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I got a PM from Strawberrie yesterday, and she said to pass along greetings to everyone.
She is still in Orlando and doing well. She told me that she has been focusing on escorting, erotic rubdowns, and dancing. I believe she hits the track occasionally, though.
She said she misses Memphis fun, but not the drama.
I decided to have a dream this past tuesday. I decided to go with Whisper(who came highly recommended by a member) or Keisha. Called both and Keisha had the lower dream at .3 I called Whisper back and told her I wasn't going to be able to make it. Well I made a bad decision.
When i got to Keisha place she had to round up all the kids in a bedroom and told them not to come out. It would have been nice if she had locked the roaches in the room with the kids. I place the .30 on the dresser as we got ready to dream. When she took of her bottoms the strong odor from below sent off a warning signal. I knew at that point i wasn't going to be able to stand the smell and wasn't about to stick anything in there. Rather than being rude and say you're to nasty, I told her i couldn't disrespect her kids and her home. I told her to keep the .30.
Fellow member, (you know who you are), I wish i had taken your recommendation and dreamed with Whisper. I'll chalk this one up and move on. Whisper is still on my todo list.
Amber you're still designated as my personal Christmas gift to myself.
Anyone watch this last night? Young blond WSW or "former" sw was on last night. Anyone recognize her?
Just curious
TT
[QUOTE=Tim Tom]Anyone watch this last night? Young blond WSW or "former" sw was on last night. Anyone recognize her?
Just curious
TT[/QUOTE]She actually lives 3 houses down from where i used to live.
Shes legit.
Have any of you guys had much luck with any of the newer dating websites? Ashley Madison or Sexsearch? Sexsearch is/was a advertisor here for a while. I'm sure there's others out there but those are 2 that come to mind.
Since I've tied the knot I''m looking for something sort of long term on the side fun. Seems like everything I get a girl that I can call a "regular" they flake off on me or not answer their phone when I can see them. I'm thinking seeing a married woman might be better because we both got something to lose and the need to keep it quiet...
Talked to Problem Child this afternoon and he's driving hard to reach Mpho some time tonight. Lock up your girl friends, wifes, and favorite SW. He has been a contributor on the Memphis board since about the 1st. of the year. Lived here few short weeks. Now drives out of Birmingham. Days off he rides to Mpho on his Harley. He's from Huntington, West Virginia. Thanks to all the Senior members who have helped him in the pass..
Uncle Booty
BC
[QUOTE=BootyCall]Talked to Problem Child this afternoon and he's driving hard to reach Mpho some time tonight. Lock up your girl friends, wifes, and favorite SW. He has been a contributor on the Memphis board since about the 1st. of the year. Lived here few short weeks. Now drives out of Birmingham. Days off he rides to Mpho on his Harley. He's from Huntington, West Virginia. Thanks to all the Senior members who have helped him in the pass.
Uncle Booty
BC[/QUOTE]Hey Uncle B ! You forgot to tell them I have 3 ex wives. And I actually started posting in Mpho a couple of years ago. Just didn't post much here til last fall.
Guys,
Last night I got a call asking about a particular Memphis provider. This is the 3rd time in @ a month I have been asked about this particular lady. I'm not personally having issues because I quit using her as a ref months ago.
Guys are giving her as a ref and she goes absolutely ballistic, cusses the provider asking for a ref and then refuses to give the ref.
Now, I know for a fact this particular provider doesn't want to give ref's over the phone so that's part of it. I only give a few phone refs myself, so I get that.
Thing is, you guys think you are giving a great ref...and you are not. It's not your fault, it's not the fault of the provider you're trying to see but that's who's getting screwed over this not-ref-friendly provider.
Make sure your references are good. Make sure the providers you use as ref's are ref friendly. Make sure you know how she prefers to give ref's. If a provider's phone number isn't on her site or her ad, most likely she doesn't do phone refs. But it's your job to find out.
When you go through the screening ask your potential date to let you know if she has any issues getting replies.
You guys need to figure out who this is pretty quick so you can cut down on unnecessary bs during screening.
[QUOTE=Tim Allen]Have any of you guys had much luck with any of the newer dating websites? Ashley Madison or Sexsearch? Sexsearch is/was a advertisor here for a while. I'm sure there's others out there but those are 2 that come to mind.
Since I've tied the knot I'm looking for something sort of long term on the side fun. Seems like everything I get a girl that I can call a "regular" they flake off on me or not answer their phone when I can see them. I'm thinking seeing a married woman might be better because we both got something to lose and the need to keep it quiet.[/QUOTE]Waste of money. Same as backpage. I'm sure there may be legit ones but not worth the money and hassle.
Ok, so color me stupid. But if you are really interested in cutting "down on unnecessary bs during screening. " It would be soooooo much simpler if you would have just listed the name of this not-ref-friendly provider.
Other than the guys that have used her as a reference, it doesn't do the rest of us any good. Why waste the time?
Again, I know I must be missing something here, so please help the boy...
Chica
[QUOTE=Babee Doll]Guys,
Last night I got a call asking about a particular Memphis provider. This is the 3rd time in @ a month I have been asked about this particular lady. I'm not personally having issues because I quit using her as a ref months ago.
Guys are giving her as a ref and she goes absolutely ballistic, cusses the provider asking for a ref and then refuses to give the ref.
Now, I know for a fact this particular provider doesn't want to give ref's over the phone so that's part of it. I only give a few phone refs myself, so I get that.
Thing is, you guys think you are giving a great ref...and you are not. It's not your fault, it's not the fault of the provider you're trying to see but that's who's getting screwed over this not-ref-friendly provider.
Make sure your references are good. Make sure the providers you use as ref's are ref friendly. Make sure you know how she prefers to give ref's. If a provider's phone number isn't on her site or her ad, most likely she doesn't do phone refs. But it's your job to find out.
When you go through the screening ask your potential date to let you know if she has any issues getting replies.
You guys need to figure out who this is pretty quick so you can cut down on unnecessary bs during screening.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Chica Luv]It would be soooooo much simpler if you would have just listed the name of this not-ref-friendly provider. I know I must be missing something here, so please help the boy...
Chica[/QUOTE]
She just wanted to send the message without creating a war between her and the other provider. People that this affects will get the hint.... if you are not sure who or what she means, then no worries.... it doesn't apply to you.
[QUOTE=Babee Doll]Guys,
Last night I got a call asking about a particular Memphis provider. This is the 3rd time in @ a month I have been asked about this particular lady. I'm not personally having issues because I quit using her as a ref months ago.
Guys are giving her as a ref and she goes absolutely ballistic, cusses the provider asking for a ref and then refuses to give the ref.
Now, I know for a fact this particular provider doesn't want to give ref's over the phone so that's part of it. I only give a few phone refs myself, so I get that.
Thing is, you guys think you are giving a great ref...and you are not. It's not your fault, it's not the fault of the provider you're trying to see but that's who's getting screwed over this not-ref-friendly provider.
Make sure your references are good. Make sure the providers you use as ref's are ref friendly. Make sure you know how she prefers to give ref's. If a provider's phone number isn't on her site or her ad, most likely she doesn't do phone refs. But it's your job to find out.
When you go through the screening ask your potential date to let you know if she has any issues getting replies.
You guys need to figure out who this is pretty quick so you can cut down on unnecessary bs during screening.[/QUOTE]The best way to get a reference is to have the hobbyist submit an OK request from a verification site from the provider he has seen if he plans on using her as a reference. That way the provider does not have to be contacted.
In my experience, if I have seen someone once or even twice, since I don't keep records, and don't take this as an insult, I don't remember you. If it has been a long time, people sometimes change.
I do not take phone calls from providers. The problems that were stated a year or so ago with one of our hobbyists on here and his wife, or any wife that could call for that matter.
So guys, if you want to use a provider I suggest getting verified thru date-check or P411.
Chica you don't need any help. Your doing better than those thats been around for awhile. You know where to go and be certified for Service. LOL
got the best reference monay can buy. Just keep buying the KY and boot covers. LOL Tammy4U is one of the best in Memphis. When she speaks we need to pay attention.
Uncle Booty
When BC speaks I always listen. And agree. Let's have BK Sunday.
Chica
[QUOTE=BootyCall]Chica you don't need any help. Your doing better than those thats been around for awhile. You know where to go and be certified for Service. LOL
Got the best reference monay can buy. Just keep buying the KY and boot covers. LOL Tammy4U is one of the best in Memphis. When she speaks we need to pay attention.
Uncle Booty[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Chica Luv]Ok, so color me ...[/QUOTE]Who told you about the body paint?
BH was much closer than BC in this case. Not about a war with another provider. I'm trying to help clients get to see who they choose with the least amount of bs. Trying to keep good legit providers visiting Mphs. It's a win win all the way around.
Sort of standard screening across US is:
Verification site - p411, DC or RS2K. (Good move. EZ peezey)
OR
2 legit references
OR
personal verification (newbies, bad refs, old refs)
Say you are not a member of a verification site and you really don't want to give personal info; so you opt for 2 refs. You give 2 refs that are considered exceptional here in Mphs. One ref replies. The other doesn't and/or cusses the provider and refuses to give the ref. Either no reply or crazy reply, doesn't matter. You still don't have 2 refs. Some ladies don't use refs at all. Some ladies don't give refs at all. That is not an issue. What is an issue is when a client thinks he has a solid ref and he doesn't. Then screening gets difficult, wither the provider or the client gets pissy, the date doesn't happen, the lady doesn't tour here again. Because the client doesn't know that his ref is not good. Nobody (else) is/was willing to say "Bad ref dude. " Not you guys fault.
I am just as guilty of sweeping it under the carpet as anyone else. I actually thought it was more of a personal thing and just decided not to get involved and let it go.
All the "this is how to get/give refs" is nothing but a smoke screen to hide the fact that there is a local provider refusing to give ref's. By phone, by email, by verification site, in a train, on a plane. Whatever.
Again:
Make sure the ladies you use as references are good with you using them and you understand how they prefer to be contacted.
Make sure you have a 3rd (and maybe a 4th) ref lined up to use in case there are issues.
Ask your potential dates to let you know if they have any problems with your refs. If a pattern arises with one of your refs. You will then know who's good to use and who isn't.
Drama over. 'K?