[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3515508]Trust me, I have my hands full, already. LOL.[/QUOTE]I know. Not enough time in the days, not enough money in the wallet! Sometimes I get 3-4 in one day asking to meet.
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[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3515508]Trust me, I have my hands full, already. LOL.[/QUOTE]I know. Not enough time in the days, not enough money in the wallet! Sometimes I get 3-4 in one day asking to meet.
[QUOTE=Fishguy717;3515672]I know. Not enough time in the days, not enough money in the wallet! Sometimes I get 3-4 in one day asking to meet.[/QUOTE]If only I had that kind of demand from my wife. LOL.
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3515105]Nice catch on CL![/QUOTE]Yes, a rarity!
I agree wholeheartedly with the sage advice provided by Traveler6940 and Stunt Dick.
I, too, am able to host, and after a quick drink or snack at a public place, bringing them back home is the best way of sealing the deal. Sometimes (particularly for the newbies), I will tell them that it is standard that they strip down and offer me a mini date (a mic check) for a nominal fee (maybe $50 or $100, depending on how hot they are). If I really want to fuck them, I will offer a bit more for an initial GFE date. I have about a 90% success rate.
Some of these gals come across in their profiles as experienced SD's who demand thousands of dollars per meeting -- but the truth is that in Jax, most of the ladies have no idea what they are doing. If you come across as being in control -- and as being knowledgeable -- you can dominate the discussion (and the relationship). I tell them the truth -- that I am an experienced SD, and that kind of an "audition" is part of the process of me determining if we will have a long-term arrangement.
I have had half a dozen SB's in the past, and am juggling several now. Keeps me young.
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3515207]I always host at my place. I'm single so it's not a problem. Additionally I always meet them at a restaurant for coffee or occasionally a meal and most often at night. I do this so I can control the situation and I'll drive her to my place, (taking a somewhat round about way to get there and then a different way back) we have fun and then I take her back to her car. Most girls I've done this with haven't really picked up on that, usually turned to face me as we drive and talking.
I will have worked out what I'm looking for and what she's comfortable with before we meet so I know she's a player. When we meet I discuss what I'll pay and what my terms are. I do this after we meet because sometimes the goods aren't what's advertised and I can back out if I don't like what I see.
I also ONLY now pay per meet. I've done the advance thing when I began SD a few years back, and it has NEVER worked out. Eventually you'll get stiffed so that's my policy now. Cash after the deed each time we meet. Hasn't been a problem since.
As to the rest, it's like any negotiation. She goes high, you go low, you meet in the middle and it's set. I'll often tell them I'm willing to meet more than once a week just to close the deal quickly. It give me the option to do so or just be a one and done.
There's been lots of discussion already about this so read the rest of this forum.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Cjojax904;3515117]I was doing great talking to a few ladies and it disappeared. I have chatted with a few who are straight up looking for a ST pay per date situation. Its slightly annoying that almost none of the women on here host but oh well.
So questions from those of you having some level of success:
1) Are you able to host without providing hotel (ie at house)?
2) Are you the one bringing up the allowance?
3) Are any of you paying a monthly allowance vs per date?
4) What are you typically paying for either arrangement?
I talked to one girl who wanted $5 K monthly allowance for 1-2 meets a week and my eyes almost popped out. Need to know if this is even worth pursuing or if the girls will eventually start meeting instead of texting.[/QUOTE]Answers:
1. Yes, I was able to host by bringing to my place. I did for 1 time and took a little risk when no one is there at my place. Luckily neighbors are inside the home so no worries there. If you are single you are lucky LOL and bring them whenever you want. I may not do that again. I took them to hotel on many occasions and it is fun. Only problem is they will not allow checkin until 2 or 3 pm. Or else they upcharge. So it only works in afternoons. If anyone know the hotel that does not upcharge early checkin please let me know.
2. Yes I am the one bringing up allowance first. If they don't like they negotiate a little more and it worked. But there are many I rejected because they pick some random numbers above 4 bens.
3. No monthly allowance, only pay per date.
4. Around 200. But there are some who accepts 100 too but do not expect young college girls. Only once I paid 300 but that was too high on my end.
If you ask them allowance, you can expect any amount that will get you seizures LOL.
Has anyone know these before? They appear they are from BP, but I may be wrong.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/566e9444-0158-4606-b09b-09a8eacfeef6[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/40ddd949-103c-4bec-866e-a576a3f6b7ae[/URL]
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3516014]Has anyone know these before? They appear they are from BP, but I may be wrong.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/566e9444-0158-4606-b09b-09a8eacfeef6[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/40ddd949-103c-4bec-866e-a576a3f6b7ae[/URL][/QUOTE]Haven't seen either. Not interested in the first one, but the 2nd one isn't bad. May hit her up.
1) Are you able to host without providing hotel (ie at house)?
Well, I guess I'm the first one to say, HELL no, not at my place. LOL. About 2/3 of them I need to get a room, and the other 3rd lets me go to their place.
2) Are you the one bringing up the allowance?
They usually ask. I then tell them my rates, all based on time together, how talented they are, blah blah blah.
3) Are any of you paying a monthly allowance vs per date?
Per Date. ALWAYS. Although there are a few that I've gotten to know over a long period of time that got extra from me when we weren't able to spend time together and they were in a tight spot. But I knew them well. They all paid it back, and I didn't go overboard with how much I gave them.
4) What are you typically paying for either arrangement?
Depends on the girl, the place, and the talents. Low end for me is 150 ish, average is 200-300, and only a couple have gotten more than that. HOWEVER, it should be noted that there are plenty of chicks that I wouldn't let PAY ME to be with them. Those are the ones that would be 100 or less. I'm not interested in those, at all. So my 150 low end is for the bottom of what I would consider spending time with.
The ones I'm giving 200-300 are hotter than 95% of BP chicks. And the few that got more than that were Playboy quality, total GFE, amazing. I just don't do that often.
Also, no 'meet fees'. Yes, I did that once, and owned up to it in this thread not long ago. Never again. If they demand a fee just to meet, they can demand someone else. Plenty of fish in the sea.
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3516014]Has anyone know these before? They appear they are from BP, but I may be wrong.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/566e9444-0158-4606-b09b-09a8eacfeef6[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/40ddd949-103c-4bec-866e-a576a3f6b7ae[/URL][/QUOTE]Is Marley. Longtime BP advertiser-not the best reviews.
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3516014]Has anyone know these before? They appear they are from BP, but I may be wrong.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/566e9444-0158-4606-b09b-09a8eacfeef6[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/40ddd949-103c-4bec-866e-a576a3f6b7ae[/URL][/QUOTE]2nd one is a bp girl for sure. Went by Marlee I think.
[QUOTE=Kma2016;3516108]2nd one is a bp girl for sure. Went by Marlee I think.[/QUOTE]Picture in a hotel room with burner phone in hand LOL.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f5196fdf-2ae4-45ca-a80c-d236baee927d[/URL]
That girl is in a pic on this ad: [URL]http://jacksonville.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/classifieds/EnlargeImage?image=17913323&oid=16758348.[/URL] (Arm tattoo matches) Nice sob story in her SA profile, though. LOL. When I asked what part of town and she said the airport, that was a clue.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f0267b22-4d27-48bb-8450-6c18191a9a40[/URL]
Cute little spinner. We exchanged a few messages then moved to texting. Sporadic exchanges over a few days, but enough to get a meet and greet. I met her for lunch last week. Very pleasant girl. Down to earth. She's not looking for hookups, but rather a long term arrangement. At the end of lunch, I brought up the finances. She said she wanted $2-300. I said I was at $2 per meet, and she said she would be fine with that because she liked me. (Ha!) she gave me her real number to use instead of the one thru the textme app she was using. I gave her a small donation for her time, which surprised her. A day or so later, I try to setup a meet for Friday afternoon. She agrees, but then cancels that morning. We setup another for tonight, but she canceled that one and asked for Monday AM. Seeing the writing on the wall, I ask her if she's no longer interested. After prying a little, she said that she wasn't really happy about the $2 offer, and that she also got busy. Oh well. I would have liked to enjoy her tonight while I had some free time, so she pretty much wasted that for me. Dammit. LOL.
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3517541][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f0267b22-4d27-48bb-8450-6c18191a9a40[/URL]
Cute little spinner. We exchanged a few messages then moved to texting. Sporadic exchanges over a few days, but enough to get a meet and greet. I met her for lunch last week. Very pleasant girl. Down to earth. She's not looking for hookups, but rather a long term arrangement. At the end of lunch, I brought up the finances. She said she wanted $2-300. I said I was at $2 per meet, and she said she would be fine with that because she liked me. (Ha!) she gave me her real number to use instead of the one thru the textme app she was using. I gave her a small donation for her time, which surprised her. A day or so later, I try to setup a meet for Friday afternoon. She agrees, but then cancels that morning. We setup another for tonight, but she canceled that one and asked for Monday AM. Seeing the writing on the wall, I ask her if she's no longer interested. After prying a little, she said that she wasn't really happy about the $2 offer, and that she also got busy. Oh well. I would have liked to enjoy her tonight while I had some free time, so she pretty much wasted that for me. Dammit. LOL.[/QUOTE]Bummer but impressed you held at $2. Funny she's met many in just a couple weeks. New profile??
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3517894]Bummer but impressed you held at $2. Funny she's met many in just a couple weeks. New profile??[/QUOTE]She looks a little overweight / thick idk how you people can deal with that. Looks like she updated her profile that she's "worth" more haha.
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3517894]Bummer but impressed you held at $2. Funny she's met many in just a couple weeks. New profile??[/QUOTE]This was my first contact with her, as far as I know. And, yeah, I really need to keep the $$ in check, as it can easily get out of hand. I actually told her that she's more than welcome to ask for additional $, when she has the need for it, but I guess she's not into that. LOL She told me she had met another guy earlier in the week, but he totally creeped her out because of how loud and braggadocios he was.
[QUOTE=NobodyWhat;3517898]She looks a little overweight / thick idk how you people can deal with that. Looks like she updated her profile that she's "worth" more haha.[/QUOTE]She's definitely not thick at all. I've seen her in person and I got a teaser video from her, as well.
[QUOTE=NobodyWhat;3517898]She looks a little overweight / thick idk how you people can deal with that. Looks like she updated her profile that she's "worth" more haha.[/QUOTE]Looks pretty good from here LOL. What guys are telling these girls they're worth more? Ha.
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3517541][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f0267b22-4d27-48bb-8450-6c18191a9a40[/URL]
Cute little spinner. We exchanged a few messages then moved to texting. Sporadic exchanges over a few days, but enough to get a meet and greet. I met her for lunch last week. Very pleasant girl. Down to earth. She's not looking for hookups, but rather a long term arrangement. At the end of lunch, I brought up the finances. She said she wanted $2-300. I said I was at $2 per meet, and she said she would be fine with that because she liked me. (Ha!) she gave me her real number to use instead of the one thru the textme app she was using. I gave her a small donation for her time, which surprised her. A day or so later, I try to setup a meet for Friday afternoon. She agrees, but then cancels that morning. We setup another for tonight, but she canceled that one and asked for Monday AM. Seeing the writing on the wall, I ask her if she's no longer interested. After prying a little, she said that she wasn't really happy about the $2 offer, and that she also got busy. Oh well. I would have liked to enjoy her tonight while I had some free time, so she pretty much wasted that for me. Dammit. LOL.[/QUOTE]I do not give money upfront when they come for meet and greet for coffee or drinks. Only negotiate per meet allowance and pay for their coffee. I had around 3 occasions where they asked money for around 40 to 50 after having coffee. I declined to pay and was serious to set up actual date. If they are real they will take it easy and come for actual date. But on 1 occasion I had an embarrassing moment. She wanted me to take to ATM and pay. I distracted her by telling BS stories and came out. Later blocked her. Now I am making clear ahead whenever I take new chic to coffee to not ask any money upfront for meet and greet.
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3518221]I do not give money upfront when they come for meet and greet for coffee or drinks. Only negotiate per meet allowance and pay for their coffee. I had around 3 occasions where they asked money for around 40 to 50 after having coffee. I declined to pay and was serious to set up actual date. If they are real they will take it easy and come for actual date. But on 1 occasion I had an embarrassing moment. She wanted me to take to ATM and pay. I distracted her by telling BS stories and came out. Later blocked her. Now I am making clear ahead whenever I take new chic to coffee to not ask any money upfront for meet and greet.[/QUOTE]Just to be clear, she didn't ask for any money for a meet / greet. I did that on my own.
If anyone does not have access to her pics she is Darby to just let you know.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7a921d5-f0c9-4db1-979d-b43550d35f00[/URL]
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3520145]If anyone does not have access to her pics she is Darby to just let you know.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7a921d5-f0c9-4db1-979d-b43550d35f00[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, and she's 19 now? Bahahaha.
[QUOTE=PlayTiem;3520336]Yeah, and she's 19 now? Bahahaha.[/QUOTE]I did a 3 way with her and Slim / Egypt / back in the day.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/c0b7cbcd-8a0a-4c4e-8676-b6ed75cb92ac[/URL]
Chatted with her on SA, wanted $100/ meet, could not host.
Anyone have intel on this one?
Anyone seen her?
Been chatting, she's responsive but something seems not quite right, any heads up appreciated. PM is fine.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/dd4dffab-dc1e-4a67-8e76-83ea315cb622[/URL]
Thanks.
She needs 4 K per month.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7b555883-c029-4a9b-86b7-b82eab8f6e26[/URL]
Any intel on this one? She quoted well above 3 bills.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fcfa32ed-1f8e-4004-b61e-78d1f84911ff[/URL]
So many cancelations, no shows and crazies, not to mention a possible attempt at identity theft. Anyone have anything good to say about this one?
PM is fine too.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/86eed354-5ab4-4dde-a791-8c7a511ca5ac[/URL]
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3522341]I did a 3 way with her and Slim / Egypt / back in the day.[/QUOTE]Damn I miss that ghetto ass girl. Wish she would come back to Jax, that body of hers what phenomenal and she was a great lay also, never a bad time with her.
[QUOTE=DonMagicJuan;3507484]Can't go back to BP anymore after REALLY using SA for over a month. I didn't decide to take the premium plunge till a few weeks ago but the messages are enticing, although filtering out the terse, generic profiles is time consuming. My first lunch meet she drove from central florida to jax. Things went well (if you see a 25 yr old with title "hurley" with bright colored hair, that's her. Amazing body and gorgeous. Seeks premium allowance, I guess I wasn't qualified.
Yesterday had a successful meeting with one who actually does amateur porn, and she's so down to earth, natural boobs and juicy ass. Played with her in the shower and in the bedroom of my no-tel.
Have my third meeting tomorrow for lunch, and then I've got a couple more next week. Like a fellow monger said, you can go broke on this site.
What I want is if anyone has made contact with this one: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/33c82cf9-29af-4d5b-8d7a-d01ecadbb76b[/URL].
She was really friendly, very cute. Seemed new. Says "dancer" in profile. I don't frequent strip clubs so anyone recognize her? I'm assuming she dances currently at a local club.[/QUOTE]I got the bug and joined SA. Like shooting fish in a barrel compared to BP. Much higher quality. Advice provided here is gold. Will be reporting soon.
[QUOTE=MrMeogi;3523445]Damn I miss that ghetto ass girl. Wish she would come back to Jax, that body of hers what phenomenal and she was a great lay also, never a bad time with her.[/QUOTE]I hear ya. Even tho she claimed she wasnt, I always thought of her as a Latina / Puerto Rican type. Great body, great lips. I buttfucked her in my car with her infant right next to us. Ughhh, can't believe I did that.
Still have a vid of her mustering down on my dingus.. hmm, im a break it out right now and jerk off to it.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3523782]I hear ya. Even tho she claimed she wasnt, I always thought of her as a Latina / Puerto Rican type. Great body, great lips. I buttfucked her in my car with her infant right next to us. Ughhh, can't believe I did that.
Still have a vid of her mustering down on my dingus.. hmm, im a break it out right now and jerk off to it.[/QUOTE]So. You gunna share that video wit us?
[QUOTE=DonMagicJuan;3507484]Can't go back to BP anymore after REALLY using SA for over a month. I didn't decide to take the premium plunge till a few weeks ago but the messages are enticing, although filtering out the terse, generic profiles is time consuming. My first lunch meet she drove from central florida to jax. Things went well (if you see a 25 yr old with title "hurley" with bright colored hair, that's her. Amazing body and gorgeous. Seeks premium allowance, I guess I wasn't qualified.
Yesterday had a successful meeting with one who actually does amateur porn, and she's so down to earth, natural boobs and juicy ass. Played with her in the shower and in the bedroom of my no-tel.
Have my third meeting tomorrow for lunch, and then I've got a couple more next week. Like a fellow monger said, you can go broke on this site.
What I want is if anyone has made contact with this one: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/33c82cf9-29af-4d5b-8d7a-d01ecadbb76b[/URL].
She was really friendly, very cute. Seemed new. Says "dancer" in profile. I don't frequent strip clubs so anyone recognize her? I'm assuming she dances currently at a local club.
If you've met her in person, or were actually successful in booking an arrangement, please PM me. I'm friendly with her via messaging so far, but I don't want to mess up an opportunity to see what she brings to the table in person.
Thanks! I try not to be on the "hey anyone know who this is" side, but here I am, LOL. If you check my posts, I try to only post when contributing data for the team most of the time. Thanks guys![/QUOTE]Will try to scam the money from you with no reciprocation. But still curious if anyone's seen her at strip clubs (not my scene anymore) like wackos or flash dancers please pm me. Would like to see for myself. See related post for pics.
[QUOTE=DFoto;3523157]So many cancelations, no shows and crazies, not to mention a possible attempt at identity theft. Anyone have anything good to say about this one?
PM is fine too.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/86eed354-5ab4-4dde-a791-8c7a511ca5ac[/URL][/QUOTE]Tried to see her for two weeks but she was always or of town.
I did see "stealingpeas" for $ a couple times. She has a really cute friend and they are willing to do a threesome for a reasonable price. Just moved here from New York and only one has a car and license. Feel free to PM questions.
[QUOTE=JTbMonger;3524977]Tried to see her for two weeks but she was always or of town.
I did see "stealingpeas" for $ a couple times. She has a really cute friend and they are willing to do a threesome for a reasonable price. Just moved here from New York and only one has a car and license. Feel free to PM questions.[/QUOTE]Where's the link for "Stealingpeas?
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;3517541][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/f0267b22-4d27-48bb-8450-6c18191a9a40[/URL]
Cute little spinner. We exchanged a few messages then moved to texting. Sporadic exchanges over a few days, but enough to get a meet and greet. I met her for lunch last week. Very pleasant girl. Down to earth. She's not looking for hookups, but rather a long term arrangement. At the end of lunch, I brought up the finances. She said she wanted $2-300. I said I was at $2 per meet, and she said she would be fine with that because she liked me. (Ha!) she gave me her real number to use instead of the one thru the textme app she was using. I gave her a small donation for her time, which surprised her. A day or so later, I try to setup a meet for Friday afternoon. She agrees, but then cancels that morning. We setup another for tonight, but she canceled that one and asked for Monday AM. Seeing the writing on the wall, I ask her if she's no longer interested. After prying a little, she said that she wasn't really happy about the $2 offer, and that she also got busy. Oh well. I would have liked to enjoy her tonight while I had some free time, so she pretty much wasted that for me. Dammit. LOL.[/QUOTE]Had dialogue around 150-2 and several meet and greet opportunities where she flakes. She later said she wanted more $ than originally discussed.
[QUOTE=Janus420;3524979]Where's the link for "Stealingpeas?[/QUOTE][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/566e9444-0158-4606-b09b-09a8eacfeef6[/URL] There you go-I will say that her skin is bumpy and she is probably older than 22 but she accepts a lower donation than most on SA.
[QUOTE=NobodyWhat;3514241]Anyone have any luck with littlesky97.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/88607ac0-fbf3-4d73-ae6c-8369d5e46f3a[/URL][/QUOTE]She was hot and heavy and then just vanished. I hope she reappears when rent is due.
For those of you that talked sense into me and guided me away from BP to SA- thank you. Those of you that kept it a secret. Boooo! I look forward to posting some gems here soon.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fcfa32ed-1f8e-4004-b61e-78d1f84911ff[/URL]
Guys -- had a promising meet and greet with this attractive lady a couple of weeks ago. However, she has been a total flake since that point, including having communications go dark and missing a few scheduled meetings. She texted me on Thursday PM saying her car was broke and she needed a ride to work at 7:30 AM. I stupidly agreed to meet her at her place across town, and of course she wouldn't answer her phone or return texts. She has stopped texting me, but I saw she was active on the site earlier today (Saturday). I don't know if she has a nose candy or other problem, but she is scattered and unreliable. AVOID AVOID AVOID.
[QUOTE=MrMeogi;3524333]So. You gunna share that video wit us?[/QUOTE]Awe man, you don't want to see her sucking my knobber.