to thank you for all of your very detailed posts. I have read this entire thread, and found it very informative, helpful, and at times humorous. I have always had a thing for asian women, and was curious about the AMP's. Living in Providence, I figured I shouldn't let such an amazing and legal resource be squandered. After learning a lot here, I made my first AMP visit ever to Lily Spa.
I was a bit nervous, but armed with all of the information in this thread, I ventured out on Saturday night around 10pm. Surprisingly, it was very easy to find, and I never expected an establishment like this to have a neon pink sign! I parked the car in the lot, and went in the back door. I pressed the little doorbell, but the door was already ajar, so I just opened it. I'm not sure if I was supposed to wait, but the mamasan didn't seem to mind. I suppose in retrospect I should have waited since there could have been some guys in the room/hallway. There were 3 or 4 girls just hanging around towards the front "office" area. All looked pretty young and attractive (in their 20's or 30's) except the mamasan (50's? ). She led me into a changing room, where I took off my clothes. I didn't see one of the little plastic purses, so I just left my money in my pockets. (I only brought $100, left my wallet in the car)
A girl came in, older, lots of makeup, almost hookerish clothes. Asked for the $60 for the house, and I gave it to her. She came back, saw me standing there naked, and said "Ooh, nice body! ", gave me a towel, and led me into the Sauna to warm up. That little compliment made me relax a little bit, even though she probably says it to everyone.
I sat in the sauna for about about 5-10 minutes, and it to their credit, it was pretty warm, dry, and very clean wood. There were some magazines to look at, and during my time in there a girl came in and put a washcloth on my head. That was a nice touch, but unfortunately the washcloth wasn't really wet, so all it did was make me look like a naked jewish guy. Another girl came in a minute later and gave me a dixie cup of water to drink. Again, nice touch. If it wasn't an AMP, I would have gotten the feeling these girls just wanted to see me naked. At least that's what I told myself!
After a while, a different girl lead me into a table shower room. There were two of them, and they were right next to the sauna room. It was a small tiled room, shower on one wall, a metal cart of supplies, and a long padded table to lay on. I introduced myself, and found out that my girl's name was Mimi. She was wearing a lacy black vneck top, and grey cotton spandex shorts that went down to mid thigh. Not knowing what I was doing, I went to lay down on it right away. She stopped me and said "no no! Too cold", then splashed water all over it, then told me to lay down on my stomach. I felt a little silly, but that went away once she started pouring the warm water all over my body. What a great feeling! Lots of washing, rubbing, and cleaning places I don't even clean on my own. Flip to the front, and more of the same. She cleaned the boys, but didn't really spend much time there. That's fine with me, because I had a bad experience once with getting soap in my pee hole. After drying me off, she lead me to the massage room. (there were maybe 5 of those rooms? )
I think there must have been a couple other guys there that night, because I would have much rather done the table shower, then the sauna to warm up and dry off, then the massage. We got in the room, and I made a comment that it was a little chilly. That might have been the wrong thing to say, because she put a white sheet over my back before starting the massage. Is that normal?
She hopped up on the table and started the massage. It was pretty darn good, but then again I don't have any other AMP massage experiences to judge it against. I thought it was funny that the entire massage seemed to revolve around the axis of my ass. She'the do my back, then my ass, then my thighs, then my ass, then my calves, then my ass, then my neck, then my ass. Anyway, it was very pleasant.
After maybe 15 minutes of massage, I told her she can take the sheet off, so that way I could feel her hands on my skin. She obliged, and the massage was that much better. After another 10 minutes or so, she hopped off and turned down the lights. She started lightly brushing my back and legs with her fingertips and her hair, then teasing my goods from behind. In my opinion, this was the best part of the night. It felt great, then after about 2 minutes of that, I was hard as a rock and she asked me to flip over.
She didn't pull any punches, and went right for washcloth, baby oil, and started the HR. There was no asking what I wanted, but for my first time I wanted a HR, that's why I chose Lily. I asked if I could touch while she performed the HR, and she nodded yes but over her clothes. I grabbed her ass, reached under to her front, and she didn't mind. The way she was positioned I couldn't get past her left arm to feel her top, and I think that was on purpose, so I didn't push it. After about 5 minutes of pure bliss, and a lot of ass grabbing, I finished, she took the washcloth, and left the room. She came back with a hot towel to clean me up, which was nice, then she helped me dress. She was very amused by my polo shirt because I am really tall, and it came down to her knees.
I gave her $40, even though she made no mention of a tip, and she seemed happy, saying "Come tomorrow? ! ". I smiled, and was lead out the back door. I wish she was able to speak better English, as there were many time she said something, and I had no idea what it was. Overall though, I was very happy with my first experience, and plan on testing the waters with other girls and other spas soon!
On my short walk back to the car, I felt like I actually made money in there.[/QUOTE]This is how all of my trips to Lily have been. Yes, I also feel like I come out ahead by visiting there. It's always felt like they don't charge enough for that good of a massage. You touched on all the good parts of a visit there. The thorough shower, the fingertips before the flip, the roaming during the HR, everything. You can be assured every visit will be pretty close to as good as that one. You can try out other places, but you won't find a better massage and HR in town than there. Always top notch girls and even the parking/location is pretty easy to deal with at any hour.
Some girls cover with the sheet and some do not. I have had no problem either way. Whatever works for them.
[QUOTE=Beconn Reconn]Hello all,
As a new poster here, I'd like to thank you for all of your very detailed posts. I have read this entire thread, and found it very informative, helpful, and at times humorous. I have always had a thing for asian women, and was curious about the AMP's. Living in Providence, I figured I shouldn't let such an amazing and legal resource be squandered. After learning a lot here, I made my first AMP visit ever to Lily Spa.
I was a bit nervous, but armed with all of the information in this thread, I ventured out on Saturday night around 10pm. Surprisingly, it was very easy to find, and I never expected an establishment like this to have a neon pink sign! I parked the car in the lot, and went in the back door. I pressed the little doorbell, but the door was already ajar, so I just opened it. I'm not sure if I was supposed to wait, but the mamasan didn't seem to mind. I suppose in retrospect I should have waited since there could have been some guys in the room/hallway. There were 3 or 4 girls just hanging around towards the front "office" area. All looked pretty young and attractive (in their 20's or 30's) except the mamasan (50's? ). She led me into a changing room, where I took off my clothes. I didn't see one of the little plastic purses, so I just left my money in my pockets. (I only brought $, left my wallet in the car)
A girl came in, older, lots of makeup, almost hookerish clothes. Asked for the .6 for the house, and I gave it to her. She came back, saw me standing there naked, and said "Ooh, nice body! ", gave me a towel, and led me into the Sauna to warm up. That little compliment made me relax a little bit, even though she probably says it to everyone.
I sat in the sauna for about about 5-10 minutes, and to their credit, it was pretty warm, dry, and made of very clean wood. There were some magazines to look at, and during my time in there a girl came in and put a washcloth on my head. That was a nice touch, but unfortunately the washcloth wasn't really wet, so all it did was make me look like a naked jewish guy. Another girl came in a minute later and gave me a dixie cup of water to drink. Again, nice touch. If it wasn't an AMP, I would have gotten the feeling these girls just wanted to see me naked.
After a while, a different girl lead me into a table shower room. There were two of them, and they were right next to the sauna room. It was a small tiled room, shower on one wall, a metal cart of supplies, and a long padded table to lay on. I introduced myself, and found out that my girl's name was Mimi. She was wearing a lacy black vneck top, and grey cotton spandex shorts that went down to mid thigh. Not knowing what I was doing, I went to lay down on it right away. She stopped me and said "no no! Too cold", then splashed water all over it, then told me to lay down on my stomach. I felt a little silly, but that went away once she started pouring the warm water all over my body. What a great feeling! Lots of washing, rubbing, and cleaning places I don't even clean on my own. Flip to the front, and more of the same. She cleaned the boys, but didn't really spend much time there. That's fine with me, because I had a bad experience once with getting soap in my pee hole. After drying me off, she lead me to the massage room. (there were maybe 5 of those rooms? )
I think there must have been a couple other guys there that night, because I would have much rather done the table shower, then the sauna to warm up and dry off, then the massage. We got in the room, and I made a comment that it was a little chilly. That might have been the wrong thing to say, because she put a white sheet over my back before starting the massage. Is that normal?
She hopped up on the table and started the massage. It was pretty darn good, but then again I don't have any other AMP massage experiences to judge it against. I thought it was funny that the entire massage seemed to revolve around the axis of my ass. She'the do my back, then my ass, then my thighs, then my ass, then my calves, then my ass, then my neck, then my ass. Anyway, it was very pleasant.
After maybe 15 minutes of massage, I told her she can take the sheet off, so that way I could feel her hands on my skin. She obliged, and the massage was that much better. After another 10 minutes or so, she hopped off and turned down the lights. She started lightly brushing my back and legs with her fingertips and her hair, then teasing my goods from behind. In my opinion, this was the best part of the night. It felt great, then after about 2 minutes of that, I was hard as a rock and she asked me to flip over.
She didn't pull any punches, and went right for washcloth, baby oil, and started the HR. There was no asking what I wanted, but for my first time I wanted a HR, that's why I chose Lily. I asked if I could touch while she performed the HR, and she nodded yes but over her clothes. I grabbed her ass, reached under to her front, and she didn't mind. The way she was positioned I couldn't get past her left arm to feel her top, and I think that was on purpose, so I didn't push it. After about 5 minutes of pure bliss, and a lot of ass grabbing, I finished, she took the washcloth, and left the room. She came back with a hot towel to clean me up, which was nice, then she helped me dress. She was very amused by my polo shirt because I am really tall, and it came down to her knees.
I gave her .4 even though she made no mention of a tip, and she seemed happy, saying "Come tomorrow? ! " I smiled, and was lead out the back door. I wish she was able to speak better English, as there were many time she said something, and I had no idea what it was. Overall though, I was very happy with my first experience, and plan on testing the waters with other girls and other spas soon!
On my short walk back to the car, I felt like I actually made money in there.[/QUOTE]
That was an excellent post. I enjoyed reading it. Thank you.
Too bad this couldn't be copied to all the massage parlor threads in each city. It's kind of a N00bies 101 AMP thing ... a simple, but perfect first-timers experience review. You done good, Beconn.
[QUOTE=Beconn Reconn]Hello all,
As a new poster here, I'd like to thank you for all of your very detailed posts. ...
On my short walk back to the car, I felt like I actually made money in there.[/QUOTE]
Indeedy, I'll take a great GFE with an average girl any day over a mechanical performance by a smokin hot babe ... but that's just me.
[QUOTE=DaddysLookin]I could not agree with TH more. Having sampled the fruits three times, they are certainly not drop dead gorgeous lookers. They are kinda average on the attractive side in the looks department. They really need, IMO, to add a really hot young Asian to the lineup, and the place will have a line down the stairs and out the doors, even at $$ a whack.
However, Susie and Jung give new meaning to GFE and push the envelope so far that it almost falls off the table. They are, again, IMO, an outstanding value for your monger buck.[/QUOTE]
Yesterday afternoon: white guy opens door, says "sign here" (scribble) "this says you get a .6 TS and 'body rub' and that a 'real' massage is .8 by appointment." Girl walks me back holding hands, says "you been here before" (yes, goose her, giggle). The usual stuff, CFS ($.4) in the room after TS and light massage.
Wouldn't be worth posting except for noisy guy next door. She giggles and goes "two hours ... rope" and some motion about pinching... so somebody took a far wilder ride than I ever would...
Hi guys,
For the past couple of days I have been reading through all these posts and I must say that this place is an incredible resource and would like to thank everyone who has contributed. Before I get to my questions, I will tell you a little about myself. I am 21 years and currently go to college in Boston, I am from NJ though. I have less experience with girls than probably anyone on this board. Never kissed, never held hands, never even been on a date. I attribute this mainly to my low self esteem since I am very embarrased by my physical appearance (slightly overweight, losing my hair, lazy eye.) let's just say that I have become so depressed by how I look that I cannot even look in mirrors anymore. I recently turned 21 and figured that I would hit the bars around here looking for girls (I could even go older as I have a thing for MILFS) even though I can't stand the taste of alcohol, but my low self-confidence has prevented me from even trying, plus I do not have any close friends up here, again due to the poor self esteem.
OK, enough ranting. I wanted to ask you guys for your recommendation of where exactly to go in Providence and what to do. In NJ, I have been to a club that offers 5 minute/20 dollar lapdances which includes unlimited hugging, tit and ass grabbing, as well as intense grinding. After the first visit I began wearing condoms to the club and would cum during the dances. It is pretty great. I have realized that Boston is kind of a wasteland when it comes to adult entertainment so I have decided to venture down to Providence. At first I had wanted to go to a strip club, but then I started reading about these AMPs. I am pretty sure that I want more than HR since I pretty much get that from myself everyday, but I am somewhat hesitant to go all the way, partly becuase I am somewhat of a germophobe and partly becuse I don't know how I will feel in the future about losing my virginity to an AMP girl. A girlfriend is what I really want, but that is not looking to good anytime soon. Since I will be taking the Commuter rail to get there, the problem of transportation also comes up. I know that DT is pretty close to the station though so I have kind of been leaning towards going there. I think about what the experience would be like as I give myself HR and it gets me hot, that is until I blow. Then for about the next 5 mins I feel like I might regret it. I am also kind of afraid of blowing it as soon as she touches me and ruining the whole thing. Sorry I have gone on for so long, I would like to hear what you guys have to say. Given my situation, what do you guys think I should do?
Thank You.
I wouldn't 'waste it' by doing it yourself. I would let her do it...maybe twice.
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Might be a good idea to get your feet wet with an AMP experience but I will say that you need to get out there and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You need to shake it off and meet someone that will love you for you. Get yourself a hobby, chess club, AMC hike or yoga, meet someone there. There are a lot of girls that don't need a stud model. My girlfriend is super hot and I am not the hottest guy on the block. Chicks see past the "man," they aren't as visual as us. If you have to 'pay for it' from now until you die you better be made of money. It is never as hot as you think it is going to be. It only lasts 55 minutes. Best of luck and let us know how it goes.
Toodw
Mate 21 is still a young enough age to make changes.
Work on improving your self image and confidence.
I didn't come to age til I was almost 30. get in shape. walk daily don't eat too much crap and junk food.
Thinning hair is not rare get a good haircut and show the world you can be a Picard and not a capt kirk.
Make small changes and be patient.Listen to good music read some good books follow world events and learn about fine wine.
Show the world you are a smart learned young man.
It is your choice how you will get your sexual experience. I could easily make arguments either way.
Get off the train, take a cab to 1021 Broad st. and ask for Young. She speaks pretty good english and if you tell her your story, I'm sure she will give you an experience that you will remember for the rest of your life. I wish I knew about girls like her when I was your age. She will teach you all that you need to know, and probably give you the confidence to go out and get a real girlfriend.
[QUOTE=Rocket97]Hi guys,
For the past couple of days I have been reading through all these posts and I must say that this place is an incredible resource and would like to thank everyone who has contributed. Before I get to my questions, I will tell you a little about myself. I am 21 years and currently go to college in Boston, I am from NJ though. I have less experience with girls than probably anyone on this board. Never kissed, never held hands, never even been on a date. I attribute this mainly to my low self esteem since I am very embarrased by my physical appearance (slightly overweight, losing my hair, lazy eye.) let's just say that I have become so depressed by how I look that I cannot even look in mirrors anymore. I recently turned 21 and figured that I would hit the bars around here looking for girls (I could even go older as I have a thing for MILFS) even though I can't stand the taste of alcohol, but my low self-confidence has prevented me from even trying, plus I do not have any close friends up here, again due to the poor self esteem.
OK, enough ranting. I wanted to ask you guys for your recommendation of where exactly to go in Providence and what to do. In NJ, I have been to a club that offers 5 minute/20 dollar lapdances which includes unlimited hugging, tit and ass grabbing, as well as intense grinding. After the first visit I began wearing condoms to the club and would cum during the dances. It is pretty great. I have realized that Boston is kind of a wasteland when it comes to adult entertainment so I have decided to venture down to Providence. At first I had wanted to go to a strip club, but then I started reading about these AMPs. I am pretty sure that I want more than HR since I pretty much get that from myself everyday, but I am somewhat hesitant to go all the way, partly becuase I am somewhat of a germophobe and partly becuse I don't know how I will feel in the future about losing my virginity to an AMP girl. A girlfriend is what I really want, but that is not looking to good anytime soon. Since I will be taking the Commuter rail to get there, the problem of transportation also comes up. I know that DT is pretty close to the station though so I have kind of been leaning towards going there. I think about what the experience would be like as I give myself HR and it gets me hot, that is until I blow. Then for about the next 5 mins I feel like I might regret it. I am also kind of afraid of blowing it as soon as she touches me and ruining the whole thing. Sorry I have gone on for so long, I would like to hear what you guys have to say. Given my situation, what do you guys think I should do?
Thank You.[/QUOTE]
Hey Rocket - I actually have a lot in common with you here.
I grew up in NJ myself and eventually moved to the Boston area for my first job out of college 11 years ago - back when I was 21. And back then I felt a lot like you. Despite Boston having so many single people, it was hard to have much of a social life with girls. My job did not even have much women there. I tried different things over the years like joining some sports clubs like the BSSC, joining gyms, speed dating, internet ads, and however else I thought I could meet girls but nothing really worked. Hitting the bars like you mentioned only helps so much and that's really a different world of it's own to try fitting into. The only bar I ever had any success at was The Rack in Boston but even that place was hit or miss any given week - usually it's only fun when a bachelorette party shows up.
It took a while but eventually I hit the strip club scene in Providence and it really blew away anything I had been to in NJ or NY. The Foxy Lady was a lot of fun to visit and I even had the gold card membership for a few years since I went so much - usually twice a week despite a 50 minute drive. Sometimes I would over-spend for experiences but it always felt worth it and boosted my esteem for at least a few days. Great looking girls and lots of good contact - some will even be into letting you blow your load during dances like you did in NJ. There's more private/full service at other clubs like Cheaters but the quality of the experience and girls is nowhere near as good.
I did not turn to the AMP scene in Providence until about 5-6 years ago. My first couple of visits were not the best but eventually I kept trying and had some better ones. Now I know everything I need to know and the best places in town. Some good "girlfriend experience" full service action is now at the Japanese Spa (Use to be called Apple Spa and Yoko before that) - on 1021 Broad St. I'd have no problem with losing virginity at that place as you'll remember it being a great time - even years later you won't mind it at all. For a good massage and handjob, you can also check out the Lily Spa. Good part about that is the Foxy Lady is nearby so you can go there first to get psyched up with beautiful dancers and then hit the Lily to get pampered by an Asian beauty for an hour - no full service but it might be good to hit this place first and get broken into the whole scene.
As far as getting to Providence and any of these places, it is kind of a drag to rely on mass transit but do whatever it takes. In addition to the train, there are lots of buses from South Station or Newton/Riverside that go to Providence and you can just take a cab from there. All the cab drivers know these places well.
Best of luck and we are all here to help!
[QUOTE=Rocket97]Hi guys,
For the past couple of days I have been reading through all these posts and I must say that this place is an incredible resource and would like to thank everyone who has contributed. Before I get to my questions, I will tell you a little about myself. I am 21 years and currently go to college in Boston, I am from NJ though. I have less experience with girls than probably anyone on this board. Never kissed, never held hands, never even been on a date. I attribute this mainly to my low self esteem since I am very embarrased by my physical appearance (slightly overweight, losing my hair, lazy eye.) let's just say that I have become so depressed by how I look that I cannot even look in mirrors anymore. I recently turned 21 and figured that I would hit the bars around here looking for girls (I could even go older as I have a thing for MILFS) even though I can't stand the taste of alcohol, but my low self-confidence has prevented me from even trying, plus I do not have any close friends up here, again due to the poor self esteem.
OK, enough ranting. I wanted to ask you guys for your recommendation of where exactly to go in Providence and what to do. In NJ, I have been to a club that offers 5 minute/20 dollar lapdances which includes unlimited hugging, tit and ass grabbing, as well as intense grinding. After the first visit I began wearing condoms to the club and would cum during the dances. It is pretty great. I have realized that Boston is kind of a wasteland when it comes to adult entertainment so I have decided to venture down to Providence. At first I had wanted to go to a strip club, but then I started reading about these AMPs. I am pretty sure that I want more than HR since I pretty much get that from myself everyday, but I am somewhat hesitant to go all the way, partly becuase I am somewhat of a germophobe and partly becuse I don't know how I will feel in the future about losing my virginity to an AMP girl. A girlfriend is what I really want, but that is not looking to good anytime soon. Since I will be taking the Commuter rail to get there, the problem of transportation also comes up. I know that DT is pretty close to the station though so I have kind of been leaning towards going there. I think about what the experience would be like as I give myself HR and it gets me hot, that is until I blow. Then for about the next 5 mins I feel like I might regret it. I am also kind of afraid of blowing it as soon as she touches me and ruining the whole thing. Sorry I have gone on for so long, I would like to hear what you guys have to say. Given my situation, what do you guys think I should do?
Thank You.[/QUOTE]
There is nothing like your own girlfriend. And there is nothing like your first time with your own girlfriend. There just is not. Period.
The "GFE" for which people pay a premium is not even close, not even in the same galaxy. The term "GFE" is bullshit.
Robaba and Toodw give sage advice. You sound like a nice guy. Be patient. Stay positive. Work at bettering yourself. You will meet a nice girl.
A risk is that if you get used to sex with attractive, skilled professionals, having clumsy sex with your imperfect girlfriend might not compare favorably. You might miss out on the mutual learning experience that helps bind lovers.
Relax. Be patient. You will be fine.
[QUOTE=Triesharder]There is nothing like your own girlfriend. And there is nothing like your first time with your own girlfriend. There just is not. Period.
The "GFE" for which people pay a premium is not even close, not even in the same galaxy. The term "GFE" is bullshit.
Robaba and Toodw give sage advice. You sound like a nice guy. Be patient. Stay positive. Work at bettering yourself. You will meet a nice girl.
A risk is that if you get used to sex with attractive, skilled professionals, having clumsy sex with your imperfect girlfriend might not compare favorably. You might miss out on the mutual learning experience that helps bind lovers.
Relax. Be patient. You will be fine.[/QUOTE]
You're right that GFE is nothing like your own girlfriend - it can actually be better. And especially at this age it's good to have some fun out there while you can. I'd say the 21-27 year old timeframe is the best time to enjoy GFE at an AMP if it's out there. The few dating experiences I had back in the 21 year old time frame were not a whole lot of fun. Girls around that age here in the northeast have no clue what they want. Wait until girls are at least 25+ - by then, they've made mistakes, learned from them, and are more serious about being a real girlfriend. They feel like they will have less opportunities then and will give you more of a chance than younger girls still trying to find themselves.
I'll agree that having the kind of sex that a GFE AMP can provide has the potential to be a little addicting, and kind of corrupt your brain a little. And having normal sex with a wife or girlfriend can seem like a letdown after having more wild standards. But at the AMP, it's just a job to those girls. Like the girl at my first ever AMP experience said "This is not love, this is just good time". Words to live by. As long as you don't get carried away thinking all sex and love is like that, you will be fine. Have fun at the AMP's to keep your esteem going and enjoy it while you can. Later on there is plenty of time for a real girlfriend and that will come.
I have a little different take on your situation, rocket. I was married for a long time and just got divorced last year and I had never been to a massage parlor before, but I've been to several since then, and now I actually have a gf, but you have to be careful because now I compare her to them, and she doesn't stack up as far as the looks or the sex.
Where the hell else is a middle aged man gonna hook up with a young sexy hot sex slave in real life? Like the old saying goes, we want a ***** in the bedroom but a lady in the kitchen. Just don't expect your gf to be as whory as the real ******. You'll be disappointed. Even though we have plenty of sex, I still crave that AMP experience just for the fun of it, and I doubt if I'll ever get over it. So, beware what you're getting into, it can be very addicting.
Good luck.
[QUOTE=Vargr]She giggles and goes "two hours ... rope" and some motion about pinching... so somebody took a far wilder ride than I ever would...[/QUOTE]I have a question along these same lines. After my first ever AMP experience at Lily, I left wondering how customizable the experience could be. For example, the massage was good, but I loved the TS. Unfortunately the TS was about 3 minutes and the massage 30 minutes. Personally, I like the HR and don't want to go to a FS place. However I would like to have the girl be a little more interactive in the experience.- fully nude would be ideal, and participating in the TS would be a dream come true.
Are custom requests like this available? Maybe just pay a could. 2's more? Is it full dependent on the the place and the girl?
Thanks!
Rocket,
You have a good bunch of guys here wishing the best for you.
We all in some way can identify with you and we may have been faced with your choices.I know I was.
You are a man and my only advice is :if you can make the choice to "go for it" and and truly have no regrets/no worries, then enjoy. I imagine many men developed some sexual confidence from AMP experiences.It can be a fun learning experience if you keep perspective/emotional boundaries in place.
I dated a couple girls in college even had "a girfriend or 2" but no girlfriend sex...but the romance was still good while it lasted.even if it was a roller coaster sometimes.Confuscius once said "he who looks from afar fucks air."
"You get what you give..." (Young Radicals)
I spent 70 bucks on from a Boston Phoenix ad for a 30 min "experience" neither gfe or pse .It was actually a bland,mechanical,uninspiring moment. I had better physical climatic experiences going "solo".I got "it over with "but I didnt feel any better or different.Life went on.
The "blueballed" experiences with the girls I dated I would trade for any gfe(certainly without the blueballs!) because they were real and with real emotions ,even if some of the emotions were not all cloud nine and at times painful.
Hopefully you will learn that gfe can never compare to girlfriend emotional/sexual intimacy.You can enjoy AMP's if you put the experience for "what it is" in perspective whether you just want a good TS/massage or going in looking for the "works".
You only have one first time. Don't waste it on a hooker. You're only 21. Maybe if you're 40 and a virgin THEN you might want to pay to lose it. Just think of it as having more to look forward to than someone your age who's had lots of sex and become jaded. Most of the advice about exercising and doing things to improve yourself is good. I would just add that if you're 21 and balding, you might want to just shave your head. Balding will make you look older. Shaving your head will make you look modern and edgy (sorry, this doesn't apply to you middle-aged guys who are balding, unless you stayed out of the sun and don't have wrinkled skin).
[QUOTE=Rocket97]... I wanted to ask you guys for your recommendation of where exactly to go in Providence and what to do ...[/QUOTE]Go to Newport, maybe get a hotel room, and hit the area clubs late night. Ideally, if you're new to this, go with a more successful guy than you and be his wingman. It will be your job to nail the less attractive chicks so he can go after the hot ones, but that's OK at first. Ugly women that like sex are more fun than pretty ones that don't. Look up the FAQ for alt.seduction.fast and go from there.
Still, if you want to get done at a Providence AMP, I'd suggest either 1021 or Downtown. You can walk to the latter from the train station, which to my mind makes it a better choice for your first trip. If you're coming to town loaded with cash then you might also consider stopping at Sportsmen's Inn afterwards, depending on timing and other factors.
I understand your dilemma. First of all, at early 20's sex is the biggest drive in a young man's life. Later down the road its still spectacular, but other things fight it for the top spot. In Boston, you may feel like an outsider even after many years, but remember that even the girls you see in clubs, campus etc, may be from somewhere else, for Bostonians, 'somewhere else' can be as far as California, or as close as Worcester.
I suggest you try out this book "How to be an Alpha male" by John Alexander, its a basic guide to get with girls, and in general covers lots of things in day to day life that makes a guy attractive to women. Personally what I liked most about the book was the list of Don'ts because many a great date are ruined by a guy making a small but significant mistake. Another thing, get several male buddies, especially those who are confident, and are willing to hang out with you, a guy with a car and from out of town would be great, that way you can hit clubs outside Boston. Most important thing of all, relax. enjoy college, explore things, and should a chance come up to travel abroad jump on it, you would be surprised how girls in other coutries like American guys. In Boston you should check out foreign girls in several campuses, and the clubs in Harvard square are perfect for that, plus they have cheap beer, and no cover charge. By the way there is a free dating site called 'plentyoffish' dot com, check it out, its quite diverse.
Regarding the pay for play industry (AMP, strip clubs, SWS) its your personal choice. Just keep in mind it's not substitute for a regular girlfriend, after a while you know what to expect, and it takes the adventure and all the
roller-coaster emotions out of love and relationships. Should you choose to do this, just remember even getting a girlfriend may not necesarily stop you from hitting the AMPs. Also there is the issue of cost, your impulse may push you to visit this places once or twice a week, and that can stretch your budget.
From what you have posted hear, you sound like you have never fallen in love with a girl, I hope you do so and especially in college, and that will change your life, and affect your view of the world in general, I can try and tell you how great it feels, but the best way is to experience it yourself. Remember the hot girl you might see in the club may turn out to be boring. Personally I talk to all women, you old in between, and het to be at ease with them then love will come to you, you will most certainly know trhe moment. By the way there is a TV show ' The Pick up artist" airing on VH1 monday nites, all about getting the girl, check it ou dude.
Wishing you all the best out there, and keep posting, let us know how things pan out.
LM
[QUOTE=Beconn Reconn]I have a question along these same lines. After my first ever AMP experience at Lily, I left wondering how customizable the experience could be. For example, the massage was good, but I loved the TS. Unfortunately the TS was about 3 minutes and the massage 30 minutes. Personally, I like the HR and don't want to go to a FS place. However I would like to have the girl be a little more interactive in the experience.- fully nude would be ideal, and participating in the TS would be a dream come true.
Are custom requests like this available? Maybe just pay a could. 2's more? Is it full dependent on the the place and the girl?
Thanks![/QUOTE]
I am pretty sure you won't be able to convince any of the girls at the Lily for nudity or even topless. It's a pretty strict tight ship run there and the minute any girl does more than they should, it could get out and they might lose their position there. I'd think you might be able to convince them for a longer shower if it's not too busy there. Remember there's only like two showers and I think six massage rooms. So if it gets busy, they'll need the showers. I'd say try to go early in the morning and hopefully the mamasan manager Venus is there - she seemed more friendly to me than the other one. Maybe she can work something out with a longer shower and I'm sure a little extra tipping up front would not hurt also.
Rocket97, you've received great advice here, especially from LynnMan. What I'm about to say may get me flamed, but it's worth it.
You're 21, very young. Young enough that your lack of experience means squat. Young enough to change.
The self-esteem issue you have is very concerning; if it would be self-confidence, it would be one thing (and normal), but it's not.
I would see a psychiatrist or a psychotherapist. Hell, you're at a school, it's probably included for free. And if it's not, find someone and don't consider it an expense, think of it as an investment in your future.
Talk about your esteem, your embarrassment, alcohol, your preference for MILF's. The tougher it'll feel to talk about that, the more therapeutic it will be.
If you're still reluctant to do that, find one club that serves as your therapeutic club, and your purpose there will not be for pleasure, but to talk to the girls and pretend they are your therapist. Escorts are better than this than strippers, but you'll be surprised how effective they can be if you find the right one. Discuss with her/them how you can become more attractive to girls. Obviously, don't share identification (the other type of personal) info.
Just remember that while the sex may be better at an AMP/hotel etc. , the intimacy will not. And frankly, a lot of my better orgasms, physically speaking, have been either self-inflicted or directly paid for, the feeling of intimacy trumps the physical sensations every day of the week. Seeing a scantily dressed girl in the summer is much more appealing to me than seeing a naked chick. Talking to a cute parka-dressed girl in the middle of January is more more appealing than a naked chick. Brushing up against a hot girl in a dance club is more appealing than getting the stick shift at the PP.
Go see a psychiatrist, get to the root of the problem, and the girls will follow. Don't obsess over it. Get your esteem back, confidence will follow; once you have confidence, results will follow.
[QUOTE=Rocket97]Hi guys,
For the past couple of days I have been reading through all these posts and I must say that this place is an incredible resource and would like to thank everyone who has contributed. Before I get to my questions, I will tell you a little about myself. I am 21 years and currently go to college in Boston, I am from NJ though. I have less experience with girls than probably anyone on this board. Never kissed, never held hands, never even been on a date. I attribute this mainly to my low self esteem since I am very embarrased by my physical appearance (slightly overweight, losing my hair, lazy eye.) let's just say that I have become so depressed by how I look that I cannot even look in mirrors anymore. I recently turned 21 and figured that I would hit the bars around here looking for girls (I could even go older as I have a thing for MILFS) even though I can't stand the taste of alcohol, but my low self-confidence has prevented me from even trying, plus I do not have any close friends up here, again due to the poor self esteem.
OK, enough ranting. I wanted to ask you guys for your recommendation of where exactly to go in Providence and what to do. In NJ, I have been to a club that offers 5 minute/20 dollar lapdances which includes unlimited hugging, tit and ass grabbing, as well as intense grinding. After the first visit I began wearing condoms to the club and would cum during the dances. It is pretty great. I have realized that Boston is kind of a wasteland when it comes to adult entertainment so I have decided to venture down to Providence. At first I had wanted to go to a strip club, but then I started reading about these AMPs. I am pretty sure that I want more than HR since I pretty much get that from myself everyday, but I am somewhat hesitant to go all the way, partly becuase I am somewhat of a germophobe and partly becuse I don't know how I will feel in the future about losing my virginity to an AMP girl. A girlfriend is what I really want, but that is not looking to good anytime soon. Since I will be taking the Commuter rail to get there, the problem of transportation also comes up. I know that DT is pretty close to the station though so I have kind of been leaning towards going there. I think about what the experience would be like as I give myself HR and it gets me hot, that is until I blow. Then for about the next 5 mins I feel like I might regret it. I am also kind of afraid of blowing it as soon as she touches me and ruining the whole thing. Sorry I have gone on for so long, I would like to hear what you guys have to say. Given my situation, what do you guys think I should do?
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First of all I just want to thank everyone who took the time to read my previous post and offered their take on my situation. I can't tell you all how much I appreciate having somewhere like this to get my thoughts out, as I never come close to discussing things like this with anyone else in my life. I would like to start off by addressing a few comments.
Toodw. I value your advice about hobbies. I have been playing the guitar for about 8 years so maybe I will try to find some more people to jam with. I tried unsuccessfully last year and just kinda gave up. The school year starts back up next week and I am going to try to force myself to join some clubs, even if I am not totally interested in them. (I avoided doing this last year as I felt it would really be a waste of time to join something which I had no passion for) but since I will be continuing my internship full time til the end of December, I usually have more time afterwork since I do not get homework.
Table Shower. I really enjoyed reading about what you went through when you were around my age. I just want to ask you something. How did when you went to an AMP for FS for the first time. Did you feel regretful right after or even as you were cumming? Do you feel like you have to keep the story a secret forever or have you told anyone?
Triesharder. I know what you are saying when you say that an AMP GFE cannot compare to a real girlfriend. I am not really looking for that. Especially since I do not see asian girls as pretty or beautiful, I seem them more as sexy, and with the limited English, I think it is easier to disconnect even more with them and to look at it as purely sexual.
Savior Faire. I agree that you only get to lose your virginity once, but how much longer should I wait? Also I did shave my head last year, kept it for a few months and never really got used to it or felt comfortable. I have been considering getting on some type of medication or even a hair transplant. I think I am actually going to try to get up the nerve to ask my parents what I should do about it. They will be coming up here in a few weeks.
Vargr. I would be up to trying that except I really do not have anyone to go with. I don't have any friends up here and until everyone comes back for the fall, it may be a while before I meet some new people. Thanks for the suggestion though. I also agree that DT would be a better choice since I could walk there.
LynnMan. Thanks for your post, I have actually been reading a lot about picking up women and dating skills. I have also been watching that show The Pickup Artist, as I have known about Mystery and his crew for quite some time now. The thing that doesn't really appeal to me about these books and programs is that I really am not even looking to go out and pick up women. I am more interested in finding a serious girlfriend. I get what you say when you explain how it will change my life when I do actually find a girl and that is really the only hesitation I have here. I don't want to have to lie when she asks how I lost my virginity.
I know a lot of you have been saying to improve myself in order to boost my self confidence and I feel you are dead on. I realized a little while ago that one of the main reasons I am so anit-social and reclusive is that I am pretty embarassed of myself and almost ashamed to be around and interact with other people. I have been eating better and trying to exercise. In the last year I have gone from about 245 to about 195. I am 5'10''. I feel I will continue to lose weight and only want to lose another 20-30 lbs at most. The hair thing has been pretty huge. I had a shaved head for a few months last year and was not really happy with it so I am currently exploring other options while it grows in.
Getting a girlfriend has been on my mind a lot the past couple of years. I transferred to this school up here in Boston exactly 1 year ago. Almost every weekend has consisted of me sitting alone in my apartment watching TV, watching movies, playing guitar, etc. I get really depressed when I think about how I am sort of wasting my life away. I think the fact that I hate alcohol has been a pretty big wall for me since I would say about 99. 99% of college kids are obsessed with it. But yeah, a lot of times when I am sitting watching TV or something, I imagine what it would be like to have a girl there with me, even just to hold and talk to. I am not out for sex as much as I am intimacy and love. Don't get me wrong, I have a huge sex drive, I have to relieve it pretty much once a day, but that is not as important to me as finding a girl I really like and am attracted to.
I do not want to continue to bore you all with my story. I just want present a few of my concerns pertaining to AMPs.
After thinking about it for a few days, what I would really be interested in doing with an AMP girl is hugging, not kissing, CBJ and CFS. My main concerns are the following:
. Even in Rhode Island are there any legal matters I should be worried about?. Hygenic concerns, can I catch anything from the acts stated above? And how clean are these girls in general? Do they shower between clients and also how many do they see on an average day?
. Is my wallet safe there? I am also assuming that it will be about 2 franklins for what I stated above, including house fee, PLEASE correct me if I am wrong.
. Another big concern is that I will blow it way to soon, perhaps even during the TS. I am concerned that not only the physical stimulation, but also the mental stimulation will be way to much for me to control myself. What happens if that occurs?
. And lastly, is there any possibility that I could get turned away for being too young? I know I don't look young for my age, but how often do they have customers in their early 20s?
At this point I would say I am about 50/50 about getting on the commuter rail this Saturday and heading down to Providence.
I know it is a lot, and again I cannot express enough my appreciation for those of you who took time out of your day to get involved with my problems. I know you all have your own. Thanks again and I look forward to continuing to read and post on this board.