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Call her out
[QUOTE=GunnarStahl;7432332]What a place America is! Thankfully I am no house daddy, but I like to stop in when I'm in the area. It becomes wasted time when the 1 or 2 hours is spent waiting for them to leave the hip of a reg. Or for them to do their stage set as some won't do VIP / dances until they do that. Went up to one girl when the regular went to the bathroom after 40 minutes, introduced myself and politely said I'd love a VIP if she had the time and she looked at me blankly like I was speaking some foreign language.[/QUOTE]So the rest of us can avoid her. Because I'll tell you one day she will be without the sad idiot reg and will approach you. But she'll forget she blew you off. That's when you turn the tables and tell her to fuck off.
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Dallas
She is a fairy tale. Bright, smart, sexy. Energetic, enthusiastic VIP.
Girls with the eyes. $300 for three hours and she thinks she's "getting over".
Do 1 VIP an hour w no extras and you're even.
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Dallas, desire rates
[QUOTE=Joey1994;7433289]She is a fairy tale. Bright, smart, sexy. Energetic, enthusiastic VIP.
Girls with the eyes. $300 for three hours and she thinks she's "getting over".
Do 1 VIP an hour w no extras and you're even.[/QUOTE]Fairy tale is right. Great dancer in attitude, hot and curvy. Wish more dancers were like her but many have GPS with bad attitudes here. Started talking with some guys. They overpay. One guy said he paid 500 for a covered blowjob. I mean just stop LOL.
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Kiara
Cuban with really great tits. Anyone do a room?
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I get it.
[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7431768]The eternal question. I used to think I was being a dick if I pryed them away, but all that got me was my hand. Now I don't care. Didn't do this yesterday day shift but at other clubs just told them I wanted a dance or VIP immediately when they got up. Money talks. Fuck the guys who think they own the dancers. I don't like waiting around because at Desire I've seen them talk to her reg for an hour and he never did a VIP then she got scooped by someone else. No reason to wait around. Some of us have lives and can't go to the club every fucking day to be a 'reg'.[/QUOTE]It is one of the reasons I say "fuck Desires". Place is a cesspool of old farts that are there every day feeding drinks to their wannabe girlfriends.
I hate when strippers think they are besties with patrons. To be brutally honest, I have a couple who see me as a regular and I am willing to talk to them, but not hrs on end. Not going to feed them drinks either (I'm not cheap, but see no point in it other than the dancers milking you for free drinks. To me, they are there for fun. Yes some are nice ladies, but not interested in their problems or their life story.
I have one lady who gets it. It is a purely transactional VIP. Fun, easy, no strings attached. Once it starts to become "more than that", I take a break from that one and move elsewhere. Has served me well.
That said, if someone approaches a girl that I am working on, you better bet I am going to tell you to take a hike. Had one douche at Caddy start chatting a lady up last week who was sitting with me and I finally told him she will see him after we're done chatting. The girl actually told me thanks as it does no one any good and puts her in a no win situation. The guy saw me later in the men's room and told me that he didn't mean any harm which is great, but he absolutely was trying to lean into her a bit.
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Definitely Fair
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7433441]It is one of the reasons I say "fuck Desires". Place is a cesspool of old farts that are there every day feeding drinks to their wannabe girlfriends.
I hate when strippers think they are besties with patrons. To be brutally honest, I have a couple who see me as a regular and I am willing to talk to them, but not hrs on end. Not going to feed them drinks either (I'm not cheap, but see no point in it other than the dancers milking you for free drinks. To me, they are there for fun. Yes some are nice ladies, but not interested in their problems or their life story.
I have one lady who gets it. It is a purely transactional VIP. Fun, easy, no strings attached. Once it starts to become "more than that", I take a break from that one and move elsewhere. Has served me well.
That said, if someone approaches a girl that I am working on, you better bet I am going to tell you to take a hike. Had one douche at Caddy start chatting a lady up last week who was sitting with me and I finally told him she will see him after we're done chatting. The girl actually told me thanks as it does no one any good and puts her in a no win situation. The guy saw me later in the men's room and told me that he didn't mean any harm which is great, but he absolutely was trying to lean into her a bit.[/QUOTE]It's such a fine line, isn't it? I'm definitely not going to a strip club looking to be buddies with the girls. If a "strip club connection" develops, which is bound to happen if you pop up in one place enough, and I see her a few times or speak at her when I'm in there for a bit then sure, I'd be cool with that but I guess I'm generally going in with the impression that they're there working and money to them makes the world go around. That said I'm they'd probably rather go to the well a few times with someone they know isn't some freak than some odd character that drifts in they've never seen.
I feel a situation out with a girl. If she's just started chatting to someone, I'm definitely not approaching. If it's been like 40-50 minutes, it's kind of like WTF and I either cut my losses or catch them with a "hey, would love a dance when you're done" when the guy goes to the bathroom and hope they move on eventually. I just don't want to look creepy just sitting there or walking aimlessly trying to attract the attention of some girl.
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Desire loser regs
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7433441]It is one of the reasons I say "fuck Desires". Place is a cesspool of old farts that are there every day feeding drinks to their wannabe girlfriends.
I hate when strippers think they are besties with patrons. To be brutally honest, I have a couple who see me as a regular and I am willing to talk to them, but not hrs on end. Not going to feed them drinks either (I'm not cheap, but see no point in it other than the dancers milking you for free drinks. To me, they are there for fun. Yes some are nice ladies, but not interested in their problems or their life story.
I have one lady who gets it. It is a purely transactional VIP. Fun, easy, no strings attached. Once it starts to become "more than that", I take a break from that one and move elsewhere. Has served me well.
That said, if someone approaches a girl that I am working on, you better bet I am going to tell you to take a hike. Had one douche at Caddy start chatting a lady up last week who was sitting with me and I finally told him she will see him after we're done chatting. The girl actually told me thanks as it does no one any good and puts her in a no win situation. The guy saw me later in the men's room and told me that he didn't mean any harm which is great, but he absolutely was trying to lean into her a bit.[/QUOTE]The situation I have seen at Desire is a girl will sit and drink with a guy for an hour or more. Not do stage dances or circulate around. Sometimes girl will not do VIP and just leave or get scooped up after.
What it means is essentially you have a dancer who is not working for hours.
The other part that happens is guys pay for the girl to do nothing. There is specifically one I know for sure. So you have dumb strippers thinking all they have to do is talk and a guy will give them a few hundred.
The best part is it doesn't last and then they approach you when it's slow, but they forgot they blew you off for their loser reg. That's when I tell them no or maybe waste their time like they wasted mine.
The guys who are at that club everyday are the cesspool you speak of. Not all are old, some of the younger drug dealer types. Feed the girls drinks and pills.
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Dancers
[QUOTE=PapaBear11;7432338]I had a girl tell me recently that one of her regulars pays her $100 per hour to sit and talk with her at the bar and buy her drinks. No rooms, no LDs. This girl isn't a liar, she showed me the money after she was done with this dude. Just pathetic behavior that prevents others who are actually there to have fun from doing so. She was with him for three hours and he gave her $300 plus tip! And you all wonder why these girls have GPS.[/QUOTE]I guess I shouldn't be surprised yet I am. Why would a dancer take $100 for an hour instead of $100+ for one 15 minute VIP or 2-3 lappys in about the same time? Laziness? Being in the wrong line of business in general? Is this GPS or just lack of effort?
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Monday night CD
Pretty quiet. 4-5 very attractive South American girls rocking the Brazilian butt lift. They seemed more concerned with chatting in the corner under the TV than $$.
Tipped a very attractive "Sammi from Spain" while she was on stage but she got scooped up.
Any intel?
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/sammy_lola_spicy?igsh=dmR6ZXpxcXMwN294[/URL]
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Sammy
[QUOTE=Joey1994;7434027]Pretty quiet. 4-5 very attractive South American girls rocking the Brazilian butt lift. They seemed more concerned with chatting in the corner under the TV than $$.
Tipped a very attractive "Sammi from Spain" while she was on stage but she got scooped up.
Any intel?
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/sammy_lola_spicy?igsh=dmR6ZXpxcXMwN294[/URL][/QUOTE]I haven't done a room with her but she is very cool IMO.
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Money
[QUOTE=Flash88;7433838]I guess I shouldn't be surprised yet I am. Why would a dancer take $100 for an hour instead of $100+ for one 15 minute VIP or 2-3 lappys in about the same time? Laziness? Being in the wrong line of business in general? Is this GPS or just lack of effort?[/QUOTE]Who knows? Maybe she had a headache. Maybe she had already done a bunch of VIPs and just wanted to relax and drink. Maybe she had some regulars lined up for later and knew she'd be doing VIPs then. The point is that this dude taking up the time of girls while some of us are trying to pay them for VIP action is annoying.
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Fantasies report
Sparse crowd and not many dancers but a Latina with a nice body approached. English wasn't her strong suit so we used the phone to translate. She lead me to a large room with a couch behind the 1st bar and she knew exactly what I was there for. Said full service was $200 to her. I agreed and she took out a condom hopped on and finished me off. Good deal, although the room fee was more than I would like. I think it went up. This must be why guys aren't going to Desire anymore. Much better attitude and deal here. I thanked her and said I'd be back next week. Didn't get her name. Latina not very good English, nice body some tattoos.
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Likely Cleo
[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7434098]Sparse crowd and not many dancers but a Latina with a nice body approached. English wasn't her strong suit so we used the phone to translate. She lead me to a large room with a couch behind the 1st bar and she knew exactly what I was there for. Said full service was $200 to her. I agreed and she took out a condom hopped on and finished me off. Good deal, although the room fee was more than I would like. I think it went up. This must be why guys aren't going to Desire anymore. Much better attitude and deal here. I thanked her and said I'd be back next week. Didn't get her name. Latina not very good English, nice body some tattoos.[/QUOTE]Cleo is who it sounds like. She is cool. If she had weird eye tattoos on the back of her legs, likely her. Her butt looked like it got a little plumper last time I was there. She is cool though. She is very reliable and gives a nice BJ.
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[QUOTE=GunnarStahl;7433452]It's such a fine line, isn't it? I'm definitely not going to a strip club looking to be buddies with the girls. If a "strip club connection" develops, which is bound to happen if you pop up in one place enough, and I see her a few times or speak at her when I'm in there for a bit then sure, I'd be cool with that but I guess I'm generally going in with the impression that they're there working and money to them makes the world go around. That said I'm they'd probably rather go to the well a few times with someone they know isn't some freak than some odd character that drifts in they've never seen.
I feel a situation out with a girl. If she's just started chatting to someone, I'm definitely not approaching. If it's been like 40-50 minutes, it's kind of like WTF and I either cut my losses or catch them with a "hey, would love a dance when you're done" when the guy goes to the bathroom and hope they move on eventually. I just don't want to look creepy just sitting there or walking aimlessly trying to attract the attention of some girl.[/QUOTE]You did it the right way in your hypothetical. Doing it while someone is still chatting definitely a fafo situation.
Exactly why ai like Tijuana so much. Yes, girls talk a whole to some guys and they buy drinks, but I don't speak Spanish don't is translator or bust. It is actually a huge advantage for me as I can roam around and if a girl approaches me and doesn't speak English, it is very easy to move on to one you are interested in. Plus there are literally 100+ girls to choose from. I love my job and the ability to go there regularly and have free flights, hotels, and meals in San Diego. Just need to pay for pussy! Actually heading down this weekend!
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Cleo
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7434314]Cleo is who it sounds like. She is cool. If she had weird eye tattoos on the back of her legs, likely her. Her butt looked like it got a little plumper last time I was there. She is cool though. She is very reliable and gives a nice BJ.[/QUOTE]Think so. Nice one and pretty cute.
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Desire report
This was an evening night last week. Clientele was younger but there were some other retired gents.
Kiara anyone do VIP? Cuban huge breasts.
Lily very thick Latina.
Nicole.
Amaya maybe is the name thick Latina.
Alana.
Others most I don't know.
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Cleo follow up
[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7435191]Think so. Nice one and pretty cute.[/QUOTE]Any idea on her schedule?
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Cleo day shift
[QUOTE=Crabbi;7436354]Any idea on her schedule?[/QUOTE]She's definitely day shift, but not sure which days I should have asked but there was already a language barrier. I might stop in tomorrow to see if she's there. Cute Latina rocking bod really strange tattoos.
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Cadillac report
Headed in during the day. Dancers:
Maxine Latina with curly hair super hot.
Raven Latina spinner.
Amanda.
I tipped Raven on stage and asked about VIP. She quoted 400 but wouldn't budge on price. As a spinner fan I was disappointed. I wanted to snag Amanda since I have heard good things but couldn't.
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[QUOTE=Crabbi;7436354]Any idea on her schedule?[/QUOTE]I think Cleo is mostly days. I know she used to get picked up by some guy so might not even drive. I'm pretty sure I've seen her on a Saturday afternoon as well.
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[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7122257]2-3 "dancers". Usually not attractive and ask for prices that make Desire look like a bargain.[/QUOTE]Its an interesting place.
Amazing they allow it to exist.
Perfect setup if they put more effort into it but I assume they are trying to keep it off the radar.
I forget the house fee but you can get what you want for $ after the house.
Private.
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[QUOTE=WillyO;7436402]I think Cleo is mostly days. I know she used to get picked up by some guy so might not even drive. I'm pretty sure I've seen her on a Saturday afternoon as well.[/QUOTE]She usually is out the door at 430. Most afternoons, she is around.
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Fantasies
Got a late start today and ended up at Fantasies late for me 6:30 ish.
A few new dancers. Aries is a hot Italian girl, but gives off scammer vibes.
Bella, as usual is with her regs.
Sophia was there and with a regular all night.
Another new to me girl was there (Lily). Cute, but doubtful if anything is there for fun.
Vanessa thankfully left.
Not much hope for this place.
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Vanessa
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7436435]Got a late start today and ended up at Fantasies late for me 6:30 ish.
Vanessa thankfully left.
Not much hope for this place.[/QUOTE]For good? This is the loud and annoying one right? She came up to me on a visit I didn't want a dance then she walked away disgusted and I saw her chatting with another dancer as they both looked over at me laughing. Fuck them both.
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THE Golden Banana
So it's Sat. Night and I just got home from visitng a blast from the past. The World Famous Golden Banana in Peabody MA. Or as us old timers remember it. Peebiddy. LOL.
As I remember it it was rocking on a Sat night. Like packed. Well I guess the glory days are gone. I was last there like 25 years ago. When top name porn stars would stop there on their tours.
And the dancers were smokin. So thinking it was going to be busy I got there at 7:30 so I could get a front row seat at the stage. Well when I got there there were only like a dozen guys spread out at the tables. Oh. And cover was $15, I don't know if it increases later in the night. I sat at the bar and had a beer while I scoped out the dancers. There were about 10-15 ladies circulating. I got approached by about 4 girls at the bar looking for lap dance $$. So for my taste there were no 10's. Maybe a couple of 8. 5-9's. I told them all that it was too early for me and that I needed time to get settled. They were all nice enough but like I said. I didn't rush to my stage seat because I didn't want to start throwing bills until I scoped out all the availability. So there were 7's, 6's, and a couple 5's. But they all had ice kitties. Did mention it's a TOTALLY NUDE bar (for those not familiar). So the stage is of course all $1's but the more you throw the better the show. So. House rates. Lap dance. 2 for $60. That's 2 songs. Or the equivalent. Then Champagne Room is $540 for 40 minutes. Or more for a full hour. They take cash or card but cash is the rate I mentioned while card will cost you substantially more. So bring cash. I stayed long enough to see the rotation on stage and gather some visual memories for when I got home. I only drank the one beer as I don't drink if I'm driving. Especially with an about 80 minute drive (each way). Plus the bottle girl never came to ask if I wanted another. Fine with me. So my favorite was a full bodied blonde named Kay. After she danced she said she would come and get me for the lap but she got distracted by other patrons probably regulars as the place was getting busy so she ghosted me. So I opted for a spinner who happened to be the first to approached me when I arrived. She was sweet and actually gave the sexiest stage dance. So the lap dance was nice. Pretty much what you expect from a lap dance (I guess) but was nice. And she gave me her number. And no I'm not going to pass it on because some of us here are azzholes and spoil it for everyone else. Especially for the guy that shared. I don't know if anything will come of it. Not sure when I might go back as it's along drive. And the drunks are out. Also given the old 5 star roster they used to have. Trying to think if I covered every thing. The do I. D. You at the door (drivers license). Well I hope this is informative for some of you. Again the attraction for me is. Totally nude. Unlike RI. Either way. Enjoy. But always be safe.
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[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7436611]For good? This is the loud and annoying one right? She came up to me on a visit I didn't want a dance then she walked away disgusted and I saw her chatting with another dancer as they both looked over at me laughing. Fuck them both.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately no. She left for the day. She always does the disgusted look. I have seen her flip off a guy before for not doing dances. She walks up to everyone and asks to suck theier cock. The sad part is mgmt knows she's a *****, but some nutty guys actually like her. I have zero clue why. She's loud, fat, and miserable and on top of that, has an annoying attitude. I make a habit of telling her I am not doing dances today and then scoop up a reg for a VIP. She gets REALLY mad at that.
Probably why guys aren't going there.
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Vanessa
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7438116]Unfortunately no. She left for the day. She always does the disgusted look. I have seen her flip off a guy before for not doing dances. She walks up to everyone and asks to suck theier cock. The sad part is mgmt knows she's a *****, but some nutty guys actually like her. I have zero clue why. She's loud, fat, and miserable and on top of that, has an annoying attitude. I make a habit of telling her I am not doing dances today and then scoop up a reg for a VIP. She gets REALLY mad at that.
Probably why guys aren't going there.[/QUOTE]For a club that is having trouble getting people in she isn't adding anything. Nobody wants to go when she's there.
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[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7438338]For a club that is having trouble getting people in she isn't adding anything. Nobody wants to go when she's there.[/QUOTE]Yep, not crazy about her presence either although she has never been nasty with me! Just wish she would leave me alone! I've known her since back in the Cheater's days.
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[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7438338]For a club that is having trouble getting people in she isn't adding anything. Nobody wants to go when she's there.[/QUOTE]I literally know what her car is and where she parks it, so when I see it there, I usually take a pass and don't go. I do sometimes go in just to see who is there, but I don't stick around if my regulars or good prospects are there. LOL.
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Vanessa
Is she the older Brazilian who will camp out and not take no for an answer an answer.
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[QUOTE=Joey1994;7439064]Is she the older Brazilian who will camp out and not take no for an answer an answer.[/QUOTE]She is Portuguese but grew up here although she does speak the language. Typically there Wednesday through Sunday afternoon.
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Vanessa
[QUOTE=Joey1994;7439064]Is she the older Brazilian who will camp out and not take no for an answer an answer.[/QUOTE]You might be thinking of Alicia who is aggressive but her personality is fine. Vanessa is thick talks loud and annoys everyone. Bad influence on the club.
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[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7439485]You might be thinking of Alicia who is aggressive but her personality is fine. Vanessa is thick talks loud and annoys everyone. Bad influence on the club.[/QUOTE]Sort of like Coco at Mickey's. LOL.
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[QUOTE=MtnBkr29;7439593]Sort of like Coco at Mickey's. LOL.[/QUOTE]Maybe, I fail to believe there is someone more annoying than Vanessa LOL.
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Desire Nicolette Erika
Was chatting with these two. Anybody have any intel?
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Cadillac Saturday night
Stopped by to see what's going on. Didn't stay long.
Kyro. Nice body but older, scammy, quoted 300 for 15 min, 600 for 30 min, 900 for 45 min, 1200 for 1 hour. Says she doesn't do extras. Good for her if people are paying her those rates for nothing?
Barbi. Young spinner but after spending all her time with some goofy looking guy, she disappeared from the floor other than to come on stage, weird.
Will probably return when I have more time. Overall had some level of interest with at least half the talent there. Maybe 10 girls working, was there around 8 pm.
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Lol
[QUOTE=VRooomBada;7441189]Stopped by to see what's going on. Didn't stay long.
Kyro. Nice body but older, scammy, quoted 300 for 15 min, 600 for 30 min, 900 for 45 min, 1200 for 1 hour. Says she doesn't do extras. Good for her if people are paying her those rates for nothing?
Barbi. Young spinner but after spending all her time with some goofy looking guy, she disappeared from the floor other than to come on stage, weird.
Will probably return when I have more time. Overall had some level of interest with at least half the talent there. Maybe 10 girls working, was there around 8 pm.[/QUOTE]LOL Kyro can go fuck herself. Nobody is paying that and don't let any of these GPS dancers convince you otherwise. They're totally full shit. Tell her sure then waste her time for an hour and walk out. That's the only way they are going to learn.
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Avoid at Caddy
Was there this afternoon. Curvy Dominican named Anna checked all the boxes. Got upstairs and broke the cardinal rule. Paid up front. She reminded me very much of Maria at CD so my guard was down. Greta lap dance, when I tried to kiss her. The "no habla englais" started. Tried to act like she didn't understand. Things started progressing and when she started stroking me and asking me to fuck her I figured she were back on track. I restated what we talked about downstairs and tried to put my dick in her mouth; she started asking for more money. Told her I already gave her $200. What we agreed on. She started with "my English no good". I told her no worries and proceeded to jerk off all over the couch. Zipped up and went back downstairs. Apologies to the next guy.
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Caddy revisit
What's going on with this place. Stopped by around 7 pm on Thursday and was quoted 300 for 15 min again by another dancer. Another one I chatted with but she was so vapid I sent her off. I don't go to the club for brains but she was so dumb I couldn't stand her even making small talk. Tipped the stage for a while, had a few beers. I like the vibes of this place overall but do the girls not want to sell rooms here? I'm not crazy right, the rooms are 150 for 15 min?
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[QUOTE=VRooomBada;7442732]What's going on with this place. Stopped by around 7 pm on Thursday and was quoted 300 for 15 min again by another dancer. Another one I chatted with but she was so vapid I sent her off. I don't go to the club for brains but she was so dumb I couldn't stand her even making small talk. Tipped the stage for a while, had a few beers. I like the vibes of this place overall but do the girls not want to sell rooms here? I'm not crazy right, the rooms are 150 for 15 min?[/QUOTE]I said this to some guy before, and he didn't get it.
If you ask the club how much a room is, they will tell you it's $150 minimum for a room for for 15 min. If a girl tells you that it's $300 for 15 min, that means it's $300 for you, with her, for 15 minutes. They can choose whatever price they want, and as long as they tell you beforehand, that's fine.