[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c; 1206065]I'm absolutely stunned that one of the SM's I gave an awesome referral to decided to tell the lady all about this board and even showed her posts or PM's! He also told her I was posting her info. WTF? I don't know why he would even bring this board up to any lady (especially a very attractive one that was referred to him) and I have no friggin idea why he would LIE to her about me posting her info, but there it is. This will be one less SM that receives referrals from me in the future.
Another recently new SM sent this PM to me:
[B]Hi I'd be grateful if you could share both these women info me. Is there anything else you can tell me about them like rates, services, what city they're located in. Since there UTR how did you manage to come across them? I don't have many numbers to trade right now as it's been hard for me get out to find girls.
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Any info you can pass on would be appreciated. [/B]
Really? Are you kidding me? I'm surprised he didn't ask me for her SSN, DOB and address? Then he wants me to tell him how I found them? LOL!
Incredible. [/QUOTE]I feel your pain.
That is so funny, all the SMs post about how they won't share because the newbies don't know etiquette, can't keep mouth closed, etc. And here you go a SM screws it up. Honestly there have been a hand full of SM on this site that have been decent to deal with (you guys know who you are) and the rest are "hey just give me info, I might share with you" and give you some burned out crack head's number everyone has from BP, and hasn't even seen, in exchange for the real deal. Or my favorite "thanks for the info but, sorry nothing for you because you are not a SM, can't trust you". And they even ruined it for me with a couple of the girls by telling them that they got her number from this board, just like this guy did here.
Sad thing is I've gotten more reliable info from guys with 10 posts than from some with 100+. I mean one SM had info on 10, count'them 10 girls. WOW. He was SM because he posts a lot. That was it. I traded him tit for tat (his idea because I was not SM) of the 10 he had. 8 were from BP (he had only seen 4 of those) and he got 10 NEW ones he didn't have. Now the worst part is I hooked (with referral) him up one of my ATF. She calls me and tells me NEVER to refer anyone else because he showed up drunk, was a jerk, tried to shortchange her and told her he was going to hook her up with all his friends. So then she got a lot of calls from his buddies afterwards, many of whom were jerks when she said no. Then the idiot goes and posts about her, so much for UTR. I mean why in the blue hell would he get a UTR contact and then share it with the world and then post about it?
Now this newbie with about 5 posts PM's me about a massage parlor. I hooked him up with girl's name and BOOM, he dumps info on me, he has more girls he has tried, verified and classified than the trusted SM who just posts a lot. And he wasn't a jerk about it. I guess quality over quantity.
All in all I've never had a "newbie" screw things up like several SM's have. Just like that one did. Go figure.
Unfortunately the Norfolk / Tidewater boards have a lot of quick posters, trying to get SM status. Coupled with the more experienced members non sharing, newbie bashing and lopsided info sharing, has led to this board being very quiet recently, very different from years ago. Look at the Richmond area and the number of informative posts vs what we have in Norf / Tidewater. Why is that? We have more population and the girls are out there. But no posts. WTF? Maybe it is the military "this is my bailiwick" keep it to myself attitude, I don't know help me out here, seems like our board has lost focus on it's purpose.
For the SM's who will undoubtedly rebut, yeah I am not a SM and I only have a dozen or so posts, I just don't post that often anymore, it just seems to be a waste of time. I used to years ago, but the board has changed a lot since then. Which is sad. I just stick with my network of buddies and go from there, which means I have become a non-sharer like many others here, jaded and waiting, hoping for change.
BTW, I have been doing this for a long time, I have worked as a doorman for several local and out of town clubs and services, so remember just because someone posts a lot doesn't mean they are stone cold and those that don't post much might have something to offer.
Now I will sit back and wait for the feedback. This should be good. But at least people will be talking. LOL
