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[QUOTE=MountainMan60; 1899049]I think we need to have a mans code of ethics when seeing a referred provider.

1. Keep your mouth shut. I have been very nice to share some utrs over the years. Here is the problem you guys go and see these girls and start talking about the person who referred you. No one gave you permission to share that info. We need to keep it simple and say all I know is he is a senior member and said I should see you. Tell them you don't know anything else about them.

I have had several of you share way to much info with a girl I recently posted about. Guys that is not cool. We need to protect each other here and give as little info as possible. If a provider is seeking a reference then just say I know he can be trusted and that's it.

I am about to stop sharing info because some of you can't keep your mouth shut.

I hope most of you would agree with me about this. If I want to share info about myself to a lady that's up to me but you have no right to do that.

MM[/QUOTE]Why would anyone reveal information about another member? I'm sure every time you share info on the board your inbox blows up with contact info request. Then you spend valuable time returning endless Emails and researching whether the member can be trusted. I know this as a fact because it was nearly 2 weeks before you could share info with me. I would never give out info about a generous member unless I was told to say who gave me the info. MountainMan your input and generosity of sharing is much appreciated and respected.

[QUOTE=MountainMan60; 1899049]I think we need to have a mans code of ethics when seeing a referred provider.

1. Keep your mouth shut. I have been very nice to share some utrs over the years. Here is the problem you guys go and see these girls and start talking about the person who referred you. No one gave you permission to share that info. We need to keep it simple and say all I know is he is a senior member and said I should see you. Tell them you don't know anything else about them.

I have had several of you share way to much info with a girl I recently posted about. Guys that is not cool. We need to protect each other here and give as little info as possible. If a provider is seeking a reference then just say I know he can be trusted and that's it.

I am about to stop sharing info because some of you can't keep your mouth shut.

I hope most of you would agree with me about this. If I want to share info about myself to a lady that's up to me but you have no right to do that.

MM[/QUOTE]Some of you still don't get it. I post this and what do you do you contact the girl and ask her what she told me. You guys are morons. What you should have done was sent me a PM and said MM I am sorry. Instead you add more insult to injury. If you would like I can post the screen names of each of you that asked for her info and saw her so that no one else on this board will ever share info with you. I really liked this girl and she liked me and some of you said things that are not true. Stupid people can't trust anyone. You try and be a nice guy and share about a few good people then shit like this happens. Shut your mouth

This has always been a BIG problem on this site. I have always called these members Lap Dogs, IMO these members think that the provider will give him better service or a discount on the donation. ( Pillow talk or smoking one after the deed) they run their mouth about this site or others members . I read a lot of posts across the nation and this goes on all the time in every town. Note to all members and New members Keep your mouth shut about this site and other members, it shouldn't be that hard !

[QUOTE=Skboy;1899315]This has always been a BIG problem on this site. I have always called these members Lap Dogs, IMO these members think that the provider will give him better service or a discount on the donation. ( Pillow talk or smoking one after the deed) they run their mouth about this site or others members . I read a lot of posts across the nation and this goes on all the time in every town. Note to all members and New members Keep your mouth shut about this site and other members, it shouldn't be that hard ![/QUOTE]Thanks for your support

[QUOTE=MountainMan60;1899269]Some of you still don't get it. I post this and what do you do you contact the girl and ask her what she told me. You guys are morons. What you should have done was sent me a PM and said MM I am sorry. Instead you add more insult to injury. If you would like I can post the screen names of each of you that asked for her info and saw her so that no one else on this board will ever share info with you. I really liked this girl and she liked me and some of you said things that are not true. Stupid people can't trust anyone. You try and be a nice guy and share about a few good people then shit like this happens. Shut your mouth[/QUOTE]Who are these fucktards?

[QUOTE=MountainMan60;1899269]Some of you still don't get it. I post this and what do you do you contact the girl and ask her what she told me. You guys are morons. What you should have done was sent me a PM and said MM I am sorry. Instead you add more insult to injury. If you would like I can post the screen names of each of you that asked for her info and saw her so that no one else on this board will ever share info with you. I really liked this girl and she liked me and some of you said things that are not true. Stupid people can't trust anyone. You try and be a nice guy and share about a few good people then shit like this happens. Shut your mouth[/QUOTE]All it takes is a few Idiots to Spoil a Good Thing. MM, I Totally Agree with you on this Topic. I Adore my Provider. She's a Sweetheart. It took me a long time to find a Provider like her. I'm not going to lose her over what some Moron on this Board tells her. MM I hope you didn't lose your ATF Provider over what someone on this Board told her.

If you Guys want an Awesome Provider, do your own Research and Investigating and find one on your own. That's what I did. I never asked for or requested any Help from anyone.

[QUOTE=MountainMan60;1899063]Thanks for the support I hope many more will voice agreement[/QUOTE]I agree MM. I do thank you for sharing with me.

[QUOTE=Ron M; 1899557]All it takes is a few Idiots to Spoil a Good Thing. MM, I Totally Agree with you on this Topic. I Adore my Provider. She's a Sweetheart. It took me a long time to find a Provider like her. I'm not going to lose her over what some Moron on this Board tells her. MM I hope you didn't lose your ATF Provider over what someone on this Board told her.

If you Guys want an Awesome Provider, do your own Research and Investigating and find one on your own. That's what I did. I never asked for or requested any Help from anyone.[/QUOTE]I did that very thing went out beat the bushes and used lessons I had learned from this site. I found the one I had been looking for. I made the mistake of sharing. It bit me in a little diferent way. I will agree there are all kind of ways a girl can be turned off and there are all kinds of games guys run on these girls. Everything from offering drugs to business propositions. I know there are some bad girls out there, but some of us are just as bad. I agree not to throw people under the bus can we not just pay these ladies and fu* them?

[QUOTE=MountainMan60; 1899049]I think we need to have a mans code of ethics when seeing a referred provider.

1. Keep your mouth shut. I have been very nice to share some utrs over the years. Here is the problem you guys go and see these girls and start talking about the person who referred you. No one gave you permission to share that info. We need to keep it simple and say all I know is he is a senior member and said I should see you. Tell them you don't know anything else about them.

I have had several of you share way to much info with a girl I recently posted about. Guys that is not cool. We need to protect each other here and give as little info as possible. If a provider is seeking a reference then just say I know he can be trusted and that's it.

I am about to stop sharing info because some of you can't keep your mouth shut.

I hope most of you would agree with me about this. If I want to share info about myself to a lady that's up to me but you have no right to do that.

MM[/QUOTE]I need help on a few things please. I thought the main reason for this site was for members to share info between each other for safety and lady's performance. I meet with a provider tonight and she asked me to write a review and tell other members about her. I know when I go to different sites or back page I wonder if pics are correct or if the person is real. I'm new to all of this and I want to be safe. If a see a beautiful profile I sure don't want to make an appointment and end up with handcuffs or robbed. I felt like if a seen a provider I would let other members know she was real and if I liked her or not. If a provider took my money and ran, I would advise other members to watch out. I know I might really like a provider and my buddy may think she sucks. Can anyone help with understanding of the do's and don't's of a good member?

[QUOTE=MountainMan60;1899325]Thanks for your support[/QUOTE]I agree with MM60. I had the same thing happen to me, not once but twice by the same member on this board. I lost the first one. The second one was Katie Lynn. However, Katie was smart enough to come to me and question me on the e-mail she had received from this member. She quickly learned that the e-mail was pretty much B. S. Hence, we are still together.

Here's how I worked it when I was active. I had a list of trusted senior members that I shared with. In fact, I have their e-mail and some their numbers. Yes, at first I had to stick my neck out and post on the board but it didn't take long to populate this list.

Also, have a good solid talk with the UTR your "helping" and tell her all about the B. S and what can or will happen. Ask or advise her before making any conclusions to get back to you and discuss what had been told to her by another member. Also, I strongly advised her to NEVER share any of my personal info without checking with me first. If she's worth anything she should be loyal to you. If not, than she's not worth my time and effort.

As some of you know I had my own unique way of "sharing". It was very safe and seemed to work quite well. If anyone is interested, (again trusted seniors) P M me.

Good luck boys and play safe.

GunR.

[QUOTE=KnoxTomcat;1899253]Why would anyone reveal information about another member? I'm sure every time you share info on the board your inbox blows up with contact info request. Then you spend valuable time returning endless Emails and researching whether the member can be trusted. I know this as a fact because it was nearly 2 weeks before you could share info with me. I would never give out info about a generous member unless I was told to say who gave me the info. MountainMan your input and generosity of sharing is much appreciated and respected.[/QUOTE]Yeah it's not just sharing information! It's when you go see a provider and the first thing they say is- Why does so&so hate you so much and was asing a ton if questions about you.

Everything from:

1. What kind of car does he drive?

2. What does he look like?

3. Where does he work?

4. What does he like?

5. How is he hung?

6. When do you see him next?

7. Or Hobbiest / provider tell the provider / board a pack of BS about you!

I have had this happen to me at lest 4 times over the years. I have contacted a few and asked them to stop and they fiqured put that they were in the wrong. There has been others who said F-K Y- and some how Karme gets them and they don't last on the board. I have made mistakes over the years and tried to leran from them.

It does not pay to be a White Knight or to start a "Save a HOE" foundation because you are going to be the one who will lose. IMHO.

However, there are creeps out there who need a little help out of the hobby or need to be identified to keep providers from getting burned or giving us all bad names, IMHO.

Play Safe and have fun!

[QUOTE=Blackhawk 101; 1899970]Yeah it's not just sharing information! It's when you go see a provider and the first thing they say is- Why does so&so hate you so much and was asing a ton if questions about you.

Everything from:

1. What kind of car does he drive?

2. What does he look like?

3. Where does he work?

4. What does he like?

5. How is he hung?

6. When do you see him next?

7. Or Hobbiest / provider tell the provider / board a pack of BS about you!

I have had this happen to me at lest 4 times over the years. I have contacted a few and asked them to stop and they fiqured put that they were in the wrong. There has been others who said F-K Y- and some how Karme gets them and they don't last on the board. I have made mistakes over the years and tried to leran from them.

It does not pay to be a White Knight or to start a "Save a HOE" foundation because you are going to be the one who will lose. IMHO.

However, there are creeps out there who need a little help out of the hobby or need to be identified to keep providers from getting burned or giving us all bad names, IMHO.

Play Safe and have fun![/QUOTE]I think you read my mind. Everyone could learn from this.

[QUOTE=Blackhawk 101; 1899970]Yeah it's not just sharing information! It's when you go see a provider and the first thing they say is- Why does so&so hate you so much and was asing a ton if questions about you.

Everything from:

1. What kind of car does he drive?

2. What does he look like?

3. Where does he work?

4. What does he like?

5. How is he hung?

6. When do you see him next?

7. Or Hobbiest / provider tell the provider / board a pack of BS about you!

I have had this happen to me at lest 4 times over the years. I have contacted a few and asked them to stop and they fiqured put that they were in the wrong. There has been others who said F-K Y- and some how Karme gets them and they don't last on the board. I have made mistakes over the years and tried to leran from them.

It does not pay to be a White Knight or to start a "Save a HOE" foundation because you are going to be the one who will lose. IMHO.

However, there are creeps out there who need a little help out of the hobby or need to be identified to keep providers from getting burned or giving us all bad names, IMHO.

Play Safe and have fun![/QUOTE]Thanks to everyone for your support. I made this post for two reasons.

1. I was pissed off about what took place.

2. I wanted to get people talking so we can bring awareness to this kind of crap.

We are here to help each other not to cause issues. You are so right many think if they say something to the provider it will make them look better. If you want to help a girl out then do it just don't bring any of us into your conversation. When I help a provider and post a review for her I always try and screen those that request info for her safety. I never say anything but this. I do not know any of these guys but from my research they seem to be ok and trusted. That's it nothing more. This is how it should stay.

[QUOTE=MountainMan60; 1900142]Thanks to everyone for your support. I made this post for two reasons.

1. I was pissed off about what took place.

2. I wanted to get people talking so we can bring awareness to this kind of crap.

We are here to help each other not to cause issues. You are so right many think if they say something to the provider it will make them look better. If you want to help a girl out then do it just don't bring any of us into your conversation. When I help a provider and post a review for her I always try and screen those that request info for her safety. I never say anything but this. I do not know any of these guys but from my research they seem to be ok and trusted. That's it nothing more. This is how it should stay.[/QUOTE]The UTRs I get from you fellows mongers is kept to myself. Unless the info I get from any of you contains your words" tell her xxx sent you" beyond that, thats all thats said about anyone, then the festivities begin and nothing more is said.

Sharky

[QUOTE=MountainMan60; 1900142]Thanks to everyone for your support. I made this post for two reasons.

1. I was pissed off about what took place.

2. I wanted to get people talking so we can bring awareness to this kind of crap.

We are here to help each other not to cause issues. You are so right many think if they say something to the provider it will make them look better. If you want to help a girl out then do it just don't bring any of us into your conversation. When I help a provider and post a review for her I always try and screen those that request info for her safety. I never say anything but this. I do not know any of these guys but from my research they seem to be ok and trusted. That's it nothing more. This is how it should stay.[/QUOTE]In Theory this is how this Board should work. A Guy sees a Provider, posts his Review Good or Bad for other Guys to read. Then it's up to them if they want to see her or not. Unfortunately, some of the Guys that get referrals just can't keep quiet about the Guy that gave them the Referral. I've gotten a lot of requests from Guys wanting to know who my Provider is and what was the Session with her like. Since I've read about Guys being Burned from referring their Provider to others, I'm not giving her Info out to anyone. No Exceptions. I plan on seeing her for quite a while. Just making sure I don't lose this Set Up. It took me a long time to find her. You want to find yourself a Great Provider? Do your own Research and Investigating. Don't ask for Help from others. That's what I did. I did the Researching all on my own.