[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;6050328]That's what the site is for.[/QUOTE]I don't have a subscription, don't want to piss away $110 to send one message.
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[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;6050328]That's what the site is for.[/QUOTE]I don't have a subscription, don't want to piss away $110 to send one message.
[QUOTE=Tex4023;6050485]I don't have a subscription, don't want to piss away $110 to send one message.[/QUOTE]This site is for feedback and info on ladies we've seen, and sure we can share contact info on ladies that are hard to find. But if you're on SA, and you can connect with that girl, then that's the proper forum to see if she wants to see you / you want to see her, rather than just "hey somebody toss me her digits" which is more like you are wanting someone else to do the heavy lifting for you, i.e. having US pay the subscription to get YOU the info. I'm sorry you don't want to "piss away $110" but that's the way the cookie crumbles. One man's opinion to be sure. Happy hunting, be safe. Peace.
[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;6050660]This site is for feedback and info on ladies we've seen, and sure we can share contact info on ladies that are hard to find. But if you're on SA, and you can connect with that girl, then that's the proper forum to see if she wants to see you / you want to see her, rather than just "hey somebody toss me her digits" which is more like you are wanting someone else to do the heavy lifting for you, i.e. having US pay the subscription to get YOU the info. I'm sorry you don't want to "piss away $110" but that's the way the cookie crumbles. One man's opinion to be sure. Happy hunting, be safe. Peace.[/QUOTE]I agree / disagree with you opinion. I have done plenty of heavy lifting locating escorts and share my findings with my fellow mongers. I have share at least 4 UTR with my fellow mongers, my lastest was a big hit with everyone that have seen her. My thought process is that someone would share her information or at least make a introduction to show there appreciation. It may turn out she will be asking a high allowance. The link is not working here some pics.
[QUOTE=Tex4023;6050485]I don't have a subscription, don't want to piss away $110 to send one message.[/QUOTE]If you can't afford to piss away $110 then you surely can't afford any of the girls on SA. It's actually only $88 to join with the discount.
The SB I've been communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?
[QUOTE=Hiamey;6051992]The SB I've been communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?[/QUOTE]The SA site has always left conversations on even if they deactivate so that's weird. The site may have booted her. If she sent you a driver's license pic it's pretty easy to find out if she's a real person. If she's real my guess is she may have moved on. The ladies on SA are looking for a SD to get some $$. We know what they want, they know what we want. Extended back and forth texting without advancing to $$ doesn't help them. My recommendation is to look for the next candidate. I've found that easy on SA.
What is the consensus as to whether SB or SA is the best site to find a sugarbaby? I assume a lot of girls are on both. Which site do you think has the most real women?
[QUOTE=RobertMaster12;6054021]What is the consensus as to whether SB or SA is the best site to find a sugarbaby? I assume a lot of girls are on both. Which site do you think has the most real women?[/QUOTE]I'm assuming you mean Secret Benefits for SB. I've found SA to be the better choice because you pay a flat fee for the month instead of the credits system that SB uses. Having to pay to open each conversation just invites abuse IMO. I've had lots of success on SA in the past (with the caveat that I haven't used it in the last two years when things seemed to have gone a bit sideways there with all the "online only" girls and other time-wasters.) I've had almost no luck on SB. I pay to open a conversation and then the girl's profile disappears. Or she says she not in Wilmington when her profile says she clearly is. Or some other bs excuse why she can't meet in person.
But to your actual question, which site has the most real women. I'm not sure. I feel like I see more TGTBT girls on SB but that's just a gut feeling. It would be interesting to open every girl on SB that's been recently active and see how many meet-ups you can actually score but that's going to cost some money.
My opinion is stick to SA unless you have deep pockets and don't mind burning a lot of credits to find a few gems.
Brannigan.
[QUOTE=Brannigan88;6054326]I'm assuming you mean Secret Benefits for SB. I've found SA to be the better choice because you pay a flat fee for the month instead of the credits system that SB uses. Having to pay to open each conversation just invites abuse IMO. I've had lots of success on SA in the past (with the caveat that I haven't used it in the last two years when things seemed to have gone a bit sideways there with all the "online only" girls and other time-wasters.) I've had almost no luck on SB. I pay to open a conversation and then the girl's profile disappears. Or she says she not in Wilmington when her profile says she clearly is. Or some other bs excuse why she can't meet in person.
But to your actual question, which site has the most real women. I'm not sure. I feel like I see more TGTBT girls on SB but that's just a gut feeling. It would be interesting to open every girl on SB that's been recently active and see how many meet-ups you can actually score but that's going to cost some money.
My opinion is stick to SA unless you have deep pockets and don't mind burning a lot of credits to find a few gems.
Brannigan.[/QUOTE]I started in the SB hobby last year after trying everything else SC, AMP, E, Shops (I get bored easily). In my humble opinion- SecretB is a total waste of money, I've sent out hundreds of messages with very few responses and went to dinner with only one lady on that site, but didn't have a connection. Yes I do give them a small gift (for meet and greet. I look at it as an interview process and if we click we move to the next phase. Now SA is a totally different story I've kept a journal with all my experiences and the cost of them. SA I've met 26 ladies since last summer, of those I still see 6 at this time. I travel all the time for work. On the SA site please be very careful with your messages, you will get suspended for any offers and some of the girls will report you. PM with questions. Thank you all for the great information on this site it can save you a lot of time and money.
[QUOTE=Eagle7415;6054343]I started in the SB hobby last year after trying everything else SC, AMP, E, Shops (I get bored easily). In my humble opinion- SecretB is a total waste of money, I've sent out hundreds of messages with very few responses and went to dinner with only one lady on that site, but didn't have a connection. Yes I do give them a small gift (for meet and greet. I look at it as an interview process and if we click we move to the next phase. Now SA is a totally different story I've kept a journal with all my experiences and the cost of them. SA I've met 26 ladies since last summer, of those I still see 6 at this time. I travel all the time for work. On the SA site please be very careful with your messages, you will get suspended for any offers and some of the girls will report you. PM with questions. Thank you all for the great information on this site it can save you a lot of time and money.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. SB is a complete waste of time. I can't keep up on SA. Never an issue of getting new talent lined up.
Goes by Maddie_lynn [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ebdc14ff-989f-402e-a732-58bd885c1b99[/URL] met for lunch, she was all excited, committed to one guy, etc. So we set up a time to meet, she texts me and suddenly our initial financial package agreement went by the wayside, and she needed triple because of rent or some other bullshit. I politely declined, she started calling and texting, saying she was going to keep an eye out for my car to bust it up, other threats, etc. Yikes. Fair warning, brothers.
[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;6064444]Goes by Maddie_lynn [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ebdc14ff-989f-402e-a732-58bd885c1b99[/URL] met for lunch, she was all excited, committed to one guy, etc. So we set up a time to meet, she texts me and suddenly our initial financial package agreement went by the wayside, and she needed triple because of rent or some other bullshit. I politely declined, she started calling and texting, saying she was going to keep an eye out for my car to bust it up, other threats, etc. Yikes. Fair warning, brothers.[/QUOTE]Holy shit thanks for the heads up have a schedule meeting with her today for drinks. Going to cancel that meeting. I was little a skeptic, because she only wanted 200 for a 1 hour visit. Thank goodness for this forum.
[QUOTE=Tex4023;6064460]Holy shit thanks for the heads up have a schedule meeting with her today for drinks. Going to cancel that meeting. I was little a skeptic, because she only wanted 200 for a 1 hour visit. Thank goodness for this forum.[/QUOTE]I've been saved a couple times on here myself LOL happy to pay it forward. Have fun, be safe.
[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;6064634]I've been saved a couple times on here myself LOL happy to pay it forward. Have fun, be safe.[/QUOTE]So is this the same Madii_385 on Secrete Benfits? Her profile says that she is 22.
[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;6064444]Goes by Maddie_lynn [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ebdc14ff-989f-402e-a732-58bd885c1b99[/URL] met for lunch, she was all excited, committed to one guy, etc. So we set up a time to meet, she texts me and suddenly our initial financial package agreement went by the wayside, and she needed triple because of rent or some other bullshit. I politely declined, she started calling and texting, saying she was going to keep an eye out for my car to bust it up, other threats, etc. Yikes. Fair warning, brothers.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up brother, we were to get lunch Saturday. I'll block this one now.