Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[QUOTE=MichianaMale;5103581]So, I been using SA for about 6 months and decided to take a break and didn't renew and been dormant for about 3 months. I decided today I would get back on and keep in mind I was still active and could see the messages I received from ladies but couldn't read them because I was not active and didn't pay the monthly fee. I was talking to a couple ladies but nothing explicit and not sure if they got pissed because I was off the site. But, needless to say I go back on today to put money back on my account and took all my information and keep in mind my account was active and could see people who viewed me and sent messages. So, I put my card information in the system and I get a notification after I hit send that my account was suspended. WTF is that all about. How could my account be active and logged in and as soon as I put money in tells me it's suspended. Needless to say sent email to get my money back and stop any additional charges[/QUOTE]The card you had used to reactivate must of had been link to a suspended account. If you use the same social media, credit card from the suspended account, it will follow you through the end. It happens to me before, hence why I use different credit card and never got verify or same social media account.

[QUOTE=BjcimSeeker;5103664]Keep us updated on what happens. My month ends Wednesday and I was going to either go inactive or just not pay for a few months. I got a few options that should keep me busy for a couple months.[/QUOTE]I am inactive as well for couple months and all my msg are paid only.

Some of fav have left already so thinking to renew or move to any other site (don't recommend sugardaddyforme site it is medium version of old BP site.

[QUOTE=OnlyBlondes;5103788]The card you had used to reactivate must of had been link to a suspended account. If you use the same social media, credit card from the suspended account, it will follow you through the end. It happens to me before, hence why I use different credit card and never got verify or same social media account.[/QUOTE]No, it was first time I used this credit card on the site today. I still don't understand how I was able to be on the account and see who was sending me messages and also who would favorite me while I wasn't paying and be able to reply. The moment I put the credit card in to get back on said I was banned / suspended. I'll be damned if they get the money off me for this bogus charge.

[QUOTE=MichianaMale;5103581]So, I been using SA for about 6 months and decided to take a break and didn't renew and been dormant for about 3 months. I decided today I would get back on and keep in mind I was still active and could see the messages I received from ladies but couldn't read them because I was not active and didn't pay the monthly fee. I was talking to a couple ladies but nothing explicit and not sure if they got pissed because I was off the site. But, needless to say I go back on today to put money back on my account and took all my information and keep in mind my account was active and could see people who viewed me and sent messages. So, I put my card information in the system and I get a notification after I hit send that my account was suspended. WTF is that all about. How could my account be active and logged in and as soon as I put money in tells me it's suspended. Needless to say sent email to get my money back and stop any additional charges.[/QUOTE]I've been off and on the site for a couple of years, and that's never happened to me. I'm guessing some frustrated baby reported you for some ridiculous reason, or perhaps you were hacked? Whenever I sign up, I always turn off the auto renew because frankly, some months I collect enough contact info from SBs to keep me busy a long while. If I'm in an ongoing conversation with any, I'll let them know I'm about to exit the site, and if they want to continue communicating, I'll need their Kik ID, phone#, e-mail, something to stay in touch. I also deactivate (not delete, there's a big difference) my account each time I log off when I'm not a paid member and just want to browse, so no one can see my profile when I'm not on.

I'll be curious to hear what, if anything you find out because my account expires again in about 2 weeks.

I have visited many of the ladies but could do more frequent visits if they would have a south side option. Does anyone know if they ever have that option?

Might have better luck getting an answer if you posted in the di section and not the sugar baby. But as far as I know non if the girls are on southside. I wish they could venture a little more around the city.

[QUOTE=Indyguy1565;5108023]I have visited many of the ladies but could do more frequent visits if they would have a south side option. Does anyone know if they ever have that option?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5106385]I've been off and on the site for a couple of years, and that's never happened to me. I'm guessing some frustrated baby reported you for some ridiculous reason, or perhaps you were hacked? Whenever I sign up, I always turn off the auto renew because frankly, some months I collect enough contact info from SBs to keep me busy a long while. If I'm in an ongoing conversation with any, I'll let them know I'm about to exit the site, and if they want to continue communicating, I'll need their Kik ID, phone#, e-mail, something to stay in touch. I also deactivate (not delete, there's a big difference) my account each time I log off when I'm not a paid member and just want to browse, so no one can see my profile when I'm not on.

I'll be curious to hear what, if anything you find out because my account expires again in about 2 weeks.[/QUOTE]Good news the card used was not charged. The bad I'm banned and when I asked in the email show me what I said was inappropriate they never replied or showed me. I know / knew how the site was w / language and made sure nothing was over the line. Got to chalk this up to some pissed off chick who when I left the site left her hanging. I sent one last email to them this afternoon to get the actual message because there was none for them to ban me. So, take warning fellas and apparently ghosting the wrong chick will get you banned. Be safe fellas.

So I had a 2nd meeting in Monday. She said some stuff about getting money for moving into her own place and today the text came across asking if I would co-sign with her. 🤣129315;129315;.

I was thinking about seeing her again next week but I see the drama already starting and may just have to ghost her.

I have noticed a certain system response on SA. If I hide or block their messages stay in my inbox but the picture goes away. But when I report them after some time (long enough for them to evaluate my report?) the messages disappear. I continue to report profiles that the girls scam (online payments upfront and those that want online only). Figure it's good for the community (SB's and SD's) to compromise these profiles. The more they get deleted, the more hasty they replace them and they become more obvious. Plus any marks they are talking to might think twice when they see them coming back repeatedly with new profiles! Call to arms men! Let's take down as many scammers as we can!

One girl even had on her profile "please don't report me just if you don't like what I say". We talked, she wants money up front to meet. Screenshot. Report. Repeat.

[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;5109621]I have noticed a certain system response on SA. If I hide or block their messages stay in my inbox but the picture goes away. But when I report them after some time (long enough for them to evaluate my report?) the messages disappear. I continue to report profiles that the girls scam (online payments upfront and those that want online only). Figure it's good for the community (SB's and SD's) to compromise these profiles. The more they get deleted, the more hasty they replace them and they become more obvious. Plus any marks they are talking to might think twice when they see them coming back repeatedly with new profiles! Call to arms men! Let's take down as many scammers as we can![/QUOTE]

Asks for money up front, when challenged stated "Go ahead and report me, I'll just keep coming back".

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And she just did so have a ball, make him work.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5109093]So I had a 2nd meeting in Monday. She said some stuff about getting money for moving into her own place and today the text came across asking if I would co-sign with her.

I was thinking about seeing her again next week but I see the drama already starting and may just have to ghost her.[/QUOTE]So is this the one you thought you found a needle in a haystack? What's her profile name or link?

Is this about a Sugar Baby? If yes, can you provide any usable information? SB profile name and link? A fortune cookie provides more beneficial info than this.

[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5109093]So I had a 2nd meeting in Monday. She said some stuff about getting money for moving into her own place and today the text came across asking if I would co-sign with her. I was thinking about seeing her again next week but I see the drama already starting and may just have to ghost her.[/QUOTE]

Don't mind me, just venting.

Search function: Sucks. Hit page two, same shit as page one. Select unviewed, oh this looks nice; no shit, already added to my favorites.

Female. When I'm looking for punani. I want punani. Filter out the fucking TS. TV. QRST. LMNOP. Its fine if that's what you're looking for, but kill the damn bait & switch potential.

"This is not an escort site, If you come at me I'll report you. " Sorry, forgot to grab the link, but JHC. Did Mommy not teach you that men will want to stick their dick in you? More likely you're the equivalent of the fat stripper at Rio that told me "I have a regular that gives me 500 to go to dinner with him" My reply: Laugh, "That man, is a fucking idiot. ".

/ Rant.

Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks!

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