Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=CameronX;2089879]Personally, if someone showed up to me smelling how you described, I would not hesitate to show them the shower. Sometimes people are just getting off work or what have you and need to freshen up, that's no problem. This is obviously not one of those occasions. I always show up fresh, so the same basic hygiene maintenance should be returned. You handled it professionally tho, that is all anyone can do when a surprise like this or anything else occurs.

CX.[/QUOTE]I agree with your accessment and I would Luke to add my two cents if I may.

For starters, most mongers when going for in or out call expect the provider to be clean or at least I do. I don't think it should be at all different for mongers to give the same respect to the provider.

Granted a SW may be a bit different. Then again, this is one of the reasons I don't partake in Sws.

Secondly, I think it extremely disrespectful for a monger to expect a dream from a provider when he has stanky butt or balls or any sort of stank. Providers are still human beings and not just random objects. They should be treated as such with some respect.

I'd say if some dirtball monger can't even manage to wash his ass with soap and water to remove stank, show him swiftly to the door. There's plenty enough of us that will be clean upon arrival.

Stay sage ladies and gentleman!!

[QUOTE=TheGoodSh;2089874]Well, I'm happy to share. But don't you think you ought to follow suit?

You begged for intel from everyone here, and specifically PM'd me for help "opening up" Alaina's menu (you creepy motherfucker), but it's been a week. Plenty of time to post that report on her. So why not share with these guys, rather than bash them?

So here you go guys, two bits of solid intel:
[LIST]Alaina will give you a nice finish and lots of touching. of course YMMV. Probably best if you do the old "oops I got an erection, what now?" trick, or maybe he wasn't very respectful and was pushy. I don't know, because he didn't post a review. ALL I know is that when I followed up his request, he gave me some vague bullshit, rather than straight intel.[/LIST][LIST]Bucks is a guy who is perfectly happy to ask for intel to further his own goals, but will not give useful intel in return. He has time to post the shit above, bashing you guys, but not to give you even the vaguest indication of how to find what you're looking for.[/LIST][/QUOTE]Goodsh,

By the way, I'm not a creepy mother fucker as you stated nor am I EVER disrespectful of the ladies.

Don't start shit when you know nothing about me.

Bucks.

[QUOTE=Bucks9297;2090199]Goodsh,

By the way, I'm not a creepy mother fucker as you stated nor am I EVER disrespectful of the ladies.

Don't start shit when you know nothing about me.

Bucks.[/QUOTE]With Bucks9297, other than I think maybe we graduated the same year.

I was contacted by a guy in Sydney, OH offering me an outcall. I said that I couldn't do it. Then he offered me $1,000. I said no, but would try to help find him someone.

A few hours passed and after I returned home from karate classes with my kids he sent me some more texts.

Bottom line, he said this to me.

He called me a self centered *.

Told me to kill myself three times and he said it nicely, please.

He said " you will see me you just don't know it yet and after I fuck you ill beat your ass. ".

That is where he made a mistake.

1) I would most likely kick his ass and hand his balls to his girlfriend.

2) I will make sure no reputable provider sees him and that they know of him.

Yes, I tracked him, paid for it, and it was worth it. I have his name, address, photos, phone number, everything.

I'll only give his first name and number.

I do NOT condone woman beaters! He tried to apologize multiple times and actually said I needed to grow up, because I am LIVID anyone would say such stuff to a lady just because she won't schedule an appt.

Ladies, PLEASE check references. He is a prime example of why I will not see new clients, especially no one with solid good standing references. My safety is always number 1.

Geez, people like this make me sick and make me want to stick up for all women!

No woman should be abused and this is not acceptable behavior. There is no excuse to speak to anyone like this. No reason at all.

Everyone be safe.

Dawn.

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2090696]I was contacted by a guy in Sydney, OH offering me an outcall. I said that I couldn't do it. Then he offered me $1,000.

1) I would most likely kick his ass and hand his balls to his girlfriend.

Dawn.[/QUOTE]First off, it takes a deranged piece of work to say something like this to anyone, let alone someone he is attempting to entice to a rendezvous. He must have missed the Dale Carnegie class on "How to Negotiate".

Dawn, you handled yourself well and are a credit to the community and profession to make this info known to your fellow providers. My hat goes off to you ladies and some of the shit that you end up dealing with in regard to some of the potential asshole clients. Mf'ers like this dirtbag should be outed and posted on the blacklist. Stay safe ladies.

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2090696]

No woman should be abused and this is not acceptable behavior. There is no excuse to speak to anyone like this. No reason at all.

[/QUOTE]Even as hobbyists. No means no.

Even if we don't like it. No still means no.

Even if it conflicts with our raging libido in the moment. No always means no.

I think most of us already know this but IMHO, it never hurts to say it as a reminder that most all of our providers in town are, first and foremost, great [B]people[/B]. Just because someone has decided to be a provider (and thank goodness for a lot of those who have), doesn't mean they give up their rights to expect respectful interactions with all of us.

Sorry. Just pisses me off when I see mongers acting out like this. With so many great providers in town, it's silly, it's unnecessary and it gives us all a bad name. Rant off.

Dz.

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2090696]

He said "you will see me you just don't know it yet and after I fuck you ill beat your ass."
[/QUOTE]But if this guy does begin to lurk around your neighborhood or continue to bother you with stalking, feel free to pick up the phone anytime. I am sure I don't just speak for myself in volunteering to dispose of this piece of shit for you.

Dawn, please add me to the list of those prepared to defend your honor and the honor of all hard working ladies in the area, like yourself. Please publish enough intel (first name?) and partial phone number (like, xxx-xxx-1234?) so all our brothers and sisters in the hobby can be on the lookout for this scumbag. I am from Dayton, and he has probably pulled this kind of crap before and there is likely someone that knows who he is? Our lovely ladies in Dayton are much closer and are at risk as well. Thank you for standing up and letting your voice be heard, that's exactly why even from 66.7 miles away, you're among my atf's.

[QUOTE=PhatDaty;2091239]But if this guy does begin to lurk around your neighborhood or continue to bother you with stalking, feel free to pick up the phone anytime. I am sure I don't just speak for myself in volunteering to dispose of this piece of shit for you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DeliciousDawn;2090696]

Geez, people like this make me sick and make me want to stick up for all women!

No woman should be abused and this is not acceptable behavior. There is no excuse to speak to anyone like this. No reason at all.



Dawn.[/QUOTE]Dawn, I applaud your sharing intel on this scumbag. All the ladies must never feel like they need to take this abuse from anyone. Please join together to blacklist shitheads like this one so none of you have to deal with it. Scum like this give men a bad name.

I check and double check. Unfortunately I have to do most of my own investigating as I have found out more and more girls don't get back to you or just won't help out. Your not hurting me your hurting the gentlemen that want to play and have fun in this hobby. They are not ours we don't own them. We just play with them for a little while and return them to the rightful owner. Ladies we have to work together and if my all time favorite regular wants to see you good for him because that means he is not getting to attached.

Thank you to Remmy, Sin, Sweet TNA, Sassy, Summer, and Sandy for helping when I call. Stay safe and play safe. We all have to stick together.

Xoxo,

Stormy.

I feel like this gets brought up quite frequently but you have definitely said it best.. These guys are not our property & are free to enjoy this hobby. You think you're losing business, as long as he had a good time he's more likely to see you and show appreciation for verifying him. Checking references have been really hard lately & I thank all the wonderful gentleman for being understanding as well as the ladies who respond & actually check their own references as well. Stay safe everyone!

Xoxo.

Amber.

[QUOTE=Stormyoneonly;2091833]I check and double check. Unfortunately I have to do most of my own investigating as I have found out more and more girls don't get back to you or just won't help out. Your not hurting me your hurting the gentlemen that want to play and have fun in this hobby. They are not ours we don't own them. We just play with them for a little while and return them to the rightful owner. Ladies we have to work together and if my all time favorite regular wants to see you good for him because that means he is not getting to attached.

Thank you to Remmy, Sin, Sweet TNA, Sassy, Summer, and Sandy for helping when I call. Stay safe and play safe. We all have to stick together.

Xoxo,

Stormy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Stormyoneonly;2091833]I check and double check. Unfortunately I have to do most of my own investigating as I have found out more and more girls don't get back to you or just won't help out. Your not hurting me your hurting the gentlemen that want to play and have fun in this hobby. They are not ours we don't own them. We just play with them for a little while and return them to the rightful owner. Ladies we have to work together and if my all time favorite regular wants to see you good for him because that means he is not getting to attached.

Thank you to Remmy, Sin, Sweet TNA, Sassy, Summer, and Sandy for helping when I call. Stay safe and play safe. We all have to stick together
Xoxo,

Stormy.[/QUOTE]I agree with you in regards to team play. I always remind my / our guest's that they can use me as a reference at any time. At times I may be hard to reach due to my schedule at my salon, for that I do apologize. Unfortunately, on several occasion's I have vouched for quite a few Gentlemen, that were 100% with me, and not with the other's. Why? I am not sure, consequently, I was left to blame and in my defense did nothing wrong. You know that, and I know that. Therefore, I wasn't helping with the screening for a short amount of time. Call me anytime Stormy xoxoxo.

Love Blake.

[QUOTE=Stormyoneonly;2091833]I check and double check. Unfortunately I have to do most of my own investigating as I have found out more and more girls don't get back to you or just won't help out. Your not hurting me your hurting the gentlemen that want to play and have fun in this hobby. They are not ours we don't own them. We just play with them for a little while and return them to the rightful owner. Ladies we have to work together and if my all time favorite regular wants to see you good for him because that means he is not getting to attached.

Thank you to Remmy, Sin, Sweet TNA, Sassy, Summer, and Sandy for helping when I call. Stay safe and play safe. We all have to stick together.

Xoxo,

Stormy.[/QUOTE]I try to pm girls I haven't seen from the USASG if they advertise on here a pm is a very good way to check references I am approaching 500 posts, I always give reviews and I know for a fact there isn't any lady on here that can say anything negative about me and our alone time. There are ladies I've seen once there are ladies I've seen multiple times. I'm just wondering if a guy Pm's you and you see his post numbers can't you get some idea if he is a good apple or bad? I'm not talking about somebody with a few post regular member maybe a senior member with say 100 post or more just to throw a number out there, then if a girl doesn't want to give a reference or you can't get in touch with the mongers reference it would at least give you some idea who you are dealing with.

Just throwing this out there because it seems like every few months girls giving out references is brought up, like Ms Blake said she is busy in her salon and sometimes can't get right back to whoever is asking for references, the reference might be busy doing something in her own life that answering that text or phone call might not work. The guys have it easy we just post on here the good or bad and if its bad we always end it with YMMV, and even if a girl gets a bad review somebody will chime in on their experience which was better driving every bodies curiosity up about the girl therefore giving here a spike in buisness. Just my take. HL29.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;2092137]I try to pm girls I haven't seen from the USASG if they advertise on here a pm is a very good way to check references I am approaching 500 posts, I always give reviews and I know for a fact there isn't any lady on here that can say anything negative about me and our alone time. There are ladies I've seen once there are ladies I've seen multiple times. I'm just wondering if a guy Pm's you and you see his post numbers can't you get some idea if he is a good apple or bad? I'm not talking about somebody with a few post regular member maybe a senior member with say 100 post or more just to throw a number out there, then if a girl doesn't want to give a reference or you can't get in touch with the mongers reference it would at least give you some idea who you are dealing with.

Just throwing this out there because it seems like every few months girls giving out references is brought up, like Ms Blake said she is busy in her salon and sometimes can't get right back to whoever is asking for references, the reference might be busy doing something in her own life that answering that text or phone call might not work. The guys have it easy we just post on here the good or bad and if its bad we always end it with YMMV, and even if a girl gets a bad review somebody will chime in on their experience which was better driving every bodies curiosity up about the girl therefore giving here a spike in buisness. Just my take. HL29.[/QUOTE]I usually ask for a pm because anyone can email, call, or text and say I am so and so off USA. Or here is a good one I get lately since I am returning I seen you like 3 years ago. My memory is good but, not that good. Sometimes it is still nice to hear the take from a reputable provider on how someone was. Most girls have been a help and girls I do recommend a few people from time to time. I want to say thank you again to everyone mongers and providers for the warm welcome back. If anyone needs anything please don't hesitate to contact me.

Loving the Natti.

Stormy.