Arrangement Reports

I had similar SA experiences. I am white, married and in my mid 60's. I put that all in my profile. I bought a 3 month subscription a year ago. I said I was looking for women in their 30's or older. I had several twenty somethings contact me. Two of the twenty somethings seemed so sincere I gave them a try. Both turned out to be good fun. One advantage of getting older is there are a lot more women who look appealing.

[QUOTE=Dogman788;4614083]I've had a few good experiences on SA but it involves a lot of hit and miss, and also dealing with with a variety of both odd and unpleasant women. But if you find the keepers that are on the site (and there are some) it's worth it IMHO. I'm in my mid-50's, white, single, with a good job and a good income. Average looking but generally attractive to women my age. I've met a few women who are quite a bit younger than I am on SA and have asked them about being with an older guy and I get basically the same response from all of them. They understand the dynamics of an SD / SB relationship and fully expect that they'll be "dating" men quite a bit older than themselves. As someone else mentioned, there also has to be some degree of a connection for the arrangement to work. I've met some women who were attractive, fun and willing but had all of the personality of a bed post. I typically move on. I've also met the aforementioned keepers and we can spend an evening together and not only have great private fun, but also can enjoy good conversation, share a nice meal or a couple drinks, etc. It at least gives the appearance of a "date," and that's part of the arrangement that I'm looking for. Then we go our own ways, stay in contact, and maybe do it again a couple weeks later. Perfect NSA relationship. If I want to see other women, hang with friends, even date women my own age, I'm free to do so with no expectations on the part of the women with whom I have the arrangement. I have no complaints to date with what I've been able to work out.[/QUOTE]

Which is better? Seeking or secret benes? Wasn't sure if either worked but want to try and sign up for one and give it a shot. I have the time and $ to make a SB happy. .

[QUOTE=Gfe12;4614259]Which is better? Seeking or secret benes? Wasn't sure if either worked but want to try and sign up for one and give it a shot. I have the time and $ to make a SB happy. .[/QUOTE]In my opinion, SA is by far the better of the two based on past experience.

[QUOTE=SavageDaddy;4613549]SexyymommaOf2.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b0e2f488-b0f7-41cd-b4fc-c25fb116c0af[/URL]

- Been talking to her for the last week or two and met with her on Friday (cute little Hispanic chick). She recently had a baby (c-section) so she's only doing BBBJ right now (and probably for the next month or two). Can't host and doesn't drive, but she's open to car dates or coming to your place. Picked her up and brought her to my place for BBBJ (70) which was OK. She wouldn't take off her bra because she's lactating. I tried asking if I could suck on her nipples but declined and said it's only for her baby. - Maybe for the right price she would, but it sounded off the table for the most part.

I was actually a little nervous meeting her because she does have that desperate vibe (as mentioned by a previous report) and is a daily smoker /420. However, everything went fine and she was overall pretty quiet and business focused (not into conversation or talking). Was nothing special so I probably won't repeat, maybe only if I was in a jam.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the report. I was talking with her for the past few weeks, but after reading your report I won't waste my time or money on her.

Read my posts on them. SB is one of the worst you can spend / waste money on.

[QUOTE=ZipperSquid;4614394]In my opinion, SA is by far the better of the two based on past experience.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gfe12;4614259]Which is better? Seeking or secret benes? Wasn't sure if either worked but want to try and sign up for one and give it a shot. I have the time and $ to make a SB happy. .[/QUOTE]SB is a scam.

Nicky25 Time waster.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6edb6fc8-1f56-4776-b6ef-fa6ac7ad12a9[/URL]

Claims she is mexican latina going to college at MKE. Texted back and forth for few days and she wanted 350 per meet. 350 is random number which she claims that someone I'm MKE offerred during her earlier arrangement to fuck 2 times and he used to give it upfront during first date. I countered for 350 per wk with 3 times play and it went on until she agreed for 400,3 times a wk and going to give like 400/3 per meet for she said sure. Met her at my place and first looks are okay young short & curvy thick latina with nails and make up done good.

She was nervous but cooled down immediately to business, asking upfront $$, was ready to give and that's when she told 400 for which I told that's not what was agreed and asked to check texts and she said somehow misread it and she wants 400 as she is due on her rent.

Wanting me to atleast venmo or paypal it if I don't have full cash after the meet for which I said no way. What ever agreed is what she is going to get. Now the worst part, she got up to leave and asking for like $50 gas money so she can. Finally I had to get rid of her paying $20 for gas money. I have attached private pics shared with me for you guys. PM me for her digits if interested.

Beautiful Tara Scam / pics seller.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ce66846-65cf-412c-b3b1-ebf4e631f601[/URL]

Below is the chat transcript from this picture seller.

"A premium Snapchat is what I use to get to know potential SD. I also post pictures and videos on it so my potential SD can get to know my body a little more. I only discuss arrangement using my Snapchat now. So if you would like to continue this I would love that. It is only $40 For a lifetime of sexy pictures of me and of course conversation that hopefully leads into something more. If you're comfortable with it, you can cashapp the $40 to $taayleaa then I will add you to my Snapchat. We can continue the conversation on there. If you are scared I am fake I can add you to my premium Snapchat and send a picture of myself to prove I am not. As long as you are interested in buying my premium. ".

Luxxbby1 scammer.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f94f7908-fa6b-4dbf-97f3-ad5e4550bbcd[/URL]

This thing shared me a kik Dreamybrit and in the kik she texted to go to [URL]sidedaddy.com[/URL] and her username is luxxbby.

, to checkout her pics.

Forgot about this girl.

Miaminights76 could be a scammer or pics seller.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/01d7ce99-7a22-409e-b793-2957bebe77e5[/URL]

Her location was columbus, oh but she texted me on SA and said she travels to MKE. Her digits 765-205-3321. Exchanged some texts but nothing concrete yet, shall keep you guys posted.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/75d8f571-2af8-4082-88a5-1ff1d8a21c3f[/URL]

Approached me offering "sexual intercourse no anal" for cash.

I said I was open. She can't host. I asked to see more pics and we switched to Kik.

Was somewhat suspicious of scam or LEO.

She sends some pics that look similar but older than profile age.

I ask her to send me a pic with a finger in her mouth as proof she's real and she refused.

Something's fishy here. Would proceed with extreme caution.

[QUOTE=SafeNsaFun;4617782][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/75d8f571-2af8-4082-88a5-1ff1d8a21c3f[/URL]

Approached me offering "sexual intercourse no anal" for cash.

I said I was open. She can't host. I asked to see more pics and we switched to Kik.

Was somewhat suspicious of scam or LEO.

She sends some pics that look similar but older than profile age.

I ask her to send me a pic with a finger in her mouth as proof she's real and she refused.

Something's fishy here. Would proceed with extreme caution.[/QUOTE]T.

Pic looks like hello kitty Brookfield area Kate I believe is name been around forever.

[QUOTE=Bokinchitwn;4617798]T.

Pic looks like hello kitty Brookfield area Kate I believe is name been around forever.[/QUOTE]You mean this one? This is Kate aka hellokitty.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/66ae0f1d-71b6-04b5-6875-74f5164ca1d4[/URL]

I meant we had a good experience with this one. Donations very all over the map. Just wondering how many of us are actually seeing her? Seems very difficult to schedule.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3c04ba69-f07d-4a6e-9e08-5df21064e275[/URL]

Hello SD, mongers, and whatever other titles you (we) choose. Newb here (and to SA) first of all saying thanks for your info on Kribabi. She just messaged me. Profile pics are OK but repetitive, profile content is meh.I'll be posting some soonish, although not much of my experience is the most recent.

[QUOTE=SavageDaddy;4607884]


Kribabi.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdc665aa-3248-4410-80dc-b23e556e2240[/URL]

- One of the first girls that I saw a few times. A bit curvy and she's older. So a tad saggy, but pics are fairly accurate and she does smoke cigs. Was nice at first, but as soon as I stopped texting her she got an attitude and I decided I didn't want to really deal with it. Open menu and had her over at my place for (200) for longer dates or (100) for short time visits. Open to bb, cip, and pretty much whatever you want, she likes to please.

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She is on SA under this name. Also on AM under a different name. PM me for more info I guess, but I won't overshare. I am not interested in her knowing that I'm on SA. Let's just say I know / knew her IRL. There is no question about it. I won't click on her profile because I really do not want her to have any chance of knowing. I mean, if she searches and happens to find me, I'll deal with it. But I'd rather not.

[QUOTE=Bokinchitwn;4617798]T.

Pic looks like hello kitty Brookfield area Kate I believe is name been around forever.[/QUOTE]It's not Kate for sure.