Seeking Arrangement

[QUOTE=RoronoaZ;7356041]Is it just me or has there been a massive influx of these nasty women who tat themselves up to the extreme (and pierce). I find it to be disgustingly unattractive and feel that it gives massive pro / druggie vibes. I also simply block them from seeking so I don't even have to look at them in the results. Has anyone else noticed a dramatic increase in these women, as well as an increase of older or hideous orcs? I look around the cities of the world and only in the Midwest do I see such creatures. Am I the only one?[/QUOTE]Tattoos are mainstreamed nowadays. It would be challenging to find even civilian girls who are not tattooed. And definitely pro girls in the industry see other providers sporting tats and they want to be just like them. I've learned to look past tattoos, offer a generic compliment to the girl about her ink, and move on. I'm not here to pass judgement on their body art; I'm here to get laid by a young hottie.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/d56ca92d-b66b-4f42-8225-d1bb367ed73f[/URL]

She's kind of scammish. Claims she's interested in finding someone but wants to meet at her massage studio first. It's not a tropical touch. I confirmed that before moving forward but her rate for an hour wasn't terrible and I figured I'd give it a shot and see what happens.

So the massage was amazing. Probably top 3 massage I've ever had. I would actually consider repeating just for the massage but that's all you're likely going to get. There are no extras available. Not even L1. She's clearly on the site trying to drive business for her massages. If anyone has had a different experience, please chime in.

Side note. She's a little bigger than her pics seem to indicate but she's toned. Quiet but nice.

[QUOTE=FaslFasl;7359082][URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/d56ca92d-b66b-4f42-8225-d1bb367ed73f[/URL]

She's kind of scammish. Claims she's interested in finding someone but wants to meet at her massage studio first. It's not a tropical touch. I confirmed that before moving forward but her rate for an hour wasn't terrible and I figured I'd give it a shot and see what happens.

So the massage was amazing. Probably top 3 massage I've ever had. I would actually consider repeating just for the massage but that's all you're likely going to get. There are no extras available. Not even L1. She's clearly on the site trying to drive business for her massages. If anyone has had a different experience, please chime in.

Side note. She's a little bigger than her pics seem to indicate but she's toned. Quiet but nice.[/QUOTE]I think I know this place off Garfield and 21 mile if I'm not mistaking, I've had massages there few times by this woman once and the owner 3 times. I got no where on the owner all three times. I believe the owner posted on seeking before. I've seen this woman once and yes her massage was awesome. On the flip she was teasing me so I figured I go for it. I started rubbing her pussy from otc she was going with it for a few minutes. I'd then asked for more about one min later she said time is up and walked out. LOL.

Hey everyone, Dave here, new SLN chocolate girl in Kalamazoo, PoohBaby and she is 21. She has a great personality and is pretty submissive, but not really into too much rough sex. Not into girls or anal, open to everything else. A bit hesitant to give me details, but I am working on more. She is willing to travel.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/{emailreplacement0}/[/URL]

I've been on Seeking previously and am currently on Secret Benefits for a month and a half. I've found 2 regular hook ups on SB. There's definitely less spammers and out of the country time wasters. I left Seeking after they required facial recognition.

Barry.

[QUOTE=Fmed26;7355130]Similar outcomes to Michaels. Paid for the membership, paid for the unlocks. Wouldn't bother unlocking the pics and save the 10 credits cause most the pics aren't anything different than the open pics. Had luck with 3 and contacted or was contacted by a bunch. Get a lot of girls sending messages and most the profiles aren't filled out and attributes info like maybe 3 of them or their abouts etc won't be filled out. Flag 1 and 2 that those are fake ones. Better luck with verified ones but even a few of those have been questionable. The couple I did meet were fun and good ones. If you have seeking there are some on both but the credits you have to buy for SB is crap. MUCH better luck on Seeking for way less $ so I guess opposite of you on that part. Been on Seeking for yr or so and SB for about 7 m.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BarryUrschaft;7380022]I've been on Seeking previously and am currently on Secret Benefits for a month and a half. I've found 2 regular hook ups on SB. There's definitely less spammers and out of the country time wasters. I left Seeking after they required facial recognition.

Barry.[/QUOTE]What is regular contact with members running you in "tokens"? One of my main aversions to those sorts of sites is (a) I'm not willing to post a photo of me due to family concerns and (b) I'm generally adverse to spending too much money on the means to connect with others.

I'd be completely down to give it a go though, especially if the girls are clean and more looking for a dinner and pampering than raw cash like the pure SWers are.

Edit:

Context for others, the site lists 10 tokens to initiate a conversation, and tokens run from 29 to 59 cents a piece depending on how many you buy at a time. So, mostly curious how many shots one has to take (YMMV no doubt) before you get a solid bite.

Any way around it for new. Members? It doesn't allow to upload image but need live video face verification.

Tia.

[QUOTE=Sixsixths;7380425]What is regular contact with members running you in "tokens"? One of my main aversions to those sorts of sites is (a) I'm not willing to post a photo of me due to family concerns and (b) I'm generally adverse to spending too much money on the means to connect with others.

I'd be completely down to give it a go though, especially if the girls are clean and more looking for a dinner and pampering than raw cash like the pure SWers are.

Edit:

Context for others, the site lists 10 tokens to initiate a conversation, and tokens run from 29 to 59 cents a piece depending on how many you buy at a time. So, mostly curious how many shots one has to take (YMMV no doubt) before you get a solid bite.[/QUOTE]I've mentioned it before, but I have had at least 3 x more success with SB than Seeking. You figure, Seeking is at $130 a month now for 30 days. Once your time is up, you cannot message anyone anymore. Sb is 169 for 500 credits. That's 50 different conversations that you can go back to as much as you want. If you run across a scammer or fake profile and report it, they will refund your credits if they find it to be true.

SB has WAY less scam and fake profiles. They are typically easy to spot too. The girls I have met I have always gone to dinner with and then fun. Some are down for just straight fun too, but I'm divorced and like the dating aspect of it. I'm in the Flintish area, so if you want to check someone out that I recently saw, see Sapphirestone11 on there. She's 30, not 23 like her profile says. A little pricey at 5, but has a banging body and tight as hell. Her "shit don't stink" personality is kinda annoying though.

[QUOTE=BobDino1;7387033]I've mentioned it before, but I have had at least 3 x more success with SB than Seeking. You figure, Seeking is at $130 a month now for 30 days. Once your time is up, you cannot message anyone anymore. Sb is 169 for 500 credits. That's 50 different conversations that you can go back to as much as you want. If you run across a scammer or fake profile and report it, they will refund your credits if they find it to be true.

SB has WAY less scam and fake profiles. They are typically easy to spot too. The girls I have met I have always gone to dinner with and then fun. Some are down for just straight fun too, but I'm divorced and like the dating aspect of it. I'm in the Flintish area, so if you want to check someone out that I recently saw, see Sapphirestone11 on there. She's 30, not 23 like her profile says. A little pricey at 5, but has a banging body and tight as hell. Her "shit don't stink" personality is kinda annoying though.[/QUOTE]Good to know. I did take the plunge and spent the 169. I've had some luck in communications starting, but none in meeting up yet. I've only been at it for a handful of days. One of my downfalls is my limited availability to spend time with these women in the evenings, and I doubt many are looking for an earlier-in-the-day lunch arrangement.

By 5, do you mean 500 for the experience / night out or straight cash in her pocket? Though I'm not against throwing cash at a girl for a good time, part of the appeal of this is having a little social interaction, paying for a meal and maybe some light shopping, then having the expectation being fun at the end of the tunnel. I'm not thinking an actual relationship (we know why we're both there), but the illusion of one and maybe some actual friendly discussion would be nice to make me more interested in the prize.

I took a gander at Flint's selection. While I didn't find the girl you mentioned, I do find that the girls do give more sexual energy than the ones down my way (for privacy's sake, I'll just say closer to Detroit). Unsure if that means they're more or less likely to be down for my ideal arrangement.

Apologies for all the questions, I am just dipping my toes into something that isn't a parlor, club, or escort. I'll report back with any of my findings.

[QUOTE=Sixsixths;7388321]Good to know. I did take the plunge and spent the 169. I've had some luck in communications starting, but none in meeting up yet. I've only been at it for a handful of days. One of my downfalls is my limited availability to spend time with these women in the evenings, and I doubt many are looking for an earlier-in-the-day lunch arrangement.

By 5, do you mean 500 for the experience / night out or straight cash in her pocket? Though I'm not against throwing cash at a girl for a good time, part of the appeal of this is having a little social interaction, paying for a meal and maybe some light shopping, then having the expectation being fun at the end of the tunnel. I'm not thinking an actual relationship (we know why we're both there), but the illusion of one and maybe some actual friendly discussion would be nice to make me more interested in the prize.

I took a gander at Flint's selection. While I didn't find the girl you mentioned, I do find that the girls do give more sexual energy than the ones down my way (for privacy's sake, I'll just say closer to Detroit). Unsure if that means they're more or less likely to be down for my ideal arrangement.

Apologies for all the questions, I am just dipping my toes into something that isn't a parlor, club, or escort. I'll report back with any of my findings.[/QUOTE]There are quite a few I have come across that are good for daytime stuff. Mostly the younger ones that are lazy and don't want to work. The one I mentioned was dinner then hotel. The 500 went into her pocket. Pretty much anyone that has "mutually beneficial" in the profile is DTF. This one here is looking for daytime fun.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/99044efbc3a9d9d3[/URL]

Hey all. I've been on here before couldn't remember the email address I used to sign up so this is a new account.

I've seen SB, Escorts, been to AMP's, and also been on Cuddle Comfort.

I have the info on many SB, AMP, and Cuddle Comfort ladies.

I am no longer on SA or SB. Looking for a true UTR with a fit BOD MILF. Someone that has a professional career and enjoys the thrill of this.

Alternatively looking for a couple looking for bull. NO contact with the other male.

In return I have a 22 year old brunette who is curvy (140 lbs) who is really lowkey. She's in FL now and coming back Tuesday. Message me to swap.

[QUOTE=Sixsixths;7388321]Good to know. I did take the plunge and spent the 169. I've had some luck in communications starting, but none in meeting up yet. I've only been at it for a handful of days. One of my downfalls is my limited availability to spend time with these women in the evenings, and I doubt many are looking for an earlier-in-the-day lunch arrangement.

By 5, do you mean 500 for the experience / night out or straight cash in her pocket? Though I'm not against throwing cash at a girl for a good time, part of the appeal of this is having a little social interaction, paying for a meal and maybe some light shopping, then having the expectation being fun at the end of the tunnel. I'm not thinking an actual relationship (we know why we're both there), but the illusion of one and maybe some actual friendly discussion would be nice to make me more interested in the prize.

I took a gander at Flint's selection. While I didn't find the girl you mentioned, I do find that the girls do give more sexual energy than the ones down my way (for privacy's sake, I'll just say closer to Detroit). Unsure if that means they're more or less likely to be down for my ideal arrangement.

Apologies for all the questions, I am just dipping my toes into something that isn't a parlor, club, or escort. I'll report back with any of my findings.[/QUOTE]So far I've had limited luck. Maybe it's my approach, but many girls don't respond or are flakey about keeping a conversation going. My approach is usually very respectful, formal, and not at all pushy. Maybe it's my lack of profile pic (I have a blurred picture up), but I can't exactly see other dudes to see what is commonplace as far as that goes.

I ended up buying 1500 tokens (500 were 'free', so I spent the amount for 1000; 240 bucks), I have three girls who I have made progress on meeting. No meetings yet, but I have one penciled in for this week and another for next, with a third I'm waiting to set something up with.

I'll report back with my experiences (if they happen or not), but I'm not *too* hopeful. For the cash spent, I think I'd rather hit up strip clubs. However, maybe I'll be proven wrong!

Any reports on this one? [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7abd375d676baa9f[/URL].

Thank you all!

[QUOTE=Sixsixths;7391174]So far I've had limited luck. Maybe it's my approach, but many girls don't respond or are flakey about keeping a conversation going. My approach is usually very respectful, formal, and not at all pushy. Maybe it's my lack of profile pic (I have a blurred picture up), but I can't exactly see other dudes to see what is commonplace as far as that goes.

I ended up buying 1500 tokens (500 were 'free', so I spent the amount for 1000; 240 bucks), I have three girls who I have made progress on meeting. No meetings yet, but I have one penciled in for this week and another for next, with a third I'm waiting to set something up with.

I'll report back with my experiences (if they happen or not), but I'm not *too* hopeful. For the cash spent, I think I'd rather hit up strip clubs. However, maybe I'll be proven wrong![/QUOTE]You're definitely going to want to have a pic up.

[QUOTE=BobDino1;7391717]You're definitely going to want to have a pic up.[/QUOTE]My current strategy, as having a pic up is not possible (don't want to ruin my home life), is to send a pic along with my initial message, once I'm positive that I don't know the girl or have any connection to her in real life. I have a blurred photo up as my profile pic, giving a general idea of my age / look, but not identifiable.