What's wrong guys paying that kind $
[QUOTE=StarTrek993;5376738][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c9b25365-610d-4380-b53d-b0613357cab1[/URL]
She's asking for $500 to meet, LOL.[/QUOTE]This one just told me that her las two arrangements were ppm for 500 ,this is a nightmare is this really happening!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/84ba7f99-4207-4d71-898e-bb8a99abd8d0[/URL]
Be patient with yourself and the learning process
[QUOTE=AircraftFZ10;5430002]This chick hit me out of the blue asking if I was ready to meet, she uses the language of a escort as and she has been at the site for many years, I kinda recall that she is been reviewed here years ago but can't find it, pm if you remember what kind of service she does, thanks.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/958e523c-1931-0ec6-cf5f-3da732e1f606[/URL][/QUOTE]You probably can't find anything on here because most of the new users fail to use a girls name when they post and thus there is nothing to search.
Here is some general advise in a short thread that can help your learn to fish for yourself, stay safe and not have to reply on waiting for a fellow monger to reply.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]
I recently came back on SA and the pros are pretty obvious. May not be obvious from their post, but once you start talking with them, it becomes clear. Er, at least for me, but I recognize I have years of experience so what may seem obvious to me, might not be for a newbie or causal dater? Just saying.
But if you are new, be patient with yourself and the learning process. It isn't hard and I am sure you can do it, it just takes time! Like any good thing in life one tends to get out of it what they put in.
Good luck!
I politely decline and head for the exit
[QUOTE=ElPerron;5430056][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b358bff2-fee7-47dc-b02c-2d4e0da016c7[/URL]
This one is playing this New trick, I have contact her two different times, last year with my old profile and this year with my new profile, she uses Snapchat to communicate, the two times she said she can't meet because her birthday is the very next weekend what a coincidence and of course she will hit you asking to send her money via cashup for her birthday, since I didn't fall for that she stopped posting on her snap or hear from her again ,any of you guys have met her?[/QUOTE]I dunno, maybe it is just me? But once a girl starts asking for money up front, no mater WHAT is the story, I politely decline and head for the exit.
Seems like in the past every time I ignored my own advice or tried to "make something happen," well that was when I had some "experiential learning" and not in a good way. Oh yeah, it was hard to learn because some of these girls were so hot or fit exactly what I was looking for. Something in the back of my head, kept saying, well maybe I can do this or maybe I can do that. Took me a long time to learn that you can't change people and since I'm not Karnack, I can't bend them to my will. I just created a whole bunch of drama and headaches for myself in the mean time, until I "learned" how to get out of my own way. LOL.
Anyway, good luck in your search! Sorry for the rant.
Sweetsexyclassy is a flake
[QUOTE=Yinzer67;5429144]Saw this one two days ago, curvy but not in a BBW way. Very personable, willing to please and enjoys herself as well. Not a pro, just appears to be horny. BBBJ and BFS all on the table. Be kind, she's actually a good person.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e6ebc3d8-ad78-483c-823d-7a1f3b9d664a[/URL][/QUOTE]Took few weeks for our schedules to line up, finally we set a day and time yesterday, she sounded so excited that I just booked a room with out making sure it was cancel able, big mistake, hit her hour before the agreement time and you know crickets, I just realized she blocked me this morning smh, her starting price now is $$$ ,I think some of you guys had spoiled this one.
Seeking is Shady As Fuck!!
I know people get their accounts suspended and it finally happened to me, but the timing and way it happened has me very pissed. I log in and get a notice that my account has been flagged for a possible violation and they make me read a long document and watch a video to get access to the site. I go through this and am then able to log in. Literally 5 minutes after that I get the popup that my account has expired. I use a prepaid card and it had no money left so I buy a new virtual card and pay the 99.99 and it processes the payment and then immediately logs me out. I then try to log back in and get the notice that my account is suspended. That is literally stealing my money and I'm very pissed. I emailed support, but I don't expect any resolution.
I am VERY careful what I discuss on there. It's impossible to avoid women mentioning PPM, but I do my best not to use any terms that would get me flagged. No idea what it was that they didn't like.
Same happened to me a sec ago
[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;5435688]I know people get their accounts suspended and it finally happened to me, but the timing and way it happened has me very pissed. I log in and get a notice that my account has been flagged for a possible violation and they make me read a long document and watch a video to get access to the site. I go through this and am then able to log in. Literally 5 minutes after that I get the popup that my account has expired. I use a prepaid card and it had no money left so I buy a new virtual card and pay the 99.99 and it processes the payment and then immediately logs me out. I then try to log back in and get the notice that my account is suspended. That is literally stealing my money and I'm very pissed. I emailed support, but I don't expect any resolution.
I am VERY careful what I discuss on there. It's impossible to avoid women mentioning PPM, but I do my best not to use any terms that would get me flagged. No idea what it was that they didn't like.[/QUOTE]I don't think they took your money, the gift card should have the money still on, mine does.
I tried to log in for the first time with a prepaid and it automatically logged me out and gave me the suspended notice.
I am really depressed as it would have been my first time on seeking, and there are like 10 leads posted on here for a good time, and was wanting to try them out. Is it risky to give them my real card? I don't have a wife and not hiding from anyone, I was just not willing to risk my card for theft reasons but I can give all my info if it's not a matter of security.
I need help with this, please advise
All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.
What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?
I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.
Thank you for the help.
Does paying with a gift card get you suspended?
[QUOTE=HugeDell;5436403]All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.
What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?
I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.
Thank you for the help.[/QUOTE]My account was also suspended yesterday and I originally thought the payment was processed and then I was suspended, but after checking my balance I see the charge never went through. It's still frustrating, but at least I don't feel like I was robbed. I've been paying with a virtual Visa from [URL]giftcards.com[/URL] for a couple of years now and never had an issue. Has anyone else had their account suspended after paying with a virtual gift card? Also, has anyone renewed in the last couple of weeks with a gift card and if so can you please tell me what brand and where it came from. The verbiage on the notice makes it seem like this is a timed suspension so I'm hoping it will be lifted, but I'll still be faced with having to pay.
To answer this question about the risk of using a real credit card. Take a look at some of the articles regarding the Ashley Madison hack several years ago. Lots of people had their identities released for the world to see and it cost people their jobs, friends, and marriages. If you aren't worried about blowback from the world knowing then go for it.
Dude. You're begging for trouble
[QUOTE=BuckHead71;5436749]I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.[/QUOTE]I'd say she was smart to turn you down, her spidey senses were on point. You're just one phone call away from spending time behind bars, you seriously need to take a step back. I'm sure someone else here has seen her and has her contact info, it won't be long until they report your behavior to her, and she deals with you in whatever way she sees fit.
Getting Suspended from SA
I have no way of proving this. But this is my theory. SA is walking on a tight rope to stay in business due to recent legislations regarding prostitution. While they don't want to take a big hit to their income, they want to have some evidence they suspend accounts that don't follow their rules. I use my own credit card (has been using the same card) and my real name is associated (I know the risk, but I am willing to take it). They may suspend people at random, but may check their payment history before suspending. They may not go hard on regular customers. I don't know when you use gift cards if you use the same name over and over or use different names. Regardless they may have a way to figure out the origin of the card. So, they would rather suspend an infrequent member than a routinely paying guy. The issue what I hear is if you get permanently banned (for whatever the reason) getting back is not easy. I have been on the site for about 4 years and renew monthly. Typically I have a week or two gap between but keep the membership going all the time. I message hundreds of girls a month. While I am being careful, I get so many messages about PPM, and explicit talk. I immediately take them offline, but I feel they may so soft on members like me. Once I got a warning about potential "commercial activity", I think due to the volume of the same message I have been sending out. But, didn't get suspended. Just my theory. Anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if they suspend me tomorrow. Just it could be the luck.
Stay Safe.
Dr. S.
[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;5437370]My account was also suspended yesterday and I originally thought the payment was processed and then I was suspended, but after checking my balance I see the charge never went through. It's still frustrating, but at least I don't feel like I was robbed. I've been paying with a virtual Visa from [URL]giftcards.com[/URL] for a couple of years now and never had an issue. Has anyone else had their account suspended after paying with a virtual gift card? Also, has anyone renewed in the last couple of weeks with a gift card and if so can you please tell me what brand and where it came from. The verbiage on the notice makes it seem like this is a timed suspension so I'm hoping it will be lifted, but I'll still be faced with having to pay.
To answer this question about the risk of using a real credit card. Take a look at some of the articles regarding the Ashley Madison hack several years ago. Lots of people had their identities released for the world to see and it cost people their jobs, friends, and marriages. If you aren't worried about blowback from the world knowing then go for it.[/QUOTE]