Avoid discussing anything
[QUOTE=NewbieHere20;5316479]Also, would like to know the best language and verbiage used that ended in FS or more than just the normal HJ as I would like to expand into this area as well. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Do not ever discuss services. I know people here do it, but it isn't at all necessary and puts you at risk.
In my hometown is a massage parlor that has been operating in the same place since 1985. In every room is a menu board with various length sessions and massage types. At the bottom of the board are the words "all sessions include a complimentary ending". That's it. No happy, no nothing. If you mention anything about a hand job you will get asked to leave. If you don't mention anything during the session the ladies will. Do absolutely anything.
It's made the local news from time to time. I distinctly remember the chief of police saying there was nothing that could be done because if there was no discussion there was no crime.
Most areas have a fairly consistent expectation for various activities. Learn it and just be prepared in advance. If you visit a legit spot and over tip in advance they won't generally take the money until you leave. I typically adjust those to $10 while I'm getting dressed to leave.