Getting so desperate that one forces a situation?
[QUOTE=PaulBunyon1996;6525304]Thanks for the information. I'm still going to see her. I don't want to back out now. She's only 25 min away. Nobody else is coming through.[/QUOTE]Ah Grasshopper! One of the things I had to learn in this hobby was when to walk away and when to fold. I had to learn that no matter how frustrating the hunt got, It was better to not force a situation. Learned to [B]never get so desperate as to ignore the Spidey Senses or let the little head do the thinking.[/B].
While I know YMMV rings true in this game, I also learned that it was hubris to think I could over come a bunch of bad reviews, because I was smarter, more capable, nicer or whatever than all of those reviewers. I could turn a girl around, thinking never worked.
So hope it works out for you, but if it doesn't, sigh.
[i]PS- You can ALWAYS back out of a date, IF you do it politely and kindly. Even at the point of meeting, IF the girl is a mess one can back out gracefully. If one is not willing to walk away, then one is going to find trouble or end up with a bad date from time to time. [/i]