"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=TexasMonger;2455346]Hey Hollywood.

This girl has a perfect body. I can only speak for myself, but I'm sure the guys here agree. We would like to see more of her.

Cheers.

TM.[/QUOTE]I would have to say I was happily surprised. Even though her pics made her appear small I am always suspicious until I meet them. An extra 5 or 10 lbs can make a huge difference on a small girl. She was firm and tight, and said she worked out here and there. Even spinners can feel squishy if they never work out. Muscle tone is important to me. Being in good shape myself I can be a little more critical about that to their face. And one reason I can get those types of girls more easily. So work out and try to stick to a high protein diet with portion control. I have a scale in my dining room just to emphasize the point. And I make them all get on it.

I encountered a hot, blond, spinner, way older, professionally dressed MILF (attorney) on my errands yesterday. She said she was 57 but I was still interested. lol. I let it go for many reasons (like that boulder on her finger). But they say a MILF never looks hotter than when she has been divorced about a year. As they all go back to the gym before getting back on the market. If I had a MILF fetish and any civi game I would hang out at the gym in the suburbs as they are overflowing with these types.

On another note I have finally (and once and for all?) eliminated all GPS from my roster. Last year I still had my stripper x (as I was infatuated with her 10/10 looks), my MILF (who was only a $ but I always had to get a room), and my roommate who I treated special because she was always there for me in so many ways. The stripper is already saying she is wanting to see me now that she knows my roommate is gone. But due to over contributing to her in the past, it would have to be for normal civi type dating expenses only, like food or a movie. Once she finds that out I dont think she will be hanging around long, but I am curious to find out. And if I do see my x roomy for a date, (which I hope to once or twice a month) it will be at a $ going forward which she already knows, and is cool with.

been talking to this one for a month and she says she wants to meet. A 5 foot tall spinner model. Not every hot girl is GPS.[ATTACH=CONFIG]376904[/ATTACH]

[QUOTE=FTP1999;2455029]Brothers,

Silly question probably but what does Viagra do for you?

I am not sure if it will help me.

I have no ED issues with the first cup.

I could use help with the second cup. I do rest a bit after the first. Can get hard for second but cannot sometimes finish the second.

Will Viagra help finishing the second?

Sorry for the question but don't know who to ask.[/QUOTE]If erection is not the issue then Vits V,see and others will not help ejaculation. Many older men (myself included) are one and done no matter how long your erection lasts. If you have trouble maintaining a firm erection then they will help keep pumping going until climax. I keep a 3 hour erection -rock hard -and can fuck several different girls and / or the same hottie non stop and can't do it again.

What is Vits V, Vitamin see, see etc. (hmmm This forum will not let me enter upper case c).

I have always had trouble getting and maintaining an erection from the time I started at age 25! And still do at twice that age. Will Viagra and others help?

My doctor says there is no harm in using the blue bill. Boy! My case is the archetypal "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak". All the sexual desire and energy is in my head! Oh, well I try it make it up through oral.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2455566]If erection is not the issue then Vits V,see and others will not help ejaculation. Many older men (myself included) are one and done no matter how long your erection lasts. If you have trouble maintaining a firm erection then they will help keep pumping going until climax. I keep a 3 hour erection -rock hard -and can fuck several different girls and / or the same hottie non stop and can't do it again.[/QUOTE]

Perusing the "latest login" pages in my area and I notice the same girls for months who are not into sex and many who weren't interested in a M&G. As Hollywood says they are not into really finding an SD or are hoping for the "super bowl " Daddy. It's too bad they can't pull the trigger and start filling up their bank accounts while we fill up their vaginas.

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2455605]What is Vits V, Vitamin see, see etc. (hmmm This forum will not let me enter upper case c).

I have always had trouble getting and maintaining an erection from the time I started at age 25! And still do at twice that age. Will Viagra and others help?

My doctor says there is no harm in using the blue bill. Boy! My case is the archetypal "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak". All the sexual desire and energy is in my head! Oh, well I try it make it up through oral.[/QUOTE]You should absolutely use Viagra or Cialis. The only risk to using those meds is if you have a heart attack while exercising.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2455610]It's too bad they can't pull the trigger and start filling up their bank accounts while we fill up their vaginas.[/QUOTE]LOL many times.

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2455605]What is Vits V, Vitamin see, see etc. (hmmm This forum will not let me enter upper case c).

I have always had trouble getting and maintaining an erection from the time I started at age 25! And still do at twice that age. Will Viagra and others help?

My doctor says there is no harm in using the blue bill. Boy! My case is the archetypal "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak". All the sexual desire and energy is in my head! Oh, well I try it make it up through oral.[/QUOTE]Is your ED porn related? Look up "porn induced erectile dysfunction" on your favorite internet search engine. Cutting out jacking off to internet porn solves my own ED problems almost entirely.

Great. I will drop dead while having a good time! It will be nice to check out with a smile on my face!

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2455614]You should absolutely use Viagra or Cialis. The only risk to using those meds is if you have a heart attack while exercising.[/QUOTE]

Do you mean Cialis.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2455140]I use see. Really firms things up. More than that. I couldn't say.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2455739]Do you mean Cialis.[/QUOTE]Yes, cialis.

For guys that like a challenge.

"What you are probably starting to realize is that many of the guys on here are full of it. And the ones that will pay more? Well guess what? . They want every girl they can have, and at those higher amounts they can have any girl they want. So they see you a few times (or once) and then poof. They're gone. And maybe that's all you want. "

Then take it from there.

It hasnt really worked for me yet. But of course I am trying to talk girls down to a $. It may work better at higher levels of compensation. Give it a try!

This lez couple started out at 7 bills. Since they are obviously not in that league I thought I would engage them in some playful banter. They are new in town and pretty funny. I sent them my GPS rebuttal and I got them down to $$ pretty quick. I told them a $ is really my budget and I hadn't considered 2 girls before, so I am not sure what to do. LOL.

"maybe you can raise that to $200 a visit? Just because it's two girls? $100 each?" . .
Poor girls. I wish I could just paper over every problem in the world.

They are obviously horny and tight for cash. Plus when people move to L.A. they want to party. They wanted to just come right over but I am taking the day off to recharge. Tomorrow I have a big date with my church girl and don't want to disappoint. Most girls can't even tell when I am just going through the motions, but I want to really be up for her and rock hard when I am pounding that tight teen ass.

I love girls with full lips (and for good reason). There is a difference. Black girls rock.

You watch the fight while I am sugaring. You think these SB's are watching the fight? Here is one that told me never to txt her again because I took off all her clothes on the M&G in the car, didn't pay her, and then flaked on the next date. But I saw her online and said hi and she said she needed the $ and to txt her. So she is my Monday at 11 am for an all day date for a $ plus food. I could fuck her 5 times if I had 5 dicks and she wouldnt care.

She is 18, white, 5'8" 120 and attractive. Like an 8/9/9/7 so far. Great body. Just got off the phone with her. Cant wait to play with her. She just turned 18 and for some reason thinks I'm funny. Funny or sexy always wins. Combine them together and its a home run everytime. Thats why every comedian no matter how they look has a hot girl.

[QUOTE=FotoGuy1970;2455672]Is your ED porn related? Look up "porn induced erectile dysfunction" on your favorite internet search engine. Cutting out jacking off to internet porn solves my own ED problems almost entirely.[/QUOTE]This discussion could start a whole new thread. Our minds are all faster so to speak than our bodies. I have watched porn my entire life. The balance of acting out on my porn watching (masturbation) and my ability spend time in the FC became apparent to me at an early age. I have always had to be mindful of the time spent on porn as I am not a superman. By the time I was in my 40's I pretty much had to force myself not to watch porn to have enough energy left for my FC dates. If I was in between relationships then it was porn watching full speed ahead. I could never seperate the acts of watching it and then acting out on it. But now in my 60's and with the self control that comes with age I watch porn everyday. I just don't act out on it. And even though I could easily bang 2 different girls a day (as any guy willing to pay for pussy can), I limit myself to once a day and take a day or two off a week to recharge even if it means being bored or frustrated. I am an obsessive compulsive party-er and workaholic by nature (big surprise, right?). Addicted to my passions by any measure. But abstinence has never really worked for me, so its all in the balance.

So watch all the porn you want, (and I mostly agree with FG) just dont jerk off (at least not every time).

My last post and then back to work. Girls ask all the time "what do you like to do for fun". My stock reply is just one word, "socialize". And I may throw in that I like to go out to eat. This pretty much ends that discussion immediately and its a true statement. So it puts all the focus back on the topic at hand. Is my offer enough for you to visit the FC.

All I do is eat, sleep, work, fuck and look for pussy. And I am not complaining.

I don't want to do anything else.

The common ones to watch out for. Also when to take them for the maximum benefit.

Porn bores me! Guess I just grew out of it. Used to watch it when young.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2456258]...
So watch all the porn you want, (and I mostly agree with FG) just dont jerk off (at least not every time).[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2456043]You watch the fight while I am sugaring. You think these SB's are watching the fight? Here is one that told me never to txt her again because I took off all her clothes on the M&G in the car, didn't pay her, and then flaked on the next date. But I saw her online and said hi and she said she needed the $ and to txt her. So she is my Monday at 11 am for an all day date for a $ plus food. I could fuck her 5 times if I had 5 dicks and she wouldnt care.

She is 18, white, 5'8" 120 and attractive. Like an 8/9/9/7 so far. Great body. Just got off the phone with her. Cant wait to play with her. She just turned 18 and for some reason thinks I'm funny. Funny or sexy always wins. Combine them together and its a home run everytime. Thats why every comedian no matter how they look has a hot girl.[/QUOTE]When I retire, I want to move to LA and be like HG. LOL.

Your girls rock man!

Lot of good info on this thread. Just curious, what are you guys using for burner phones, preferably just for texting?

[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;2456403]The common ones to watch out for. Also when to take them for the maximum benefit.

Porn bores me! Guess I just grew out of it. Used to watch it when young.[/QUOTE]Take on an empty stomach works the best 30 minutes before you want to be fucking. IMHE an erection will happen no matter what you are thinking about, but do not be overly active. Do not plan on waiting too long. The younger you are and the less ED you have will determine how long the effects will last. Sometimes I get a second erection an hour or two later even if I am not thinking sexy thoughts. If your lady is handy just grab her ass and hit it again.

Cialis -ask Hollywood. It works up to 36 hours. The maximum benefit for both is probably the 1st 2 hours.

[QUOTE=ThatMDguy;2456457]Lot of good info on this thread. Just curious, what are you guys using for burner phones, preferably just for texting?[/QUOTE]I use the cheapest LG flip from Walmart and buy the $30 refill, which lasts one month. If you text more than that you will spend $45/ month. It can all be cash.

I don't really talk to my babies very much. Mostly email or text. I found that for burners, tracphone offers the best value for money. They double your 30 days to 60. I generally buy the $20 card (30 days) and found that the minutes are more than enough.

It was huge for me when I was mongering because I never used the minutes, but needed to keep the same number to prevent having to go through verification every time I wanted to use a service.

[QUOTE=ThatMDguy;2456457]Lot of good info on this thread. Just curious, what are you guys using for burner phones, preferably just for texting?[/QUOTE]

I bought a phone for $25 and refill $25 at a time. I buy 1000 texts for $10 a month. Voice is $0. 10 a minute but I use very little. Perhaps 1 or 2 dollars a month.

[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2457179]I don't really talk to my babies very much. Mostly email or text. I found that for burners, tracphone offers the best value for money. They double your 30 days to 60. I generally buy the $20 card (30 days) and found that the minutes are more than enough.

It was huge for me when I was mongering because I never used the minutes, but needed to keep the same number to prevent having to go through verification every time I wanted to use a service.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThatMDguy;2456457]Lot of good info on this thread. Just curious, what are you guys using for burner phones, preferably just for texting?[/QUOTE]I use Google voice. It's FREE and no need to maintain a separate phone. Works great for me.

[QUOTE=ThatMDguy;2456457]Lot of good info on this thread. Just curious, what are you guys using for burner phones, preferably just for texting?[/QUOTE]Hushed app is a good solution if you don't need or want a separate piece of hardware (I. E. If the SO doesn't get in your phone). Your card gets billed like any other paid app, through the app store. If you have a smart phone but don't want the app on that device, you can get something like a cheap tablet or iPod, run the app on that, and tether the connectivity to your phone (or just use wi-fi).

TracPhone becomes too expensive if you text a lot. I ended up getting a StraightTalk from Wal-Mart. Fixed price. Text / talk as much as you want.

[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2457179]I don't really talk to my babies very much. Mostly email or text. I found that for burners, tracphone offers the best value for money. They double your 30 days to 60. I generally buy the $20 card (30 days) and found that the minutes are more than enough.

It was huge for me when I was mongering because I never used the minutes, but needed to keep the same number to prevent having to go through verification every time I wanted to use a service.[/QUOTE]

What's the monthly fee on Straighttalk?

I use SA messaging to make contact, then generally move most communication to email. I generally only use the tracphone to confirm FC plans or to monger. I need something that doesn't require WiFi in case I'm running late to the FC and get stuck in traffic.

The way I use the phone means that I am always rolling over minutes. Because I have an unlimited data plan on my real phone and use mostly email to communicate, service days are more important to me.

Basically a $20 card buys 90 days (had to double check because its been so long since I had to re-up). That breaks out to about $7 bucks a month.

I agree if you text a lot, it probably isn't a good deal. Frankly, if I didn't have a SO, I'd probably use Google voice and kik or one of those free text apps that they have out there. Actually, who am I kidding. If I was single, I'd probably be using my real phone to play in the bowl, and the tracphone to monger.

[QUOTE=FTP1999;2457803]TracPhone becomes too expensive if you text a lot. I ended up getting a StraightTalk from Wal-Mart. Fixed price. Text / talk as much as you want.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2456043]You watch the fight while I am sugaring. You think these SB's are watching the fight? Here is one that told me never to txt her again because I took off all her clothes on the M&G in the car, didn't pay her, and then flaked on the next date. But I saw her online and said hi and she said she needed the $ and to txt her. So she is my Monday at 11 am for an all day date for a $ plus food. I could fuck her 5 times if I had 5 dicks and she wouldnt care.

She is 18, white, 5'8" 120 and attractive. Like an 8/9/9/7 so far. Great body. Just got off the phone with her. Cant wait to play with her. She just turned 18 and for some reason thinks I'm funny. Funny or sexy always wins. Combine them together and its a home run everytime. Thats why every comedian no matter how they look has a hot girl.[/QUOTE]Sometimes you have me laughing and shaking my head. This is one of those times.

I think straight talk is 40 or 45 unlimited. I burn with a tracfone now but need to switch. I am averaging that amount with it now, and need to constantly be watching I don't run out at a bad time. Setting here now about to go for a fc meet and greet with a 21 yo. Interesting chatting with her for the last couple of days, see if she can get my morning off to a good start. This evening dinner and some alone time with the 29 yo MILF. Was talking to a tall skinny bf from a nearby town, found out from this board last night that she is advertising on here, so not a baby! Oh well, move on to the next!

[QUOTE=IluvSmellyFish;2458078]What's the monthly fee on Straighttalk?

I use SA messaging to make contact, then generally move most communication to email. I generally only use the tracphone to confirm FC plans or to monger. I need something that doesn't require WiFi in case I'm running late to the FC and get stuck in traffic.

The way I use the phone means that I am always rolling over minutes. Because I have an unlimited data plan on my real phone and use mostly email to communicate, service days are more important to me.

Basically a $20 card buys 90 days (had to double check because its been so long since I had to re-up). That breaks out to about $7 bucks a month.

I agree if you text a lot, it probably isn't a good deal. Frankly, if I didn't have a SO, I'd probably use Google voice and kik or one of those free text apps that they have out there. Actually, who am I kidding. If I was single, I'd probably be using my real phone to play in the bowl, and the tracphone to monger.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;2457686]I use Google voice. It's FREE and no need to maintain a separate phone. Works great for me.[/QUOTE]Can you explain how that works? You can pm me if you don't want to put it out there. Thanks.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;2457787]Hushed app is a good solution if you don't need or want a separate piece of hardware (I. E. If the SO doesn't get in your phone). Your card gets billed like any other paid app, through the app store. If you have a smart phone but don't want the app on that device, you can get something like a cheap tablet or iPod, run the app on that, and tether the connectivity to your phone (or just use wi-fi).[/QUOTE]I went to my play store for my Android to read the reviews. Many poor reviews. Don't think I'll be using it. Many complaints on credit card being charged on the free trial.

I've been fine just using SA and moving it over to email. Yahoo so it is in a separate app and I log out religiously. And snapchat for convos with a couple of my regular friends. (Which is lovely because they send me pics all the time.).

I had a burner but it just ran out. Pretty sure I am done with mongering for good. SBs are so much sweeter and more fun.

[QUOTE=Mike7794;2458280]I went to my play store for my Android to read the reviews. Many poor reviews. Don't think I'll be using it. Many complaints on credit card being charged on the free trial.[/QUOTE]Lots of good apps get poor reviews.

I've never had a billing issue with them. I don't remember how the trial works works with Hushed, but free trial / charge complaints are almost always because someone signed up for the trial then forgets to cancel before the trial is up. That's a user-stupidity problem and not the app makers problem. I've dealt with customer support before (regarding technical issue) and they were excellent, even proactively following up to see if things had improved.

I don't even think I ever tried the free trial -- what I would recommend is just sign up and get a number and try it first. You can get a 7 day number for two dollars, a 30 day number for 4 dollars, or a 90 day number for 10 dollars (one year is $30 which is how I do it).

I am always charged through the Apple app store, not sure how the Google store works but you're basically protected from billing scams via Apple in their store, so the complaints you're reading are probably Google related.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;2457686]I use Google voice. It's FREE and no need to maintain a separate phone. Works great for me.[/QUOTE]The new Google voice does work great, but runs through your real cell phone. I. E. It makes calls and will show on your bill, but the number is assigned and not the real number you called. So if your SO sees those numbers and tries to call them direct, it won't go to anything. However, she might wonder why you are calling those numbers, even though they are not real.

Google voice is much better and convenient, but you have to be sure to have your phone on lockdown at all times. With a burner phone or second phone, you hide it away when not in use. More secure.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;2458549]The new Google voice does work great, but runs through your real cell phone. I. E. It makes calls and will show on your bill, but the number is assigned and not the real number you called. So if your SO sees those numbers and tries to call them direct, it won't go to anything. However, she might wonder why you are calling those numbers, even though they are not real.

Google voice is much better and convenient, but you have to be sure to have your phone on lockdown at all times. With a burner phone or second phone, you hide it away when not in use. More secure.[/QUOTE]I keep the Hushed app on my main phone, but I bury the icon within a subfolder making it something nobody would ever see by looking over my shoulder. There is no trace of numbers dialed except within the app itself. You can allow it to use your phone contacts or stay isolated from it. There is no connection between the calls you make on Hushed and your actual phone plan. There was a time when I don't think it received picture texts properly but it does now.

It's also good for getting temporary, disposable numbers for things like services that require phone verification by sending you a code, since you can quickly generate a new phone number for only 2 bucks that's good for a week, then just let it expire.

Another benefit is that when you create a phone number, you can designate the country / city / area code you want that number to come from, creating an extra layer of anonymity if you need it.

[QUOTE=FTP1999;2455029]Brothers,

Silly question probably but what does Viagra do for you?

I am not sure if it will help me.

I have no ED issues with the first cup.

I could use help with the second cup. I do rest a bit after the first. Can get hard for second but cannot sometimes finish the second.

Will Viagra help finishing the second?

Sorry for the question but don't know who to ask.[/QUOTE]I really don't have "ED" per say, but as we age, things do slow down and the 2nd and 3rd rounds can be a struggle. My issue is maintaining when I want to fuck for long periods. Sometimes during long penetration I desensitize (lose some feeling in my cock) and things will start fading. I went to one of those men's clinics (if you pick a good one, I highly recommend over a standard doctor) and they gave my a sublingual Cialis. Dissolves under the tongue. Can be taken up to 75 mg, max and cut into four 18.5 mg cubes (the tablets are very soft like gummy bears and cubed) I use just one quarter 18. Mg and have rock hard aching erections for the next day and a half. I have used regular Cialis and Levitra and it just does not work the same as these sublingual Cialis things do. It's actually quite incredible and with the dissolvable being soft gels, etc, you can adjust dosing as needed and to any amount you want. I can't imagine using 75 mg of this stuff though.

If this doesn't work, you can always go the route of trimix, but that is for serious, ED and porn stars use it. It will work, sometimes too well, but involves a small injection into your cock and long term use can cause inner scaring and fuck up your cock, so this is used as a last resort.

Best things overall you can do for most cases of ED, is get your ass in shape, healthy and as you age, get you testosterone up and when it shuts down, get on TRT. Most guys who have ED problems are suffering from low testosterone and or way out of shape. There is no reason you cannot get rock hard wood into your 80's.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;2458560]There is no reason you cannot get rock hard wood into your 80's.[/QUOTE]From your mouth to God's ears.

[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;2458560]There is no reason you cannot get rock hard wood into your 80's.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2458661]From your mouth to God's ears.[/QUOTE]It's true. More than half of all men over 75 can maintain a boner. The key is exercise. I wrote some pretty extensive tips on exercise solutions in this thread some time back. I'm way past the age where I should be complaining or worrying about ED, and while my performance isn't as perfect as I'd like it to be (I sometimes get tired, demotivated after the first or second round, etc.), its ultimately about the same as when I was 19.

I have considered ED meds, but not for every day life, more as a novelty during my rare SB-holidays. Last year I had a situation where some little GPS girl left me kind of blueballed, so I went to an AMP the next morning to relieve some tension. I had a M&G later than night, and I didn't know she was going to be a 10 with incredible sexual chemistry. She stayed in my bed all night, but I was only good for two rounds thanks to the little Asian girl at the rub-n-tug doing a good job on me earlier in the day. Its for this sort of unexpected occasion I have considered having some meds on hand.

Got a text from a POT a few days after a m & g that went just ok. It went something like "I guess your not interested in a good girl?

So I said "You have not made it clear that you are ready for some sugar. You seemed hesitant. " {added some small talk after that about her new job, etc}.

She texted "You could have just told me you just wanted a prostitute because that's how I feel you are treating me and you haven't even sent me a message or given me a call".

So I replied "Your text was disturbing and insulting. I have been nothing but straight with you. My messages to you leading up to our meet and greet were more than clear.

We are not dating. If you don't want a SD / SB relationship I understand.

Good luck with your search".

Her final reply was "I do want a sb / sd relationship but its seems like you only will give me money if I have sex with you!! That is not a sugar baby that is a prostitute!

My question is: 1. Did I handle it right? And 2. Do I just move on because I shouldn't have to deal with her shit?

I think I just answered my own question.

[QUOTE=JoeBogus;2458779]Got a text from a POT a few days after a m & g that went just ok. It went something like "I guess your not interested in a good girl?

So I said "You have not made it clear that you are ready for some sugar. You seemed hesitant. " {added some small talk after that about her new job, etc}.

She texted "You could have just told me you just wanted a prostitute because that's how I feel you are treating me and you haven't even sent me a message or given me a call".

So I replied "Your text was disturbing and insulting. I have been nothing but straight with you. My messages to you leading up to our meet and greet were more than clear.

We are not dating. If you don't want a SD / SB relationship I understand.

Good luck with your search".

Her final reply was "I do want a sb / sd relationship but its seems like you only will give me money if I have sex with you!! That is not a sugar baby that is a prostitute!

My question is: 1. Did I handle it right? And 2. Do I just move on because I shouldn't have to deal with her shit?

I think I just answered my own question.[/QUOTE]In my experience and granted it's not extensive as you guys. I chat the SB up with every initial message being unique. I don't use the step list. In most cases, I get a response back. I give sugar depending on the situation. I typically don't on the M&G unless her travel to meet was a trek. After the first FC I tend to give just a little bit of sugar, but no set amounts.

The only SB I regularly give sugar to is my "MAIN" SB. Over the past few months we have an emotional attachment to each other. If she needs something I provide. It doesn't always lead to the FC, but when we eventually get there it's mind-blowing sex. She's the only SB that keeps me rock hard for hours and multiple sessions in the same night.

I have another SB that really likes me, no request for sugar. She's even bought me a couple of gifts, like cologne and workout gear. The sex is good, she an absolute freak in bed. I'm also alternating with another SB that's all about the cash. I treat her respectfully and never mention the cash. We normally meet during the day or evening for food and drinks. I hand her between. 60 to $ casually and if it leads to FC its cool, if not I'm fine because I have some free options.

In all cases I just treat the SB's like a friend. In turn they don't treat me like an ATM and I don't look at them as purely a sex object. I tend to stay clear of the girls that want to establish an amount initially. So far, my technique has been working well. I logged into SA recently, after being away for months. I'm considering signing up again cause there's so much new POT out there. It's really amazing!

[QUOTE=JoeBogus;2458779]Got a text from a POT a few days after a m & g that went just ok. It went something like "I guess your not interested in a good girl?

So I said "You have not made it clear that you are ready for some sugar. You seemed hesitant. " {added some small talk after that about her new job, etc}.

She texted "You could have just told me you just wanted a prostitute because that's how I feel you are treating me and you haven't even sent me a message or given me a call".

So I replied "Your text was disturbing and insulting. I have been nothing but straight with you. My messages to you leading up to our meet and greet were more than clear.

We are not dating. If you don't want a SD / SB relationship I understand.

Good luck with your search".

Her final reply was "I do want a sb / sd relationship but its seems like you only will give me money if I have sex with you!! That is not a sugar baby that is a prostitute!

My question is: 1. Did I handle it right? And 2. Do I just move on because I shouldn't have to deal with her shit?

I think I just answered my own question.[/QUOTE]Really sounds like She is only going to give you headaches, not head.