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I liked both posts. Well thought out and good points. I appreciate your comments and will take them in stride. Hey Ilapp, does this mean I still need to sugercoat things more?
FF.
PS. Numbnutts. You scoundrel you, you didn't tell me she has soooooo many freckles. You're off my Christmas list.
Seems to me, looking at the last month plus or so of reports we have been a bit too crass on a number of levels. Lets face it after all, were not operating in a vacuum on this forum. We are in decidedly mixed company no matter how hard some of you think to ignore those facts.
I agree with recent requests for more accuracy in reviews as I myself felt led astray by a recent recommendation on a certain Russian lady on BP's who was most certainly not the girl in the picture. That wish for accuracy does not mean I want to see salacious details however. That kind of talk just isn't appropriate from gentlemen in the company of ladies. And their creepy overcompensating invariably mustachioed uncles. Seems to me that we all have the right to remain silent. Just that a great many lack the ability.
If a lady pleases you and indicates she would like some press, just indicate on here that you were pleased and doubt anyone else would be disappointed with her company. If you had a very unpleasant experience or think that a woman's advertising is contrary to the reality of her services offered, you can indicate that as well, in a polite, non-specific way.
Why provide specific inflammatory language that you know is going to result in forum drama and may, at some point, help land someone a brief but brutal stay at civics camp?
No. Always, simple decorum is preferred.
Due to the fact that someone in our governments three letter agency that starts with a I. Has decided that I and I alone am going to have to pay for the entire health care package for the population of our fair country and also felt it just for me to also seem to be billed for the bank bailouts in whole. My budgetary dept has deemed it necessary to make some cuts in spending. Something our fair govt. Can't seem to do. Seeing how I've been holding a convert to the unseen eyes I find it unfair shelve in mothballs till further review of the economic situation. Seniors pm for ability to help on her stop gap funding
The Lo-ilappalooza Tour.
Ok not really, I will get to the best thing in a bit if my AARPDD doesn't get me too distracted, but when I was talking with a big member here the other night and he suggested that he and I do that if we both take a potential hiatus from all of this, for differing reasons and possibly different lengths of time, and he honestly had me rolling on the floor laughing. Maybe we will need a different name, there is a way to rhythmically link our handles for the festival, But the point here is that in discussing our current prospects and projects, he pointed out that the biggest thing he would miss is the hunt, the excitement of finding the next wonderful provider. (a quick aside here, I am completely enthralled by the hot new flavor of the day here, and although due to prior commitments it looks like I might be the very last guy to get to be with her, I am assured by 3 people I know well that she is absolutely the real deal and is going to be a big favorite of everyone as long as she continues in the hobby, I think we are going to be hearing a lot about her now and in the future) I digress, but it is the excitement of all that is what would be missed most is an excellent point. Let's face it, most of us can get all the sex we want and or need with out the hobby, it is often the excitement and newness that gets us, and with that is going to come disappointments. Part of the best thing I heard deals with how we handle that, and how we deal with each other.
We all have different ideas of what we want and expect, and let's face it, it can be very hard to be objective when our dicks are involved. A couple of weeks back I was with a provider I am fond of, this was probably the 5th or 6th time I had been with her, and in the middle, well actually the coupling had just occurred so more towards the beginning, she gets an important and expected call from her father-no, no, no-she is way way past the age of consent you sick bastards, but she wanted to continue so she put him on speakerphone while I continued to quietly try not to shrivel and run, but the mission was completed, I got off. So how do you review a session like that? Why would you even try? I have had great sex with horrible providers and bad sex with great providers; maybe it was me, maybe it was them, maybe the synergy between us or maybe it was just life events effecting a specific occurrence in ways that couldn't be predicted or prepared for, but things are just not always the way we want. There are times efficiency and a good business sense is important to the event, times when certain services are important, sometimes when atmosphere and location is a big deal (speaking of that, for those of you that know what I am talking about, I had grown very fond of a certain futon the last couple of years, but even that can be forgotten with a high class incall location like this week, location can be an enhancement and worth the added cost) ; and sometimes just none of that shit matters and you have a great time anyway. The bottom line is, you win some and you lose some; you should enjoy and savor your wins and accept your losses, lick your wounds and move on. Each should share as much or as little as they are comfortable with, but barring truly dangerous situations, rip-offs and scams, there is no reason to get vile or vindictive, here or even personally with providers. It is choices that we make and have to live with. An aside here, I saw that TA2 was upset that he saw someone who apparently was well reviewed but due to certain personal issues legally and that he was put at risk by no one mentioning it. I had to laugh because when he said that a name popped into my mind, and then another and another and on and on. It occurred to me that if I eliminated all of the providers who had probation, bracelets, monitoring, and lord knows what else when I saw them my list would be very very much shorter. I am certain that that sort of personal info about them should not be discussed in open forum, but such info is often traded in private, assuming that it doesn't effect the date and there is definite proof it puts someone at risk. I have never heard of any hobbiest getting in trouble by "dating" a provider who had unrelated legal issues, but then that brings up the veracity of reviews doesn't it. For a number of reasons that is a post I am going to make soon.
For the best thing I have heard: I used to frequent Cincy for work, and I have found every member over there that I ever contacted, even some I never would have guessed, to be extremely helpful with info and insight for that area. I have found them to be good guys, but like all boards and forums, they have their flame ups like we do and seem to be headed for, and they have been in the middle of a big pissing match over there. A guy I have talked to over there wrote a post that has caused me to stop and reflect what and how I do things here. It has really opened my eyes and made me rethink a lot of things. Maybe there is a kinder and gentler Ilapp in the future. I was going to paste the entire post, and I may still, but not today. It was written by Jry Wild1, a decent guy and good fellow to chat with. It is in the Cincy forum, Escort reviews, post #2333 and I recommend it to everyone to read. If going there to do it is too much trouble, I told him I would just paste it and take credit for writing it, nah- you guys would know it wasn't me- but then I will repost it on our thread. It is thoughtful, and true, and appropriate to a point I feel we are getting to. Take a look, might be good for all of us, I know it is for me.
I appreciate the comment.
Gee whiz fellas, can't we all just get along?
Oh! And Numbntts? You Suck!
LMAO.
Galere.
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak; 1084159]I liked both posts. Well thought out and good points. I appreciate your comments and will take them in stride. Hey Ilapp, does this mean I still need to sugercoat things more?
FF.
PS. Numbnutts. You scoundrel you, you didn't tell me she has soooooo many freckles. You're off my Christmas list. [/QUOTE]
I just wanted to thank Ilapp for pointing out such an insightful post in the Cincinnati forum. I owe you a beer. When I started this hobby I had a cash and dash and in researching the issue I found this site. I've been lucky since then, with research and caution I have met some very nice young ladies.
I admit I have lurked around the site instead of posting anything useful. Most of the time anything I would say has been said by others and with a lot more Polish than I could manage. In my time on this site I have seen a number of flame wars erupt. From time to time this happens in every forum on the internet. The majority of the posts I read are in fact not hurtful but contain useful information for keeping this hobby safe. I wanted to thank all the members who post more than me or who post with more content for working to make this a safer hobby for us all.
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak; 1084159]I liked both posts. Well thought out and good points. I appreciate your comments and will take them in stride. Hey Ilapp, does this mean I still need to sugercoat things more?
FF.
PS. Numbnutts. You scoundrel you, you didn't tell me she has soooooo many freckles. You're off my Christmas list. [/QUOTE]My friends I am not cut out for this stuff; I lave lost emails, forgot who I sent info to, deleted emails that I should have kept and my inbox is just a crazy place. Feel comfortable that I have passed the info to enough folks that can share with other members. Just don't ruin a good thing.
[QUOTE=Numbnutts;1084582]My friends I am not cut out for this stuff; I lave lost emails, forgot who I sent info to, deleted emails that I should have kept and my inbox is just a crazy place. Feel comfortable that I have passed the info to enough folks that can share with other members. Just don't ruin a good thing.[/QUOTE]That was last year, this year it was going to be your favorite bottle of 40 yr old scotch. Guess it's a 20 oz can of PBR now.
FF.
PS. Sparkles is on e. Com now. See if you can find the freckles in her pics when they are posted on her profile.
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak; 1084592]That was last year, this year it was going to be your favorite bottle of 40 yr old scotch. Guess it's a 20 oz can of PBR now.
FF.
PS. Sparkles is on e. Com now. See if you can find the freckles in her pics when they are posted on her profile. [/QUOTE]What a difference one unshared freckle makes. Won't happen again, sir.
After less than 24 hours, it is amazing how one story, comment, words in a post can set this board on fire. My PM's, text msgs and e-mails are blowing up. What I said below about "T" was the point I was making about anyone, any provider, any hobbyist. It doesn't make any difference whether it is true or false. Unless you are in the room at the time of the incident, you don't know the truth!
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak;1084150]Regarding "BBFS": Maybe you should check some past posts on your wonderful "T". I think there is some reference there and some biblical knowledge.[/QUOTE]This is why slamming on this board and unsubstantiated comments that are derogatory towards a provider should not be posted. Especially BBFS. Hello, I referenced an old post and everyone fell right in line with it. You are idiots. If someone can reference one provider, why can't I reference another? Fair is fair right. Now cut it out, grow up and be gentlemen. These are ladies not wh*res. If they are wh*res then you are wh*re mongers. T and Cate both deserve an apology. Truth or Fiction, do we really know, if we were not present, no matter what anyone says, provider or hobbyist. Take things with a grain of salt, heed Ilapp's words and read the post from Cincinnati.
Nuff said.
FF.
PS. No sugarcoating here and no freckles.
Wow I thought providers had issues. Certain mongers do too wow get a grip dude.
The only thing it took was a visit with Misty. When she told me where we were meeting I was dreading the traffic and the parking. Despite my fears everything was smooth sailing and her room was very luxurious. I had seen her before but this time. Wow. At times I thought it would take heavy equipment to get the grin off my face. I'll leave the details between us and just say is she is one of the best.
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak;1084629] These are ladies not wh*res[/QUOTE]Well, I must be in the wrong place. The women we pay for sex represent the textbook definition of working girl. If T and Cate don't fall in that category, they shouldn't be discussed here at any length.
My comment is not directed to anyone specifically just seems there are a lot of issues between some mongers about posts. I thought we were supposed to put up reviews etc about providers not argue between each other. Peace to all.
[QUOTE=Niceguy52;1085001]Wow I thought providers had issues. Certain mongers do too wow get a grip dude.[/QUOTE]
Enough about the bickering, how about some reviews peeps?